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Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?

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Question - (20 July 2008) 24 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *uds123 writes:

ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies

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A male reader, EuropeanGuy87 United States +, writes (24 April 2011):

Skinny in the right places is always the best.. I like girls with skinny arms large breast, curvy legs ..the hourglass figure.. I've see a lot of that kind of women here in the Czech Republic..but it's very rare....

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A male reader, djloki99 United States +, writes (24 March 2010):

i think its good to have a variety of women in sizes. just like men because im not skin n bones in no shape or form.. but women are beautiful in all there own ways, as long as your a good person some lucky man will be with you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010):

It really annoys me how in order to make bigger girls feel better people will insult skinny girls and make dumb comments like that all guys prefer girls with meat on their bones and curves! implying that being skinny means you have no meat and no curves. And don't get me started on the curves make a real woman shit- No jealous fat person is telling me I'm not a real woman because I'm skinny and I do have curves even if they're not the in your face kind.

That being said, you shouldnt generalise guys.

Heaps of guys love size 14/16.

Just make sure you dont wear unflattering clothes (i.e. too tight or too baggy) But clothes just right for you and showing off those beautiful curves! :D

Enjoy and work your gorgeous curvy body! ;) x

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A male reader, dcrofty United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2009):

everyone is different (well theres a surprise that hasn't been pointed out before!) personally I do like skinny women. No idea why, just do..not anorexic skinny, but healthy skinny. Never been into big tits, Sorry, but find them disgusting, (just me!). I'm a tall skinny guy, cant bulk, don't realy like my shape, always look gangly, and unsincronised, but thin, tall women, and wow!!

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A female reader, puds123 Ireland +, writes (1 October 2009):

puds123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for all your posts seriously they have been great!!

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A female reader, babyblu United States +, writes (25 January 2009):

gurl u are sooo gorgeous, dont worry bout a thing i have friends that are the same size and i wouldn't change a thing about them. you sound like a wonderful person and i wouldn't change anything bout u.

hope that help

:)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

Girl, im gunna give it to you 110% straight forward, im a pretty good looking small girl, but honey every man wants a thick maddame on his right side. Every man would pick a curve-alicious, plump, juicy girl over a skinny, hungry looking girl any second. You better believe it girl you look good and be proud of it, show your beautiful body off.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008):

maybe we want to make big girls feel better and its tru that big girls are beautiful..

but we dont need to put down skinny girls thats just sad

skinny girls are hot

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008):

Hey lady!

I have been struggling with an eating disorder for six years now and it's been a constant struggle even after being hospitalized about five years back now. I know it's something that I will probably struggle with for the rest of my life, being too thin is a curse in my mind - not a help.

It's so sad that you're even worrying about if you're "good enough" for guys because you're a beautiful and healthy size! You're PERFECT and don't think anything less!

Guys will choose girls with a little somethin somethin and some sexy curves over a girl with none any day! I have NEVER met a guy who thought i was attractive because I was as skinny as I was, in fact I have found myself single for quite some time because it is such an unattractive thing. (It's been a mechanism for not getting hurt for a while now... I think it may be time to let it go!)

In any case, I can only imagine how stunning you are and ANY guy that is worth your time is going to think you're beautiful and perfect the exact way you are. Confidence is the number one thing a guy is looking for so go out there and flaunt what you've got!!!

Take care!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008):

A lot depends on what we're talking about with being "bigger" and "curvier."

One person looks at a woman weighing 130 pounds, and says she's "curvy and rounded" or "naturally bigger" because the runway models of her height would be 105 pounds.

Another person might use the same words and sentences to talk about whether a 270-pound woman is attractive or not.

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A female reader, puds123 Ireland +, writes (29 July 2008):

puds123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks so much for all your answer they're all really good and i really appreciate it. Thank You........big girls are beautiful hehehe

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A female reader, PrincessS784 United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2008):

Im a size 14 and trust me! Big girl are beautiful. Its about whats on the inside that counts, not the outside xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008):

guys want a girl that is confident of her body. Don't be obese..but be healthy. If you show you take care of yourself then he will respect you for it. Every guys has different taste in women, so be happy with are..no matter what size.

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A female reader, diamondgal United States +, writes (20 July 2008):

diamondgal agony auntSugar Cookie, you're response was very offensive. I am slim and have been teased and riduculed for it. Why do people have to put down slim women in order to lift up others? And yes, there is still something to hold onto when your slim - has anyone ever seen Adrianna Lima or Halle Berry?

That being said, guys like different types of girls. I hope that you could be happy with any size.

