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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How fast is too fast? I don't want him to think I am a slut.

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15 May 2008, 28 minutes ago (F)

- Hi, I was wondering - how fast is too fast? I'm 16 and I met a guy my age the other day and we really hit it off, we got on really well. We ended up making out pretty intensly in a park. He did start undoing my jeans but stopped when I stopped him and apologised for being too ... (154 words)

I want to give my wife a good reason to shave her pubic hair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 28 minutes ago (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Readers I have always wanted my wife to shave her pussy, she agrees whilst we are having sex but never gets round to doing it. so i can give her a good reason to do it, 'is there any good reasons or if anyone as any ideas... (54 words)

I'm going to be a Dad, but she won't get back together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 46 minutes ago (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there 6 weeks ago i found out i was going to be a dad, i was shocked at first but realised it was a special thing to happen. Then when we discussed it my partner did not want to live where we where at, she wanted me to move closer to her parents. This was not possible as ... (407 words)

I got married twice but I never got divorced

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15 May 2008, 47 minutes ago (F)

age 41-50 - I have made a terrible mistake. I got married in Jamaica 18 years ago. We broke up about 6 months later and neither of us bothered getting divorced because it was in a foreign country and we thought we'd never get found out. I met a new man and we have been married for 15 ... (177 words)

How can we stop arguing over silly things when we love each other so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 3 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - I am coming up to a year now with the most wonderful guy and I have honestly never felt so in love or so loved before but sadly we seem to keep arguing over the silliest things and we have now both noticed it has been getting more frequent. I think it started because of the ... (256 words)

I love him but have problems trusting him

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15 May 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend,we started dated 2 yrs ago,at first things were not that great,there was no trust, we loved each other but he still had his girlfriend and that ruined our relationship because sometimes she will call and i will get jelouse but i never confronted him until we ... (140 words)

I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I think I'm being way too insecure, but I don't know how to handle it. It's not that I'm insecure about myself. I'm insecure about my relationship with my boyfriend. I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying. When we're apart, I call him all the ... (96 words)

My sisters don't like my boyfriend should I discuss it with them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - When my family first met my boyfriend, they all thought he was funny and great, but after a while, my sisters started to dislike him. One of my sisters secretly told me that they all felt that he wasn't treating me good enough. I actually kind of felt the same way, but I was ... (102 words)

He told me that he doesn't love me and he wants me to move in life but I can't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - i don't wanna lose my love...it seems like I'm losing everything... I have a very touching love story so anyone please help me... I'll be broken without him...from 2 years i loved this guy...he had someone before but that girl didn't love him..he told me he loves me and we were ... (190 words)

Why can't I orgasm during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - The sex with my boyfriend feels great, but I've never orgasmed during sex before. I want to know how it feels like, but I can't do it. I'm not sure what's wrong. Does anyone have any ideas?... (37 words)

Does her eating disorder have anything to do with her lack of response to fingering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - ok so i've asked this before but it's a little different i think now.. ok well tonight i went down on my gf for the the like second time and she got off to it.. but um fingering her she says still gets her no where and she even said it kinda made her have to pee.. but she did ... (181 words)

What should I do to let her know I want to be with her, even though she's still in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - okay, i'm 16 and there's this girl that i really, really like alot. At the moment she's in a relationship, but i can't really see it going anywhere because she's constantly being broken hearted by this guy, being let down by him and lately it's become apparent that he may be ... (192 words)

What do I need to do to get him back?

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15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I got a great issue goin on for of all I just had my healthy babyboy born on easter and am very happy about that. To continue I have this ex-boy that I can't let go. Reasons for that is cuz when we did go out I had many friends and lifestyle tellin me not to stay but now I ... (431 words)

Since I started breast-feeding I'm no longer feeling any titilitating titty teasing with my man!-Advice?

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15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - Hey anties and Uncles! I am a breastfeeding mama, and this is my 2nd child, but with this one, all the pleasure I used to get out of nipple play has GONE AWAY!!! EEK! I want it back, but dont want to stop breastfeeding my little girl. I stopped breastfeeding my 1st when he was ... (113 words)

Will regular masturbation affect my sex life with a partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - I am not married and have been mustarbating for almost ten years,could this might bring problems in my life when i get married?please advice o that i can avoid or continue... (31 words)

Should I pull out before I cum, even with a condom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - Ok, so me and my girlfriend are very very very nervous about having a baby, we are only teenagers so we don't need a kid, we use condoms and that's it, she can't get on the pill, so don't suggest it, it's not gonna be able to happen, so, to be extra sure that she isn't going to ... (116 words)

