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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I do to not be such a party pooper?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This may be a stupid thing to ask, since most of the questions are about relationships, but this does have to do with my relationships with other people. For the past few years, I've been living in London (recently moved to UK). The whole partying on friday night and consta... (448 words)

Is he really the one stealing pictures?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. I met him online and love him dearly, but I'm not sure if the pictures he's shown me are real. He told me that a lot of people have stolen his pictures on myspace, is He really the one stealing the pictures?... (51 words)

When is a good time to give a hand job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - when is a good time to give a hand job when you two are lying down? or when your both sitting up and any tips?... (29 words)

Do I go for love or for security?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was having a relationship with a guy for a year and i broke it off due to problems with my ex. I am now with someone new who is very fincially secure but I dont find him sexually attractive and I keep thinking about the guy who i was seeing for a year. Do i go for security or ... (61 words)

Why would a lad show all the signs he likes you but then claim he doesn't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok quick question. Why would a lad show signs he likes you, constantly stare at you and really show he has feelings for you and then when hes asked by afew of the girls friends, who one of is his friend to, he says he doesnt? And then once he's found out the girl likes him to h... (143 words)

Am I giving this widower enough space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age - Like another problem I read earlier mine is similar. I recently met a man who was only widowed two years ago. He flies off the handle quite quickly and seems to take offense easily when none is meant. Its understandable when he saw his wife slipping away over the years an... (226 words)

The love has faded between me and the woman I've lived with for 13 years. I like somebody else. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 29 year old male and i have been with my girlfriend for 13 years she is also 29..we live together we own a house but for the last 3 years we have not been gettin on..we have split up on various ocations and then got back together, i care a bout her alot but we both have ... (254 words)

My best friend won't get help over losing a baby. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - please help nothing is working!! I posted here yesterday about my friend who lost a baby his time last year - her boyfriend of 3 years moved back home to tunisia about 1 month a go she only told me about losing the baby yesterday! I really dont no how to help her she has... (250 words)

Is the any way to get over the anniversaries of our meeting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I don't really know how to think and feel a moment. It's been just over a year since my first love left me, and just over 3 years since I first met her face-to-face (we met over the internet and had a long distance relationship for 2 years). Getting past the "dumpin... (173 words)

He seems to have no sense with money or doing essential paperwork. Should I give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for a year and a bit now. I think just over 16 months, in fact. Through the last school year, I stayed for my last year in high school, while he went to Ottawa. I have no doubt that he stayed faithful, or anything, but while he was there... (333 words)

I feel my lover is slipping away from me because I can't open up to her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a lesbian relationship with the love of my life but i cant open up to her which causes her to do the same thing. i find myself being very hypocritical towards her but for some reason i cant open up what should i do? a feel like she is slipping away... (53 words)

15 and never been kissed - but it's going to happen real soon!! Please tell me exactly what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - im 15, ive never kissed a guy before, and im dating an "experienced" 17 year old. im not worried about things moving too fast, i actually want them to move faster! we've been dating for 2 weeks now and i really want that first kiss. how do i get him to kiss me or should i just ... (81 words)

What does a man mean when he says he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age - When a man says he doesnt want a relationship what is he actually saying - as such. Does it mean he just wants a one night stand or he wants to see me along with anyone else he chooses to or what??? Or does it mean he doesnt want a sexual relationship with ME?... (56 words)

My boyfriend and I were together, broke up, got back together, and then broke up. Is there any hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i were together for about a year and living together for about 8 months. we had recently broken up for a week and then got back together. everything was great at first i mean we were gonna get a new place together and he was so loving then things changed and ... (306 words)

She is going away to college and I want to tell her how I feel before she goes. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl at work about 3 weeks ago, she is 18 and I just turned 23. I am very attracted to her and we get along well. Unfortunately she is going away to college in about a month and i dont know the next time i will see her. Although weve flirted i havent said anything ... (109 words)

Sex.. is it all right to turn him down during that one week of the month?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im sorry if this is innapropriate but am i right in this? ive been with my boyfriend for just over 8 months now, we started going out in december and we lost our virginities to each other in march. we both felt we were ready and it was the right thing to do. we were both legal ... (312 words)

Every lad thinks I'm ugly and its really getting me down. Will I ever find a boyfriend??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