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A female reader, saucy sam United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

saucy sam agony aunthey i think no matter what size all women are beautiful weather skinny or curvy. all men are different some guys loike small girls and others like curvy girls witha bit of shape a lot more to cuddle up 2:-)you sound like ur in fab shape i really wouldnt worry about it hun big is definatley better hope that helps feel free if u need anymore advice :-) xxx

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (20 July 2008):

Think about it in a sexual perspective. If you put two really skinny people together then you get pelvic bruising. Who wants to have sex with someone who leaves bruises all over them and not in the good couldn't help my self had to bite back a scream or couldn't control my nails way. When me and my fiance got together I was skinny and in 4 years I've gained a lot of weight. It seems like my fiance touches me more now that I'm not so skinny. There are men out there that do like skinny girls however most guys like a girl who has some flesh on her bones and doesn't look like she is about to die if she doesn't eat!

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A female reader, sggsweet United States +, writes (20 July 2008):

Hi. I'm the same size as you. My boyfriend doesn't like girls he can hug and break their back. He's averaged sized, in shape, and hotter than heck.

He really likes my size, even though I have a belly. It's amazing and every day I wake up and thank whatever's out there that he's in my life.

I never thought guys liked curves, but it turns out, they do! :)

Don't worry about size, it's more about personality and if they accept all of you. If they don't, they're not worth your time.

-SGGsweet

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A male reader, bfire United States +, writes (20 July 2008):

As others have said, it is all about preference.

For me my type is usually skinny (not like a skeleton but slightly above average with a slight athletic build.) I also don't like breasts larger than C cup, and usually like girls with dark hair and eyes. I don't like girls straight as a stick, because I do want some curves, but I like my girls generally smaller. So I guess you can say I like generally average for society standards, although I think this type is the best.

Some guys like DD and blond hair etc. etc. It just all depends.

That being said, I did once love (although never said it to her for many reasons, one being distance) a girl who was not athletically built and maybe SLIGHTLY larger than normal, or so I guess you could say. But she made up for it with personality and so much other beauty that really I thought she was just damn beautiful.

I would make a generalization (to be 100% truthful) that yes guys like skinner girls. But remember guys generally want healthy girls more than skinny girls. So remain healthy, if you aren't dangerously overweight than you probably look like how you are suppose to, and that is sexy. I would rather take a girl 10 lbs overweight any day than a girl 20 pounds underweight...

I also have no idea what your size means. But my guess is, you are fine. Be happy with yourself, and you will find people will be happier with you.

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntMy boyfriend loves my curves don't worry about your size. Bigger is definetely beautiful (:

xx

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A female reader, xxkissxx United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

hey chic,

well iv been with my fiancee for 2 years and when i got with him i was a curvy 12 now im a 14 to 16 even after having a baby, but he prefers me the way that i am not a skinny girl and i asked his mates and they said they prefer the bigger lady as there is something to hold on to,most guys only go looking out for skinny girls but they are only obsessed with themselves just be happy in the curves that you are and dont go changing for anyone because not all blokes are the same they should like you for who you are

hope this has helped x

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (20 July 2008):

Collaroy agony auntOnly the most superficial guys tend to like skinny girls. Personally myself and every guy I know likes girls with some flesh on their bones... so don't worry, you are not too big you sound just right.

Guys like girls who are confident about their bodies and you will put men off if you constantly obsess about your body image, that is the important thing not how skinny or fat you are.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntThere is no answer along the lines of men like X

Some Men like Skinny Girls

Some Men Like Big Girls

Some Men Like Curvy Girls

Some Men Like Men

There you go, men like different types of woman. Just because you see a certain woman in a magazine doesnt mean men go for her type.

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (20 July 2008):

scrazy agony auntYou're not too big, I have friends who are around the same size as you and they are curvy and absolutely gorgeous.

All guys are different, you can't generalize that they all want skinny girls. Some like bigger girls, some like short ones, tall ones, blonde ones, dark ones...the list goes on!

In time, you'll find a guy who likes you just for you;it's how you present yourself that attracts a guy, not your actual size.

All the best!

XO

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (20 July 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntSome do, some don't. Turn it around, do women REALLY want tall dark and handsome? No?

We all got different tastes and even then, some women look great with some fat and others look great when skinny. It is the total image you produce that matters to most men, not your actual sizes.

About the biggest mistake you can make if you are large (I have no idea what your size means) is to dress like a skinny girl. Work with what you got. Be yourself, dress like yourself and anyone who doesn't like that is not worth spending time with.

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