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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 493 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - When me and my boyfriend have oral sex..Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?... (22 words)

What approach/scenario would make you women feel comfortable that you would say yes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi. I'm male, 22, who is very shy around women (cliche I know, but true;) never had a relationship, and still a virgin. To be honest, the inexperience and virginity has never really bothered me, until I recently met a girl who I have real, deep feelings for...but of course this ... (167 words)

He called me a cheap slut etc. etc. Yet I still went back to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all, my question is how do i get over my anger towards my ex and regain my shattered confidence. He was separated when we hooked up 6 yrs ago, but assured me that his marriage was over. I was 21 he was 35 and they have one child. Anyways, time passed, we started living t... (889 words)

Does my teacher have feelings for me, because the signs are all there?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I think my teacher might have feelings for me. We are both female, and she's apprently a lesbian (although it's never been confirmed) and she knows i'm Bi. Anyway...whenever i've walked past her room i catch her staring at me, when she's teaching! and it doesn't stop. when... (104 words)

I slept with him, then found out I want his mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - This is a question on behalf of my friend. she met a guy (guy one) about 3/4 years ago in a club, they bumped in to each other quite a lot and got on really well, she got his number, stopped going to this club for some reason and lost her phone. Before losing her phone th... (283 words)

Should I be worried about my sister's relationship with an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Here's another question of does age really matter! My sister, whose almost 19, has recently started dating a 32 year old. I've never met him and neither has any of my family, but her good friend, whose 23 and also knows him and introduced them, approves. They started off as f... (247 words)

When we hold hands, our hands get sweaty, any way to stop it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

- Hi everyone. Now this might seem like an odd question, but id be grateful for any replies. When me and my gf hold hands,it gets sweaty real quick.Is this normal? and is there anyway to stop it? Thanks... (42 words)

Why is my gay friend's boyfriend acting so weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my best male friend who is gay (I'm straight female) has been going out with his boyfriend for a year. Alot of our friends don't like this boyfriend . Though he's pushed alot of my friend's friends away, he only seems to like me. I do find him attractive but I know he's gay ... (367 words)

I don't want to interfere if he makes her happy, but I don't know how much longer he will keep it up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Quick introduction. I'm having confused feelings over a female friend. I'm 18 she is 17 just over a year younger than me. She started in sixth form college (UK) the year after me. Anyway, she was the friend of a friend, and she started spending a fair amount of time with us.... (890 words)

Can traumatic experiences have an effect on your sexuality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Can traumatic experiences effect your sexuality? Or maybe not your sexuality even, maybe just effect your sexual preferences. My dad cheated on my Mum and the whole thing really got to me. now I get a thrill out of being the 'other woman' so to speak. I have a lot of ... (171 words)

One of the secretaries has placed an unopened tampon under my personal belongings, any idea why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 495 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have returned to work in a healthcare organization and share an office with 12 colleagues. A few other secretaries also have access to the room. I don't know any of them too well as I have been away for 2 years. One of the women has placed an unopened tampon under my ... (65 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to understand that in a relationship he needs to give up his bachelor ways. How do I explain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After living 20 years as a bachelor-loving single man, my boyfriend has decided he wants us to have a serious, longterm relationship. However, he doesn't seem to understand that now that he's in a relationship, he needs to give up some of his bachelor ways - especially where ... (67 words)

Should I moan? Or should I try not to moan?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay. So, I just gota ask. When my boyfriend fingers me, and I moan just a little quite moan..Does he like it? Or should I try not to? Help!! ... (29 words)

I have an incontinence (lacking voluntary control over urination) during sex, medications so far did not help, please advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 494 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hello everyone i need your help. i have an incontinence or an involuntary leakage of urine condition when i have sex which lasts for 4 - 5 hours. i went to doctors most of them said that they can't give medication because the condition is not permanent and some gave ... (80 words)

He wants to have webcam sex. How can I tell him that I'm uncomfortable with showing my body?...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been dating my online boyfriend for 5 months now, and he wants to have webcam sex. I'm willing, and I'm up for it but I feel insecure about my body. I'm slightly over-weight and since he hasn't seen me in real life yet he's unaware of that. I'm not entirely ready t... (80 words)

