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Archived questions from: July, 2022 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Have I romanticized him too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 624 days ago

31 July 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I've been talking to this man from Greece for a year now. We've met online and we both like each other and planning to see each other in Christmas since he's coming to the US to see me. This man is sweet, kind and respectful, sometimes too good to be true. He showers me ... (522 words)

How undateable am I?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

31 July 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - A visited me at my mom's house this last weekend. I've lived at home for the last 10 years since graduating college. I work a full-time job, pay bills and repair things around the house where needed, and pay off student loan debt. I make about 35k a year at a small board game ... (259 words)

What time should 13 year old go to bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 July 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I live in the uk .. my stepson lives with me and his dad .. my son has just turned 13yrs old .. I just struggle to know what time bed time should be on a school night at the moment he goes at 9pm as he is a early riser say 530am/6am. And does a paper round at 7am then school ... (145 words)

Is he emotionally unavailable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

30 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex husband has been threatening me very badly for a few days now and last night he said he was gonna come over. I didn't wanna stay at home and my BFF told me to come sleep over at his place. My BFF and I are very close and we do a lot of silly flirting via text. He asked me ... (578 words)

Just a rant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

29 July 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - I just want to rant here. I get pissed off when I see post about feminist or whatever a man can do a woman can do better.I feel for men who are abused and feel for women who are abused too but majority of the women feel empathy more to the women.I get pissed off by comment ... (226 words)

Do I give office intern crushing on me a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

29 July 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I am trying to decide if I should give a chance (dating or sex, or both) to the male intern in our office who has an open crush on me, who I initially turned down when he so nervously but bravely asked me out, but who keeps proving himself such a gentleman and a better catch ... (1485 words)

I know he likes me back and there's sexual attraction but then why did he say that he's not looking for a girlfriend right now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

29 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So there's this guy I like and I know he likes me back. We can both feel the sexual attraction between us. We've been talking and texting for about 3 weeks now and we've got really close. He's not someone who texts a lot but since we've become friends, he texts me ever... (244 words)

Do I quit flirting with the guy at work?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

28 July 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - So there’s this guy that I work with and I have an incurable crush on him! the problem is that I don’t know if I should keep sending flirting signs or just give it a rest. I don’t know if he’s just oblivious and clueless or if he is simply just not interested. From what... (524 words)

Emotional affair has me wondering if I should walk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

28 July 2022 (F) age 36-40 - Hi all, I have posted sometime ago concerning being married and talking to a new guy. I decided that love is a choice and I needed to forgive my husband and work on our marriage. However, when I look at my husband, I feel like I am falling out of love. At my quiet times I ma... (327 words)

No trust is causing issues PART 2 (part on caused an error)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

28 July 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - Copied from original question) A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes: [add to watch list] I am really struggling with trust issues in my new relationship. I have been in a relationship with an amazing guy for 6 months. He did open up and straight aw... (244 words)

Repair things or walk away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

28 July 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for over 2 decades. We became best friends and a year later, we had fallen in love. It was wonderful. We shared everything together. Couldn't wait to see each other at the end of each day. We've been living together for half of that tim... (612 words)

Repeat wedding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

28 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice to see if I’m being unreasonable. I got engaged in 2019 and was planning to marry in 2021 as I found a beautiful venue that was out of budget but my fiancé and I had planned to work extra hard to save up as we both loved the place. I had my heart set o... (444 words)

I want to renew wedding vows as original wedding was tacky but husband refuses.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

28 July 2022 (F)

Am I taking advantage of a young man's ego unfairly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

28 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I am feeling a little guilty taking advantage of a young man's ego, but he is fully aware of the situation and seems perfectly OK with what is happening. I would appreciate some independent feedback even if it is critical of some of my choices. I am a part-time yoga i... (1353 words)

How do I leave hm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 638 days ago

27 July 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I’m looking for some relationship advice as I’m feeling like it is deflating. We’ve been together for almost 9 years and have a 3 year old son. Things first started changing when our son was 9 months old, we found ourselves in lockdown due to the pandemic so was constantly a... (431 words)

Will he toy with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

27 July 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - There’s this boy I like, let’s call him M. I met him through social media a year ago, and even if we live 400 km apart, I’ve managed to see him in person twice. We have talked a lot and have also sent nudes to each other. Then there is this other boy called K who likes M. H... (368 words)

Why has he not asked me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

27 July 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My male friend say things like you aren't going anywhere and you not like other women before he was saying the opposite he was to busy or he can't be boyfriend material because of his busy schedule now he's spending the weekends with me he has asked me out to have dinner we ... (134 words)

