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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He suddenly tells me he's not sure if he still loves me, but that he does still fancy me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've been going out with my bf for just under 3 years and literally 16 days before the big 3. He turns around and tells me that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore. Yet he says that he still fancies me? I'm confused. - What does he want?... (57 words)

I'm tired of the way my sister and her daughter treat my daughter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had my sister's daughter, Kate, spend the night with my daughter, Sam. The next day we went to play at my mom's where another sister lives with her children. While I was outside with my daughter, Sam, my sister made arrangements that Kate would stay with her. My daughter, ... (165 words)

I wish life had a reset button! I would have chosen another guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I wish life had a reset button...why? I know 3 guys 2 my friends both 15, 1 my boyfriend 14, all 3 love me. If life had a reset button i would of taken my chance with the guy that asked me out, i didnt take it so i messed up there. my 2nd friend, he is so sweet to me but he's ... (169 words)

I think I might be pregnant and I'm only 15!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i might be pregnant and im only 15! i am with the person whos it will be and have been 4 9 months now. tests r 2 expensive and they dont do them 4 free any where now. what am i suspose to do? and do u think my life will be over if i have a baby? ... (60 words)

Do I tell my date that I may not be ready to date him just yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a date this weekend with a great guy (an acquaintance, not a friend), but I realize that I may not be quite ready to date anyone after ending a very serious relationship that lasted 5 years (my ex and I were both civilized about it, but there is no easy way to end ... (223 words)

Selfish, depressed husband! I am beginning to break down.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, i am recently married (like two months ago). we have had a few hard times since we got married - my partner lost his job and we have been unable to pay our mortgage for two months. We have a baby son and he is not affected by this really - we are still buying fo... (302 words)

Any ideas on how to give my long distance boyfriend a great time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my long distance boyfriend will be coming to visit me soon but i dont know how to go about when he gets here..as in what do i do,i want him to have the best time ever..... (38 words)

How can I make either of these relationships go to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - I work at a theme park as a summer job. I like it a lot. The park empoyees about 1,500 workers and most of us are between 16 and 19! It's my first year at the park.That is a lot of hormones and time for us to meet. I meet new people on break almost everyother day that I work. ... (238 words)

Is it my pride or something else that's making me leave her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl 4 months before i had to go study over seas. I was everything in her life. Her first proper boyfriend. I ws gone for 15 months. We always talked on the phone and internet. I cheated on her couple of times when i was gone. When i came back, i found out she ... (221 words)

Can you help me sort out this relationship so I can save it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm new here, and desperate for help. I met my guy close to 1yr ago, when I started my latest job. We became friends, and it eventually deepened into intimate friendship. We started a relationship. Trouble is, I had practically no interest in relationships prior to this, so ... (489 words)

What is it that this woman and church have that his family doesn't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont even know where to start. I know when I read this back I'll think "silly woman - just get on with your life!". But I cant. I have been married 3 and half years. 5 months ago, my husband suggested a trial seperation. we had been arguing loads. however, a year before I ... (590 words)

He said he doesn't think I love him any more. How am I supposed to prove it to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Everything's been going great in my relationship (or so i thought)and me and my boyfriend haven't had an arguement in ages. i saw him on mon and everything was fine. we had a BBQ and he kept saying how happy he was and what a good day it was. then he rang me on tues (yesturday) ... (198 words)

Does a woman's clitoris move during orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does a woman's clitoris move at all when she's having a clitoral orgasm? I noticed that today mine moved like it was opening and closing when I was getting off. I have never noticed that before. Is that normal?... (41 words)

I'm a virgin and I need some tips! My boyfriend told me he hates it when the girl just lies there!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for over a month now, we both want to have sex, but im a virgin and i reli want a bit of advice on how to make it good for him. hes quite experienced. he said that he hates it wen a girl just lies there so i want to know some moves. what do you or ... (93 words)

A stranger came in to my husband's work today and asked if he'd spent the night with his 18 year old daugher!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for 15 years now and we have 3 kids together. Today some man my husband claims not to know came to his work today. Only 4 people work there but this man came straight to him, called him by name and asked my husband if his 18 year old daughter stayed ... (117 words)

