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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Smitten with the Bartender...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Last night, Sunday, I went on a bruiser of a first date and ended up hitting it off with the bartender much more so than my date. The joint was almost empty so we were all able to make good conversation about music, movies, books, school, the works. Needless to say,we even ... (155 words)

I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?... (35 words)

My ex is taking my children on holiday at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My children are about to go on hoildays with their father and his new wife. They live on the other side of the country and at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number. There is no formal custody orders in place. The children have ... (92 words)

Newlywed's husband addicted to porn!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have only been married a few months now and have recently discovered that my husband is, what I call, addicted to porn. I didn't really bother me at first and he didn't know that I knew what he was doing. But as time has passed it seems he is A LOT more interested in the ... (175 words)

Still in love and can't understand why...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have not been in a relationship for over a year now, however, I am still in love and I don't see this changing. I've tried everything--seeing new people, being friends with my love, completely avoiding him, envolving myself in my passions--and it is to no avail. I do not ... (246 words)

I love being with him but not with the kids anymore? How can I make him see how his really bad parenting is affecting everyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together 3 years - he has two daughters who are 10 and 12 - I have kids that are a bit older - His girls are just totally obnoxious! He has asked me to help all along with them and they love me and I have tried to teach them manners and tried to instill ... (205 words)

I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever from my wife...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever. I don't look bad 210 and 5 11, a small gut but oh well. What is a man to do to get some sex back in his life? I have tried a lot of things with my wife, but nothing really changes, everything is just boring. Why do some wome... (78 words)

How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes already over it and that i have ... (185 words)

I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because he's sick. He has a heart ... (413 words)

Why won't he reply to my texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - There is this guy that I like and he likes me too. A couple days ago we exchanged phone numbers. Now he wont even text me. The first day I texted him and he replied. The next day I texted him and he never replied.... But I don't get why he has not called or even texted me.... (58 words)

What should I do? Just be his friend with no benefits, leave him alone...? What?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been hooking up with this guy for the past 7 years on and off. Last year I found out he had a kid. I did the math that sas in one of our 'on' moments. I still love him but it hurts still after all this time. Help! What should I do? Just be his friend with no benefits, ... (65 words)

Do any other girls masturbate to LESBIAN porn or is it just me???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - ohhmyygah! Even after trying to STOP I still masturbate a lot [once or twice a day] but the thing is I masturbate to LESBIAN porn! It gets me so... let's just say HOT, to watch girls doing things. [I'm trying to sound clean , lol] but anyway, if there's any girls my age [I'm ... (121 words)

I need advice on whether I should go out with a person I have been out with before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I went out with his girl for about 4 months but then we broke up, now she keeps sending me texts saying that we should go out again but I'm not sure if I want to anymore. I need advice on whether I should go out with a person I have been out with before!!!... (55 words)

If I break up with my girlfriend I'm afraid I will have no one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a girlfriend that I love. We have our good and bad times. We go to school and do everything together but now I think I should see other people because I'm not sure if she makes me happy as much as I make her happy. If I break up with her I'm afraid I will have no one... (107 words)

Can you be depressed at 14?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I havn't really had it easy when i was younger, but not exactly hard, the thing is, i always seem to be down, i barely eat or sleep[not purposly], i don't have any best friends, as we've all have our ups and downs, so we've all drifted apart, i have no look what so ever when it ... (228 words)

Has anybody had lazer hair removal or epil-pro hair removal and if so, is it any good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, Has anybody had lazer hair removal or epil-pro hair removal and if so, is it any good? Can you notice the difference?... How long do you have to wait to see any difference and any side effects? :) lots of questions.. please help xxx krissie... (52 words)

Am I really in love with someone else, or am I just looking for someone to fill the void within my present realtionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am in love with two great men. I am amazed to see the amount of people who are in a similar situation. I feel a little silly posting my issue like some personal ad but I really have no where else to turn. I have been in a relationship with my present boyfriend for about 4 ... (337 words)

My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. Questioning her why she left him for another guy? We have been engaged for about a month now and I am expecting his baby in May. Should I stay with him or leave before he hurts me more?... (48 words)

Why isn't he texting me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and this lad have been texting each other loads lately, almost everyday and sometimes even until the early hours of the morning! We've flirted loads and told each other private things. We've even talked about sex and things but he hasn't text me now for almost a week and ... (80 words)

Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i believe, emotionally confused at... (926 words)

I hate his ex and myself.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and how great in bed she was. At ... (446 words)

Opinions on my boyfriend and I's age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 18 and he's 27. When we are together, age is not an issue. We have a heck of a lot in common, and we are each very dedicated to making our relationship work. I will be telling my Mum about us soon, but before I do, I'd really appreciate your opinions on the age differe... (77 words)

He texts her and says it's to make me mad. Do you think this is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because at the time she was pregnant... (135 words)

I'm scared of telling him how I feel, which is strange as I'm always so open and honest. Can anyone suggest how I should handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- Hi, I dated this boy, for a year about a year ago. I ended rather unfairly; and hurt him quite badly. we were both 17 at the time. A year on, I've grown up a lot and am far more mature than I was then, I have suddenly realised that I may have made a mistake in ending it. ... (245 words)

He wants to marry me but I want to wait... Opinions please, what would YOU do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- Me and my boyfriend just got back together because I was missing him, we been together for two years. I know he loves me but when he drinks (which is like once a month) he don't know how to handle his self so I have to make him leave my house because he'll be wanting to fight ... (129 words)

Is she just scared to leave her boyfriend because they live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I have really liked this girl since she started a year ago but problem is she has a boyfriend of 5 years! Everyone knows that she is not happy and recently at a work function we somehow got together, this was great and she said that she felt the same way about me too. However I ... (76 words)

