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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We won't say we're gay, but after a night of sex she won't talk to me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a female and I just met a girl my junior year and we became best friends really quickly. We were unseperable and did everything together. We had a normal friendship for about 2 weeks. Things soon began to become a different attraction. We ended up kissing one night and ever ... (221 words)

We've fallen out of love. Should I keep trying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband since I was 18 and have fallen out of love with him. We still get on really well as friends but really nothing more. My husband knows how I feel and is trying really hard to rebuild our marriage but it just isn't working. Our sex life is one sided and ... (217 words)

I need help with party etiquette

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 13 and i've never pulled anyone b4 and i don't hve a boyfriend currently. How do u pull at a party? If a guy comes u 2 u from behind do u wait 2 turn around or turn immediately? I accidentally rejected a guy for waiting to long. ... (50 words)

I'm in love with a friend who doesn't find my type attractive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey basically i've realised over the past yr i am unfortunately inlove with one of my best friends who does not find girls of my physical attributes attractive and has said so, but i still get occassional "moments" where i feel we really connect and there could be something ... (162 words)

Can I make friends at work if everyone is much older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I start a new job in the morning. I went to the office im working in today and discovered that the people who are starting tomorrow with me are at least 15/20 years older... im quite intimidated as this is my first serious job and im only 18.... these women who are starting... (219 words)

How do I appraoch the girl from my office?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm looking for a bit of advice. There's a girl at work who has caught my eye (on many occasions!) but there's a few problems. - I'm not exactly god's gift in terms of looks and I haven't exactly had much luck when it comes to dating! - She doesn't work in the same... (282 words)

How do I convince my boyfriend we should move in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I need help how to ask my BF about living together. We spoke about it in the past (we are together year and a half - both late 20es) and we made it clear that we are serious about it and we want to get married etc. He lives with his father now and I live at my job (live ... (409 words)

Why did he suddenly tell me he didn't want it to go any further?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

- Hello please help. I met this guy (22) at a bar about 3 weeks ago. I kinda knew him b4 but only through friends of friends and we never really spoke before. He asked for my number and we were talking and texting. He asked me when he could take me out and we went out for a few ... (373 words)

I feel empty and sad because I broke up with my boyfriend. My friend told me to.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my b/f because my part-time friend told me to, but now i feel empty and sad, but i still want to be friends with my friend, and date him. What do i do???!... (38 words)

He ignores me. He may be cheating on me. I can't bear the thought of my life without him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this great guy but then we broke up due to a lot of rubbish, a couple months later we got back together cause we both still love each other. when we broke up we both had different partners. now that we're back together i hardly see him, once a week if im lucky... (210 words)

My boyfriend is going round the world for 10 months. Should I split up with him before he goes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly three years, in October he is going travelling around the world for a minimum of 10 months. I don't know what to do, as it's making me upset all the time. Its his dream and I completely respect it, I want him to go however I ... (152 words)

He says he just wants to be friends but I'm in love! Is there a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online and we decided to meet in person, went out on a couple of dates and I thought we hit it off, he asked me out on other dates and then all of a sudden he tells me he just wants to be my friend. But, we went out on other dates and we even kissed one time very ... (158 words)

I don't want my mom working at my school invading my space! What can I do to convince her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my mom has decided to take a job at my school. As the detention lady. Great. Not that I'd see her at all..I don't get detentions or anything. That's not the point. The point is that she's coming to work at my high school and high school is like my place to escape. I don't ... (99 words)

I really enjoy gay porn but also have feelings for girls...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i watch gay porn. i really enjoy it but feel bad about it and scared. but i also feel feelings for girls and feeling them! what do i do? am i really gay? or bi ?... (36 words)

He thought I was going to leave my boyfriend for him! Now we aren't talking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im very stressed and i need so advice, because this has never happened to me before. skipping alot of details, my bf(grant) of 2 month's best friend(mac) and i kinda had this thing going that was just alot of flirting through texts that started before i got a boyfriend and b... (589 words)

Do I send the flowers to her work or her house?

