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I'm in a relationship, but I feel like I'm single!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - this guy has liked me for over a yr now. about 3-4 months ago we started dating. a few weeks ago, he got kicked out of his house and got a new job. he works A LOT, and when he's not working, he's hanging out with his friends. that leaves no room for me in his schedule. he has ... (175 words

My father degrades me and is constantly bringing me down. Please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just need some help, and it might be long but i hope someone will have time to read. i am a 19 year old girl, still living with my parents. Through my early teens i was very depressed and often had suicidal thoughts, which led to me attending a counciling session. anyw... (394 words

She's a recovering drug addict and alcoholic - What can I do, aside from support her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am in love with my soulmate. I have been in love with her for three years, and two months ago we finally got it together. Everything between us is perfect, I can talk to her about anything. But of course, there's a problem, and it's a biggie: she's a recovering drug ... (311 words

Would you sleep with a man knowing that he flirts with most females that come his way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age - Would you sleep with a man knowing that he does flirt with most females that come his way? he is aged 56 and wanted sex with me on holiday but I didnt "do it". then we met up and all he talked about was other women he liked flirting with-which, indicated to me he was a ... (176 words

I'm very crushed and even though I ended it with him because he hurt me, I still have major feelings for him! What is the best way to get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone. Recently I got back with my ex and it was a huge mistake cuz he only end up hurting me again. You see, he changes girls like he does underwear and at the time I didnt realize this until he told other girls that we never dated. Everyone of course knew he was lying ... (234 words

Can anyone tell me why he said that - and changed his mind all of a sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F - Hello please help. I met this guy (22) at a bar about 3 weeks ago. I kinda knew him b4 but only through friends of friends and we never really spoke before. He asked for my number and we were talking and texting. He asked me when he could take me out and we went out for a few ... (366 words

How do I get over my teacher infatuation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - The teacher who I was in Love with just left to go to New Zealand, trouble is shes female like me....... If I start from the beginning it is easier to understand. Last September we got a new Maths teacher, everything was fine for a few weeks, but then for some reason something... (371 words

I am 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to stop having sex...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 17 and my bf is 23. i am 7 months pregnant and he does not want to stop having sex. i get tired and just wanna be loved. be4 i got pregnant we would have sex 5 times a day and he loved it but i cant do it anymore. hes the only person im allowed to see im not allowed friends ... (116 words

Single and lonely, and on top of that - pessimistic, how can I overcome this to find someone to share my life with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is a complicated problem, but I'll try to write it down as best I can without being too confusing. First things first. I'm 23 years old and have never ever been in a relationship, or even come close to one, and am starting to feel the pinch of loneliness and the desire t... (362 words

I am not in love with my wife any more. I need to decide what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age - I have been married for 18 years and together with my wife for 21. We have three great kids aged from 10-16. My wife is a wonderful person who loves me unconditionally. The problem is that I truly am not in love with her anymore. I care about her tremendously and love aspects ... (276 words

Tight or flappy down there - what do guys prefer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok got a question. I know all women are different "down there", but what do you guys generally think of labia or flaps or whatever you want to call them. I've seen girls who have really short labias, and then girls with really puffy labias and then girls who almsot have flap ... (61 words

My friend hates my boyfriend. I have to choose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi. My friend made me dump my b/f because she made it clear she plain hates! him. I love him, but i'm torn i half now, not knowing i have him. I hate choseing! Friend or boyfriend, friend or boyfriend?!?!!? aaaaahhahahahahahahhhhhhh!!!!!!... (46 words

How do I make my friend see she is not to blame for the loss of her baby and comfort her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - how do i help my bestest friend? my besest friend in the whole wide world told me something today that i did not know i was very shocked! She had this boyfriend who was not english, he was a really cool guy and they got on really well! however he went back home to tun... (352 words

I didn't reach to climaxing in my relationships, does my problem have anything to do with the way I masturbate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - When i masturbate, i do it face down, rubbing my clitoris in a pillow, floor or bed and my orgasms are amazing. I've tried to masturbate the regular way, just by sitting or laying down on a bed face up, and rub my clitoris with my fingers or something as the pillow or towel, ... (131 words

