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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like I have missed out sexually, I'm now in a long term relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my Gf for 1year and 6months. We both gave our virginity to each other. However, when we first began to go out she told me about her past she hadnt dun much. All she did was kiss and have dry sex. But incomparison to me that was alot, as she was my first gf and ... (169 words)

Trying again with my ex, how should I behave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi,me and my girlfriend split up the start of febuary,she wanted a break as she was depressed and want to sort her issues out,we have stayed in touch mainly through txt,i saw her in april but it was to hard for me just going out as friends so i spoke to her and she said that ... (179 words)

Fortune teller predicted an early pregnancy ... and the condom broke.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my mother has recently had her tarrot read. It says about me going to have a baby when im really young. I had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke. What should i do?... (38 words)

Do some girls object to receiving oral sex

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - is it true that some girls dont like being eaten out?... (11 words)

My self esteem won't let me believe that this guy really likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have low self esteme and cant beleive this fella i like when he tels me he finds me really attractive. hes abit of a player and i dont know how to find out if hes telling the truth or not? any1 able to help?... (45 words)

I didn't know how good she was until she left. Now I want her back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with a girl for 2 years almost, we have both been very much in love with each other however i have never really showed her this, she has always though she loves me more than i love her to the point of her getting so worried she gets emotionally weighed ... (281 words)

My period seems overdue, but I haven't had sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been worried for the past few days. I've hd my period since March of '07 and I was 11 and now I'm 13. My periods have already regulated, I think. My cycle is about 23 days. The last time I had my period was June 3rd and I was supposed to have it in the end of June. ... (115 words)

Where do I "go" when I have to pull out?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is kind of a strange question but here goes. When having sex with an unfamiliar partner, where do you "cum" when you need to pull out? Is there some kind of ettiquette with this kind of thing? Seriously I never know what to do when that moment comes. Do I do it on the ... (110 words)

I'm 13 and really like him, but does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy. Every time i see him, I get a tingly feeling inside. It's makes me happy when I saw him. All my friends say that he stares at me all the time and once we were in town shopping, and he looked at me, checked me out, scratched the back of his head and ... (85 words)

I feel unloved in my relationship; I am beginning to feel depressed and doubt that things could change.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a vicious cycle for over 2 years. I feel completely unappreciated 50% of the time and I don’t know what to do. I do everything, care about everything and try so hard to make our lives beautiful. Not only does he not appreciate half of the things I do, but ... (210 words)

Is it friendship, or something deeper?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, it's hard to how to explain what i need to, theres this guy and basically i don't know if he likes me. he told me something only him and his parents know not even his best friends know so why me? and he cancelled seeing his brother in amsterdam to come to my birthday a... (220 words)

What can I do to stop his bold comments towards my "attractive" friend - without sounding jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend tells me that my best friend is super hot all the time.We have been dating for over a year and he always treats me good. He tells me I am hot too. While on a dinner date alone with him we talked about the night we all met the first time. He said my girlfirend was ... (213 words)

Should I tell my BF I slept with his brother or just break up with him without explanation? I feel so guilty!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with my boyfriend's brother. I know it was the worst way to cheat and I'm so scared of anyone finding out. I live with my bf but he's away a lot for his work (on a boat out at sea). His brother does the same kind of work (on a different boat) so I can't talk ... (291 words)

He says he can't accept my son and the predictability, when days before we were making plans to move together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some support. Although I have a pretty good support system of friends...I just need to hear it from other people, I guess. I was with a guy for over 2 years, on and off. We were friends for almost 10 years before that. Didn't have much touch through out the years. ... (743 words)

I can't bare the pain of deflouring, what to do? I'm only 14...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am only 14 nearly 15. i have been fingered a few times. the other day me n my boyfriend tried to have sex but i think im to tight. it really really hurts when he puts it half way in and i cant bare the pain i was nearly in tears.and i had to push him off me. what should i do.... (63 words)

