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30-35,
*ealmire
writes:I feel sexually trapped.... masterbation doesnt work anymore... lately its taken me about an hour and a half to orgasm which is extremely long for me. i dont have a gf and im left feeling in the dark alone. my world just isnt bright without meeting my sexual needs. i lost my virginity at 13 and ive regretted it ever since. i wish i had just waited.... is there any way to cope with these feelings......... any kind of answer would bring relief. ty
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reader, sjwcool +, writes (27 July 2008):
 I would try diffrent meathods of masturbating. trust me there are many diffrent meathods. if you can get a subscription to american curves or something. it's like maxim but, has many useful articles and many layouts of girls that will help get the juices flowing.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 i agree..you should feel relaxed happy and excited. use your thoughts imagine what you could be doing, do it when you wake up in a morning it shouldnt take you that long..so whats going on that make you last so long? what are you thinking about. as he said if their is trauma it can lead to you thinking about it subconciously which could put you off..need to give us more information on whats really going. or go see a therapist..hope that helps aphex x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 An hour and a half of masturbation to come?
Either you do it extremely badly, have done it WAAAAY to roughly, have some emotional block or have something seriously wrong with you.
From what you said about your first time, might it be trauma? Why do you wish you had waited? Did you feel used, not ready, did something happen afterward?
Why for that matter do you feel you need to masturbate?
If you are unwilling to seek proffesional help I suggest you just don't do it for at least a week and then see if that helps.
But if the feelings from the first time are strong, then you might be setting yourself up for greater troubles later on.
Just what happened that makes you feel bad about it?
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