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9 July 2008 (M) - Sending flowers to a girl. She works in a restaurant as a waitress/hostess. No idea if I should send the flowers there or to her house. If she worked in an office then it might be better to send them to work, but a restaurant may be kind of hectic???... (53 words)

My old flatmate tends to drink too much and then step over the limit with me!

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! This question is regarding my old flatmate. He really behaves strange sometimes. Last December he visited me and well, we kinda kissed- not on the lips. When I was visiting them a couple of weekends ago, I hung out with him and a friend of his. He tends to drink a ... (142 words)

Am I obsessed or crazy? I can't seem to get this guy out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been crazy....actually obsessed about this guy for about a year now. I used to date him a few times, after which he said we'd better remain friends. still i wasn't over him and went out with him another time, and said to me to remain freinds only again. As time passed we ... (172 words)

Need advice badly. I am having an affair and don't know why.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

9 July 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I am 29 and have been in an amazing, loving, fun relationship for 2 years. I have found my soulmate. I love him dearly and we have a wonderful time together. We have great sex, we laugh a lot, we have fun, he's very stable, attentive, generous...every one of my friends ... (195 words)

I'll be away travelling for a year, should I break up and hope to get back together when I return home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys..im plannin on goin to australia traveling with 2 best friends in febuary, thing is my boyfriend, i really dont want to leave him...were only 2gether a year but we have been best friends since we were 14 and now we have finally got together i dont want to ruin it by ... (115 words)

How do I let one boy I like him and let the other know I don't?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy in my tutor group at school who is my best friend. I shall call him Bob. Recently Bob has asked me to go ice skating with him, just Bob and me. I said yes(obviously)and we're going on Friday. But I have no idea whether it's a date or just a ... (227 words)

My online love interest is now ignoring me after I told him I was treated for an STD, why? He didn't even give me a chance to meet him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've met this guy on an internet dating website - I know people often have a lot of preconceptions about internet dating but I find it an easier way to get to know someone than meeting them on a night out. And for the record I'm not on there because I'm ugly or have no ... (432 words)

My younger boyfriend plays stupid pranks that leave me in tears! Who is in the wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so sad and down. My boyfriend was away for a few weeks working and now he's back I don't know how I feel. I got together with him when I split up with a guy I'd been with for ages, quite quickly admittedly. I also don't like my job and am feeling old and skint and ... (526 words)

My cyber friend treats me horrible lately. We have been doing sexual stuff over the webcam...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me frist start off by telling the story. I had a friend in school give me a addy to a girl that lives 200 miles away on the other side of the country. I got talking to the girl over msn and over time the friendship went to like teenagers saying we are in love and so fo... (251 words)

We're both single now and I am waiting for him to get back with me, but he hasn't yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy i really, really like he makes me feel special and feel something for him that i havent ever felt. I do think his the one that i need. Well we went out a couple of times and we broke up everytime we broke up my feelings for him just started getting stronger... (289 words)

My boyfriend won't get a job!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok...I have been dating this guy for 7 months and he won't get a job. It's driving me nuts. We are both 23 and I have helped him so much, as far as looking for jobs online while he is at home. I don't give him money, but on the weekends I do spend money on the weekends to do ... (112 words)

I am not one of the popular girls, do I stand a chance with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I know this guy 4 like a while now and the last couple of months I realized that I wana be more than just his friend. I've heard some rumors that he feels the same but I think his 2 shy to ask me out 'cause his friends will like thinks he is weird 'cause i'm not part of ... (73 words)

I need to tell my boyfriend that things need to change. How do I go about it?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I tell my live in boyfriend that things need to change or it's not going to work between us? I'm 33 weeks pregnant. I got pregnant the 1st date. Things were good at first but I told him we rushed into things. His parents just kind of packed his stuff and his daughters ... (119 words)