She's found someone else while we've ben apart. Can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - When I lived in Orlando as an intern, I met a girl that I had a relationship with. We had the time of our lives there. I practictly moved in with her a couple of days after we met. A year went by and we had to say good bye to Florida, she went back to Idaho, and I went back ... (506 words)

The top of my penis hurts when I touch it. Am I normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 14 years old. And worried if masturbating every day is a problem, aslo whilest my foreskin is back the top of my penis hurts when i touch it. is this normal?? ... (32 words)

I don't want to be married any more. I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years. I have also been in a relationship with someone else for the past 4 years. I have come to the point where I don't want to be married anymore. The person that I'm in the relationship witb has a girlfriend also. I don't know if I want to be ... (89 words)

I'm feeling broody. Very broody. And I don't want to feel broody! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, single, never been in a relationship, and suddenly feeling very, very broody. I've never shown any interest in babies before, and in fact gone out of my way to avoid them whenever possible... Anything I can do to dispell this broodiness, because it's really ... (64 words)

If he has no feelings for me why would he take me on a trip with his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am going to start off by saying a little about my issue so you can get a feel of it and then you can tell me what you think. I had been dating this guy for about 10 months in those 10 months a found out a couple of lies he had told me. They were small lies ... (242 words)

Can men really be horrible to a woman they really like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age - I have read somewhere that soemtimes men CAN really seem as if they hate you and do everything they can to be nasty but deep down its becasue they like you. Is this true? Because I have to admit soemthing happend recently to make me think this could be. Some man was qui... (112 words)

I wanted to save our wonderful relationship but I didn't get the chance. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend just broke up with me three weeks ago. I've been in a relationship prior to her (long term, live-in) but this girl was different. My heart told me the entire time that she was the one for me - meant to be. I never even believed the idea of meant to be until I went ... (489 words)

Does he like me or his girlfriend? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for about four years. We have the same group of friends and often hang out all together. About three months ago, he broke up with a good friend of mine that we both hang out with. It kind of seemed like he started talking to me more after that. Around the ... (225 words)

We don't want to hurt anyone, but I love this other woman I met while separated from my wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and i separated last year due to ongoing issues within our relationship. I wanted to get back together but she didn't want to. I eventually started to accept this and try and move on. I ended up dating someone who I worked with. Shortly after this my wife decided she ... (119 words)

I had sex with my cousin, and now my period is three weeks late.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a HUGE problem. I have a great steady boyfriend of almost 4 months, and I'm pretty sure I love him. The problem is, one night i got really, really drunk (my first time drinking). I've always had a thing for my cousin who is a few years older and really goodlooking. ... (162 words)

My period is always regular. Now I'm 11 days late and I'm worried.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im almost 14 years old and i got my period for the first time in janurary 2008. i always get my period on time. but now its july and im 11 days late! this has never happened to me before and ive never had sex in my life! whats happening? is this bad? im scared!... (60 words)

What should my weight be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a sixteen year old female. I am five foot four inches. What should my weight be? ... (18 words)

I need advice how to find out if a woman is interested in me, without risking spoiling our working relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok need advice b4 saturday night am going on a work night out and the women whos going in frank i fancy the pants off her she 24 and am 19 (her x bf was 19 to so i dont think age will be massive issue and i am mature for my age)i wanna no if theres anything i can do to c if ... (216 words)

My Tampon Went Missing After Sex

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

- the other night i got blinding drunk and had sex with my new man, forgetting that I had a tampon in. Ok, I didnt "forget" but i was extremely drunk and just sort of didnt think about it. The next day I tried to get it out myself and was shocked to feel nothing inside me. I ... (145 words)

After Sex for Two Years, How Do I get Him Into a Real Relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 Years old and mature for my age.For the past 2 years i've been in a sexual relationship with a 21 year old neighbours son.I went to school with his brother. I'm really keen to get into a relationship with him, however ,sometimes, it feels like it's all about the sex. We ... (111 words)

Computer Trouble, Or Is He Ignoring Me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age - I met a man on my holiday and we said we would stay friends. At first5 he ansawered my e mails but now he isnt so I can take it as a brush off. However If I sent e mails and they werent getting to him would it come back as undeliverable or not neccesarily can they just get ... (101 words)