I'm married. Would one afternoon of extra-martial passion be THAT wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 493 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married nine years and have kids. Sex is not as adventurous as I'd like but things are fine. Better than fine. I Iove my wife and enjoy a wonderful family life. Then I go and get drunk at a conference and have some sexy action with a woman I know. Not 'full sex' as we ... (138 words)

Mixed Signals from Ex-Wife... Very Confused. Is she trying to rekindle things in a no pressure environment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - So about two months ago, while married and living in California, I accepted a job in Utah. My wife was to stay behind in California until she got a job in Utah, and then move with me. She even wrote dozens of cute little notes telling me how much she loved me and stuck them ... (248 words)

My mate has cut contact with me completely since he has a new girlfriend, should I give up contacting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Right, this is probably gonna be a long one I'm afraid so bear with me. I met my "mate" at the end of 2006 on a 12 wk course I took and we found became close to best friends. We were both into the same music, played guitar etc and we'd hang out twice a week or so, grab lunc... (210 words)

I am seriously addicted to big breasts...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I am seriously addicted to very huge breasts (silicone or natural)...cant get enough of them...every night (if i am at home), i have to watch a couple of movies with huge breasted women and masturbate..my day would be weird if i didn't see something to do with big breats..is ... (57 words)

I wanted him back when I found out he was seeing someone, he told me to be patient. What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Three years ago I left my boyfriend after four years together. We remained friends the past three years but neither of us expressed to each other that we should give it another try, although we both made hints about the possibility. Recently, my ex has started a rela... (220 words)

Ex'es in love and having sex, it all feels so confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I was dating my boyfriend for three years and then we mutually broke up.We both believe that we are going to get back together and we both love each other,but I always look at the cons of our relationship and this gives me doubts.Shortly after we broke up we had sex and ... (81 words)

I've been hesitating between these two men for a year now, do I go with my heart or my mind?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 495 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have lived with my ex-husband since 1996 we originally married in 1990, but I met a man that makes me feel "alive," Though my ex is a really nice guy, there is no passion or connection but there is financial security and I do love him and he is good to me. I have been ... (79 words)

Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm a little underweight. I'm 13. When I eat I can't have more than 4 bites without wanting to throw up. Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way? OhI also sometimes pass out: I get super ... (71 words)

I love them both for different reasons and don't know who I should be with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 26, engaged to a my bf of 8 years, when i entered my first job at 25 i started to see someone else from the office who had many qualities that i felt were missing from my bf,currently i am techincally with them both becuase i dotn know who i should be with, i love them... (107 words)

I'm trying to get pregnant after treatment for cancer. What can I try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi evryone now this happened awhile bak but it still haunts me till ths very day whn i was 7 i was diagnosed with leukemia and i use it as an excuse evry so often is this wrong also i askd my mom if it causes infertility and it does so another question is this me andmy bf have ... (219 words)

Seriously - Would you cheat with a celebrity if it was safe?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i need serious answers. Married or single women - if you could sleep with any hot celebrity you wanted to and there was no way in the world you could get caught would you cheat on your husband or boyfriend? Serious answers only please.... (46 words)

Can I be close to my boyfriend AND my gay friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 495 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

- I have a good friend who’s gay. We used to be best friends until I met my boyfriend. When I introduced them both, they did not get along. They were polite to each other, but my gay friend thinks I can find someone better than my boyfriend. My boyfriend thinks he’s a bad ... (292 words)

He hardly takes any initiative to see me more than once/twice a week for 1-2 hours, this makes us fight all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 1.5 years now. It has always been complicated with us because it started with the guy being really interested in me. He was so into me that he was ready to do anything and everything for me. 2 months into the relationship, I decided ... (459 words)

Should I delete my troubled Ex/first love as a facebook friend to help get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - It's been 14 days since I stopped talking with my Ex/first love. We were together 9 months broke up twice and then were friends. We had sex back in June, then after I found out she had sex with someone else decided to cut her out of my life. I loved her more than I ever thought ... (425 words)

I feel like my boyfriend only wants me for sexual stuff!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 14 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and I started too really like him. A couple weeks ago he asked for head and I gave it to him but yesterday he asked me again and he asked to see my boobs. I said no but I feel like this is the only reason why he l... (98 words)

