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*harlotte-18
writes:Ello I’m 13, my question is straight forward.At school theirs this play that the teachers organised and my year have to perform it, in these six week holidays we have to practise, and then on the 31st August we perform it in school in front of people who attend this fun day and I volunteered to be the main girl character and I was voted to take the role as well, but the person who is taking the role of being the main boy character is the boy I really like call him Tom. So the teachers organised with out parents for me to come down his house and practise the play and him to come down my house to practise as well. But theirs a problem as I am the main girl character I have to kiss the boy (in this case Tom) but I’m too shy to do so and have not 1 bit clue how to even kiss, I’m totally non experienced and never have even heard or read how to, but every time we come to the bit of the play were we kiss Tom is all prepared and in role on the other hand I’m all shaky and nervous and go red from the cheeks and he seems to know how to kiss and I don’t, I always say to him next time we will and I skip that bit I go to the next. as it is a play I don’t want to ruin it so at one point I have to kiss him, I did tell the teacher my problem but she did say that there are other two options if I don’t want to kiss him one is he can kiss me on my cheek and the second is we can come close looking like we gone kiss but then the curtains come and it will look like we kiss but we don’t really. (By the way the teacher did ask permission from my parents and his parents if we can do the kiss bit in the play) Please can some one give me tips on kissing and not making a fool out of my self in the performance? More is that since this play we have been hanging around with each other a lot and at times we have little moments were we come really close to each other, and 2wice we came close to kissing but haven’t. At times he seems to stare at me really deeply. He seems to keep asking me to come with him shopping and like go places example cinema, and fun fairs, and to his family theme park day. Does this sound like he fancies me or is he just being a really good mate?
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reader, needhelp? +, writes (15 October 2010):
does he stick up for you? and does he give you that look in his eyes when you look at him? does he act strange around you? then he has a soft spot for you!! these thing are what a boy does when he really likes you!! good luck with him !!
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reader, Charlotte-18 +, writes (21 July 2008):
Charlotte-18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice, and the answer to the question is that's the weird thing it's only me and him, but just once he brought his mate but that time i wasn't their with him for long i went home early trying to escape you see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): ok try kissing the back of your hand and heres some kissing tips :)
How to kiss When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
and about him liking you back get to noe him and then see if he's flirting :)
hope that helps
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reader, DavidHereToHelp +, writes (21 July 2008):
Hmmmm interesting.....First of all with the kiss. It's all about having self confidence that you know what you are doing and it is just a spur of the moment thing. After you kiss a boy for the first time you will honestly think there is nothing to worry about and what was the fuss all about! All you have to do is pluck up the big moment of courage and even if its just a little peck on the lips, just enjoy the experience. By the way, you may think that he isn't nervous about the kiss, just to let know that the chances are likely that he is probably just as nervous as you are, he just doesn't show it as much.And as for the fancying you part, that also seems quite likely aswell. In my own experiences, if a boy (or in my case a girl) asked me to go somewhere when i was your age, it was seen in my eyes as a chance for him (in your case) to either:1. get to know you better for the playor 2. have the chance to spend days out with you.By the way i have a question and a hint for you.The hint is leave the first kiss until the one in the play, because then you are able to build up the tension and you will enjoy it a whole lot more.And the question is when he took you to the cinema, shopping, fun fairs or anywhere else, is it normally jsut the two of yous or are you with a group of friends?If you want to write back then by all means do!Hope my advice has been helpful.
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