Should I contact him and say 'let's have a fling! We only live once!'???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age - I met a man about 3 months ago and I really started to like him. I didnt sleep with him as I only knew him two weeks but he kept making suggestive remarks and then got cross whenb I didnt. However when he got home we e mailed a few times and he seemed interested to meet up ... (244 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend in this complicated teacher/student situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a few months. When I originally started to go out with my boyfriend, i had no intention of being with him for this long. In fact, I was drunk when I first got with him, and in a low mood and I intended him to be a one night t... (545 words)

Will I ever get over this man?? Is it possible that something so wrong could be meant to be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I'm going crazy. I had an affair with an amazing man and it ended 3 months ago for all the right reasons. The problem is I'm having problems getting over it - I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him so much I really do feel like I'm going mad. We both w... (206 words)

Why is my husband lying to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He went home for a week which was fine as we had talked about and been better. That way he would not have had to drive back and forth 2 weekends in a row. (its about 600 miles round trip) But when he got back I noticed that he put an extra 300-400 miles on the car, so at first ... (453 words)

What can I do about loose skin around my stomach?

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23 July 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid I am 17 years old and weigh at around 57 kg, but i seem to have loose skin around my stomach, i tried toning up for nearly 2 years and nothing seems to happen. i used to weigh 90kg if this helps. i would like to know is their any way to get rid of this without sur... (81 words)

I fear confrontation about my boyfriend still liking guys will backfire! He does seem more normal though....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend was 4 years my junior,I'm 25 this year and we've dated for 3 and half years till now. Back then i already know he's a bi-sexual before we date but i just wanna try it out so we ended up till now. He was never a romantic guy and seldom take initiative. He did ... (217 words)

I need tips on how to do an abortion myself.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so im 14 and about a week ago, i had sex. and we didnt use a condom. but heres the thing, it was in the pool. im affraid to tell my parents that i might be preggo. and i dont want to tell them at all. my bf bought a preggo test, but i have to wait a couple weeks. i know ... (92 words)

What are my husband's intentions? Is he tired of this "other girl"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 12 years left 8 months ago. He started living with a girl 12 years younger then him right away. As of today he has also not filed any kind of divorce papers. We have spoken in spurts off and on in this time but the day after what was supposed to be our 12th year ... (178 words)

Should I look up a college girlfriend from the 70's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age - Do you think it would be quite tactless to try and contact a nonromantic girlfriend from college days in the mid to late 70s? We last talked before she got married and my life was not in a good place then so terminated further conversation. Not desiring to create a mess but ... (61 words)

How do I get out from under my married boyfriend and his wife? We all live together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 35 with a6yr old son. I have been on and off living with my married boyfriend and his wife and kids. Earlier we moved in together it didint work he kept going back and forth. I was out of work and struggling to make ends meet so his wife suggested i move in with them ... (220 words)

How can I stop myself from cheating on her long distance? I really love her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am writing this coz I want to know why i am, "the way i am". i'm 24 and i have a girlfriend of 5 months, she was my friend initially for about 4 months. She lived nearby, i saw her quite often. then after 3 months together she left to another country for studies, i have spe... (243 words)

How long before the ex and I should try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How long should my ex and I wait if we were to try again? It's been 2.5 weeks since the (mutual) end of my 14 month relationship. We decided to be friends. But we see each other and talk more (deeply) than we did while dating. Yesterday he brought up again how if things c... (191 words)

She says she is moving away for good, but she wants to start seeing me again. I don't understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - please help me!! i had a long distance girlfriend for 3 years and we spent some amazing time together, both deeply in love with eachother. 3 months ago, as she was finishing college she broke it off with me after about a week of silence from her end [we were in two seperate... (526 words)

I love her but I can't ask her out because she's with my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, there's this girl. Smart, funny, beautiful, etc etc. And I'm crazy about her. I've asked her out once, but she said no because she was already dating someone, and I didnt know. A few weeks later, she split up with him, and I began to work up the courage to ask her a second ... (223 words)

I'm in a relationship but there's this other guy... do you think he's interested in something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship for a long time (many years). But a few years ago I met someone that I like very much and have strong feelings for. He is also in a relationship and lives with his girlfriend for many years. He is sometimes talkative and shares his life with me. Other ... (324 words)