We are still together, I'm just walking on thin ice because he saw me while I was drunk. How can I right this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - So... here is the deal before I ask my question; I have been with my boyfriend for only a month now and I feel like I am becomming more attached to him than he is to me, well I did feel that way up until last night. You see, we were sitting there having a conversation ab... (203 words)

He doesn't want a relationship so I have to assume he only wants to sleep around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I went out on a couple of days trips with a man whilst on holiday and enjoyed it. We recently met up for a drink but he was on about that he is a free agent (I know that) and does not want a relationship, so I have to assume that means he wants to play the field and sleep ... (148 words)

My girlfriend messes around with another guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a girlfriend I've been with since May and we had been messing around for about 8 months before that. We were supposed to be messing with only each other but she messed with someone else. Then she asks to be friends with him. I told her no. Would I be wrong if I said I d... (67 words)

Should I tell her if her relationship ends or just forget about it as my group could see me as weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - (sorry that this is quite long)OK well i go to an all girls school but we have a boys school next door.I have fancied loads of boys and this is the first time i have had a crush on a girl. Recently i have realised i have a crush on one of my best friends. I think i might be... (220 words)

Is it normal to have sex five times in two days?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

- The only time I get to spend with my boyfriend is on the weekend. We live far away and we work on the weekdays. We’re both in our late 20s so we are not little kids. Is it normal to have sex 5 times over 2 days? It feels like we’re making up for the rest of the week. ... (71 words)

Might be pregnant, boyfriend stressed - What to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend has been really stressed lately, mainly because we're thirteen and might become parents. I always feel like I am doing something wrong. I try to get him to talk to me about it, but he says he doesn't want to because he doesn't want me worrying about him. Well, ... (66 words)

My boyfriend wants me to move in but won't get engaged!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

- I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. He’s 27 and I’m 25. We love each other and we both know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. We currently don’t live together because we live 2 hours away and have our own careers in 2 different cities. I’ve tho... (284 words)

How do I please a man in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I please a man? How and where do they like to be touched? I know this varies man by man but suggestions would be helpful. I have asked my man and all he says is "just try something".... (42 words)

I don't know if I want a girl just for sex - confused and masturbating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm a 16 year old male, who has been masturbating for a year or two now, and one of my guy friends is going out with one of my girl friends. They're happy together for the most part, but sometimes he'll make her sad or they'll fight which I know happens. I think I might ha... (152 words)

Is there a quick way to stop periods?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey :) Is there any quick way of stopping periods? I've heard that lots of fluids and exercise do it. Is there any other way? Thanks :))... (34 words)

How do I masturbate properly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello All! I'm a 15 year old with a question to ask. I was reading about masturbation a while ago and I want to try it myself. However, can someone explain how, in depth you "do it". Plus,I don't have any lube or anything and I don't particularly want to go and get an... (120 words)

Is my girlfriend's sexual history normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, hoping someone could help me out a little here. This may seem odd, but I’m too shy to bring this up to any of my friends, for fear of sounding strange. I was never a guy who dated too much, and tended to keep to myself most of the time. My girlfriend and I ar... (274 words)

My GF is on contraception injection and bleeding all the time!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf is on the contraception injection that you take every 3 months. It goes in the bottom! She`s on her second injection now and her third one is coming up soon. Ever since she has started taking this injection our sex life has died because she is always bleeding, and will... (131 words)

When will my periods start? Brown discharge!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello, I am 14 and have had a discharge and pubic hair for about 2 years now and I am 10 stone. My boobs are small but so are most others in my family. I haven't started my periods yet but today I got a heavy brown discharge! It doesn't smell or anything so I just wanted t... (78 words)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to forget all about me during sex ... (344 words)

Is it safe to have sex when seven months pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 7months pregnant. Is it safe to have sex?... (11 words)

Can a 16 year old date a 30 year old legally?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (?) age 16-17 - When you're 16, can you go out with a 30 year old or older without getting into trouble with police??... (20 words)

When and how should I come out of the closet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm gay and only 13. Here is my situation. I go to a catholic school. My dad is an uber republican. All of my family is super religious(christian), as are my aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, grandparents. I live in a community where a lot of people hate gay people. But... (71 words)