How do I keep from getting excited when kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

26 July 2022 (M) age 22-25 - About thirteen years ago, I stopped kissing girls because I always go hard during it. I really want to kiss a girl but it stops me. How can I prevent it when I kiss them? I am now 20.... (39 words)

I'm with a girl that is married but doesn't want to be and feels scared to leave

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

26 July 2022 (M) age 41-50 - Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a little over 6 months now she is married but haven't been together for almost a year he lives in a camper on the property and she lives in the house they have 2 kids a 16 year old daughter and a 12 year old son . He manipulates ... (279 words)

How do I get him to be like when we first met

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

26 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just entered into a exclusive relationship with a guy I've been talking to on and off for about 2 years. Everything was going well until he got into a car accident and totaled his car.We have officially been together a week. He's asked to borrow my car only go to w... (692 words)

Virgin repeat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

25 July 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I please ask opinions…. I’m a 39 year old virgin- despite being once married. I was bought up in a religious household where we weren’t allowed sex before marriage. I met a guy I fell in love with and he was happy to wait until after our wedding. Unfortunately I... (187 words)

39 year old virgin and afraid to tell men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

25 July 2022 (F)

Married six months and ready to call it quits

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

24 July 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Ugh I don’t even know where to start… My husband and I have been married for six months we met about three years ago. Both of us near 40 and ready for something real. You’ve moved in about six months before we got married. I am now pregnant and we are expecting our first ... (322 words)

Is this behaviour normal ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

22 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a guy to be in “love” with someone and start dating someone else within few days of a fight and completely giving up on their partner , saying they will try to be friends now. This guy I fell for had a fallout with me and got a new gf within few days. He was s... (556 words)

How do I reassure GF that I can wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

22 July 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - This question is mainly for the females I guess. So my GF asked me if I fantasized about blow jobs or hand jobs since we are not having sex for moral reasons on her religion which I respect. I admitted yes I fantasize about that stuff but then I saw she was like freaked out ... (616 words)

How do couples deal with different sex drives?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

22 July 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I am worried that my fiancé who is super patient now about sex will become unhappy over time if we get married and we do not become intimate more often. He has not said anything but I know he wants sex a lot more than we are having it now. His libido is through the roof. We ... (497 words)

90 and still going at it

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20 July 2022 (M)

age - OK to jackoff at 90 years old? ... (7 words)

Ghosted after 3 dates and sex. want him back.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

20 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I (33F) met my dream man (40M) in a dating app. He ticked all the boxes and I was smitten. We went on 3 dates and had sex twice. I never had sex before with anyone outside of an exclusive committed relationship so he was special to me. I know he is in demand and has a lot of ... (268 words)

My boyfriend isnt jealous at all. Is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

20 July 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - This is gonna sound strange and like I'm completely overthinking things, but my boyfriend is NOT the jealous type at all. I don't know whether or not this is a really good thing or if deep down he doesn't really care that much for our relationship. He just seems so laid back ... (345 words)

Husband cant be bothered

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

20 July 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - I don’t get much satisfaction from sex with my husband. I’m giving him his pleasure and feeling unfulfilled myself. I’m 51 he’s 55 years old. He will only say now and then do I want oral because this is the only way I can come and he knows this. It’s like I want to make him... (138 words)

Pros and cons of marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

20 July 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - As anyone ever done the pros and cons of a marriage. I did with my husband many years ago, he done the same with me. He done his he said because I told him I had done mine on him. I came up with more cons then pros on my list. I was surprised he had done his, I always thought ... (176 words)

I think my husband is cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 646 days ago

20 July 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - Mod note: op has written several posts about this previously. I rang my husbands boss awhile back to asked him if my husband was cheating on me with the office woman. My husband was away the night staying in a hotel with his boss and other work colleagues and he said he had h... (591 words)

Boyfriend stays with me most of the tije but says its too soon to move in. No help with bills!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

19 July 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so, this is probs going to be a strange one but here we go. So I’ve been with my boyfriend since Feb this year, met in November last year. For weeks now he has been staying at mine (I have my own place) to start with it was a few days a week but now it’s pretty much full ... (393 words)

My boyfriend always tries to throw me out when I try to communicate my feelings

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

19 July 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time we have an argument my boyfriend grabs all my things and throws them all over the floor and puts them in bags by the door and tells me to get out. He grabs me by the wrist and hurts my wrist trying to drag me to the door. This happens EVERY time we have an argument. ... (100 words)

How do I end sexual affair with boss who wants more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