Is there any way of terminating my child support payments?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if there is any way of terminating a child support payment. My ex no longer allows me to see my daughter and I don't believe I should be paying for her when I can't even see her let alone talk to her. I could use that money for supporting my wife and three kids, ... (81 words)

I made out with another boy and I swear I can't tell my boyfriend. I feel terrible!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, well im 14 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. i went to a party and i got really drunk. we made out on the beach. this other guy means nothing to me, at all. we both agreed that we shouldn't tell anyone. it will never happen again, i sware. i cant ... (82 words)

I'm worried that when he picks up his child from his ex, he will be tempted by her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid about seven months me and my boyfriend decied to sort of move in together in my place.bu befor that i have forgave him for hideing the fact he had a daughter i found out about three months into the relationship, yes i forgave him caus he wasint really shure it was ... (374 words)

My boyfriend started working out and now he gets lots of female attention. It's bugging me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend is currently working out to improve his health and also the looks. He's a big build guy (typical Scottish guy), blond hair and blue eyes. I know he's faithful to me and will not go out with any other girls. Since he started working out, he has numerous times where ... (145 words)

I have no self esteem and I feel down on my life. Help me sort myself out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have no focus in my life I want to be successful bt just cant visualise it. My self esteem is low I feel i cnt do things etc. I feel like crap n that I have no1 to talk to or no one who would understand me. All of these issues have been caused because of my GF because of... (240 words)

She has more experience than me, and I feel as though I missed out. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my Gf for 1year and 6months. We both gave our virginity to each other. However, when we first began to go out she told me about her past she hadnt dun much. All she did was kiss and have dry sex. But incomparison to me that was alot, as she was my first gf and ... (176 words)

I made an effort on her birthday, she didn't on mine... I know it's petty but I feel bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I think i sound petty but not sure. Basically my birthday just went couple of weeks back. My Gf couldnt be there as she was working and because of her fam (im in a long distance relationship). I told her i completely understand and she kept saying that she wanted to be there. ... (148 words)

My husband told me he is attracted to her but they are only friends, do I have reasons to worry?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband of 19 years met a 23 year old waitress in our local cafe. She has sinced moved to another state but they talk to each other 3-4 times a day. He seems to get upset when i ask if he has talked to her and what they talked about. he has told me that he is attracted ... (111 words)

My ex wants me to figure out who I am and what I want... but I know who I am and what I want is HER!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - She broke up with me saying that she did not feel the love like she used to and she wanted me to figure out who I was and what really makes me happy before I try and pursue a relationship with anyone. Then she still wanted to see me and sleep in each others bed and still say ... (385 words)

My ex just got out of jail, and my mom gave him my number. Should I go see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my new man for about 10 months, well my ex just got out of jail and my mom gave him my number. i talked to him and now i want to see him what should i do?... (40 words)

Is meeting people from Internet dates a bad thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dating people off the internet and going to meet them is a bad thing? I dunno why but feel tense if I tell my parents where my new partner came from if i did find someone of internet...... (38 words)

Is it too late? All I see is this man who left his family and came back only when it didn't work out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Together for 15 years, married for 14. We have two children 11 and 7. Husband lost his mind when his mom passed away three years ago, and step-dad passed away six months after his mom. First, he sided w/ his step-bros. instead of his wife. Shortly after this he started ... (639 words)

Should I just be friends with my ex wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex wife and i have been divorced for a month seperated for 9 months and we have talked of getting back together but she has informed me she is dating someone and that at this point in her life a romantic relationship is not possible. but we continue to talk on the phone and ... (92 words)

I met a realy nice guy and I thought we liked each other - then he's telling me he's really depressed because he likes some other girl! Should I tell him how much I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently ive met a few new people, this one guy, i really like we've metup a few times, and the last time we met up he put his arm round me and things and it was really nice. that night after he left he asked me if i enjoyed it, i thought that we both really liked each o... (113 words)

I think he was recording us when we had sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i been with my bf for a long time and im not sure but i think he was recording us while was were having sex. and i reali dnt knw wat 2 do. whether to ask him why he done that, or tell my sister about it and if i do i reali dnt knw wat she will do to him as he reali dnt like ... (74 words)

I'm thinking of going a bit further than kissing, but he's going away for 2 weeks. What can I do to keep the spark going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - have been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks now and its going really well. Its getting to the point where Im thinking of maybe going a bit further than kissing wih him. I'm not a virgin but we're taking things slow. Thing is, he's going away for 2 weeks to visit his family ... (107 words)