How Do I Keep My Ex Away From My Social Scene?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok , so me an my ex got together about a year ago. we spent a lot of time together, probably too much, but all that time was spent at his, at his mates ir driving him to and from his mates, i never had anychance to see my mates, when i did break the routine and go out,he w... (439 words)

My Guy Used to be on Sex Sites. Can I Trust Him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - can i just get people's opinions on this: If you'd been seeing a bloke for 6-7 months and you found out that previously (before he even got with you) he was registered on about 15 different sex sites, such as sexpals, quickflirt,sexsearch,marriedbutlooking, get laid tonight... (252 words)

How Do I Tell Her I Lover Her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. I've known this girl called "S" for about 3 years now. We're really close friends, and we're nearly always together. I see her every day at college, and at the weekends I'm usually around hers. Over the past year my feelings have changed towards her dramatic... (277 words)

How Do I Turn a Crush Into Friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I turn crush into a long lasting nonsexual friendship. Happily married with kids. Want a long-term great friendship that's not sexual. Hate to ruin it with tendency to want want extra attention from her. There's got to be a way to focus and treasure the nuances of ... (69 words)

How Do I Have a Good Relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need some advice. I am 27 and have never been in a serious relationship although have had many experiences, nothing had ever lasted. Last summer i had an affair with a married man which ended in Feb - this left me in a complete state and he really hurt me. I know i... (166 words)

How Do I Get My Girlfriend Interested in Sex Again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My Girlfriend has stopped wanting sex. It has been a year or more since she was last interested in sex. Nothing has come between us as far as i know and she doesn't want to talk about it. We are good friends and get along fine other than not having sex. We live together in a ... (128 words)

How Do I Tell If the Guy at Work Likes Me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i sent a post a few days back asking whether people thought the guy i like is stringing me along! (catch up for those who have not seen it - i work with this guy who i really like he has only worked with us for a few weeks but hed been working in our store before helping ... (412 words)

My Cousin and My Ex Are Talking About Me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi its me again i know still dont know what tod do But my mum told me when she was drunk last weekend that my cousin whos friend with my ex date had told him that i was beautiful but too young for him now I m just wondering how it came about did my cousin ask... (119 words)

Read text about my boyfriend and one of my good friend's relationship, now I am troubled, any suggestions how to deal with this pain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend since july 2006, but than when 2008 hit he broke up with me at least 4 times because he wanted 'time to do his own thing for a while', and guy stuff like that. So, during probbaly our third break up, I find out he slept with one of my good friends. ... (197 words)

Can you lose your virginity, due to a broken hymen, without having intercourse, and is sex painful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - 1. hi, ive been taking intense gymnastics and ballet training for the past 8 years is it possible that my hymen could have been torn already? 2. when u do have sex do u bleed? is the pain unbearable? 3. how many times do u have sex before u feel pleasure?... (55 words)

My boyfriend told his family I cheated on him, when it was the opposite, now they treat me badly, help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT PLEASE READ! im really confused about whether its a good idea to stay woth my boyfriend, we were together for 2 and a hlaf years and then 1 night i was out with my friends when one of my boyfriends friends came up to me showin me txts where my boyfrien... (282 words)

I am small chested, and concerned with my image, any advice for me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

8 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Well this is going to sound akward, but anyways, we were on a school trip a while ago and everyone was wearing vest tops and obvoiusly you could see the shape of there breasts and stuff - okay so that sounded totally strange! but I dont have much of a chest at the moment any ... (61 words)

How Do I Relate to a Sister Who's Always Critical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have only 1 sibling, I love her dearly. She is a couple of years older than myself. I feel that I have never been very close to her, we never talk much and if we do its never about anything important. She spends most of her time in a different part of the country with her ... (228 words)

How do I tell if he is seriously interested, or just being a nice guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started working in a place, where there are 100s of colleagues, but I am attracted to one particular person, who is very popular. We work near each other and are on friendly terms. However, I do not know if he is attracted to me, but he always compliments me ... (182 words)