He has bad breath!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (?) age 16-17 - my boyfriend has really bad breath but i dont know how to tell him this? i mean we kiss alot and i try not 2 because of it what do i do? ... (37 words)

New to christianity..so is it wrong to masturbate to porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone, I have a simple question to ask. I'm new to Christianity and was wondering if it is wrong to masturbate or to watch porn? I want to know because I do both of these regularly and it has been eating me up inside and I don't have anyone to talk to. Thanks every... (77 words)

I want to work abroad...can you share your tips and experiences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have always wanted to do some work abroad,either in America or Australia,so that would be seasonal work,which is where you can work there inbetween three months and a year i think.Has anyone ever done this kind of work before,either in these countries or another one,and if so ... (204 words)

How do you deal with a crazy psycho ex-girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend's ex cheated on him 4 times during their 5 year relationship before she finally left him. She came up with stupid excuses like "oh but he raped me" and "he said he would kill you and your family if i didn't sleep with him." What the heck!? I have no problem with ... (192 words)

My friend thinks our group ignore her. It's really not my fault, is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i have a problem with my friend she thinks that our group ignores her and we gather without telling her (we always tell her to hang out with us but then she don't come or answer our msgs or even our calls) so how can i fix this she thinks we don't want her with us but we do ... (79 words)

My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her husband? The woman answered ... (112 words)

Butterflies...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I have met this girl that I have sort of known for a while. Recently I have been in contact with her! I have been to hers a few times but I can't make that first move. She asked me to stay the other day but I chose to go home! I really wanted to but I didnt! I have ... (85 words)

Met a cute guy, any advice on what to do if I see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - I was at work (at a theme park) selling pictures after the ride. It was going really slowly and hardly anyone was buying them. A very cute guy came in line for the ride (the ride line and picture place are next to each other) he said hi to me. When the line got closer (it zig ... (210 words)

How can she say such heartfelt things then 2 days later go off with some other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend just over a month ago. We were together for 2 years, she had an abusive childhood and together we helped overcome her issues (bulimia, low self esteem etc). She's 19 while I'm 27, we broke up because I was her only sexual partner and she wanted t... (358 words)

I have been having my husband pretend to have sex with someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having my husband pretend to have sex with someone else (and me sometimes) when we are together because he moves differently and it feels better. I get excited during the sex but after feel like I am not enough for him and in addition I fantasize about being with a ... (151 words)

I have feelings for my best friend's husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married with 3 children. Recently I have had feelings for my best friend's husband. One drunken night I told him how I felt and ever since he has felt the same about me. He now tells me he loves me!! Although nothing as happened he makes me happy. I feel really bad ... (73 words)

Sex without Protection

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time in our whole life without protection and he just pulled out. I feel like he didn't pull out in time because we did leave it in a couple of times. He also had ejaculated the day before. Am I pregnant? I've been having dreams of ... (67 words)

14 years old and have a 14.1cm penis... bad???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey,well so I'm 14 years old and my penis is currently 14.1cm's. And I'm Asian [Vietnamese], I've heard the Asians tend to have a more smaller penis than other races, so I'm wondering if this is really small? will it get any bigger? The reason I'm asking this question he... (78 words)

Her mum knows we got up to things in the bedroom, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Well as I write this I feel sick. I was at my girlfriend's house today and we were upstairs in the tv room messing around. Her mum and 18 year old cousin were downstairs watching tv and we were aware of this. The plan was to keep on doing what we were doing, and if we heard ... (885 words)

I want him but I don't want to hurt her either, what should I do?

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14 July 2008 (?) age 18-21 - I have a boyfriend whom I loved at first sight itself but never had the courage to tell him. We remained best friends for 2years. I introduced him to my best friend. They soon fell in love with each other. I was shattered. I started avoiding him. He came after me and ... (126 words)

Do I stay single and struggle with my house and daughter alone or is there any way of saving the realationship with my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Please, please help. I have been with the most caring guy for over 10 years and have a beautiful child with him. Over the past year I have been looking at other guys in a way I shouldn't and craving the excitment that I feel I didnt have due to settling with this guy too ... (147 words)