His wife's lawyer has a picture of us kissing. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - just for a month i am having a relationship with a married man, but he is separated but still have to go the lawyer etc. i am really happy with him and even he is really happy with me he forgets his problems and we really have fun together. this morning he gave me a call t... (124 words)

My gran and granddad have organized a meal for my granddad's birthday, but they won't let my girlfriend come. What would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old. My gran and granddad have organized a meal out for my granddad’s birthday that is happening this weekend. They have invited the family plus a couple of their friends. My mum, dad and myself noticed that my girlfriend has not been invited (I have been seeing ... (120 words)

Should I investigate to find out his number or hope we can still be as close after the holidays?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - yay its the school holidays and i am very glad but i dont have a number for the lad i fancy and i am just gettin close to him and im not goin to see him again for ages and i cant even speak to him now :( i could get it off one of his mates that i know cos otherwise i think we ... (131 words)

I don't want my feelings to jeopardise our friendship, please help me get over him?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a really big problem at the minute because my best friend is a boy and i have always liked him but there is no way anything could happen because my other best friend used to date him and it didn't end very well but i helped them through it and lately we have become ... (92 words)

How can you beat a "player" at his own game?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age - if you know a guy who claims is and honest but is a player when it comes to women how can the woman beat him at his own game and him not even know he is being played back?... (39 words)

It's true I embarassed her by getting drunk, but how could she get over me so fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice just over 3 weeks ago my ex dumped me I embrassed her at the her prom and got really drunk and she said that she no longer see's me in that way any more but how could she go off me in the space of a few short hours. We were together for just over a year and a half ... (112 words)

My girlfriend thinks I have other girls - and all because of a silly game. Is this normal behaviour? How do I put the trust back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All. To get straight to the point. I have been living with my girlfriend for about 2 months. We've been seeing each other for just over 3 years on and off. She went away for work last month and as a surprise i bought her the game singstar. When she came back, we... (213 words)

Would I be better off in a relationship with someone of my own age?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So i'm a gay 18 year old guy, and am going out with a 36 year old. True not the most conventional of relationships, but i've known i like older guys, so that's sorted. We've been going out for over a year, and like with most relationships we've had both good times and bad. But... (716 words)

I'm really worried about my girlfriend RIGHT NOW.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried about my GF, She doesnt live near mine and she stayed over night and I have to go to work today and I gave her money to go town so she wouldnt get bored at my house, now that she's in town and im at work it worries me, she has not got a phone and she is ... (88 words)

I need advice about my boyfriend's family. I find them a bit difficult to cope with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - could really do with advice regarding my boyfriend and his family. I have been married before and my ex-husbands family made our relationship very difficult. They were very snobby and looked down on me and often picked fault. i felt so unhappy and like I didn't belong ... (607 words)

I found a sexy text from another woman on my husband's phone. He said he hasn't done anything wrong.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

- I have just found a sexy text from another woman on my husbands phone. It was under a mans name and in his language (which I can understand) I confronted him, he claimed that he met her on the yahoo chat and gave his number cos he was bored and now shes doesnt stop txt him. I... (438 words)

Dating, just dating. And he's dating someone else too. So how long before dating should become an (exclusive) relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay quick question. Im 15, I'm dating this guy.. He is keeping his options open because he is 16. Dating me, and dating someone else. Nothing is official so I am okay with it, and before we started dating he told me, so I am okay with it. How long do you think 2 peop... (93 words)

After we've told each other secrets, I don't hear from him for a few days. It confuses me. Why does he do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

23 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. Ok, well Im 15 and my problem is with a boy, who is 17. Me and this boy, lets call him "Lee" get on really, really well and we always have done. We have a real laugh, can trust each other 100% and just like being around each other. We do flirt with each other a hell of a ... (216 words)

I want to do something special for my boyfriend - a gesture of love. Guys, what would you like from your girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here it goes i love my bf deeply but we dont have a great time to see each other due to work and what not we have been going out a while..i want to do something special for him from a far i dont quite think chocolates and roses are enough.. so this question is for guys only ... (98 words)