My friend asked my to go on a 12 week trip. My husband can cope. Should I go? Will the kids be OK without me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am just looking for some opinions on the following. I am married, age 30, 2 kids ages 4 and 5. My friend who has travelled alot has asked me if i would like to go on a 12 week round the world trip in march. My kids will be 5 and 6 then and both in full time school. I am ... (124 words)

I want a baby but his penis does not go inside my vagina, why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - it has been one year of our marriage but still i m not getting pregnant.me and husband have sex twice or thrice in a week without taking any precautions. we love each other madly. we do our best to get pleasure but we dont know that why his penis does not go inside my vagina? ... (98 words)

How do I deal with the death of my mistress?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age - sad storey that i cant get over,i was having an afair for over 25 years. she was a wonderfull person,she had a husband me a wife,we went out together 3 times per week and it suited both of us, 2 years ago at christmas time new years eve to be correct i phoned to wish happy ne... (150 words)

She loves me...but, I just don't think I love her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 22 and this is my first relationshipand it has gone for about 1.3 years. The first 6months were great, she was nice to me, a lot of love, lots of sex just perfect but from that on we have sex 1time a month and it seems that is just doing that to do me a favor, some ... (291 words)

How can you tell if an older guy likes you online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - how to know if an older guy likes you even though we haven't met before, we're only have a conversation on the net?... (23 words)

What does it mean to be a good lover?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I really work hard on being a good lover. I´ve really thought and read alot on the subject. Only thing is the woman I´m with, as shes more on the recieving end-doesn´t do much but reap the benefits, and I feel like I´m walking a one way street. I believe my woman, and now ... (169 words)

Is my FWB situation turning into love? What are your thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a friend with benefits for about 7 months now. He made it very clear that he would never ever be anything more than friends with me, ever. He told me over and over not to fall in love with him because he would never ever let himself fall in love with me. I, a... (344 words)

Should I teach him a lesson regarding travel plans? Don't you think he needs to include me from the beginning?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of one year made plans (without running the dates by me)booked a hotel for him and his son and his son's friend to the tune of $600.00. A few hours after this was done he called to tell me about it and said my options were that I could stay with them for free or, ... (198 words)

My husband's old ex-girlfriend is everywhere, I feel neglected by friends and family, am I over reacting, please help??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 10 years. We have 2 small children and despite a few bumps we are happy. My husbands first love was a girl at school whom he was with for 3 years. He finished with her because she cheated on him alot and didn't support him in his hour of ... (358 words)

Missed my chance to tell him I liked him, he moved on, I want to be with him, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - NEED URGENT HELP. there's aguy i liked from the first sight but i was too foolish to tell him. days later, he said he liked me to my face and i felt "why should i just fall for him?" he has thi attitude of "I'm the bomb", though it is true he is. i just smiled and left him with ... (124 words)

My changing personality, and lying, sabotaged my relationship, with the man I want to marry, will he ever trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 years... we practically grew up together. We met when we were in highschool. We've been through tough times and happy times, through out the 10 years we have our ups and downs. But we always make it through. Couple months of ago, I... (850 words)

I love him, but should I, as a female, say I love you first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm developing likeness for a guy "is right to tell him "i love you" as a female?... (17 words)

He texted me 80 messages, but still, my confidence level is low, does he really like me or what?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - And please dnt tell me its in his kiss lol! im having this problem with a guy in work that i really really like we have had many converstaions about the whole situation and he totally knows how much i like him! he has told me that he is totally flattered by the fact i like ... (309 words)

Looking for more attention in the bedroom, from my wife, what do I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife will not touch me in the bedroom. She enjoys foreplay and missionary. Nothing else really excites her. We have talked about this many times but she just blows it off and changes the subject. What do I do?... (40 words)

What should I do if he does fix his life and try to get me back?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ohkay. So I had knew this boy for a while.. since we were really little and now im 13. He's apart of my stepdads not immediate family so i saw him once in a while when there family would have gatherings and such. He had liked me for a while and i never liked him but eventually ... (292 words)