How can I be there for my brother??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is more a question about how i can be there for my brother. My brother is 7 years older than me and has just split up with his girlfriend of 5 and a half years. He is moving back home tonight so his ex can find a new place which is close to her work. Tonight we are... (106 words)

Is there a significant difference in relationships, when you are in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this might seem like a stupid question to anyone that is reading but how do people say a comment like "I've never felt this way about anyone before" meaning strong feelings in a relationship, when they have been in love before? I have been in love several times and I can ... (130 words)

Depressed, unable to find a good relationship, how do I interact more and enjoy myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, im a 37 year old single female, im having trouble finding a man to settle down with, ive suffered from depression for nearly 20 years, and im wondering if that is my problem, ive been to see therapists and tried hypnosis, but nothing works, i also suffer with paranoia, ... (115 words)

Is this a big age gap??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and there's this boy that i really like but he's 16. We hang out alot and we always enjoy each other's company. but i want to know is it a big age difference? and should we stay friends and don't be more than that?... (46 words)

My bf keeps having mood swings!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im seventeen. my boyfriend has been having mood swings toward me , and he takes his anger for his family out on me, not only do i feel distant from him but i feel he is not the same person i fell in love with a year ago. we haven't had sex in two months. we don't talk like we ... (115 words)

What should I do next? Have I royally screwed it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - So, I havent seen or really heard from a guy I've recently been seeing in a week, save for a Happy Fourth! text message. After calling once and leaving a message on Sunday, I sent the following: "So, should I go through your secretary to schedule a date with you for the month ... (268 words)

My boyfriend always ogles younger girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age - Hi everyone! I have an ongoing issue, and I have sadly reached a conclusion. But I need input. My boyfriend is 12 yrs younger than me. I am 53 and he is 41. We have been living together for 2 yrs. The issue is that he ogles younger girls when we are out together. NOT a... (318 words)

I can't find a love partner at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear dearcupid website providers, I am very much excited to join you .I will discuss all my personal problems concerning relationships. Do you believe me if i tell you that until age 32 currently I do not have a love partner! This is due to my bad childhood experience. I did no... (142 words)

My boyfriend is sexually abusing me....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants to have sex with me.we already had twice this month.whenever he gets a chance,he starts fingering me.last night,he just pulled open my top and started sucking my breasts.he wanted my naked photos which i gave him.i never refused him cause i do not want to ... (69 words)

Clash of views on flirting and inuendos with friends who have partners.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. One of my best friends has a problem with flirting. She even flirts with me although I have a GF and she has a BF. I think she does it because she has low self esteem and because of some troubles she’s had in the past. I believe she also uses it as a way of coping ... (304 words)

I had sex and bled - have I lost my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - when i was 16 i had sex with a boy using condom i bleed that time , after two year again i did sex this time again i bleed, now i want to know that i am virgin or not... (41 words)

I'm having problems with my boyfriend and ended up cheating on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

New relationship and wondering if it wil work out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for approximately 3 months, although it feels like so much longer. We spend every day together, every night together; we do everything together. He's quickly become not only someone that I am deeply in love with, but also my best friend. We started out ... (177 words)

My boyfriend and I keep arguing about his ex, need help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend now for 9 months and we have had a series of aarguments, all about the same thing, HIS EX. They were together on and off for 5 years and i feel completely beneath her. At the beggining of our relationship her friends were adding me on Facebook ... (257 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am going out with this amazing guy from australia and i'm from minnesota hes 18 and i'm soon to be 17 on july 19th and all he does is make me happy! he tells me he loves to see my smile in pictures cause i'm gorgeous and i've never had a boyfriend tell me i'm gorgeous when i ... (96 words)

My wife is not sure that she lives me anymore, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife and i have been married for 12 years and have a daughter that is three. as of late my wife says that she does not know if she loves me, she is tired of taking care of me, and she is not happy. this all happened overnight, one minute things are going great and the next ... (222 words)

