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How would you handle your boyfriend up and leaving for a vacation without telling you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been "sort of" living together (he still has his own place) for almost 3 years now and 2 days ago he just up and left to CA without telling me. I know where he is through friends of his. I also know that he is meeting old high scool buddies there. He ... (181 words

Should a Sagittarius leave a Gemini?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been I a relationship with boyfriend for 10 months and I love him but I'm sick and tired of his unreliable ways. Sometimes I wonder if he cheats cuz he sometimes nevercalls when he says he will, always puts the guys before me make a lot of promises he doesn't keep and has ... (79 words

What makes a parent love one child more than another?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age - can anybody tell me what makes a parent love their child less than their other children and blatantly show it.... (20 words

I'm afraid of him sleeping with someone else if I end it! I'm also pregnant and he's in the army.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

26 July 2008 (F - I'm in desperate need of help, i have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. We had a few one night stands with other people while we broke up. He is in the army so he is away alot, he went away for 5 months and i found out i was pregnant with his baby, so i told him, ... (331 words

He started falling for me early on but flirts with other girls online! Is this LDR going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - we met in jan and he started falling for me soon but never ever said that, later he flirted with other gals online. but now he is totally committed to me. but the problem is he never ever sends me gifts?? his password is also on his ex's name and he told me that??? what is ... (123 words

Is this a transition or am I falling out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I don't really know if I love my bf anymore. We've been together for a year and a bit and I know I want to be with him but it just doesn't feel like it used to. I don't look at him adoringly and think 'God you're beautiful I'm so lucky to be with you' anymore, I just feel I ... (103 words

Does anyone know of any stores that sell fake candy necklaces?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - this is random, but do you know any stores that sell candy necklaces? (preferebbly(sp) fake ones)... (16 words

What's he playing at? Anyone know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - Split from him in jan. I ended it. He's not for me. Kids all got on well, his and mine. Jack the lad 3 yrs younger than me. Owes me a couple of grand. Trying to keep it civil as he's paying it back slowly! Says he's a man of his word and all that! Put up with his inane txt ... (384 words

Leaving his girlfriend for me turned out to be more painful than he thought! What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age - I have been in love with my best mate for 6 months an we have frantically flirted all that time and hung out together. He has a girlfriend he sees a couple of times a week, I have a boyfriend who works abroad i hardly ever see him. 2 days ago he told me i was his perfect ... (138 words

He says I forced him to cheat because I'm so negative! Is that true?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Little confused, I've been with my boyfriend for about 3yrs we we're livin together but I got my own place because of personal reasons..I don't trust him, cheated 2x with the same girl, we got to an argument and he blurted out that he met a girl already and had sex with a 20 yr ... (131 words

My long distance girl says she's losing feeling, what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Well I met my girlfriend online, and im only 17 but i already have gone to see her in South Carolina I live in New York and as you can tell I love her alot because only after 3 months of talking and writing to eachother i went down to see her. I mean it was great and we hit it ... (312 words

I've never kissed. I'm really worried that my tongue is too big...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - im really insecure. ive never kissed before and im worried that my tongue is too big. is this a problem for guys. also any first time tips???... (27 words

Is my red sensitive penis normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - when i have sex or masterbate my penis head goes really red and is really sensitive :S Is this normal???... (23 words

My boyfriend drinks and may be cheating. The stress I'm under made me quit school! Is he worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I met my partner when I was 15 and we lived together from the age of 21. in our 30's we both split for a while but still kept our house both relationship did not work out and to be honest I always wanted to be with him and he with me we ended up back together about 7 years ago. ... (502 words

Do you think he'll ever change his mind about not wanting to marry me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for 1 yr, 8 months now. I know its probably still soon, but I do love him. The thing is.. I think we want 2 seperate kind of lives. He dated an older woman [whom already had kids by someone else] before me [his only previous relationship]. He prop... (469 words

He might be "the one" if I can figure out for sure he's not a player! What are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - What makes up a Player? This guy i know might be one but Im also confused about what to do about it. This guy who used to like me and i still like has been lying to me and seeing other girls while we were hanging out. Now, at work, he likes this girl and holds hands with... (157 words

What are the signs your partner is cheating on you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - How could you recognise whether your lover is cheating you?What are the signs that men shows when they love some one just for fun or for passing time?... (28 words

I am confused and hurt by his cruel actions regarding me and my son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi everyone, im a 36 yr old woman whose been dating a 57 yr old man for 2 yrs, and even though things havent been that good over the last few months as they were in the beginning i never dreamed he would treat me and my son the way he has over the last few weeks. he invited me ... (536 words

Marriage: To be or not to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - Dear Cupid July 26/08 I went out with a nice girl for 2 years and I intend to marry her. WE did not have any other partners. But I have mixed emotions regarding the virginity issue as I was a virgin and she was not before we met. We are bot... (163 words