11 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so Im 15 and every lad I know thinks Im ugly. Even the ones who, themselves never get girlfriends, call me ugly. It really, really gets me down. They dont count my personality or how well we get on for anything. I DO have a nice body and my boobs are of decent size (34D) ... (182 words)

I am very unhappy with my boyfriend's actions towards me, please give me some advice, I can't stand this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so confussed on what to do. The problems is my boyfriend is a super against me drinking, cause i got drunk like last month and he got super ticked off! so now anytime im not with him and im with other people he gets worried and starts to freak out! i havent drank in a month! ... (174 words)

We are on a team together, she treats me terribly, I don't know why, any suggestions, as to why she behaves this way towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

- Thanks in advance to any help anyone can give me here as I am at the end of my rope. There is a woman on my volunteer'team' who is giving my quite the run for my money. She can be pleasant but can turn on a dime and she is more apt to do it in front of friends and peers. I ... (223 words)

She's shy, we have talked on-line, but not in person, going to ask her out on actual date, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I have known for a while, I met her through a friend and our friendship built online. Eventually me, her and our friends would have to go out together as friends...and apparently she had the hots for me which made everything awkward. She was so shy she didn't ... (116 words)

I moved, my boyfriend strayed, haven't heard from him, can't get him on the phone, I'm sad, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a 2 yrs relation. 2 monts before i changed my place and shifted to a new state for a better job. just a day before my birthday this month my bf told me since i left he is feeling a bit attracted towards a college of his but he still love me. i smashed the phone and next ... (136 words)

We two girls had very rough sex, now my stomach hurts badly, what could be the problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i had lesbian sex in i got fucked pretty hard in i tummy has been killing me wats rough with me... (23 words)

I promised my girlfriend a great gift, for her birthday, but I have no idea what to get her, please help me with suggestions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Its my girlfriends birthday coming up and we have been together what will be 2years in November. Stupidly I said to her that I will get her something really good for her birthday, now as it's getting closer she is starting to get excited by what I have instore for her. But I ... (111 words)

We are in love, but live a long, long way from each other, what do I do,she is supposed to come to see me, I am torn, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently emigrated from the UK to the other side of the world. Back in the UK I had become very close to a girl, who became my best mate. We clearly had a "thing" going on and people would often mistake us for boyfriend and girlfriend. We developed really strong feelings for ... (461 words)

I am in need of a website, or magazine, which show different hairstyles, can anyone help me, thanks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i really want to get a new hairstyle. i have been growing my hair for quite sometime and am wondering weather or not i now want long hair. i dont really have a clue about boys hairstyles aorund my age and have been trying to find a website or magazine that shows them but h... (80 words)

Had great chemistry with him, but he was a cheater, will I find someones else who I connect with, as I did with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for a year. we clicked and i thought he was the one.although he consistently cheated i was sure i was the one. anyway i recently ended it coz i couldnt take it anymore.we had so much chemistry though i cant help thinking ill never have that with anyone else ... (82 words)

This girl acts very strange towards me, does she like me or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - well i dont know how to word this right but this year when i was in school i would sometimes talk to this girl and sometimes she would flirt back but then recentlly she just randomly yells at me to "shutup" and "no one likes me" and it was all random and mostly happens when im ... (67 words)

He looked right into my eyes... How do I get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so theres this guy I saw once or twice and he looked gr8. And I've heard that he has a gr8 personalety. So last night we went to this show were he was like a 'model'. And when he posed he looked right into my eyes. Even though i dont know him I would realy like to get to ... (66 words)

Can I be a player and possibly cheat, without hurting anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - when i was growing up i had the status. of getting with girls. ppl called me a player but i wasnt like a slut.. i finally settled down and i got a lil soft but just not really a player anymore. now finally i have girls in my life.. and i kind of just want to have fun. but im ... (86 words)

I have multiple girls in my life, and I am confused, please help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - once a maid told me that i should have 5 girlfriends and i should pick which one i want to marry.. 1 is my first love . ex girlfriend . a lot of drama . she got wit my one of my bestfriends after i hooked up wit her friend. ive hit her before when i was young 14? was a crazy ki... (342 words)

I am 13 and think I am in love with my ex-French teacher, please, I need some good advice, thanks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I definatly love my french teacher and I do want to get into some kind of relationship with her...but I also know that it can put her job at risk... Should I tell her how I feel and take it from there, not tell her and carry on just being kind of friends... Some other inf... (281 words)