I want to be with my ex who has changed for the better, but I'm married. Kids are involved so it is difficult to decide.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a serious problem. I dated S in highschool, and ended up having a baby with him. At the time, we broke up because he was being a jerk. Right after I had the baby, I met J, and proceeded to marry him after a while. We have 2 other kids. Now, S has come back into my ... (165 words

Guys, how do you feel about women's bodies after giving birth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm afraid my husband won'd find me attractive anymore after pregnancy. He tries to assure me that since I am lean, I will get my body back, but I know it will irretreivably change and will no longer look like the girls in the magazines. He wants this baby very much and I ... (84 words

Before our three-way relationship even starts I know I want him to myself. How?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - Just to start off I have a deep love for my ex and now we're planning to get back together but there's a catch. You see he doesn't have much trust towards women due to what many have done him wroung including myself. So he's been talkin to someone else and wants a 3way ... (272 words

I presumed to be more experienced than I actually am, will my girlfriend realise that I lied?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - i'm 15 to start off with and ok i lied to my girlfriend...i told her i've done everything but sex....when i've done nothing but touch a vagina i havent even fingered anyone so am i completely screwed over when we do go to have sexual intercourse and she realizes i havent done ... (63 words

My boyfriend loves me but it is so hard to accept that he admits there are better looking girls! Should I go off relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - DearCupid, I'm 19 years old. I'm a nice girl, I know I'm smart and talented, witty, a bit shy and kind. I hate sounding arrogant, I like to consider myself as humble and a lot of people think I'm humble. The thing is, I'm a good girl. But I'm not the prettiest. And I... (799 words

I won't ask him to replace the loss of his beloved wife, but how long could it take for him to heal? Is it better to cut my losses now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age - I met a man recently who I really like-even though I havent known him long in fact no timne at all. Life is so short I think just let him know how I feel and if it frightens him off - so be it -means it wasnt meant to be. However his wife only died about just over 18 mon... (204 words

Should I tell my teacher he was of great help in person or through a card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i've posted lots of answers on this site (mainly to the 'my teacher' questions i'll admit!) but right now, i'm the one who needs some help. i've liked my physics teacher for about 1 year and a month now but I just found out i'm not going to have him as a teacher next yea... (236 words

Am I wrong in the flirting or is he too sensitive? How can we make it through the LD relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, i've found the perfect guy. he treates me amazing, he's 5 years older than me, but thats no worry to me. but yeah, he is just like the man of my dreams. the only problem is i keep messing everything up. but i dont know if i am being a b**** or not. i am kinda a natur... (286 words

I've been sending him erotic videos and I could use new ideas of the kind...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey! My Bf and I are always sending each other dirty texts. Recently we have been exchanging dirty photos and videos. I've been sending him videos of me fingering myself but im kinda stuck for other things to film. I want to blow his mind - so what else could i send? P... (58 words

I gave my teacher a letter explaining my feelings, but he has not opened it, I'm worried he won't...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - I love my teacher, but he see's right through me. I think he knows to some extend I love him, yet he ignores me and doesn't act so friendly with me. He always acts friendly to others, and blanks me out. I don't know what to do anymore; because it hurts me alot. I feel like sc... (106 words

Which one of my sisters should I believe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi i'm getting married next month and since i'm a virgin i asked my sisters for help. my eldest sister says that i should stop the intercourse after i lose my virginty immediately, otherwise i will damage my vagina. but my other sister says it's ok to continue. they are both... (62 words

Is it wrong to use my friend to get information from the boy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm not sure about this. I was wondering if it was wrong to use my friend to get information from the boy I like. She knows I like him, and that i have a hard time talking to him. So i ask her to ask him the questions I want to know and she does it no problem. My question is; ... (107 words

I was very controlling but not anymore, how can I prove to my ex that I've changed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok everyone look I just got out of a 3 year relationship it was my fault I was a very controlling person I'm not any more but still can anyone just give me any tips how to not be so controlling so I can add to what Ive already learned? if any one has good advice please help me ... (133 words