Working through it, or break up. Your views please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I recently read a post on your site, it was from a man whose girlfriend had cheated on him and it was said that after 2 or so years he still hadn’t gotten over it. The advice on this site was if he hasn’t gotten over it in that length of time he wasn’t going to, so the best ... (154 words)

He has paid to download Spyware to spy on people's phones.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is going to sound like a really bizarre situation but here goes. I've been split up from my boyfriend for about 3 weeks. I never trusted him due to some of the things which had happened and this led to endless arguments, until I finished it 3 weeks ago. However... (240 words)

I need some help and support re sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 494 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - hello all ... I just saw the site , and i've found many serious and support comments and i have to thank you all ... About my problem : these 4 last months , i saw some bad changes in my sex with my gf , it comes before the time .. That makes my gf confused .. i try ot... (107 words)

I hurt her, and she won't have anything to do with me - will she ever give me another go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, i put a question up the other day about how to win my ex back back after hurting her. I never cheated or anything, i just emotionally tore her apart to the point she felt ill with worry. never intentional, i just always knew she would come running back, whenever we got into ... (1010 words)

I slept with a girl, then got a girlfriend the next day - now there are two girls, what do I do?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

14 July 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Right... Got a gf last night and slept with another girl at weekend. The girl at weekend slept with me at weekend and her mate asked me if it was just a one off or want a r'ship. I said I'm not sure, and I asked the girl if she wanted a r'ship and she wasn't sure. At t... (165 words)

What are the signs that he doesn't love you anymore?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

14 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there I've been married for about 7 years now and I know from what I've read from posts in the pasts and on other websites that some relationships reach a cool down point at this stage. But what are the actual signs that your husband doesn't love you anymore? He nev... (331 words)

I feel like we have a connection, but she's got a boyfriend. Do I tell her how I feel?

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Apologies for the long question, but I feel I need to enter details. Quick introduction. I'm having confused feelings over a female friend. I'm 18 she is 17 just over a year younger than me. She started in sixth form college (UK) the year below me. (I'm starting uni in s... (940 words)

I miss my ex so much I can't concentrate on work, help!

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i m a doctor living in mumbai . i have relation with a girl since 7 yrs but one day we went out to have some fun and get physical. next month this comes to know her family and that they asked her a quetion about all we done. that time i m not with her . and she told me that ... (145 words)

Emails from his ex make me seriously question his fidelity, please help!

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been dating a guy for months. He is amazing, we see eachother everyday, and i actually think I love him, so it hurts to say but i think that his ex, I'll call her Sara, and him and now secretly seeing eachother. He talks often about his ex's, saying they don... (227 words)

I've been attempting to have an anal orgasm, is it normal that sometimes it hurts a little during fingering...

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I am bisexual. And recently, I've been exploring my anus. I'm not old enough to buy lubricant (nor am I young enough to be a Freshman in High School) but I use lotion. I've been attempting to have an anal orgasm because I never had one before and when I can't, I'm still glad I ... (131 words)

Is my sex drive too high for a girl my age, as my boyfriend says?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I asked a question about my boyfriend's sex drive, but now I have a question about my own. My boyfriend (We'll call him Matthew) tells me that my sex drive is too high for a girl of my age. I'm eighteen and I find myself in the mood upward of 4-6 times a day. Sometimes mo... (68 words)

We've been together for about a year now and I always get confused about whether I like him or not...

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i've been with my boyfriend for about a year.. i always get confused if i love him or not but when im around him i always cant help but smile .. and get butterflies and always can't stop thinking about him .. i don't know its really werid but i always think that i don't love ... (88 words)

I think about my ex all the time, and I really believe I could die of a broken heart

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I was engaged to this guy for nearly 3 years. We had what u would call a fun relationship. We were always out n about doing things we loved. His mom eventually moved back in town and she didn't like me. We started having arguments a lot. He was always at her house and she ... (508 words)

Last night it was all love and hugs, and today he acted like he's not really interested

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - so there's this guy that i have had a thing for for about 10 months now. i finally admitted to him about two days ago that i've had a crush on him for awhile. he said he could see things working between us in the future. so last night, i was with him and a couple of other ... (138 words)

I like a man 14 years my senior - what should I do? I can't keep my mind off him.