I'm stuck in a world where I have two hearts... I need help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the story this is how it all starts there me and to guys one called frank and the other called alec their both very nice ppl and very good looking and kind and sweet and just down to earth ppl one 19 and the other 18 at frist i was so in to frank i ... (781 words)

My husband is acting suspiciously again. Any sound advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for 18 years, and dated this same man for almost 10 years. He has always been a player and I have always been played somehow. He can control me, manipulate me, and belittle me. At the same time, he can sweet talk me, great in bed, and very generous... (154 words)

Can my relationship with my mom be fixed?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have no relationship with my mom at all. My mom had me when she was very young and my grandmother raised me basically from 3 days old. But now I am grown up and settled down and want to start a family of my own. My mother lives on the other side of the world from me with her ... (190 words)

Has anyone got pregnant while on their period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - can i ask if anyone has gotten pregnant whilst on their period? me and my boyfriend had sex and he had cum on his finger and then fingered me it was all in the moment and then the day after we had sex and he came in me. only alil bit though do u think i will get pregnant... (94 words)

Does he fancy me? Or does he like me like a sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok...i have know this boy for many years. i want to know if you think he likes me back. ok he tickles and pokes me he has nicknames for me and always call me it like witch coz my laugh is a bit weird he teases me all the time when i tell him secre... (226 words)

We broke up because she cheated. I still love her. How can I get her to talk?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well here I am again. Me and My Girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years(if you don't already know) and we broke up around april I really have no reason why. And I recently found out that,supposedly, she cheated on me. I don't wanna get into the details and ... (112 words)

His feelings can't just go away, can they?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm dating this guy. I'm 15, hes 16. Things are not the same anymore as I haven't seen him as much. He said things have now flopped/failed between us. Before I told him I liked him he used to do all these cute things to get my attention and may... (417 words)

My lover is seeing someone else. Should I be worried? Am I being silly giving him grief over this?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age - My husband has alzheimers. I love him deeply, and I love and care for him. The illness has changed my life forever. I am a young 55 so in the end I met another man and we are lovers. I know it is wrong but I have some happiness here this way. I would never leave my husband ... (292 words)

I want to "go down" on my girl. Please advise me. Do we kiss afterwards?!!

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. help from all. i want to go down on my girl. how do i go about doing that. tell me what to do from the start to the end please. do we kiss afterwards? how do i get her to go down on me? actually dont want her too although it would be nive or so i think. give me all the ... (69 words)

It hurts when I pee. Could I have cystitis?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It hurts when I Pee. It only happens in the mornings and I wake up and go to the loo but keeping needing to go and it hurts quite a bit when I do go. I dont pass alot of urine. I had sex quite a lot over the past week (6 times) but with a condom. Do I have cystisis?... (61 words)

Do I carry on in this relationship?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear All. You have helped me many times on here and I am eternally grateful. thank you. I am dating a lady 50 I am 43. We met on an internet date site. Long story short. I have an injury at the mo that is being investigated by my gp. The pain is constant, i lose sleep, i lo... (209 words)

He called me "a mate" in a text to a friend. I'm not "a mate". I'm his girlfriend! Help.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can give me advice about this becuase I didn't sleep a wink last night for thinking about it. I was out with my boyfriend last night and we had a really good time, but something spoilt it - he sent me a text message which was for someone else who I don't know... (188 words)

I broke up with the father of my son. Did he mean all he said? I know we both love each other.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What do i do? I recently just broke up with sons father after being in the relationship for over 5yrs but the funny part is i don't feel bad nor am i having second thoughts about my decision. The reason i came to this decision after all those years was because it was a... (306 words)

We're having a baby and there's no problem... except telling my dad will be a problem

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my GF are having a baby, I've got all money saved up so everything is fine to that perspective, I've look after my mates baby for a week and have a good idea of what's needed, I need to tell my dad but want to tell him nearer time as I'm not sure on his reaction, because ... (98 words)

Should I give my ex-husband another try?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I got divorced in April but my ex-husband still wants to be with me and I'm not sure because our marriage wasn't always sunshine and roses. I can't even make love to him anymore. What should I do? Should I try to be with him with so much negativity about him? I'm always so ... (86 words)