My boyfriend's parents think it was slutty to leave with with a hickey, how can I change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - my bf's parents saw the hickey (love bite) i gave him, weve been going out for 10months and were both 17 they told him i was a slut how do i make them realise im not? how do i fox things please help!!!... (43 words

I am happy with my boyfriend, even though he is 28 years older than I am, does the age difference matter, if the relationship is working??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - i am currently going out with sum1 28 years older then me ever since i've met him i've felt happy and more confident he supports me in everything i do. but then there's my dad who's telling me he's just using me and also my sister who wont talk to me neither.... (52 words

We have two sons, one mine, one ours, but this relationship is not working, he is lazy among other things, and I want him gone yesterday, what can I do to end this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am in a relationship that i have been in for about 5 years. i really want out of the relationship but he will not go anywhere. We have a 4 year son together and i also have a 7 year old son from a previous relationship. He is very lazy and will not help around the house or ... (81 words

We used a condom during sex, but my period is late, could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay, three weeks ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of some time. we used a condom, and he pulled out before he ejaculated. i was supposed to start my period yesterday and.. i didn't. today: nothing either. i'm very worried. i'm 15, and i have my whole life ahead... (132 words

We have a son, we care about each other, but he says he does not love me, does not want to marry me, should I move on or what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We have a one year old son together (who was not planned). Our relationship seemed to be going well until I asked about marriage and he replied that he didn't love me and didnt ever see himself marrying me. I'm not sure what my ... (58 words

Our sexual relations are not what they used to be, is there something we can do to improve the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - ive been with my husband for 12 years,latley during sex he gets soft.i give him the best blow jobs he has ever gotten in his life,i treat him like a king when it comes to foreplay and sex, so whats the deal.he always can go for a long time,but now he takes for evevr cumming,is ... (96 words

This will be our one year anniversary of dating, and he has new job, and must be at work, do I try to get him to take off from work or plan something for another day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i need help so badly 2mro is mine and my bfs one year anniversary and he mite have 2 work yikes! bad bad bad i need help he cant take ne time off bc he just strtd this job so wht do i do he strts work at 12 in the afternoon n he usually stays at his friends house cuz its closer ... (159 words

Is my boyfriend's ex trying to come between us, text message is worrying me, is there more here, or should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i need all the help i can get right now my boyfriends ex is trying 2 b friends with me hahaha funny why wood i want 2 b friends with her in the first place whn me n him dated the first time she was the one tht broke us up ahhh i want to talk 2 my bf abot ths but seriously hell ... (169 words

Fallen in love with my best friend, do I risk the friendship, if pursue her as more than a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - i am currently in grd 10 i have a best friend who's a girl,she has been my friend for 3 yrs,she has bin sitting with me in every class,i have had a crush on her at the 8th grd but it all passed,i fel in love with her along de way.weneva she looks nd smiles at me i blush.i dnt ... (83 words

My boyfriend seems to be cheap, is it just my imagination, or is he really a tightwad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man for about 2 months. Great Guy. I am 39 and he is 43. Good dad, hard worker. He has two children, I have 3. I am writing to ask if he is just frugal or if you think he is really cheap. Went to a concert with him. He paid for tickets, but had to ... (151 words

How do I stop my friend, from being so very bossy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm an aveage pre-teen and i'm asking whether anyone can give me advice on how to stop my friend being bossy. e.g. She bossed me into dumping my b/f!! ¬... (71 words

Looking for love, but nobody is interested in me, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - i guess i willl never understand women!what kind of boys do girls actually like? i have tried being goody-goody and bad brat both, but none has worked out!will i never get a beautiful,intelligent and sexy girl in my life??... (40 words

My boyfriend constantly badgers me, I've tried to get him to stop, I love him, but it's too much, please help me or I'm leaving him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - He is always tell me what am i doing wrong and it is really become a problem everyday it's something like i forgot to say something or i dont pay attention to him and listen to what he got to say it's always something but the funny part about it i dont do it to him why is that ... (120 words