When would be the proper time to try, to have sex with her, she is very shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend she is a pritty shy girl to be honest. her ex boy friend treated her badly but was more advancde then me , i dont no when i should make the move to have sex with her and how? i dont want to make a move then get rejected i would look so stupid what shall i ... (63 words)

I love him, but can I trust him, also why is he mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice urgently..... I need to break this down because its a long story. I was seeing a guy on and off for 6 years. He had never really been particularly nice to me during the period and it was more off than on. However towards the end of last year I bumped into him ... (423 words)

How do I deal with a husband I think is too good for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hallo I am quite average looking. Plain really. Never dated. Tried a few times, but not very successful. Never thought I would get a very attractive partner in life, but that was ok, as long as he was a good friend. Then I met this guy at a friend's house party a few yea... (977 words)

He said the spark is gone, but he still wants to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and a half recently told me that our "spark" has gone and he doesn't love me in the same way as he did before, this absolutely devastated me and when he told me I immediately moved in 2 the spare room and cried myself to sleep(we were staying at my ... (341 words)

His past is making him too cautious

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

- ok...ive been seeing this guy since march and we're still not 'officialy' together. Partically the reason is because he's been screwed over by his mum who left him alone on the other side of the country by himself..then he met this girl who was his gf for a year..then she ... (371 words)

I watched in despair as the woman I love flew out of my life forever. Do I risk it all and follow her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some help. yesterday i watched in horror as the love of my life flew out to australia. We were together for 3 years, and we just drifted apart, with her at uni and me starting a new job. i am older than her, and i think to be honest she just wanted to go out and have ... (268 words)

I'm gay and falling in love with my best mate, we experimented together but now I see him flirting with the girls!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive recently decided to come out of the closet. im gay. I told my friend grace that i fancy my best friend whos my room mate at uni. We expirimented but at first i didnt actually have feelings for him. He says he's decided that he doesnt want to do the stuff that we're doin ... (123 words)

I'm 15 and my girlfriend is VERY experienced whereas I worry a lot. What to do in the event we do have oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright,even though some of this may sound wrong,I'm going to be completely honest about everything. I'm 15 years old in 3 months,and I have really low confidence in myself.I have a girlfriend and we've been dating for a month now. She's had several boyfriends in the past,whil... (186 words)

Can I trust my long distance love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive posted bf and it always helps, so thank you. I dated this girl LD for 6 monoths and she broke it off bc of the distance, didnt want to move, didnt want me to move there etc she had made several promises to me that she broke. I was hurt but decided to stay friends.... (542 words)

Sexual games on a dark alley. I'm worried we were taped!...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

9 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - well im really unsure about something which happened last night?! will anything happen to my boyfriend?. i was 16 last month and my boyfriend of nearly 6 months turned 19 yesterday, we went into town last night to celebrate his birthday and his new job. there was a few of us ... (372 words)

I can't stop contacting my ex and thinking he is having fun and not missing me - how can I stop the pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of over 2 years and i recently broke up. i know why we broke up and everything but i cant f---ing pull myself together. for the first few weeks i was fine, but now 2 months later, it's kicking in and i feel freaking miserable. i miss him SO goddamn much i c... (203 words)

My boyfriend has cheated before and isgiving me reasons to doubt him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and hes aready told me that he loves me. he told me about an incident when he slept round his ex girlfriends and she tried to kiss him. and recently his ex contacted me and told me a different story, that he kissed her and they were ... (134 words)

It's tempting to leave home right now. I can (just about) wait. Have I got it all wrong?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

- Hello, I'm a 17 year old girl. I live with my parents in a nice house in a small town in England. We have a cat and a goldfish pond. And to be totally honest, I'm gonna go insane if I stay here too much longer. Don't get me wrong - I appreciate what I have - but I just want to ... (447 words)

