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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Bore out on my job is killing me. I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

30 June 2020 (M) age 41-50 - Hi all, I would really appreciate some advice. I feel trapped in the office and I have recently discovered that I most probably suffer from something called a « bore-out » and I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t hate the work I do. I don’t love it either. But ... (1063 words)

When we are together he gives me just enough attention to feel wanted, but otherwise I am ghosted.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1390 days ago

30 June 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - I caved and went back to my ex boyfriend. He claims he loves me and our baby. He still doesn’t help out with her. He will be consistent on communication. Then it will be days before he texts me. We are having sex again. Which is not good at all. I do it to please him. I have ... (127 words)

Are women past their 50s still interested in sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

29 June 2020 (M)

age - I have been divorced for many years. Now that the kids are grown up and have left the house, I feel like I need to have a partner and get married. I am almost a 60 year old man. I would presumably be looking for a woman close to my age. Sex is not the only important thing ... (162 words)

Not sure if my parents know I'm gay

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1397 days ago

28 June 2020 (M)

age 18-21 - I think my dad realizes I'm gay but I'm not sure. My dad is the kind of person who makes fun of everyone so I can't tell if I'm paranoid. My bedroom door locks but you have to shut it just right or it swings open if someone walks by too hard. When I was 15 my mom accidentally ... (462 words)

I know I did the right thing in breaking it off, so why do I feel so confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

28 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - So I dont really have anyone I can talk to as I've never really spoken about the reasons why my relationship ended. I'm feeling a bit lost and confused and lonely at the moment and very scared of the future. I was in a relationship for 9years. At the start everything was g... (947 words)

I am facing a weird situation at work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

28 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I seem to be facing a weird situation at work. And any insights would be of great help. I am a mid senior worker with several years of work experience and I am decently qualified (couple of degrees in finance), currently working at this company. I ... (1533 words)

I have discovered my husband of 25 years is cross dressing and messaging other men online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

28 June 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - I have discovered my husband of 25 years is cross dressing and messaging other men online. His work has been extremely demanding and stressful for some months so I put his change in behaviour down to this...(he has been .distracted, very stressed, constantly tired, awkward ... (250 words)

Why would my sister ignore my emails but put on quite the show when my brother is privy to the email?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

27 June 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - Thank you in advance to all who take the time to answer here. I have one brother and one sister. I am in the middle in age. I find that if I send an email to my sister giving all my news and asking about her news lately she has been ignoring me. If I cc the email t... (165 words)

My family is mean behind my back but when confronted they deny it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

27 June 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm having severe problems with my parents and I don't know what to think. My dad is a functioning alcoholic who is never happy. I'm 25 married with 2 kids we live in the upstairs they live below us. We tried to move out several years ago but they did everything they could ... (219 words)

I'm afraid of failing my exams

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

27 June 2020 (F)

age 18-21 - I’m a student from China. I used to be a top student in class who got high marks in most of the subjects. However,I have failed in every exams recently and felt like I can’t find my way. The high school entrance exam is coming soon,and I have no confidence that i can do well in ... (64 words)

Should I let go of all of this relationship mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1399 days ago

26 June 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, the issue that I am having is that my bf has not told any of his dead ex wife ( she died last year in july) friends or people that he knows in common with her that I exist and that I am his girlfriend , yesterday I told him about it, because every time that a ... (498 words)

S this lockdown angst or anxiety or have I just hit the eject button?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

26 June 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - I am going a bit crazy! It's as if the normal and rational part of me has just left the premises.. Is this lockdown angst or anxiety or have I just hit the eject button? Kiddies happy and silly laughter normally makes me smile but today it's driving me crazy. Normally... (202 words)

I left my husband from another country. He will not respond as to whether he has filed for divorce or not

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1395 days ago

26 June 2020 (F) age 41-50 - My husband lives in a different country, he’s lives in the Middle East and thinks he is my boss! He has always been very abusive towards me in every kind of way and 9 months ago I left him and cut all contact with him as he was abusing me again. I have not spoken to him ... (315 words)

I'm feeling confused and lonely and wonder if I should give up my life dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1399 days ago

26 June 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Cupid’s, I need some advice at the min about feeling stuck in a bit of a rut. I moved to London in October and haven’t really made any friends yet, especially now during lockdown! I am really struggling with feeling lonely, and what’s worse is I’m leaving my job at the en... (321 words)

My boyfriend gets annoyed with my questions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1399 days ago

26 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets annoyed with my questions. He says I ask a lot of questions but I think it's a way to keep up with a conversation. He says there's Different ways to communicate without asking. We are in a long distance relationship this really worries me because I'm not ... (64 words)

Boyfriend's family doesn't like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1397 days ago

25 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost nine years, we've known each other for eleven years and our relationship has had it's ups and downs but his family has always treated me and continue to treat me like a stranger. My boyfriend's reasoning for this has alway been ... (648 words)

I'd like to know if something is going on between my husband and his male friend, or am I just plain crazy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1401 days ago

25 June 2020 (F) age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I've got an issue at hand I could use some advice on. I don't know if I'm just crazy or what? I've been married for 8 years and although I love and trust my husband I have recently become weary of his friendship with his former lawyer. Both he and my husband are ... (385 words)