My boyfriend is uptight and volatile! I know no relationship is perfect but is this too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - please can anyone help. i dnt know what to do about my relationship with my long tearm boyfreind. most of the time he is nice, he is affectionate, gives me cuddles, is faithful, cleans and cooks, he always tells me i look nice and stuff but when he is horrible he is really ... (632 words

Is he hinting that he likes me and waiting to see my reaction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi there is this guy at my college and we have been studying together for a year but only just recently got talking. he texts me regularly and also calls me and we talk alot. he talks alot to me about marriage and relationships etc my friends seem to think he likes m... (147 words

How do I keep myself from lying in various situations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello.. I'm 16 and ever since I was quite young I've had a problem which is that i find it very difficult not to lie in various situations. I do it most of the time to make myself sound like a more interesting person because i've always been afraid that people won't lik... (252 words

My husband has lost all interest in me sexually since I had a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I have had a baby and my husband has lost all interest in me sexually. I did not gain any weight. But do now have a C-section scar. Baby now 6 months and we have not had sex. I have tried to seduce him, much to my embarrasement, he said he was too tired. Tried to talk abo... (209 words

My wife says I am in love with my friend. Is she right?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am married. I love my wife and daughter. Lately I find myself thinking about a friend (who is female) alot. We talk to each other 3-4 times a day. My wife says my face lights up when I talk to this friend. She says that I am in love with this friend. This friend and I talk ... (123 words

My husband left me over two months ago. I want him back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok, my husband of 12 years left me over two months ago. Eventhough, he had a very good reason for leaving I was am still in complete shock. When he left we were growing apart more and more everyday, I had been sleeping on the couch for a couple months. I honestly thought it was ... (325 words

It is possible my child isn't my partner's?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i fell pregnant on the 8th of june witch was a friday i had been sleepin wiv my partner all that week but i had sex wiv a diffirent person the friday b4 is it possible my chid is not my partners?... (42 words

Could I have some birthday present ideas for my girl. Thanks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - good birthday present ideas? girl likes music theatre drama anime japanese pop culture alternative fashion chocolate thanks everybody... (32 words

He is very weird, some days he caring, but others he just ignores me, I was expecting him to ask me out sometime...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really need help I am desperate, i have a "thing" going on with one of my male friends for over 1 month and a half. Everything was going perfect, he was very happy, i was very happy, he was amazing. Funny, smart, loving. Until i got frustrated. I am a very desperat... (199 words

How can I cope with my terminally ill father?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - my dad's going to die within the next year... i don't think i can cope anymore.... (19 words

What can I do to make my big nose appear smaller?

This question has 103 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

26 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - Im a girl, Im 15 and really, really self-concious about my nose. Its just too big. It makes all my other facial features seem out of proportion and worst of all it makes me really, really ugly. I hate it. I hate the comments I get about it. I avoid looking at myself in the ... (135 words

My friends are away during holidays and I'm tired of being alone, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - my best friends and my brother are on holiday, my parents are working full time everyday, my boyfriend dumped me and all other family members are a billion miles away...all i have are my dogs and my horses basically. I'm usually okay with being on my own but now I'm just so s... (129 words

Do you know of any happy relationship that started off badly? Do tainted relationships work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Can tainted relationships ever work? I was cheated on, we got back together and I'm really happy now, but does anyone know of any lasting, happy relationships that started off badly? I'm curious, as I reckon almost half of relationships have involved cheating at some stage, ... (54 words

Why do my testicles ache?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (M - This is bit embarassing but what might cause my balls to ache? They have ached in the past when I've been seriously turned on but not had sex however they seem to ache at times every day for past few days. I have been masturbating but even so am really wanting sex so would that ... (66 words

Recently I found out I had chlamydia. Does this mean he has cheated on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i got back with an ex two months ago but before i got back with him he had slept with a number of girls and i had slept with one other boy, when we got back together we had constantly been having unprotected sex. just recently i found out i had chlamydia. does this mean he has ... (69 words

Disappointed in myself because it took me months to get over it and then when I've finally gotten over it I go back to him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F - ive recently started to date my ex again. i first went out with him 4 years ago for 6 months. i fell in love with him but he hurt me bad by finishing wiv me for someone else. He started going out with this girl and they moved in together. It took me ages to get over it. I was ... (292 words

How do I make up the ground we seem to have lost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok heres the thing, im in a bit of a situation thats making me really upset but i dont know what to do, im 17 and ive been going out with a girl whos 16 for a bit over a year, and we havent had sex. and also we barely do anything physical at all, it took me a long time just t... (164 words

Am I wasting my time with a guy who possibly only wants frienship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - Am I wasting my time with a guy who possibly only wants frienship? About 5 weeks ago I met a guy ( a friend's brother). He is the same age as me and is just going through the final stages of his divorce. He has 2 children. I was attracted to him and was delighted to get... (281 words