I'm bisexual and I need to know how to tell my parents.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im for sure for sure bisexual and I need to know should I tell my parents about it,they tend to be extreemly closed minded and Im not sure they will understand. My family is going through crisis after crisis and im not sure wether I should wait a couple of years to... (75 words)

Is it normal to be hung up on a guy/girl for 2 years when you never even dated them? That's where I am at now.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I might have a problem. I have a problem getting over men. First I should let you know, that I am very rarely interested in men but when I am I seem to get really interested and hold out for them. Is it normal to be hung up on a guy/girl for 2 years when you never e... (83 words)

He said he may not be ready for a relationship and we should take it slowly. Was he breaking up with me, or not interested?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy from an online dating site. We hit off after the first date. I never have sex on my first date. However, the chemistry between me and him was so strong, I slept with him. Things were going sweet on the second and third dates. Yet, I felt that he was still not ... (184 words)

I don't think there were holes in the condoms but could I be pregnant?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The last period I had was June 23rd, after a weekend at my boyfriend's house when we had sex twice. The condoms ddint split and I checked them after by blowing them up to see. He has been staying at my holiday home for just over a week now and we've had sex 8 times all with a ... (129 words)

My boyfriend is too clingly, how do I tell him to stop?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! i love my boyfriend very very much but sometimes he can get sooo annoying and stress me out. How can i tell him to stop being sooo clingy and annoying without hurting his feelings. ... (35 words)

Is 10 minutes of foreplay enough?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everybody, i need your answer for different viewers (men and women) my question is how much time would a girl satisfied of foreplay before getting in? its ok if i take 10 minutes foreplay before getting in? Thanks... (47 words)

We broke up, I can't sleep... I think it's love.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old gal....its almost 3 months since my breakup...my problem is very strange i can't really express it but still I'll try my best in explaining it....sometimes i feel that i love him still...i can't live without him nor am i able to concentrate on my studies... ... (192 words)

I'm self conscious about my weight and small eyes, please help me!

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well im 12 years old and weigh 11 stone. im very concious about my weight. i dont look 11 stone but under all my clothes im a mess. this has put me of having a boyfriend and meeting new boys. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont. not alot of boys like me because im either ... (230 words)

I don't think my mom loves me anymore...

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My mother fights me all the time. When I'm around she snickers at every word I say and rolls her eyes at me. I had to stay with her for a couple of weeks and she yelled at me for using the toilet paper I bought, tells me to do dishes and yells at me for using too much ... (155 words)

How do I get my friend back? He doesn't want much to do with me because of his girlfriend.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My best friend(male) of 2 years(Whom I dated for the first year and half) is now dating a woman whom seems to be threatend by me. Without telling much more of the story, we have not had communication for 3 months. I gave him space to develop relationship. I tried to reach out, ... (156 words)

Should I stay married to a man I NEVER want children with? He also winks at young women....

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 12 years and been with him a total of 16 years. Here's what I feel. I am finally just plain sick and tired of him. I am tired of him complaining about me about what I do and don't do. I am tired of his anger. I'm tired of seeing him come down the dr... (580 words)

He claims our relationship meant nothing to him and now I'm afraid I'll take out my anger on a nice guy!

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me one-two months ago for many reasons. He was very very much in love with me for a very long time before we started dating (about 8 years), treated me like gold (until the break up) and just basically smothered me with attention. But he had a lot of ... (405 words)

Help me...I keep thinking I want to lie to girls to lure them in and then screw them over!

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really liked a girl as a friend for a few years at school, then found out from a friend that she "wanted to hook up with me". I asked her out to a movie, and after that things got really weird. She said she wasn't sure at first, then afterwards told me that she actually did ... (954 words)

He thinks I'm on a "high horse" and that he has to knock me off!