I'm not ready for a pipe and slippers lifestyle yet! Where's the right man for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age - Hello, I'm 60 years old but I have still got a good figure and am told that I am pretty. I moved to France to start a new life and everything is going well for me on the business front. The problem, or challenge I should perhaps say, is that I feel really lonely. I have been ... (193 words)

Are my feelings overriding my common sense? Is it too early for sex after only one month together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - O.k i'm nearly 17 and i've been with my boyfriend almost a month. When we were younger we went out for about eight months but it is only recently that we rekindled our relationship and i have to say the past month he has made me sooooo happy. We have a really good connection ... (160 words)

I'm struggling to let him go because I want him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out with my boyfriend for four years. We split up 6 months ago which was mutual as he didn't want to live in my flat anymore and we ended up only seeing each other at weekends which stressed me out as I never ended up doing things that I wanted to do at the weekend and ... (271 words)

I'm struggling to get over my first love. I need help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i was with this guy for about 3 to 4 months and i felt really close to him and i was sure i was in love with him all my friends and family said i had to leave him cause they thought he was gonna just mess me around but i ignorned them and went for it with him its been 5 months ... (196 words)

I think my gay boss fancies me. Am I imagining it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

9 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm a straight man, 21, but I think that my gay boss (24) fancies me. Even though he has said in the past that he doesn't believe in relationships between work collegues I think he's showing signs that suggest otherwise throughout the last few weeks between eye contact and ... (296 words)

Should I worry about my boyfriend and my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - do you think im just been paranoid or could there be something going on. :S basicly ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, im 16 and hes 18 we got together on the 22-05-2006 and i adore him, i love him with all my heart, but recently i think hes getting a bit close ... (335 words)

Was he really interested or was he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Help me please. I don't know what to think... I have a boyfriend that i love. Almost a year ago, i met a sweet guy, in a peculiar situation. After 10m he asked me if i'd like to have coffee some day(we have some things in common).We Went for coffee and for a walk, talk... (273 words)

Married for a year and I don't understand why I am so miserable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and been married a year. My husband is a great man, the type or man that i am beyond lucky to have. i don't understand why im miserable then. I moved away from my home town, and met this man 6 months after i moved. i do love him. I just can'the help feeling ... (215 words)

I know I ought to settle down. Can anyone give me some advice to set me straight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am fifteen years old. I've had sex multiple times with four different guys, and I had unprotected sex with three of them. Let's just say, if I were to get pregnant right now, I wouldn't really know which four of them it would be. I failed my current grade of school. I am ... (211 words)

I love my husband but he has a really bad temper. What can I do about it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 7 years. Everything is wonderful till I oppose any of my husband's views. He has a terrible temper problem that he doesn't acknowledge. He gets really angry if I say anything that he thinks is not right. Whenever we fight (which is quite often these days) ... (298 words)

My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world. How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

9 July 2008 (F)

- Hi, my boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world for a few months and I'm falling apart without him, it's like I have this longing for him. We don't have much contact, He is in the jungle and if he can get to the main island once a week I can get a 30 second phone call. ... (134 words)

I feel like I'm not good looking enough to meet girls, help please!

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9 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - the worst part of this all is my friends tell me if they had my looks and body they would be able to get ten times more girls when we go to the clubs, sadly i disagree. I feel i am the ugliest of all my friends and it pisses me of when they say all i need is confiden... (205 words)

I put in so much effort, and I feel like he doesn't appreciate me.

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Im hoping that someone out there can offer some advice.. I've been with my boy for over three years and I am utterly in love with him, however he doesn't seem to appreciate me or acknowledge anything I do, he insists that he does.. but I really don't feel ... (184 words)

He controls everything I do, but I love him!