I can't stop thinking about him though I know he has a girlfriend, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, there's this boy i met recently at work and i really like him. We flirt all the time but he has a girlfriend and i don't won't to try to split them up but i can't stop thinking about im and i don't know what to do ... HELP!!!... (51 words

My ex has started to drink occasionally, I just do not want this to become a habit or the only way she can feel happy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - Lets see where do I begin....My X and I have had a good relationship. She is 21 and I am 26. Communication was always somewhat of an issue because I always felt like she was timid about expressing concerns to me. We had our fights and disputes but were always willing to hear ... (201 words

My friend is grief stricken, and not coping well with the death of her fiancee, what can I do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - About four months ago, my best friend proposed to his girlfriend, who is also one of my best friends. On the way home after he proposed, a drunk driver crashed into his car. He was in a coma for a few days and came out of it eventually, but he died not long after when she was ... (248 words

I have made an appointment to see my doctor but I want some peace of mind until then from any nurses/doctors...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - Health question for any nurses/docs-i know its a long shot...Sorry to bother you with this but im getting so paranoid.. I am 25 When i was 3 years old i was diagnosed with an innocent heart murmur-its nothing to worry about and i have led a normal life. 4 years ago i su... (245 words

Will the girl be looked down upon by her boyfriend for playing with her classmates who are boys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am senior student in college now .And I am traditional girl . I want to find a man who I really love and marry him. However,I haven't got a boyfriend before and I am still a virgin now . Surely ,I have a crush on a boy in the class.But that's impossible . He just li... (638 words

9 months pregnant still being cheated on or so I suspect as he's being sneaky! What should I do for the sake of my child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has had a problem with being faithful for almost two years on and off since weve been together, now i am 9 months pregnant and we are currently separated but supposed to be "working on ourselves" he is still being sneaky and is still up to no good, i do love him ... (86 words

He says I stress him out. I'm thinking and acting like a teenager over it, but I just want my man back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age - This could turn into war and peace, but in short I'm thinking and acting like a teenager because I'm distraught my man of 7 years, fiance until 3 months ago, is behaving as if we're over.... we've always had a stormy relationship, and until very recently I hadn't got a ... (165 words

My husband has an inappropriate relationship with his yoga instructor. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age - I am a married 47 year old woman who has been married for 17 years. My husband is a salesman...he is on the road constantly....he pretty much does and has the freedom to do whatever he likes. Recently my husband has become extremely friendly with his yoga instuctor. He ta... (246 words

I believed women are devils to deceive men - but I want to change

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - ex me 4 my en in the past i had a terrible love feeling with one of my classmate and after that i believed some : - women are devils to deceit men - love is a ordinary matter that every one may face with - girls and women try to .... me (can't find the word) - i shoul... (128 words

I cheated on my boyfriend, and now I'm confused about what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am so confused right now. I have a boyfriend of nearly eight months, and last week I met this guy who is totally cute who likes me back. I bumped into him yesterday and we swapped numbers, we hung out for a bit and then he invited me back to his house. i knew i shouldnt hav... (206 words

My girlfriend accused me of domestic abuse. Does she have a point?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have not been getting along so well recently. She has recently accused me of domestic abuse which i have denied..... however i looked up the term and am now unsure as to whether my behaviour could be termed as such...... i have criticised her housework, ... (106 words

I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend - is it just me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F - I wish there was a magic wand that could make me feel better. In just over one week, I lost my best mate because she died, then had to go for tests at the hospital (have to wait two weeks for the results) came back to work found my fella looking at a pervey website, which ... (273 words

I feel bad about my looks, how can I give my self esteem a boost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - im 13 5'8 and 130 lbs, everyone says thats a perfect weght and you look great blah blah blah, also i have a huge problem with the way i look at myself. i always say i look ugly or fugly whatever and no matter what kind of compliments i get on myspace or in person or whatever i ... (109 words

I'm worried about what my fiancee will think of me once I have a 'baby body'.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was reading a post that got me thinking...My fiance uses porn and at the moment Im ok with it....but when we get married and have kids I think my feelings may change...I mean Im ok with him watching porn because I now my body looks pretty much like he women he looks at but ... (245 words