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - In my job I have met a lot of people. I first met "tony", the manager of a different department, when I was cleaning. He struck me as odd and quirky but I was not attracted to him. I thought he was good looking, but nothing more. Then one day I just started thinking about a ... (99 words)

I put in much more effort than my girlfriend when it comes to sex, what do I do?!

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I have been dating almost 9 months and when we hang out, sometimes we like do engage in sexual activities. I have found myself doing so much more than her, I pleasure her with hands and mouth, but she barely ever does stuff to me. I find it frustrating, but... (205 words)

My boyfriend always backs off when we are close to having sex.

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 and a half months and we're really close, closer than i've ever been to anybody. The thing is that I want to have sex, but he doesn't. the other thing is that we're both virgins! i understand where he comes from by saying we should ... (120 words)

How can I take my mind off my sick brother?

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - my oler brother is 16 and he has sickel cell cancer and has been in the hopital for 3 weeks what do i do to not think about him witout taking medication or drug or anything bad for my body ... (40 words)

What do I do about my posessive boyfriend?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I have this problem... the thing is I really care about my boyfriend... but he's can be a little possesive... He doesn't like me being around my friends because he says I act different around them, basically I don't smother him with affection when they're around. Is that ... (171 words)

I don't want him to think he's the reason I don't want to have sex, what do I say?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He is the sweetest guy ever. He is always thinking of me first and buying me things when i dont expect it. We've talked about having sex. I love him more than anything but I'm not sure if i want to have sex yet. I want to tell him ... (107 words)

I feel like my friend doesn't value our friendship.

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - i have this friend a he treats me like crap when he's with his other friends, were always fighting it's like he doesn't value my friendship. but he's the closes friend al my other friends live like a mile or more away and i'm only 13 but i want to know if u think i should still ... (63 words)

I'm still in love with my ex, how can I win her back?

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Ok, so.... Here goes. I've been split up from my ex for a while now, around 6 months, and i want her back. I was desperately in love with her and i still am. There's a hitch though. We haven't talked in those six months (she's since changed her number so i the only way i could ... (240 words)

Why do I push my boyfriend away when we're together?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is it that I push my boyfriend away when he is near me, and then when he goes (we live far apart) I start missing him and loving him more and wishing he was here? Am I just afraid? I've only been in abusive relationships and he is the first nice guy I have dated.... (56 words)

Are all these things signs that he likes me?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey! There’s a little problem that I have that I probably have put off for too long. Here goes…. So there’s this guy at school who is (or at least in my opinion) a great guy. He’s cute, super smart (and I should know- he’s one of the smartest person in our AP classes), really ... (1534 words)

I think about my ex more than my husband!

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Well i'm 18 years old married had have a baby that's almost 4 months old. Me and my husband have been together a year and a half but only married 5 months. Throughtout our whole relationship I have always found myself talking to my ex. He was my first everything. So yes i still ... (120 words)

I've started getting into girls, but I have a boyfriend. How can I get over this?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi i could really use some help. I am a teen girl who has been in a relationship with a guy for a year and 6 months. Lately i have this thing for liking girls, but not like my friends and stuff. I like to watch girls kiss and have sex on youtube. What is wrong with me and how ... (76 words)

My boyfriend is showing naked pictures of me to his friends, what do I do?!

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i'm 13 years old and i had sex with my ex-boyfriend and mow he's showing picture's of me naked to his friends what should i do... (26 words)

Is this teacher going too far? What should I do?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ok it all started on my birthday when i texted my teacher mr.p. when he told me happy birthday and told me i was legal in some ways. i asked him wat short of ways and he said you can date older men. i told him older men like who you? so he basically told me that he liked me and ... (85 words)

How can I be a good mother to my daughter?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well now. I have a question for parents. I ask for parents because its easier said than done. I can give the best parenting advise but can't seem to perform. I am the only parental figure my daughter has now or has had her whole life. My main question is will it get better or ... (461 words)

My boyfriend gets jealous easily but expects me to put up with his flirting, what do I do?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have recently ended my relationship with a guy i loved with all my heart,due to the way he mistreated me and constantly accused me of cheating. i accept i hid the fact that i txt a male friend from my past this was due to previous accusations also from my past that my ex alwa... (315 words)

Why is this guy ignoring me?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am looking for advice on why a guy would ignore a girl. I recently found out that after a 'complicated' friendship with this guy ( we became good friends, hooked up a bit then faded apart to friends again), i find out he's ignoring me, not touching me, not texting me back,... (65 words)

How can I cope with putting my cat down? She's like a part of the family.