Scary embarrassing sleep disorder might ruin my relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1397 days ago

23 June 2020 (M)

age 22-25 - I have a bit of a problem. The worst first. Sophomore year I KNOW there is something wrong with me. I do what every guy does but it's once day in the shower done and over with. I'm quiet so I'm pretty sure parents aren't aware. Still, a few times a night I wake up doing it. ... (718 words)

How do I handle my uncomfortableness with having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1401 days ago

23 June 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupids, I've recently met someone whom I've made a great connection with. We met about a month ago and have had a great time getting to know each other. Last night was the first time we had sex. Why do I feel awkward about things? I've been hurt in the past badly and ha... (118 words)

Is a year too long to make my LDR boyfriend wait?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1394 days ago

23 June 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I'm a single woman of many years I'm just finally starting to get back in the romantic spot light .So I met this guy on the Internet very respectful all I ever dreamed of he sends me money we talk for hours on the phone.He even told his brother he thinks he found the ... (176 words)

We had some good dates and now he messaged me and said he's not ready for a relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1402 days ago

22 June 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a few dates with a guy and they seemed to go really well. He’s very shy and has had a difficult life from the snippets he’s told me. He’s experienced a lot of loss and due to a rift between his parents, he doesn’t see much of either of them and said he felt abandoned ... (246 words)

I need to stand on my own and raise my son but I don't know where to start

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1398 days ago

22 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice and opinion on how to earn money and be financially dependent as a single mom. Perhaps job that i can do at home while taking care of my son. I got no experience in working formally because i help my parents before im married. Im really good at cooking at ... (423 words)

Is it normal that my boyfriend's 6 year old sleeps naked with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1404 days ago

22 June 2020 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend Face Timed me the other night. I the back ground his 6 year old daughter was standing there naked. I was kind of shocked because I don’t let my daughter who is 8 do this. She also sleeps nude with him. Is this normal?... (46 words)

I no longer feel desperate for things I didn't have. How do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1404 days ago

21 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im a 28yr old girl. I have been single throughout my life. I had very less paying jobs in past. No good relations with family. All alone, depressed and anxious over last 5 yrs. There was a time when i was too desparate to have a boyfriend and i feltvery vulnerable. I was ... (213 words)

How do I get rid of a crush on a Co-worker ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1404 days ago

21 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I am crushing on this guy I met at work. He is an agreeable and friendly sort. But asking him out or expressing my feelings to him is out of question since he is a senior colleague. I don't want to make things awkward at workplace or put my job on the chopping block. I am ... (217 words)

Should I be concerned that sometimes my boyfriend likes to use a ball gag on me during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1396 days ago

21 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a healthy, regular sex life. My only concern is that sometimes he likes to gently use a blindfold, tie ups and a ball gag. I like the blindfold and being tied up, but I don’t love the gag. Is it a red flag that he even wants to use this? We’ve talked ... (404 words)

Can our relationship work with our conflicting mental health struggles?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1403 days ago

21 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We both struggle with mental health issues that we are probably going to have to manage for the rest of our lives. Unfortunately, these issues cause incompatibilities. When I feel depressed I manage it by going out in the fresh ... (283 words)

She's given me oral but I'm sort of afraid of giving it back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1400 days ago

21 June 2020 (M)

age 18-21 - I have sort of a messed up question for you. I'm 17 and I have a girlfriend who just turned 15. Her parents are really strict and protective but sometimes they let us alone together. We basically have only got so far as making out but one time we went to a party and some people ... (309 words)

How do you make new friends in a city where you know only one person and your co-workers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1403 days ago

20 June 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 22 yo, just moved in february to another city where i know nobody. I am a very social person by nature, i like to talk to people, but I couldnt make any new friends. I only met this one neighbor with whom i spend some of my free time.. My question is how do you make... (176 words)

Why would a guy who is so happy to seem me and talk to me not want to meet up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1405 days ago

20 June 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - So long story short, there was a guy in high school who had a crush on me but never did anything about it. 5 yrs later I message him on fb we hit it off and hes super intrested, we arrange a date and he blows me off, I tell him you had your chance by, for the next 2 yrs I ge... (224 words)

We fought my husband has not forgiven me and is now talking about separating

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 1277 days ago

20 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I really need your help to get out of this mess. My husband and I have been married for 5 years. Both of us are in medical profession. Two days ago we had a huge row regarding a business he recently started with one of his friends. We ended up calling each other names. I ... (337 words)

I want to start living as a woman. How do I tell my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1402 days ago

20 June 2020 (M)

age - My wife started dressing me as a woman when we first started dating, we have since married and my dressing up as Joanne continues. About a year and a half ago, my wife brought up wanting to see me with a man while I am dressed as Joanne, I agreed to it and have since been ... (149 words)

I want to meet some new friends but I'm nervous and anxious about doing so

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1404 days ago

19 June 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been talking to two people but not in a romantic way , I have never really interested in potential romances and im glad im not . ive never spoken to them in person , I just know them both from school . Ive never had the confidence to meet someone in person when ive ... (205 words)