Do we have a good relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 9months on the 17th. We broke up 2times but only for 1 hour tops. is this a good relationship?... (29 words

Our relationship is not moving forward, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my bf for over 2 years. He is not really settled with his career and neither am I. There is no talk about moving in together or a future. Not sure what I should do. ... (45 words

I'm afraid of what might happen, should I date this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - A man has asked me to date several times . I don't know should I accept ? It is said that girls have been raped by the man while they are have a date. For this man,I am just first time to meet him in the college. I am a open-minded girl ,easy-going and friendly girl . ... (89 words

How do I properly dispose of the evidence so that my family isn't suspicious of my masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 26-29 - I masturbate regularly, about 2-3 sometimes 4 times a day. My parents don't know, neither does my sister. I think that they are starting to get suspicious tho, I don't know how to properly dispose of the evidence...What should I do???... (41 words

I don't even want to go out in public anymore thanks to this jerk at the grocery store!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Today I went to the grocery store to shop for food. My mom and sister came along. While I was standing behind my mom while she was paying the cashier. There was this stranger that took a look at me and told his friend quietly that he was standing next to a ugly girl. He kept on ... (429 words

He used to be completely obsessive, but now he could care less! What gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (? - My boyfriend and I have been in our long-distance relationship for eight agonizing months now. We were actually together for four months and then he had to move away. He plans to come back in another year, but the wait is killing me. On top of that, dating this guy is like... (310 words

Which contraception pills work best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am new in contraception pills. Will anyone tell me what is the best contraception pills around that will not make u bloated and at the same time effective. How to use contraception pills the right way?. Please tell me whatever necessary as my info on this is almost zero.... (50 words

I want to experiment sexually with a friend, but I don't know how to approach him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

10 July 2008 (M age 26-29 - I'm straight, with some bi-curious. I want to know what it is like to suck cock, to give a hand-job. To get sucked by another man, get hard from another man. I want to experiment, like dip my feet, but not dive in head first. I want to experiment with my best friend, but I ... (103 words

Am I pregnant or just PMSing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months. I'm 18, and I've had to take one pregnancy test about 4 months ago, and it was negative. Just recently I was talking to my sister-in-law and she asked if I was o.k. because I had been acting different. Normally my periods are ... (139 words

I slept with him, and now I feel disgusted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've met this guy a 6 years ago through a friend. We only started to see each other since about 2 years ago. At that time I was very much in love with him. He said he liked me too! Was trying to sleep with me a few times, but I refused because he also said that he didnt want a ... (248 words

How can I deal with this bullying and nastiness?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi everyone I am not sure if this is the right place to come but I seem to have run out of places for help. Ok my problem is this. I am an Australian girl who is living in England. The problem is I hate it, my dad is here for work for another 2 years for work. I dont think i c... (444 words

I'm a lesbian, but I've recently found myself wanting to have sex with a guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im a Lesbian, but I want to fuck a guy. I have never been with a guy in my life, so this is wierd, I just have these urges to be with a guy... I kinda know him, but I really dont care, its not about him, I think I might be curious, who knows, maybe I wont feel this way in a ... (134 words

Any creative ideas/experiences including a jacuzzi and my hubby? I want to make this day unforgetable!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - My hubby and I are newlyweds and celebrating each month of marriage. Next Saturday will be our 3rd month married and it's my turn to plan. He has never gone to a hotel with a jacuzzi so that's were we are headed. I have already planned the basics (music, strawberries, ... (112 words

How can I figure out if my friend feels the same way about me that I do about him?

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10 July 2008 (M age 26-29 - I never thought I'd go gay, but i possibly might, I met my best friend when I was 3, we played soccer together, I'm 13 now and we both still play soccer and we are always partners with each other for all the drills and stuff during practice. I'm goalie and he is defense so ... (189 words

My boyfriend is helping his friend write a love song for his girlfriend - Am I making too big a deal of this?