I think I've found the perfect guy for me. How do I get over my shyness and build a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a shy 16 year old girl but i have had bfs in the past. however this guys different. i really like him and a do believe we're perfect for each other. hes 17 and learning to drive just now, he thinks the world of me and that just makes me feel wonderful. we talk constant on ... (179 words)

Why does he want time to be alone? And why so suddenly? Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay this is a long story. I have a very wonderful man in my life and in August it will be a year. We're technically engaged but I don't know about that just yet. He's always been somewhat of a loner but we hang out 5 out of 7 days a week. It used to be less because we needed ... (437 words)

How do I get a job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey.. I've recently lost all the energy to do anything with my life. However, I got back from a trip visiting some friends for a week one week ago, and that was good. So now I'm just trying to work out my next step. I need to get a job and book some driving lessons. ... (161 words)

I spoke my mind and now we're "just friends". Should I give it more time, or end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I am [or should say, was] with a highly oversensitive and passive-agressive guy. It got very serious fairly quickly, and stayed that way until I mentioned that I hated someone he was close to, and a week or two later said something else without thinking that he took seriously. ... (145 words)

What shape of mouth is most pleasing to European men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do most Europe man likes a woman with a big mouth or a cherry mouth ? In my opionion ,most men in China likes a girl with a cherry mouth ,because it accord with the aesthetics in China. And I know that a world-famous model called LuYan in China who has won the runner-up ... (86 words)

Does my flat nose make me unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - 1.How do you think of a woman who has a flat nose ? 2.Will the man loves a woman with a flat nose? 3.Is it that women who has a flat nose can't be good temperament and succesful? 4.Is a straight nose so important to a woman's beauty? However,my nose seems flat . ... (112 words)

Can there be love BEFORE sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age - Whilst sex is an important part of life can a man fall in love with you before he has had sex or vice versa. I think ive fallen in "love" with a man but we havent had sex-is it possible I havent known him long but I do have these feelings BUT I havent slept with him!!... (93 words)

Will a teen boy accept a girl with braces?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Does anybody know if braces turn a boy off. I mean I'm trying to get a boy to notice me and like me, but with acne, glasses, and bad hair, braces aren't going to help me very much. It kind of lowers my self esteem on how I look. I just don't know if boys like that on girls, if ... (86 words)

Is anybody NOT cheating?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age - Does anyone know TRUTHFULLY of any couples who have never cheated on their partners of say over 5 years in a relationship. I despair all my friends are saying their partners are cheating not jsut the men women too. Is anyone faithful these days do you know any couples ... (115 words)

Should my husband take an overseas job offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Calling all Australians please... My husband (2nd) has lost his job in recent months and has not been able to get another one. He is very qualified, but due to current situation in country, unable to get employment, even though many posts unfilled. He has the choice to start ... (327 words)

Could this stunt help warm things up between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - Dated a girl long distance for a couple months, got rejected. I kept trying for a little while, but my advances were rejected... I'd rather not pursue her much longer and become too annoying. BUT, I had thoughts of sending her a singing dwarf telegram! Unlikely to win her ... (82 words)

I'm attracted to my instructor. Is there a chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, never knew I would post this. Actually, I have posted my case as an answer to one of the users and I'm sure there'll be people who will know what I'm talking about. For those who do not know my story, here goes. To start off, I am attracted to my lecturer. A... (373 words)

I've had a few sexual partners but I have never had an orgasm, now I'm getting worried. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old female, i've had a few sexual partners but i have never cum, i don't even know what it feels like. Is there anything wrong with me? My boyfriend doesnt seem to be bothered that i havent cum yet, but i keep thinking about it and i'm worried now.... (54 words)

I read his text messages. Is my botfriend seeing a prostitue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, so here's the deal. I've been with my boyfriend for just about 5 years - mostly long distance. About 2 months ago, I moved cross-country to be with him. We got an apartment together (and even a puppy), and I thought everything was going really well. So well, in fact, ... (338 words)

You may think that because I'm 13 - I don't know what love is, well I do, but I need help getting him back, please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 13 years old and im still in love with me ex boyfriend. you may think that bc im 13 i dont know that love is, well i do. he's always on my mind, just hearing hus name makes me want to pass out, and so much more. we used to go out. hes 1 year older than me in grade wise... (216 words)