Any advice on going to festivals??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya.. I have got my first ever festival on Friday :D T IN THE PARK lol and I was just wondering if any of you had any advice on festivals? And also do you have any tips on how to deal woth the rain and mud because apparently it is meant 2 be rather wet this weekend :S Than... (67 words)

Dating problems, help, will she change her mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was a tuition and this girl came in. She caught my eye and ever since I've been interested in her but never dared to tell her. Its been about 2 months and then one day we had a conversation and she gave me her no. w/o me asking for it. I gave her mine too. She neve... (138 words)

Do I let my bf suck my breasts??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants to suck my breasts.do advice me.he is after my breasts.... (13 words)

We Had Sex Right After My Period. Could I Be Pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heya i'm new on here but just wondering if any of you could help me with something The 3 days ago i got very drunk at a party and ended up having sex with my ex boyfriend i know this was stupid in itself but the other stupid thing was we didn't use a condom. He did pull out ... (98 words)

My Parents Are Getting Abusive About Our Relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - we are james and alvina. we were so happy together. but unfortunately, my(james)parents hated alvina so much. they smashed my phone, called alvina's college, put me on home detention, and even worst, bang me on the wall and threatened me to delete all my photos in the computer. ... (69 words)

He made the First Move. How Do I get Him to Call Again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy but we don't go to the same school. We met at the mall a few months ago. I was sitting at a table and he came up and started to talk to me. I want to go out with him but he was telling me about how his past girlfriends always end up cheating on him. A ... (174 words)

My husband caught me cheating for the third time. I can't help it. Would I be better "swinging" or with an open relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has caught me cheating for the third time. i really love my husband but i cheat regularly. often an attractive man hits on me and i just can't resist and i am in bed with him. i explained this to my husband and i told him that i can't/don't want to stop and often ... (261 words)

I Won't Give Up on an Older Guy, Even Though He's Engaged

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - the man i love recently (as in a few days back) got engaged to his girlfriend of about 3 years. i can't explain it how intensely i feel this, but i KNOW we are meant to be together. i feel it strongly enough to CONFIDENTLY say that we are MEANT to BE. i don't know what ... (194 words)

My class results were down since I met this girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in a relationship with a girl.We both shared eveything and were going fine.We were so close that it was impossible to think that we would break up. But when my class 10 results were out, we scored less than we expected (83 / 100 ) , i was very much depressed and i felt som... (120 words)

I get a burning feeling when I pee. Can anyone suggest what's causing it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, I have a big problem. Im suppose to start my period today, and well i kinda did. But the thing is i have to pee or feel as though i have to pee every few mins. But when i pee it burns, and its very litely bloody. I dont know what to make of this, but its driving me crazy... (131 words)

I haven't seen him since last year but I keep thinking of him. What's going on with me?

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8 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm confused. I have a boyfriend that I love a lot. He's my first love and when we started dating he swept me off my feet. We have EVERYTHING in common. Really. it's like we were made for each other. When we first met, the chemistry was crazy! We've been together for almost two ... (818 words)

Is she just being a girl or could she be interested?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone. So just like almost every man in this world, im finding it hard to understand women. There is this young lady who i work with (i know, dont date those you work with) that i cant tell if she is just being flirty or if its more than that. After my last ... (169 words)

Where do I go, to learn about a woman's anatomy, and how to please a woman sexually?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 16 yrs old and I have never had sex or done anything more than making out with girls, even though I have had a few sort of longterm girlfriends (7.5 months the longest... its long for my age I think). I'm not abstinent so to speak but the opportunity has never risen ... (197 words)

At times he's too attentive, then he backs off, I am confused, please help?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend are back together. I couldnt be anymore happier to be with him again. Its been months since we have been dating. He dumped me last time cause aparently i was being a ***** and i got mad over little things. Last time we dated he would send me the sweetest ... (583 words)

Should I commit to stay with him, when I am not sure I will be happy, in another country?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Really need advice and help urgently. A while ago I posted about the fact I had the chance to emigrate to Oz to be with my boyfriend who had been there several months. I decided on the advice to give it a trial few weeks and that is what I have done. I have been out with ... (676 words)