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10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm in a really tough situation and i dont know what to do. i am in a relationship, and so is my best friend. our boyfriends are both bestfriends also and usually the four of us get along pretty great. my best friends birthday is coming up soon, and her boyfriend is writi... (390 words

I think I'm gay, but I don't want to be!

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10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - im a 16 year old boy who want to be a straight normal boy. But i believe im gay. i look at gay porn alot and i like it i masterbate on them all the time. my penis becomes hard when i look at it. i try all the time to start masterbating on women but it doesn't succed all time ... (205 words

How can I make a move on my girlfriend at this party?

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10 July 2008 (M age 26-29 - hi i am 14 and i need help with planing fist kiss for gf. we been going out 4 a year. she is 13. i am having a party in there days do i make mov e there. plz help... (41 words

My boyfriend fell out of love with me and we broke up. Now a new guy likes me but my ex keeps calling!

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10 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am very confused. I have an ex-boyfriend that is a great guy and I really loved him. The only thing that went wrong with our relationship is that he simply fell out of love with me. (No real reason there wasn't another girl, nor was it a job thing he just had moments when ... (197 words

My penis seems to be "less hard" compared to others. How can I get more blood flowing?

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10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have discovered that my penis, compared to others I have seen/come across, seems to be "less hard." Mostly it is that my hard penis isn't filled completely with blood. Most others I have noticed fill to the point of being almost spring-like and snapping back against the ... (103 words

I know he probably doesn't feel the same way about me but I want to spend the rest of my life with him!

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10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: I met this guy last year because of an accident, somehow he got my msn and added me to his contact list. We started chatting everyday and we found ourselves mad about each other. He studied at the States but was born in my city, so he came here very often, like eve... (258 words

I'm 25 and a virgin... But I want to lose my virginity to another virgin.

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10 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm a 25 yr old male and I'm a virgin. I'm horribly shy towards women but on top of it all I want another virgin. It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack to find a virgin that I even like. I only have a certin taste and if it's anything less the relationship fails. I ... (168 words

We need some advice on anal sex

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10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone! This is somewhat embarrasing to ask (I try to keep my sexual life private), but I've been wanting to know how to do this for a while. Well, me and my boyfriend have decided to have anal sex but even after searching about it I still need some information from... (138 words

There's no evidence he's cheating. Why do I think the passion is gone?

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10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - how do i stop? lately the relationship between my boyfriend and I has been complex, or at least thats what i think anyways(he says there is nothing wrong) I feel that our passion is gone and its like we are friends with benefits why? I've become extremely over pro... (401 words

Her desire for sex has cooled. How can I rekindle it?

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10 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok heres the deal! My girlfreind and I are bolth the same age and have been together for almost 5 years now. The begining of our relationship was awsome sex sex sex,anywhere anytime anyplace. Auviously it has slowed down but the past year has came almost to a hult! I bend over ... (174 words

I need to stop a "player" from hurting women who are my friends

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10 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - i know this guy who is a "player" as most would say, he recently stole my friends crush but he just wants to get in her pants! and im not one to stand for that and ive gotta put an end to him cause hes done this to 3 of my female friends so far and now this! im gonna have to ... (111 words

I'm afraid to tell a boy I like him

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10 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey. I need some serious help. I want to tell the boy I like that I like him, but i'm way too afraid of rejection. I'm afraid if I tell him I like him and he says he doesn't feel the same, that things will then be akward between us from then on. One of the less-respected boys ... (136 words

My husband and his ex are chatting on-line. Is it innocnet?

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10 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have recently discovered that my husband is chating to an ex via an online social network.he says the conversation are innocent but im not so sure.i have never had any reason to doubt him before but im doing my own head in thinking the worst.any advice?... (47 words

Has my ex posted pictures of me on the internet?

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10 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - My ex has threatened to post explicit pictures of me on the internet. I'm really worried about this. I googled myself, but other than that I don't know where to look to see if he followed through on the threat. Help! Where/ How can I look, and how do I take them down if I find ... (57 words

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

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10 July 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. BUT..recently my paranoia??...has crept ... (516 words

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