If I didn't have this scar, I'd be a different person! What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a very big problem. I have a boyfriend who loves me infact more than I love him. We've been together a long time infact I'm presently living with him but the problem is that I have a scar on my left leg. Hot water poured on me when I was about 3yrs and it has been ... (166 words)

Had my period twice in 2 weeks...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I had my period on Sunday and ended on Wednesday which is normal for me the the following week i started my period on Sunday and it still going on and its Monday now but this means i am having my period twice in two weeks what does that mean? the day before Sunday when i ... (75 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to marry me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I really love my boyfriend so much, we've been together for 4 months and i want to marry him, i dont know what to do about it, shall i ask him to marry me or shall i wait for him to ask me, or has it not been long enough for me to ask him yet?... (56 words)

A question about medical school, can anyone help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I finished my 12th this year and I am planning on entering the medical school.. but I am confused between mbbs(doctor)or bds(dentist).. so please tell me the pros and cons thank you!!!... (32 words)

Should I be her friend? She broke my heart...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I recently split up with my girlfriend. Ths split was mutual..i guess.? We had been going out for over a year and a half and the realtionship was a long distance one. We were great together, everything was perfect. We would see each other every 2-3 weeks, a month away at the ... (781 words)

My best friend (who is 14) has started smoking????? help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Well...... my friend smokes. Not a pack a day but every time she is depressed or she is in trouble she heads for the ciggarette. I don't know what to do. She doesn't understand that the only reason I'm nagging her is because I loe her as a friend and I don't want to see her ... (175 words)

I don't know how to trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 6 months now, we're best mates and in love and can't imagine life without each other. However I can't trust him, I'm suspicious he might go off with someone else all the time so I read his messages and check where he is and I... (129 words)

Can get her out of my head! I can't get myself out of my own head!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I live in the same apartment complex as a woman I work with. I have known her for a few months, and at first had no attraction to her. She had a boyfriend so it was not a problem. As the weeks progressed we became more flirtatious with each other. After a while we started... (368 words)

I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, I can't seem to get used to it as I was so used to all the space I got in the previous relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I recently finished with a boy I had been seeing for a year, we had been in a long distance relationship and we had been getting through it okay. But now that I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, I can't seem to get used to ... (82 words)

I fancy my friend, but my best friend is in love with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I fancy my friend, but my best friend is in love with him. What do I do. I can't just go after him and do that to her. If she only fancied him I wouldn't have minded but she is really in love with him. What do I do - leave it or go after him?... (57 words)

How can I get talking to him again without seeming too flirty and desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Recently I met this real charming guy, he seems like a nice guy and I want to know him better, when he tries talking to me I kinda avoid him, I don't know why I do that.. now he has stopped trying, how can I get talking to this guy again without seeming too flirty and ... (57 words)

How can I remove this unwanted body hair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - This question is embarrassing but I need some tips! well I suffer with excess body hair, which I think makes me ugly, and I hate it so much! The excess I really really really want to remove is on the back of my legs and my bum - what is the best way to do this? Shaving takes ... (93 words)

Is age REALLY a problem???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend is 15 and I'm 23, is this perfectly okay (although we have said no 2 sex until she is old enough) we are both very much in love she means the world to me. ... (36 words)

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

- Hello all... I will try to keep this short... :) I have been seeing this man from NZ for over a year now, and things have been great, we spent 9 days together and everything was amazing.. Anyways I recently got an invitation to a website called "tagged" and I joined bec... (384 words)

How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie on guys or sit on their knee. I am very shy so this can help a guy know I like them, cause I am too shy 2 say it. How else can I flirt?... (63 words)

When he says he loves me I just think he wants sex with me. I just don't believe in love anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've married my husband for 22 years and he treats me like dirt in the recent years and says he never loved me. I was hurt then divorced him. I met this man 18 years my senior who treats me very nice and always says he loves me. I can't believe it is real cuz I've been ... (95 words)

I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi. I need help. I masterbate quite a lot, but I'm getting bored of using my fingers. I recently rubbed myself against a teddy and it felt really good but I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys. thanks.... (51 words)

Is telling someone the only way to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have very deep feelings of affection for a teacher of mine and it's slowly killing me inside - I've already posted a question on this and everyone said to tell someone, but I tried to today and got too scared and couldn't speak. Is there any other way I can forget about him? ... (71 words)

Over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled into a routine.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm in a relationship that's just hit the 3 year mark, even though I'm only 17. We also live together with my dad and older brother. However over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled into a routine. I like to ... (174 words)

Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid My name is Joy11 and I'm 26 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He seldom tells me he loves me and I'm currently expecting his child and we're both very happy. Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling sometimes it rea... (64 words)

Do you think I am right in saying that I refuse to leave his house just because of his daughter having to entertain her aunt and uncle at my boyfriend's house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend's sister and husband are coming into town on the way back home. They want to see my boyfriend's daughter's new twins recently born. She lives in a very small cluttered house and she wants to entertain them at my boyfriend's home. I happen to live with him and ... (285 words)

I am female and I have really hairy arms and have 3 tatoos... specifically male opinions please.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey all, I would like to know the opinions of the males out there if I could please? My question is on the appearance side of things. I have really hairy arms (black hair), what do you guys think of this? I have just waxed them because I am sooo embarrassed about them and I ... (204 words)

Friend and boyfriend problems... help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, ok so my problems quite a big one and its got lots of different things in one, so please carry on reading thanks! I'll start with me and my boyfriend. He means the world to me I love him to bits. The thing is I know I'm too young so please don't just keep remindin... (484 words)

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

31 March 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi my problem is that I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy. One is my ex (we broke up a year ago) and another is a guy from the same place as us. We are all living in the same small town and they know each other well: they play soccer ... (274 words)