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14 July 2008 (?) age 18-21 - I know this probably isn't about relationships per se... It's about my cat. In my family, we just adore her! She's been with us for 9 years, almost 10, almost half of my life (I'm turning 20 in a few months)... Well, she's old now. And she's having some health problem... (174 words)

I have some questions about fertility drugs!

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone i am 19 years old and married, i have been trying to have a baby with my husband but it has not happend yet i have been going to my doctors and she feels i need clomid, i have been trying to figure out things from the internet but i have seen plenty of diffrent ... (90 words)

Some questions about having sex...

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - okay so i know alot of peolpe are goin to think me and my girlfriend are to young but we feel that we are ready for sex.so im very nervous and have a few questions and im hoping for some good answers please and thank you. okay so my first question is its my first time and i... (121 words)

I don't understand, does he love me or does he just want sex?

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14 July 2008 (F) age 26-29 - Will men say I want to f**k you to the women they love when they were so turned on? My b/f and I are living far away. But we have phone sex or even video sex. While I showed my body on the camera to him, he was so turned on but could not touch me as we were talking from phone. ... (136 words)

How can I stop this infatuation?

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Bizarre question...but I really need advice on how to stop my fascination with this girl. I started Uni 2 years ago and have since become infatuated with this girl that is on my course. I literally think of her, and stare at her, all the time. But we are two *completely* dif... (148 words)

Will this help my sister get pregnant?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello cupid and friends here, first thank you for giving time reading this letter of mine., just wanna ask some information. its about having baby or getting pregnant. my sister was married for already 3 years.both husband and wife are doing great they are already old enough ... (168 words)

Are there ANY relationships that work out?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I stumbled across this site looking for some advice...and came out quite discouraged =[ Does anyone know of a functional relationship? Of a healthy marriage in which mistakes are made but forgiveness is extended and the love is still strong? Does anyone know of a couple... (101 words)

I've known him since kindergarten, could he like me?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Okidays, i know its wierd but i've liked this guy sense kindergarden. Okidays I've always had the feeling he likes me back but never really sure.The other day i saw him in the first time in like 4 or 5 years. And We both admited to being shy flirters and we connected like no ... (159 words)

Why is he being so mean? And how can I move on?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh Please Help Me! How do you get over a bf of three years? You all told me before to get rid of him - I did then went back and now we are not talking - I found out he was on those sex sites telling women where to meet him when he is out of town - Made me sick - I asked him if ... (578 words)

I want to get back with him, but I'm scared of rejection.

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - please help me i dont no what to do. I lost my virginity to a boy when i was just 13. i new him as he only lives round the corner from me and have liked him 4 ages .. 3 years later we got together we was in a seriouse relationship. But recently he told me he didnt no what he ... (111 words)

All my friends talk about oral sex - but I don't know what it is!

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - What is oral sex? I am too young to even think about having it, I just want to know because everyone knows and I don't. So when they talk about it I just have to go along with it, and what if one of these days they ask if I know what it is...I wouldn't know what to do. xo... (66 words)

Is she embarrassed by my age?

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello to you, I've been seeing my girlfriend for a year on Tuesday. I love her with all my heart and soul. The thing is, I've just turned 19 and but my girlfriend 34. She has been divorced for 4 years and has two children. A boy whose 12 and a girl whose 10. I love her ... (241 words)

I'm feeling distanced from my girlfriend, what do I do?

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14 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girfriend and i have been together for around 5 months. But we have been kind of dating for around 8 or 9. In the past month i have felt a lot of seperation from her to me. I work all day come home and only want to be with her. She is all i think about. She tells me that she ... (229 words)

What is phone sex, exactly?

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14 July 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I feel very stupid asking this but I really wanna know. What is phone sex? I know you deffinately can't have sex over the phone, I'm not that stupid. But a lot of my friends are just saying it and I'm sooo confused.Can anyone help? Thanks3 Renee... (55 words)