Should I tell my best mate I'm in love with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 8 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, Ive known this guy since i was about 6 -7 years old, I'd visit his town every christmas and we'd see each other for the fornight that i was there. We had always had a little bit of a crush on each other, and our parents thought it was cute. In the last couple of years ... (341 words)

I'm in love with a married woman, I'm not going to try and break up her marriage though by pursuing her, is it still o.k. just to be friends with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 8 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - So i really dont know what to do here. Let me explain. I am 26 years old, single, and will be for a while. Im just not into the whole dating thing. I have a friend, who i talk to alot. We met about 3 years ago. She is alot older then i am, married with kids. I have never over ... (315 words)

Did he just break my hymen after several months of sex? Is this possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 8 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. We had sex about 9 months ago i sopose and i never had any bleeding the first time at all (I was a virgin) and a few days ago we had sex and I did have bleeding. That was the first time I have had any bleeding. I am ... (99 words)

I'm not a big fan of going on top, am I doing something wrong

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 8 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I never found the girl on top position to be all that great. I constantly hear how satisfying it feels for women, but I never get much out of it. Could I be doing it wrong?... (38 words)

I'm 16 and dealing with an abusive boyfriend, I don't want to leave him, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 8 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. He's 17, and I'm 16. Things were really great for the first couple of months into the relationship, and after that, they just kind of spiraled down hill from there. First, it started with all the lies. About... (175 words)

Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 8 hours ago (F)

age 36-40 - My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all these just excuses? Does he mean ... (99 words)

How do I develope a closer friendship (not relationship!) with my teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - So, I know I am joining the legions of students on here who say they are in love with their teacher, but hear me out as mine is a little different. I absolutely adore my teacher, and he has indicated that he really likes me too (though he hasn't VERBALLY said anything to ... (244 words)

I have a very very diverse complex mix, and I need a POLITE or even cheeky-tongue-in-cheek-non-offensive-funny answer to give to intrusive strangers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 10 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I have a very very diverse complex mix, because of this it makes me stand out as I look extremely different from most people. My race is completely unspecific or impossible to guess. So every single time I leave my house I always have people stopping me, doesnt matter at bus ... (472 words)

What should a girl my age look for in a relationship? I'm 14-15.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 10 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - what should a girl at my age(14-15) look for in a relationship?... (12 words)

What do men feel when their penis enters a vagina?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 10 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - what do men feel when their penis enters a vagina? and what do they feel as a woman has orgasms? can they feel the spasms of the vagina? and a friend of mine had 5 kids, shes worried her vagina is not that tight any more as she cant feel all the time her bf cum unless hes ... (96 words)

My bf and his brother donated their sperm so their lesbian friends could have a baby. Can this happen without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 10 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My bf has 2 lesbian friends that are friend of the family well they wanted to have a baby so my bf and his brother donated there sperm to her but they put it in a cup and they waited a min or so and then she went and poured it into her can she still get pergnant if they didnt ... (66 words)

Should I marry him, he doesn't seem to care anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Does he even care anymore? So I have had a boyfriend for 4 years now...and we have been engaged for 6 months. It seems like ever since we got engaged, he doesnt care anymore. We made a huge mistake in getting engaged so young (21) and we put my ring on a credit card... H... (378 words)

I keep finding naked pictures of his ex, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Last year, I accidentally found my boyfriend's porn on his external hard drive. In that collection, I found naked pictures of his ex-girlfriend after he told me that he didn't have them anymore. I got very angry and deleted all of them. When I confronted him, he said that he ... (161 words)

All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and neither can he as we love each ... (118 words)

Bad pain, due to PID or pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - i need help i have or had PID pevlic inflamotary dease i dont know if im spelling it right but well i think im pregnant now im having bad bad pain i didnt wait 3 weeks to have sex i did it the next day and i think also i might have it again any advise ? ... (61 words)

I miss him so much, but I can't find the courage to tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F) age 18-21 - Me and my ex are still friends, broken up for a while, he has a girlfriend (His ex) who has flirted with his best friend (As in would drop my ex in a second if his friend asked her out) I'm friends (With benefits) with my ex's ex best friend (the same guy who his girlfriend ... (217 words)

I'm trying to write the music to a song that my bff wrote, but it's not very good and I don't want to hurt her feelings!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 10-12 - Okay my bff wrote a song and she wants me to create the music to it. Im a pretty good musician but i can't make the music to it! My dad is a really good musician too and he can't make the music. the song isn't good at all. I've thought about asking my band teacher to help me ... (125 words)