Are these reasons why my period is late? Or could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, So I had sex with a condom with my boyfriend. The condoms didnt split. We sat together in a bath (on an occasion without foreplay or sex) for about 5 minutes and he didnt ejaculate or anything. Its the 4th week of my cycle at the moment (33rd day today) but no period. I... (203 words

18 yr old male dating 16 yr old female, whats legal in California?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Dear Dearcupid.com, I am a 18 year old male living in California. I have a girl friend who I have been dating for over 15 months. The only problem is... She's only 16. What are the laws regarding relationships with minors? I want to move forward with this relation... (77 words

Am I a fool to think that after all her other relationships she can be mine alone & not just one of her sexuall patners?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age - Am I a fool to think that after all her other relationships she can be mine alone and not just one of her *****? Am middle eastern man who was 24 (now49)when I first met this middle eastern gal in college in the US. I was able to feel so good with her that when I had to l... (470 words

Can penis size be extended?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - can i make my cock longer ?please help and thanks... (10 words

Why does he masturbate, when I am available at any moment?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend always masturbates and lies about it (because he knows it upsets me that he does it in the first place, but my question is.. why does he masturbate in the first place!? especially since i am ready and willing at any moment!! is it because looking at porn and jackin ... (66 words

My libido decreased to the point I feel no pleasure at all, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - im 24 and since 20 ive had decreasing libido to the point of i cant even get myself off. ive never enjoyed sex with anyone theres no difference in sensitivity sex feels the same as touching my elbow and i cant feel oral sex either. i had an extremely high sex drive from the ... (98 words

I can't have an orgasm, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I cant have an orgasm!!! is somthing wrong with me? OR is the sex not good or what!!?! im 20 and have a 1 yea r old child, and my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years, and i have YET to have one.. is there something wrong?... (55 words

I'm too shy to ask him out. He's even more shy. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - im too shy to ask out this boy. and he is even more shy than me! i waved to him before but hes so shy he didnt even wave back! im affraid if i go up and say hi he wont say anything back cause of his shyness. and how embaressing would that be! plz help :(... (57 words

I need to find the strength to get away from my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - can sombody please tell how to find the strength to get away from my boyfriend he has alot of issues first of all he has a drug addiction that makes him crazy he and besides that he has mental issues i think hes skizophenic and he has made a appointment to get help for that. ... (256 words

Is it wrong for me to go out with my underage girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok I have a question concerning me and my girlfriend. I am 18 and she is 14. was a big surprise for me when i found out she was 14 when she looks and acts around 16. and I was wondering is it extremely wrong for me to date her? I like her a ton.....(going out for 6 days now) ... (315 words

My girlfriend stopped wanting sex. Doesn't she love me any more?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been living with my girlfriend for almost 9 years now. I'm 33, she's 31 and we have an 8yo daughter. We were together for about 2 years before moving in here and we were close friends for about 10 years before that. Things were great before but ever since we had our daugh... (576 words

How do I tell my best friend I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age - Okay so, my friend(whos a girl) and I have known eachother for over 2 years. Were besties. Shes bi and is always talking about this girl who shes falling in love with but the girl doesnt really like my friend. Ive just realized I kinda have feelings for my friend..but its hard ... (87 words

We're at it every night, and I still can't get pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 22-25 - ok this is a weird question but i have been having problems getting pregnant.me and my fiance are at it like everynight.and im still not pregnant.i have had a syst taken off my overy but i still have both,could that be causing it?if so what can i do to get this fixed?im worried ... (88 words

I cannot sleep. The doctors can't decide the reason. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I can not sleep, and I mean this is not a new thing, it has been this way my entire life. Some of the doctors say it is because I have RLS, others think it is an aniexty, or depression, others think it is because I am anemic, because I have ADHD, that my tonsils need to be ... (135 words

My girlfriend cheated four times. Will she change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - My grlfriend cheated on me four times,but I still love her and we got a child together.Do you think she will ever change?... (23 words

When I tell my boyfriend I love him he gets an attitude. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - what does it mean when your boyfriend use to tell you he loves you but now when i tell him i love him he says i know or he sighs and when i say something about it he gets an attitude and says he doesnt feel that he should feel presured.... (51 words

I'm afraid my girlfriend will be scared off by my parents! they yell all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Sorry, this is gonna be long but I need your help. Please. I’m 15. great parents but they don’t get along. Constant yelling and verbal abuse. Mom yells 24/7. dad has made me grow up too fast and routinely gives me 30-60+ min speeches on how I need to be more mature or w... (659 words

Black discharge after period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - ok a couple of months ago my dicharge was almost black after my period! it hasnt happened since and im not worried about it im just curious. thx J 3... (34 words