How do I stop my husband eating himself to death? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help please! My husband of 6 years has recently been diagnosed with high cholestrol. And I mean very high. He had chest pains one night and turned out he was getting angina pain. And he is at high risk of a heart attack. He is only 41y old. It was such a shock. He is so young... (520 words)

I don't even like him watching television if there's a girl with a short skirt on!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfreind for 1 year and 3 months. i often argue with him because i have become so paranoid! he does'nt look at girls but my mind thinks that he is. i don't even like him watching television if theres a girl with a short skirt on or something similar! i am r... (85 words)

Is she or has she cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story!! Me and my gf have been together for 3 years now, and always been happy together till last summer. firstly, a while back, last summer, her pops was v. ill and needed looking after. She concentrated her efforts on him (too right) in nursing him. Obviously she di... (1030 words)

How do I get back into work with a 10-month old baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. im having a career dilemma. ive got a 10 month old boy and i really want to start working. but the thing is i want to work from home and have my own hours. im really interested in writing, but dont know how to start, you know maybe be an agony aunt or write a book etc. any ... (64 words)

Should I go to the doctor? Could I have a chest infection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im just wondering does anybody know the symptoms of a chest infection? ive been getting headaches, earache, toothache, feeling weak and going dizzy, getting extremeley tired off doing literaly nothing! i keep getting short of breathe and wheezing a lot and coughing constant... (89 words)

I'm struggling to "get it up". Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi im 22 years old have had a good sex life up to about 3 months ago and I now struggle to get it up. I had a girl I was seeing for a bit very good looking and we both liked each other alot and it just wouldnt happen it did sort of a couple times but lasted a very short time ... (93 words)

I hate myself for cheating, but I cannot seem to stop! I need to understand why I am doing this...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i know people will have little sympathy for me but I cannot stay faithful. My parents died when I was 3 and I was raised by my aunt and uncle who never really had much time for me. They were'nt affectionate and in some ways seemed to resent I had invaded their life. They... (206 words)

We had a quarrel via the phone and now he switched his mobile off. I am tempted to talk to his mother, help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically ... I was going to meet up with my boyfriend today. 10 minutes before I get on the bus, he calls to tell me that he's not ready, and wants to put it forward by a day. We see each other every 2-3 weeks. I flipped ... kinda, I was probably over-reacting. I'd been rea... (153 words)

I feel unhappy and depressed and counsellors never helped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have felt bad for most of my life - perhaps since I was 8yrs old. I have seen many many counsellers, shrinks etc over the years which has never made a difference. I did try using prescribed medication, anti depressants etc for a little while but again that made no difference. ... (130 words)

We have a LD relationship but his ex contacted him and he confessed me he still loves her. Should I wait to see what happens or set him free?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend so much and he knows it. We're in three month in our long distance relationship. He had a girlfriend who is in other country when he courted me. He said their relationship was over since the girl never communicated with him since she left. I trusted ... (281 words)

I am with somebody else but still think of my ex, who was very unstable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with a guy for about a year and a half. I my eyes he was totally gorgeous (never seen anyone I have been more attracted to) for the first 6 months everything was great then out of the blue he dumped me. I was heart broken but what can you do? he told me ... (220 words)

She said she had been "forcing her feelings" to try to make it work. Is this possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering, is it possible for someone to fake feelings because they want to be with someone. I was seeing a girl for about three weeks and she seemed very into me...lots of texts saying how much she liked me, etc. She stayed over at mine on three occasions and we seemed ... (203 words)

Love at first sight. I screwed it up! Now I need help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, Thx for reading this! I got to know of a sweet girl at school and I really liked her. I've been praying for a chance to meet her and I DID! She gave me her no. first, I did so back. It was magical. However, I texted general smses like how are you and nveer dared to a... (129 words)

Should I stick to my plans to save myself for marriage?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few days, I have had a pretty high/medium sex drive. Currently, I am 17, and I've only had one boyfriend - When I was 14. I'm still a virgin, but I find myself wanting sex. My plans are to save myself for marriage, but lately, I've been thinking differently. I d... (297 words)

What is my girlfriend's behaviour all about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