I need to give her up but I don't want to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1406 days ago

19 June 2020 (M)

age 41-50 - My heart hurts. A few years ago I came out of a very difficult relationship with an addict disillusioned with the idea of relationships in general. I pulled myself together to the point where I was enjoying life to the fullest, but had no faith in or want to be in a relation... (757 words)

Is it ok for my girlfriends male colleague to stay over at her house?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1398 days ago

19 June 2020 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship where my girlfriend lives in England and I'm in Wales. I haven't seen her since the end of March due to lockdown and even though things are now easing slightly regarding lockdown, the rules/guidance are still slightly different for ea... (297 words)

Snapchat causing issues

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1407 days ago

17 June 2020 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 10 months. We’ve known each other off and on since we were kids and we’re surprised when we both realised we’d liked each other for so long. Unfortunately when we met he had a girlfriend and I don’t need to go into detail but we did w... (260 words)

I want to move on from a relationship that left me broken.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1407 days ago

17 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - This relationship has left me broken and I really don't know how to move forward. I was with him on and off for the past year and it was the best time of my life. We have so much in common, got along beautifully and never fought. He has a young son whom he shares 50/50 custody ... (376 words)

Cannot cum during sex with my bf

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1330 days ago

16 June 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - So I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months now and we’ve started getting intimate. We’ve both been tested for STIs before we even took our clothes off- not that we don’t trust each other, but better safe than sorry. Needless to say we’ve both tested negative for any ... (175 words)

How do I help my friend who is in love with a woman who is wrong for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

15 June 2020 (M)

age 36-40 - I urgently need to help a friend of mine who is freshly,but blindly in love with a lady that do not match him. Hi there! A long time friend of mine is in a crash with a lady that it is very sudden and down right incompatible.let me raise some points why he is not Mr right w... (471 words)

I found a lipgloss in my boyfriends car now what ?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

15 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years now we have a baby together he’s 2 we also live together . So I would say this relationship is serious right?! Wrong !! So about two months ago I snoop though his phone and went through his Facebook I found a whole bunch of women he was ... (602 words)

I want to move from the friend zone to the romance zone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

15 June 2020 (M)

age 30-35 - To the male readers here, has anyone successfully gotten himself out of the dreaded friend-zone? You know, when a girl you fancy treats you like her best friend and it is difficult to turn it into something romantic. If you have, could you please describe: 1) What are the... (79 words)

How do I act straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

15 June 2020 (M)

age 18-21 - Alright. I'm 15 year old guy who HAS to fake straight but apparently I'm not good at it. I don't know when I figured it all out. I know in kindergarten I had sort of a thing for this kid in school and another kid on my just didn'tblock but it was non sexual. I just thought of ... (846 words)

I need some help with the bedroom activities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1406 days ago

14 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing someone in February of this year, it's been going really good, no complaints about anything at all, except that I need some suggestions/advice/guidance when it comes to sex. We have had sex twice, and it's been really good, except that I have a really ha... (461 words)

I've been in abusive relationships and worry the problem might have been me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1395 days ago

14 June 2020 (F)

age 26-29 - The last four years of my life have been a world wind. I was in an abusive relationship which he was charged twice for assault and I still never had the power to leave. The last 2 year of the relationship (what I know of) I was cheated on repeatedly still didn't leave because ... (300 words)

How will my parents react when I tell them I want to meet a person I met online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

13 June 2020 (F)

age 22-25 - A few months ago I met a guy online, we instantly hit it off and spend hours a day texting and face timing each other. He is sweet and makes me laugh. He recently mentioned meet once this pandemic is over and the boarders open back up (I’m Canadian, he is American). The on... (94 words)

I'm pregnant, havent told hubby nor my sister in law

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

12 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out that I’m about 7 weeks pregnant. I haven’t told my husband because I don’t know how he would react. He Lost his job because of this pandemic. My sister in law has also been trying for a baby for many years and I don’t know how to tell her about my ... (61 words)

So worried about the safety of my friends baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1399 days ago

11 June 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there. Such a great site with wide answers. I am in a quandary here. I have a friend in her mid thirties who is a new mom. She is an alcoholic and before she decided to get pregnant after consulting with her boyfriend I begged her to get her drinking under control fi... (341 words)

My friend is icing me out for a stupid reason...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

11 June 2020 (F)

age 22-25 - My friends and I went out for drinks a week ago to celebrate our graduation. My school gives out informal academic awards for the best student of each subject along with our respite cards, and of my friends began complaining , unprompted, about how she received an award but not ... (150 words)

I don't know how to deal with the angry man my partner has become.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

11 June 2020 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone, i just need your opinion guys. Im with my partner for 5 years now. For First 3 years we are fine.. but slowly is changing. He used to be a good hard working man, but then suddenly it changes. Last year he stop working, he said he has not in the mood anymore ... (513 words)

A long term friendship has become exhausting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

10 June 2020 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend have been friends for about 8 years. But lately I’m finding being her friend exhausting. She gets herself into silly situations that I have to help her through or to get her out of it. We lived together for 3 years at one stage. During that time I noticed h... (654 words)