I get picked on and I'm mad at one of my friends for saying something. Why would she do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - I get pick on a lot because people think I'm gay (which I'm not.) the "popular" kids shoved me into lockers, beat me up. One day I talking to my friends (who hadn't ditch me to be popular) until those guys push me into a locker and I started bleeding. One of my friends had ... (84 words

Could someone who lied and cheated on you the whole time you were together still like you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - If someone you were with for two and a half years had lied to you and cheated on you the whole time with many different girls, could he have liked me at all? After having been broken up for 10 months now, why does he pretend to want to be friends?... (51 words

I'm in love with someone who used me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to this guy I really like. He told me he liked me but didnt have time for a relationship. I hoped that sleeping with him would make him want to go out with me (yeah i know but i dont have much experience with guys) but he saw our relationship as friends w/ ... (183 words

I'm still in love with the "good" part of my husband so how do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - So this is a follow-up from my last post.... I have decided once and for all to end it with my husband, but how do I get over him? I have 3 years of my heart, body and soul invested in this man and the life I hoped to live. He was my first and only everything (emot... (222 words

Why would she ask me out and not call me back? I felt stupid waiting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Today a girl called me see if I wanted to go out to eat for dinner. She told me that she would call me back when she was ready to be picked up. However, she never called me back. She has been interested in me for a while and broke up with her longtime boyfriend recently. I ... (117 words

How do I have sex in the missionary position without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I've worrying a little about having sex for the first time. Well, a while back, I was kissing my girlfrind (at the time) in the missionary position (me on top) but my arms were aching a lot from holding myself up and prevent myself from laying on her. I don't wanna try ... (86 words

How can I prepare for my freshman year in college? I don't feel ready!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone : ), I ned some really important advice. Im supposed to start my freshman year of college next month but I feel like I'm not ready at all but everyone tells me taking a semester off isn't a great idea. I feel like im not both financially and mentally ready for coll... (232 words

Is he lying when he tells me I'm the one for him but wants to go on break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend finally broke up. We bin together for 2 years. And we bin on a brake for 6 months. It did hurt me and I cried about it wen he broke up with me but now im ok with it. I feel a relief. He put me in soo much. I gave it my all in this relationship. He dint ... (175 words

I want a relationship, not meaningless sex! I'm confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im confused. theres a lad i like but all he seems to want is sexual stuff... he says he wouldnt do anything with me drunk because id wud be taking advantage and he said he wouldnt wanna do that. But he says he doesn't fancy me and he said things could grow. he asked me if ... (162 words

How do I know when I should end my long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. We've been good friends since high school then I moved to the states when i was 16. Since then we've always kept in contact and told me he loves me. Long short, we start our long distance relationship apart. ... (229 words

Should I leave? I cant handle this coldness between us anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

26 July 2008 (M age 51-59 - I've been Married to my wife now for seven years , we have had a little girl who is 3 years old now and the joy of my life . The thing is that my wife and i hardly talk to each other anymore . I am to blame for our current financial problems due to the fact i bought a new Truck ... (250 words

Is it possible to get withdrawal symptoms if you stop masturbating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

26 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - i know you hear of people gettin withdrawal symptoms from smoking, drinking etc, but when its that one week out of the month and mastubating would be a REALLYY messy job so i prefer not to do it, i get realy snappy n stuff, and i get so horny its untrue!! i know the snappy ... (113 words

How do I break off my extra-maritial relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been happily married for 11 years and my husband is in the Army and deploys every other year. I have never thought about cheating on my spouse before this time and I am actually seeing someone, this person takes me to dinner and out to places, listens to me and I really ... (100 words

Did my boyfriend secretly record us having sex and show it to his mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - my boyfriends made me VERY VERY paranoid, weve been together for 7 months, and been having sex for 3 months. we have always been safe and i am on the pill. have been since i started my periods, but he joked about three weeks ago about recording us having sex. i was like no are ... (292 words

Should I have my facial birthmark removed or could I learn to live with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have a problem with my self image i have a birthmark on my face and it does get me down sometimes when people will stare. i have the choice to get it removed by laser which i would want to do but at the same time i dont want to turn my back on myself and be some one that im ... (88 words

Should I forgive him for cheating on me, and lying to me about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been dating this guy for nearly two years now. Three days after we started dating, he was alone with this girl, and HE SAYS that she kissed him goodbye when she left, not knowing that he was dating me. However, he did not even tell me this. She told me that they ... (312 words

My friends say I deserve better than this relationship... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

26 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - basically i have this boyfriend who ive been seeing for like 3 weeks now but we saw each other for a while not so long back. for the first 2 weeks of the relationship he was fine acted really sweet towards me. now he doesnt meet me when he says he will, he doesnt hold my hand ... (108 words

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