Dating for a year, how do I get her to realize I want to kiss her?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - me and my gf have been dating for a year now. i am 14 she is 13 . we have have been huging and holding hands my question is how do i make her want to kiss me but she does not know i want to help please.... (48 words)

We liked each other, drifted apart several times, now we hardly talk, how do I tell him how I feel?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. Let me start from 5th grade.. I had this major crush on this guy going into 7th grade. He wasn't the most popular, and he wasn't the cutest, but to me he was so much more. He had the long dark hair, the big bright green eyes, the soft skin, the skate boarding punk that ... (495 words)

Am I still a virgin, after these things occurred?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend fingered me, It started to hurt, but I ignored it, but then I started to bleed. Did he break my Hymen? or is it something else.. Am I still a virgin even though I've never had sex.. ... (41 words)

Do I tell my family about a sexual assualt?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I tell my family about sexual assault? I have been sexually assaulted several times but sometimes by family members- recently by a bro that is not dna related. I don't want to get the family angry at me. Should I tell?... (42 words)

He won't talk to me!! How do I find closure from such a wonderful thing when I don't even know what it is that ended it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am one of those young women who doesn't date much, I like to be really careful about who I let into my life, but when I decide to give my heart, I give it fully, and its hard for me to let go. Fairly recently, I fell for someone who became extremely important to me.... (262 words)

How can I get closer to him and become better friends?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I just met this guy, and he have photography in common so we talked about our cameras and shooting and what not for a while... I became interested quite quickly...Which has never happened before so it's sort of scary... He offered to get together sometime and he said he ... (125 words)

Why does my gf think she can do things but if I do it....she get's mad at me!!

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does it seem like my GF thinks she can do things but if i do the same thing its wrong or its ok for her to get mad about it? But if she does it its ok or if i get mad she turns it on me and gets mad....... (51 words)

How can I get his attention, that will set me apart from this girl he likes?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well, there's this guy that i've fallen very hard for. we had a "thing" for each other back in october, and it started back up again about 2 months ago, and then he gradually stopped talking to me. i talked to this girl i kind of know one day for advice about him, and she ... (134 words)

She's married and says she'll leave her husband but hasn't yet...give it up or hold on?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I started an affair with a married woman some 2 years ago now although had worked with each other 3 years before. She was unhappy in her marriage and wanted to be loved. I was wary of getting involved since we worked with each other and obviously we were both married. For the ... (247 words)

How do I make my gf kiss me?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i am 14 and i want kiss my gf she is 13. how do i make her want kiss me? she does not know i want to kiss her. help plz ... (33 words)

He has an anger problem and I want to leave him! How can I do this without getting hurt?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had posted a question a while back, wondering what to do about my boyfriend with an anger problem. i've now reached the point where i'm ready to leave, as soon as my mother gets a place, hopefully before August. My question is HOW do i leave this man? He is 12 years ... (282 words)

What are some good hair removal creams?

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8 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - hey whats a good hair removal cream to use for "down there"? i have veet, and ive seen some comments from ppl here who've used it, but on the bottle i have it says on the warning label not to use it on the genitalia?? is it just dangerous to get in the vagina and anus or what? ... (68 words)

How can I get him alone to ask me out?

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8 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I know this waiter and he always goes out of his way to talk to me and my family. I think he is interested but he never ask me out yet. The last time we saw him we were not even in his section and he was off work but came over to talk he sat at the booth right behind ours and ... (214 words)

We have a wonderful relationship, and I love him, but he's married!

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 32 and totally in love with a 50 year old unhappily married man. We fell in love completely by mistake and I would have prevented it, but it just happened without my realizing and then I tried to deny it for a long time. I have been separated from a 10 year marriage... (285 words)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

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8 July 2008 (M)

age - Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take care of. She said she needs ... (230 words)

I'm feeling lonely and inadequate - How can I sort this out?