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for 3.5yrs, and we've had our ups and downs. but recently, all we do is just fight.. just about stupid things. like if i dont pick up my phone right away, he'll think i would be cheating on him. and i guess he does have the right to assume that cuz... (251 words)

I'm not sure how to act around my parent's friends, any advice?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am nervous about seeing a show with my parent's friends because I don't know them and never seen them before. I'm nervous because i'm afraid that they might talk bad about me, criticize me, laugh at me. What should I do? Since my parents told me that 10 people are coming to ... (64 words)

Should I let him see our son?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 years old and i have a 2 year old son with a 27 year old guy. a few days after i found out i was pregnant i left the father cuz he got really bad in to drugs and a month before that i gave him a chance to get clean and he wouldnt and i didnt want my child around that ... (331 words)

What sort of things can go wrong with sex?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im scared. im not saying im having sex yet but i may be in the near future. im only 14 and im just five foot. i would really like to know some things that can go wrong during or after sex. sideaffects or anything. im very nieve : ]. ... (50 words)

Why has she started ignoring me? How can I get her to tell me how she feels?

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9 July 2008 (F)

I worry that I'm not good at kissing! Any tips?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive kissed plenty of boys, but sometimes i worry that im not really up to par! i dont know what to do with my tongue, should i move it in clockwise spirals or counterclockwise? should i flick? should i thrust it deep into his mouth? where do i put my hands? what do guys like ... (71 words)

Does he like me? He has a girlfriend but I catch him staring at me.

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that was in my class, i noticed that he's been staring at me since April. In late May; i started to like him so i told him and he said he had a g/f...but after her told me that, he would still stare at me...one time, my class was in the computer lab and i was ... (117 words)

How do I get over a friend who I can't contact or get any closure from?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am happily married to my best friend. There is nothing wrong between us. However, I had a good friend I met almost 5 years ago at college. Almost the whole time I knew "college guy" I was dating my current husband. I did have a crush on "college guy" but nothing major...... (218 words)

My girlfriend and I are rarely in contact anymore, and I like another girl!

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9 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Sorry for the length, but I desperately need help!!!I'm 12, turning 13 in about a week. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 6-7 months now, and I guess for our age, we have a good physical life, but since summer started we haven't seen each other,and her IM, ... (284 words)

Should I change for him or act like myself and see what happens?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months and here in the past year i have felt like i cant be myself around him. a couple of nights ago we went out and on the way home we got into an aggument and i said something about not being able to be myself around him ... (166 words)

Do people who have trouble with intimacy tend to "disconnect" from their lovers?

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9 July 2008 (F)

- Do people who have trouble with intimacy tend to "disconnect" from their lovers? I fall in love easily and deeply. But I tend to self-sacrifice my needs, always putting others, espeically my man, ahead of my own desires. I frequently put up with alot of crap from the men I ... (272 words)

Does what he wrote in his email mean he has feelings for me?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Idk what to think, but this guy and me are being keeping touch for a year now. The reason that has been difficult is bcuz he's GI and stationed across the country. I've being in contact with him since he was stationed in Japan (I met him in a mission before he left fo his base ... (231 words)

I don't feel like my girlfriend trusts or cares about me, how can I help our relationship?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi can anyone please help me I'm a 15 yo in a lesbian relationship...my girlfriend isn't makin me happy. i always try to express my needs to her. I need her to express her feelings also and she won't. I know we have love in our relationship but I don't feel like she cares or ... (228 words)

I can't tell if this guy likes me or not. Is he just being friendly?

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9 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I cannot tell if this guy likes me or not. I am in a relationship (5 years) and he is a mutual friend. When we were all saying bye once he held my hand a little longer that I expected. He kept eye contact a little longer too. He's always playfully teasing me (it's not mean at ... (123 words)

I recently found out my husband has been seeing a prostitute. What do I do?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for five years and have recently found out that my husband has been seeing a prostitute. When I confronted him he was sorry but I believe that he was sorry he was caught. I am very depressed and cannot stop thinking about the situation. He has made me feel ... (63 words)

Can my friend be pregnant from being fingered?