I'm waiting to hear him tell me he loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We talked about the word 'love' early on, and we felt it was best not to use it so soon. As of now, I feel like it's been long enough. I want him to tell me that he loves me, but I don't think it's going to happen anytime ... (196 words)

I need to get control of my life...things are very complicated and messy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - this is a real question im 17 living with a guy 18 years older than me but he doesnt know im 17 he thinks im 20 and well while he is at work i have sex with strange me for money im also pregnant with the guy i live withs baby as i was pregnant before all this started... (321 words)

Is she gay? Does she have a crush on me or something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - ok, I have this friend. Well really, a friend of a friend, But we always hang out. We're all girls. And this person doesn't always get on with me. She's really childish, irritating and insecure and sometimes she likes me sometimes she hates me for no reason. I try to get on ... (292 words)

Was I wrong to call this guy before he leaves for Africa?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - I finally decided to call a guy I have such a big crush on. After a year of not seeing him or talking on the phone, just email. Well, I did it cuz he´s leaving on a trip shortly to Africa and is going to be away for 6 months. We live apart from each other though. He said and... (181 words)

Does anyone here know about the Mayan calendar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (?) age 22-25 - Hey aunties and uncles! So, I've been doing all kind of research on one of the oldest tribes to exist on the planet, the Mayans. I am so fasinated with their astrology and calander. Instead of a mixed up month that coinsides with the sun, theu have a 28 day calander, that ... (146 words)

Why did she reject me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - why do girls still reject. My friend rejected me even though I treated her like a queen, she knows I'm crazy over her. I'm perfect in front of her, I've done everythin for her. I may not be person person but in front of her I've Neva annoyed her, upset her or anything negative. ... (69 words)

What can I do to get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 11 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - I asked my friend out but she said no. We stopped talkin. I was crazy over her, I was smashed into bits because I liked her for over 2yrs!! Nyway slowly getting over it she started talkin and I am normal with her. Without realizing my friend told me I keep mentioning her name, ... (97 words)

I fell for him, we've agreed to be just mates, but I'm still upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 13 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - advice if you were in my situatuion, iv know this guy for 2 years now, we'v always got on really well, and latly we got really close, i fell for him and i like him with all my heart, his parents even used to be friends with my parents when they were young, he's been coming ... (166 words)

What can I do to get my mind off from my ex and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 13 hours ago (F) age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend broke up, we were together for 2 years!i felt somthin ws wrong cos he wasn't treating me well,he was always taking me for granted and wen i asked him about it,he took the opportunity and dumped me!:( my heart broke like i never thought possible. He said its... (255 words)

Sex with a fat person, should I give it a try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 13 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - This guy asked me to have sex with him. I like him and was thinking about saying yes. I like him alot and he is very nice-looking and has a great personality but is well-built. Would it be awkward having sex with him because he is fat?... (47 words)

Is this a good plan for losing fear of speaking to girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 May 2008, 13 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 and I have never had a girlfriend, kissed or even held hands. I’m overweight (visibly) and generally painfully shy. I’ve just started considering a plan that can get my shyness to girls to disappear always have trouble talking to them or looking them in the eyes, and I'm ... (221 words)

Why is there a sudden complete lack of interest in sex on his part?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2008, 13 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i havnt had sex in over 2 weeks and i dont know why. when he stays over we kiss but thats it and this morning he fingered me for a bit but then stopped. we see eachother twice a week and normally have sex at least once a week but i dont know why theres a sudden ... (197 words)

Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 May 2008, 13 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this young? I am not an old prude... (130 words)

Could it be his baby? He never went back after his vasectomy to have his semen checked!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 weeks pregnant but boyfriend had a vasectomy, but says he never went back to have his semen checked, can it be his baby? help me, please!... (29 words)

He used to be my friend, played a trick on me, and I know I shouldn't forgive him, and I want to be friends again but I'm afraid it will be awkward...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

14 May 2008, 13 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - ok. well i used to be friends with this one guy, who i used to have a crush on. I liked him until last year when i found someone else. We were still friends though. Then, at a party, he txted my friend saying he liked me and she didnt believe him because he's the class clown. ... (333 words)

I have a question about what a girl feels when a penis enters her vagina!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - how does a girl feel when penis enters her vagina?? can they feel the veins and the rim of the glans(top portion of penis)?? ..how do they feel when the cums inside them? i would b happy if u explain elaborately:) ... ... (42 words)

What is a normal vaginal depth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My question is about vaginal depth. You see. I met this guy last week and well, yesterday I asked him to my place. We were getting down to but when he . . .inserted his phallus it wouldn't go in all the way. [I wish I could articulate this better.] There was a good three ... (94 words)