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Maybe this is a cultural thing or maybe just a difference in personality thing... I'm very playful and, when I'm with my friends, guys and girls, we are all very validative of one another. Say someone looks great when they do, etc., so there's never any need to say what your... (313 words)

I'd trade the world for her but how do I ask her out?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright guys this is the situation im in right now. I met the most beautiful girl i've ever seen in my life about 11 months ago, we become real close friends, we talked, went out, etc.... while the 11 months she told me about her ex-boyfriend..at this time she told me she still ... (360 words)

I am developing feelings for my friend with benefits and can't stop because I think he's better than me.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friends and we're friends with benefits. I know its supposed to be no strings attached but I'm starting to develop feelings. I want to stop but I can't control myself around him, I do whatever he wants (besides sex) the way I grew up and the environment I wa... (116 words)

What do I get my teenage boyfriend for his birthday?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i get my 15 (turning 16) boyfriend for his birthday? i'm actually stressing over this. he loves video games, his car, and of course, me. i'm worrying that if i get him something like cologne, then he won't appreciate it as much as he would something else. i tr... (91 words)

The romance is gone, our sex life is strange. How long did the honeymoon period last in YOUR relationship?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright...first let me thank in advance the honest answers I may receive in here. I am 29 years old, old-fashion hopeless romantic and it's really frustating that I am still not married...honestly I miss that special someone is my life. Don't take me wrong, I had 3 long-term ... (473 words)

I broke up with him because he wouldn't commit but now he says he's ready. Is he just after physical "stuff"?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey peoplle just need some help pllzzz someone.... well basically about 6 months ago i started getting to know this guy... everything was great when we were together only problem was he wouldnt commit to me as he wasnt ready as he had only recently finished with his ex... t... (325 words)

"Fluids" come out even when we're not doing anything sexual... Help?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. Not like..Orgasm Cum but ... (71 words)

She says she's not gay but she holds me and kisses me. Is she scared to come out?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok im a lesbian and i've been for three years. so i know like how things go and what not. but i have a bestfriend who like claims she's not gay. but when it comes to me and her being together just chillin'. she holds me and kisses me and what not. but note(she not's gay) and ... (97 words)

I'm receiving silent phone calls. How do I find out who is calling?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this isn't really dating or anything. but today I've received 7 blocked calls of silence on my cell phone. I can hear someone and they never say anything. is there anyway I can call this person back? or find out the source or anything?... (50 words)

I found out my ex-girlfriend had a baby and I can't stop thinking about it.

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well me and my ex have been seperated since dec 27 2006 hum why we broke up is a mystery to me to be honest with you all. i tried everything to get her back are relationship was great just one day she said she was going back to school and we never talked or seen each other ... (209 words)

Do you think my wife is bisexual?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age - Hi we are couple in our mid 40 and have had our ups and downs. we are currently in a down time and things get tense. we have had a very active sex lfe and tried most things over the past 25 years. my wife has a great body and as always looked after herself. she recent... (148 words)

Does this person have feelings for me?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I want to keep this as basic as possible. I want to know if this person has feelings for me. They: 1. they treat me differently to everybody else, with more respect. and Priviledges. 2. They can't condemn me no matter what I do. 3. They stare deep into my eyes... (168 words)

She says she likes me as a friend - what can I do to change her mind?

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23 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need help. Tonight i kinda got rejected by this girl i like. We have been getting along really well and talkin on msn all the time and we always send each other kisses and that sorta thing. Well anyway we were going to go out together somewhere but then we s... (146 words)

Can I brake my hymen by doing martial arts?

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23 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I was reading another question, and was wondering if it was possible for the hymen to brake if you did martial arts, i have been doing it for a few years now. If so, it would of broken a while ago, right?... (42 words)

He's been so good to me that I don't feel I can dump him, even though I no longer love him.

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, and I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months. He's helped me through some of the hardest times in my life such as when my sister died, helping build up my confidence, and being so sweet too me. I love him alot, but now that I'm entering highschool I'm c... (188 words)

I want to change our sex schedule...

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi me and my fiance are 15 years apart and having a hard time being satisfied in the bedroom, im 20 and hes 35 i work 4 days a week 9am to 3pm he works 5 to 6 days a week 6am to 5pm hes job is hard and i know he is so tired we have sex about 3 times a week and i... (364 words)

Marriage - what is it good for?

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23 July 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend started talking to me about how marriage isn't very beneficial for guys. If you love the other person, what difference does a marriage certificate makes? Not having it will just make things easy when things go bad. There will be no lawyer fees for the divorce, no ... (379 words)

Weightloss pills... do they work? Which ones are good?

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23 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so I've been looking to lose weight and I'm exercising and what not. but I've really been considering using dietary supplements but idk how old you have to be to purchase them from a drugstore. do you have to be 18 or can you buy them at age 15? and which drugstore w... (66 words)