18 July 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - I have created a really messed up situation with my regional sales manager at work. We both did wrong but now I am stuck and not sure how to untangle it all without damaging my future. Even though I resent some things that have happened I am also not interested in causing ... (1109 words)

No sex in 5 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 647 days ago

17 July 2022 (M)

age - My wife and i havent had sex in five years, i would like to try and get her excited enough to have a go, how should i approche the issue and will it hurt her after so long, iam willing to try anything.... (43 words)

Married unhappy and falling for another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 647 days ago

15 July 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Looking for advice Hi I am a married woman with two grown up children. My husband and I have been under pressure with various things going on I suspected he fancied other women at times which he didn't deny. We do try and work at out marriage.I an 12 years younger than him... (150 words)

Friends come first

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 651 days ago

14 July 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I shall try and keep this as short as possible, but my boyfriend does not spend any time with me. However, he will happily make time for his friends. We have been dating for a few years now and like many relationships, we had our honeymoon phase where we did things toge... (634 words)

Dont know if marriage can be saved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 650 days ago

12 July 2022 (F) age 36-40 - I am feeling so angry and hurt. I love my husband, as to why I still do, I really don't know. I want my children to have a household with both parents present. But is sacrificing my happiness worth it? In my marriage there have been happy times. But i do feel like the hurtful... (360 words)

I am not sure if I am ready to see him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 653 days ago

10 July 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I'm dating this boy Christian Bristol and we've been dating for almost 7 months and he's been telling me that he'll see me after he's done getting his truck fixed and he's also told me that he can't wait to see me. I don't know if I'm ready for him to drive all... (90 words)

Should I report my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 651 days ago

10 July 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in a quandary and would appreciate advice. For over two decades I've been friends with someone that I can no longer be friends with. The friend continually interrupts me and very often talks down to me, making me feel not good enough. I have really helped her but I h... (747 words)

Thank you for dear cupid

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 655 days ago

9 July 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Today is my birthday and I am happy to be in a new lovely country working at a dream come true organisation. I would also like to celebrate with all the wonderful people who make it a success, including this wonderful platform of advisors/counsellors. Life is so much ... (60 words)

Want a little bit more of her. I'm 14, She is 13.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 655 days ago

9 July 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - So, Lets start this simple. I am 14. She is 13. We have known each other for a while now. So Far we have just kissed, But I would love to get under her shirt. I am unsure if I should do this just yet. But I really want to... Please help. I love her to bits, She ... (83 words)

My boyfriend still speaks to his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 652 days ago

9 July 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - Background context; my boyfriend has told me he still occasionally speaks to his ex girlfriend via social media. They broke up nearly 3 years ago, mostly due to the distance (she’s Canadian, he lives in the UK). Although it was quite a volatile relationship he said it was also ... (300 words)

My mistress is now my life partner but she is always worried I will cheat on her. How can I get her to finally trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 658 days ago

7 July 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - I am going to need some help here. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 10 years. I met her as a married man, which is when we got involved. We both know having an affair was wrong so I won’t need critiquing on our past mistakes. We have lived with the fallout of ... (305 words)

Boyfriend does not seem interested in having sex with me anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 657 days ago

7 July 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all, Just wanted to post something and get it off of my chest and hopefully get a better insight as to what is going on. So, my boyfriend and I have been with each other for nearly three years and get on great. We moved in a few months ago and everything seems pretty ... (511 words)

Does my sister want my boyfriend ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

7 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is 6 years older than me. We have always been close but these recent years have been rocky. She's had some substance abuse problems which has changed her personality. She's become a liar and I've heard from outside sources that she has been talking about me to her ... (914 words)

Does he want a girlfriend or a babysitter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 658 days ago

6 July 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I started hanging out with this guy I met in college a year ago off and on. I was just getting out of relationship and although we discussed being exclusive briefly ;I never took things seriously. One thing led to another and we started having casual sex. Thin... (677 words)

Should I ask new BF to let me measure his manhood?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 657 days ago

5 July 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - There is a thing in my friend group right now where the girls are comparing their boyfriend’s size like a dare where everyone is supposed to personally measure it while their guy is having an erection. They have gotten very detailed with the rules on this. I am not even sure ... (421 words)

What do I do with ridiculously cute new straight friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 658 days ago

5 July 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - I am an openly gay 17m and I am very lucky to go to a school where there is a lot of acceptance and encouragement and I feel surrounded by allies. I was surprised especially how some of the notorious jocks and aggressively straight guys handled it. I think it says something ... (991 words)