- My G\F does the following * Criticizes the mess i make in bathroom before i have chance to clean up * Criticizes how I prepare food, wash up, dry etc * Gets irritated if i leave a cup on table without coaster * complains if i get crumbs on the chair or spill anythin... (166 words)

Is my relationship currently on track for destruction? Should I continue along with it in case not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for the past 2.5 years. Of late, I find myself feeling very frustrated and confused by the idea of what it will be like to be in our relationship for the future. Frustration with one another and arguments with each other have been cyclic parts of ... (455 words)

I only get turned on by prostitutes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

11 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have always have had sex with prostitutes, but never with a "normal" woman. I just don't get turned on by normal women. only prostitutes turn me on. Is there any thing wrong with this? Am i supposed to have sex with hoes the rest of my life? I have never had a normal sexual ... (65 words)

I'm hurt that he didn't tell me about his promotion.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I love so much, he's in the Air force and on assignment some place else. I found out he's being promoted and yet although we communicate often he didn't wanted to tell me. I had to founf out by a web page! We just emailed for this 4th of July and he didn't mentione... (159 words)

Can you get pregnant the first time you have sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - can females get pregnant when they have sex for the first time? ... (12 words)

We had sex, then he got mad at me and I don't know why!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll make this short and simple. I met a guy recently. I fell for him straight away. He had gorgeous eyes, and an amazing personality. After we met, we constantly called eachother and always wanted to see eachother. Well, that was all before a week ago, when we had s... (375 words)

I won't have an opportunity to lose my virginity until I'm 18, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 turning 16 this year and my mom got a job in Bamfield and there is nobody under the age 25. I come back to my home town for 1 week of the month. Ill be 18 when i come back permenantly. Im dont want to be 19 and a virgin. I dont want to lose it to just anyone. What ... (66 words)

Is it normal that I'm only attracted to older men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm only attracted to older men... like 35-65. I have never been attracted to anyone my age. Is this normal? If not what's wrong with me? ... (35 words)

How do I have a 'serious relationship' with someone?

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this boy really like each other, we have for a while and I really want to be with him. The only thing stopping me is the fact that i've never really been in a serious relationship as I tend to get worried and never accept if someone asks me out. How do I have a ... (65 words)

Is she jealous that she saw me with another girl, or is she just not interested?

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi World, My name is ****. I don't normally post my problems on the internet asking the world wide web for their perspective on complications in my life. In fact, I grew up being the one giving advice to others about relationship problems for the most part. I started work... (265 words)

I'm concerned, is it normal for a guy to still have a few feelings for his ex?

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a concern: Ok i hav dated my bf for a year now. Back in January he told me he still had some feelings for his ex (the reason y they dindt work out was cuz they cudnt get married..our culture is diff -- we ask parents approval and her parents said no. They still talke... (591 words)

How can I move on when my ex and I share the same friends?

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This past year in college I became really good friends with a guy who is in my close circle of friends. One thing led to another and we became more than just friends, it turned into a "title-less" love relationship. We both had very strong feelings for one another and were ... (291 words)

How do I tell my sister I don't like her husband-to-be?

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My older half sister is getting married for the second time in just a few weeks. Me and my younger sister are not very happy about it. We were very much attached to our original brother-in-law. (who we have had zero contact with for the last two years) To add, she is getting ... (108 words)

I think there is something going on with my friend, how can I help?

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11 July 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone can help here. I have a very good friend who I am worried about. She went through a divorce last year. Her mom is in a nursing home and she insists that her mom will not last the year but her mom seems fine. More troubling is the fact that she has quite a few ... (182 words)

Do guys like it when girls 'squirt'?

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! Wondering if you could help me out here, last night my boyfriend and I were being intimate and he was giving me oral, all of the sudden I climaxed. The problem here is that as I was finishing I 'squirted', that's never happened before. I was so! embarrassed and even... (89 words)

He played with my emotions for too long, so why do I still feel like he's 'the one that got away'?

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a FWB relationship with a guy that turned out to get very complicated. Our timing was never right and although we had feelings for each other we never got our relationship under control. I feel like at different times we truly loved each other but we couldn't get it ... (709 words)

My ex girlfriend is always trying to make me jealous, sad, hurt my feelings!

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, i have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 years now. We are high school Lovers. Are relationship has been really good. Until about a year ago. She cheated on me 2 times. And im the guy whos been faithful about this relationship in the past 6 years. Recently on a car ... (135 words)

I really could use some help at the moment and she let me down!