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9 July 2008 (F) age 26-29 - my friend was fingered at a party but it wasn't like a typical party no alcohol or anything it was a barbeque and the guy that was there had been there for over 2 hours, shes freaking out because she hasn't had her period yet and she was supposed to have it in the late june ... (76 words)

Can love overcome our money problems?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I hope you can help..or at least share your input. My name is Susan. I have been with my soul mate since I was 16. He is my heart and soul and is the most tenderhearted gentleman I know. I'm now 23 years old. He is 25. We are both people who work hard but we are ... (491 words)

How can I survive my father's failing marriage?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sixteen and have been living with my father the past two years. To say the least, things aren't working out. We fight all the time, and I feel like it's because he blames me for his marriage falling apart. Let me tell you that I have lived through two divorces already on ... (179 words)

How can I get the guy I cheated with and his boyfriend to break up?

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9 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Well how should i start...im gay, there's this guy I really really really like. Im 14, he 16. He has a boyfriend but 1 day he had sex with me and cheated on him with me in the mall bathroom. Ok his boyfriend walked in on us while we were doing it. Once he saw he walked rite ... (178 words)

His friend says my boyfriend is cheating ... again.

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating this guy for over a year now, excluding the two months we broke up from october to december. we broke up because he had been cheating on me. we got back together because he told me he changed himself for the better and he swore he wouldn't ever do anything to ... (172 words)

I need to tell my girlfriend I'm gay.

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9 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I have been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and love her dearly but not in a sexual way. Since i was about 12 i never had a sexual feeling towards girl. I've only ever see men attractive. After 8 years have decided to come out as a gay man. My qu... (164 words)

By having unprotected oral sex, I may have contacted a disease of some sort, what do I do?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm acared migh have caught something. I gave a ex friend a bj and he has been with alot of girls. We didn't use any form of protection. Im lost in thinking maybe i got something from him. I'm with a new boyfriend its been 8 months and he want to do stuff but im afraid I might ... (79 words)

I am a teenage male, who is seriously interested in losing my virgin status, how do I go about this??

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9 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. im a 14 year old boy and i REALLY want to have sex. i can't stand it... im tired of people saying "just wait till your older. i want to now... i have friends at school who have already had sex. and if i get to i WILL wear condom...i just want to know how sex feels. and ... (88 words)

Child from my boyfriends past, makes two, by two different women, if true, I want kids, can all this work??

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a 5 year old with another women, he just got an e-mail from someone he dated 4 years ago claiming he is the father of his little girl What do I do? I am currently 27 years old and have been dating my current boyfriend for about 2 months. I have know him fo... (312 words)

Confused, by sexual issues, don't want to have oral sex, we broke up, but I love him, and want him back, what can I do??

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy fingered me and i love him to death but we broke up and now i feel like a slut because im only 13 and i let a 14 year old finger me but i love him to death and want him back he wanted me to have oral sex with him but i said no. what should i do!... (61 words)

Really like my ex teacher a lot, afraid I'll jeopardize his career, if I act on my feelings, any suggestions?

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 19 year-old woman who has a little bit of a predicament on her hands. I'm in love with a former teacher. He's like twice my age or more but I can't stop thinking about him! I have never encountered this problem in all my years and wish I didn't now. I'm not the type ... (309 words)

I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and we haven't kissed, how do I make a move?

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9 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 14 and i need help. my gf is 13 and we have been going out for 1 year. and i want her to kiss me but i dont know how to. plz help.... (35 words)

I've liked him for 8 years but he won't open up and actually say if he wants to be with me

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help I've been in love with this guy for 2 years now But I've had a crush on him since 2000 him and I talk off and on he acts like he likes me and wants to be with me but it also seems like he's afraid or something I try my best to stay calm and patient with him ... (111 words)

My chilhood sweetheart wants to be with me but it's complicated, he has a girlfriend he has stuck by because she is pregnant...

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9 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy from the time I was 16 to the time I was 21. As per most "highschool sweethearts" relationships, it ended due us wanting a bit of a change, some experience elsewhere etc. We both agreed that we wouldn't try to be friends right away, as it would be too hard, wit... (606 words)