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8 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm feeling unhappy. First off, my body - I have little breasts, but I'm not a thin, small framed beauty. They're out of proportion. I'm medium to big framed, not fat, but I have a couple of pounds to lose but I'm afraid as I'm already small on top and I've already lost som... (708 words)

I'll do anything to get this guy to commit to me! Do you think I should play hard to get?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - so this guy who i really like says he has feelings for me. i know he does because he shows how much he cares for me. well he said he isnt sure if he can give me what i deserve, which is committment. well we took one week away from each other. he said we need to take that time ... (187 words)

My friend's married boyfriend has turned into a real monster! What can I do?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a friend that i have known for around 10 years or so.6 years ago,she entered into a relationship with a childhood friend of hers,who is married.well at first everything was ok i guess.he said he would leave his wife and they would be together so she has waited for the ... (297 words)

Could the anti-depressants be making things worse?!

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - oh my god, im just so depressed , and i dont know why .i tried anti depressants a few years ago, they did nothing, i cant talk to anyone as i really dont know why im depressed, i can be fine in work one day,then get home and just feel like crying, i dont get it? i used to think... (117 words)

Are these signs I need to let him go?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a bit more than a year. Lately, everything that he does seems to annoy me. The way he jokes about everything, the fact that he has no money no career and doesn't even have his own car, and the sex is boring. I sometimes feel ashamed of ... (159 words)

When I was young, I touched my little sister...

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've done something really bad. When I was young I touched my little sister. She was sleeping. I know I did something real wrong. Is there anything I could do about this? I've made a lot of mistakes and I wish I would have never done them. I'd take it all back in... (68 words)

How do you get rid of the memories?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I would just like to ask if anyone knows how to forget about someone, and get rid of memories of someone they onced cared about? About a year and a half ago I very nearly got with the most fantastic girl i ever met - asked her out and she said yes but the following d... (163 words)

I'm scared to move in together in case it doesn't work!

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear readers, I am stuck in an unusual situation. I am divorced with a 4 year old daughter, and my boyfriend of 4 months is divorced, no children. We live an hour apart but are very much in love, and he was asked for us to live together to save on travelling and so we can see ... (478 words)

Do guys like dry humping?

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8 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hi i was jst wondering-- is dry humping pleasurable for guys, b/c ive heard it can sometimes cause chafing? what are 'blue balls?'... (23 words)

I'm really self conscious about my black facial hair, what can I do about it?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I have quite abit of facial hair, and it is pretty obvious from up close because my hair is black, I jus recently got a boyfriend and I never get close enough incase he sees it, I'm really self-conscious about this, what can i do?... (51 words)

Shall I wait to have sex with her until she becomes of legal age?

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been with my girlfriend for a while now, and the only worry iv really had is about the age difference (3 years), but that turned out to be ok after me meeting her dad and her parents being ok with me. although im 16 and shes 13 (16 is the legal age of consent here in the U... (159 words)

My morals don't want to deal with my girlfriend wanting to cheat. Plus...she denies it!

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently caught my girlfriend sending a text message to a guy asking him to have sex with her... Upon me catching her (like 30 seconds after sending the text) she completely appoligized for being stupid and didn't know what she was thinking (she was drinking as well)... I ... (249 words)

She's totally different....

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8 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear...well anyone or everyone, I am writing with a problem. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 2 year and we have been deeply in love since we first met. When were flatmate due to uni and it all kicked off from there. I left uni after 6 month due to family reasons and foun... (226 words)

Why hasn't he told me he has a girlfriend? We still talk all of the time!

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there's this guy i truely love for almost 3 years, he liked me and asked me out a week after he knew me, but i was scared and i said no to him since i just got to know him and i was just out of a relationship with my ex. He would call me up everyday and talk for hours and ... (285 words)

How do I stop feeling hurt by what this guy does?

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8 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on how to stop feeling hurt by what this guy does. This guy i know uses girls for attention..it looks like he likes them because he touches them, hugs them, goes to parties with them (one girl in particular now) but since he's single, all he's looking for is atten... (108 words)