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I've been having a really hard time lately. My Dad had a serious operation and isn't recovering so well. The doctors say he's going to be fine but I feel sick with worry. Also I recently lost my job and need to borrow some money to pay for my rent. As you hav... (271 words)

I feel like wrecking my family could be the worst thing I could possibly do but I cannot force myself to fall back in love with my husband.

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - To make a long story short, I feel like I got married too young and for the wrong reasons. Today after several years of marriage and 2 small kids, I feel the man I married isn't the man he used to be after he seriously betrayed my trust. I know I am very emotionally unattached ... (240 words)

How can I overcome my nerves?

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - im going on a date with my girlfriend this saturday and i really need help! im thinkng of kissing her . jus like a small kiss to show her that i love her but i am practically famous for my nerves and i need advice on what to do! someone plase help! ... (54 words)

How can I ask this girl out without scaring her off?

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - this girl in my school is a year younger than me. She is single. I speak to her on msn, and she tells me about her problems. I want to ask her out, but i do not know the first step without scaring the crap out of her! Do i talk to her more first? How? I never see her because ... (67 words)

My friend keeps wanting to hug me - does she like me?

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend keeps insisting on goin to watch a movie. She than states she would like to hug me throughout the film. Does she like me? She tells me about this other guy she likes yet she talks to me like she does.... (44 words)

I need opinions - does he like me?

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Once a week, I go shopping in my favorite store. Well, you see, there’s a guy that works there and I really like him. He doesn’t look too much older than myself. He always says ‘hi’ and I smile and say ‘hi’ back. I’m quite shy, and I think he may be too, so nothing else ... (229 words)

I want to please him, but I have NO idea what to do!

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 20 and my boyfriend is 19. its embarrassing but i never thought i'd find someone to be close to and i love him deeply. i never thought about sex because i thought no-one would ever like me and now that i'm with my boyfriend i've realized it scares me a lot. i don't like sex ... (93 words)

Why are my friends so obsessed with my girlfriend and I not being touchy-feely?

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months now. We are both still in high school and I can't help but ignore the constant chatter by my friends. Every single one of my friends (both friends who are single and some who are dating also) continually tells me ... (163 words)

I need some pointers on giving love bites!

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone just needed some help... as i shy to ask anyone else... ive been with my partner for abt 10 months now and we really enjoy being with each other... recently we became physical and took the next step... he left me love bites all over my neck and they felt amazin... (109 words)

This is ridiculous! Should I cut my losses and just go?

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 34 he's 30. Two years together just the other day. haven't moved in no sign of marriage. Do i cut my losses and just go. Have tried to walk away before this but he won't hear of it yet won't change it either by doing things like move in or get married. I feel trapped in a ... (115 words)

Did I miss my chance to be with a wonderful woman?

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11 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am divorced. recently had a woman visiting me who is married to someone i know. they are going thru some tough times in their marriage, she also told me that they had not slept in like 7 months. It got hot and heavy and she literally threw herself on me. But i felt very ... (134 words)

Geek gets love, popular girl gets lovesick!!!

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is how it is, i met this awesome guy named R.E. at school, and him and my bestfriend were going out when i met him, but then he broke up with her and me and him started going out, but i had a boyfriend that was on the football team and he was a HOTTIE, and i was willing ... (288 words)

My 12 yr old sister told me she likes a senior guy in school, but don't know what to say to her. Please help.

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone..well my 12 year old sister told me that she likes this senior guy in school who is grade 10..my sister is in grade 7..being an elder sister she looks up to me..i dont know how to handle the situation. i told her its just a crush and that she will get over it but ... (89 words)

He's nince but he makes me feel reeeeallly bad, I hate myself when he doesn't pick up!

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody, :)... or should it be :( First i have to say the person who thought of doing this site for people for free is like an angel, thank you. Well it's a number of questions, i'll through them all together. I'm someone who so much beleives that when you h... (464 words)

Am I reading more into this FWB relationship? I'm seeing some signs...

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11 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in involved with a FWB, but when we are having sex he makes constant eye contact with me or starring at me and cuddles (I’m generally not the cuddle type), also whn we have spent the night together, sleeps holding on to me like I was going to try to run away. For backgrou... (176 words)