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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend doesn't care like he should... Am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been together with my boyfriend for about four months now. We were together a year ago for 9 months but we were never really truly together because he was going through a divorce and said he would never have another girlfriend or get married again. I stuck by him and ... (496 words)

Do I have PID? Please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me i dont have insurance and i was reading another question on here and it was talking about PID and some smytpoms are bleeding and other things and i bleed very lightly once in a while between periods but mainly bout 1 week b4 i start my period and thats the only ... (106 words)

He's away and I'm paranoid... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was seeing a guy 4 7mths who was a friend of a friend that i had known for ages. Before we got together he changed jobs and now is a snowboarding instructor. When we got together he was out of work but knew that eventually when he got one abroad he would go back to doing it. ... (173 words)

My friend is trying to set me up with a guy I don't like. How do I get out of the blind date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a bit of an awkward problem. My best friend has decided to set me up on a blind date. At first I was a bit unsure but she assured me she had found the perfect guy for me and wanted us to meet for a drink. She's a great friends and we usually agree on which men are ... (170 words)

My fiance has lost his interest in sex, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My soon to be husband hasn't had sex with me in 2 weeks. Prior to that it had been 10 days before we engaged in sex. He says he isn't in the mood ever, and that he is too tired. This worries me , because we are a young couple about to marry. How long should I have to wait for ... (81 words)

Is it possible to have a baby if you are an overweight smoker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im a bigger girl and i smoke i know its bad and i just want 2 know if there is any other bigger girls that smoke that ever had a baby bcuz i know if ur overweight and smoke its harder 2 concive and i wanna have 1 so i just want to know if it is possible.... (58 words)

I really don't know whether to follow my heart or my head.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so the thing is my ex boyfriend went though a really bad patch about 2 years ago after he lost his father, they were really close, and they spent most weekends together, then after he died he started drinking, smoking weed, and cheating on me, and a few times hit out at m... (161 words)

I have some concerns about the new vaccine, Gardasil.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my dad is telling me and my sister that he's willing to pay the expensive price for us to get the vaccine, gardasil. I know its a new medicine so idk a whole lot about it or side effects and what not. I was reading some stuff online but not a lot of them were from people... (83 words)

I'm not sure what to do about this friend that is being bullied!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My friend is being bullied (just teasing) and told me not to tell. Should I tell anyway or listen to him? Once stood up for him and now the bully thinks his "girlfriend" need to protect him. He got very mad at me and say your a f***ing bitch, Why is he being a jerk? My friend ... (78 words)

I used to ask my girlfriend if I was the best at sex, and now she said that the best sex was with another guy, but I was the best at making love! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey ppl out there ive been in a relationship for a year and some months and i used to ask my gf if i was the best at sex she used to tell me yes and i was the first person to make her to cum alot and when having sex now i ask her again recently who was the best she eva had ... (177 words)

Cheating in a long distance relationship! And how do you know if you love someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started going out with this Australian guy about a year ago, he was living in the UK. After about six months he went travelling for a bit, this was his plan before he met me, but we stayed together and I even flew over to meet him while he was in Italy a couple of times for ... (369 words)

He dumped me, and I don't want to ruin my senior year ruined by this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i was with the greatest guy in the world for atleast a year and a half we were so in love always on the phone for hours at, school holding hands going to collage fairs spending the summer days together i was madely in love with him and i thought it was the same way ... (123 words)

Should I give up on finding love and opt for casual sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and still a virgin. It is not something I am proud of anymore, in fact I find it to be frustrating and a total drag. All my life I tried to find someone special but did not succeed. My body is aching for sex, and I feel like I am missing out. The fact that people ... (252 words)

His constant praise and putting me on a pedestal has killed my libido.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in head over heels in love with my boyfriend of 1 year and i truly believe we will grow old together. the only problem is that he practically worships the ground that i walk on. (he has repeatedly said "i worship you" and other gushy nonsense) He is constantly fawning ... (185 words)

My partner just ignores my wish for more affection. Now I've met this new guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with my partner for 3yrs now and we have 3 kids between us. i love him more than anything despite him having cheated many times. i'd never want to hurt him. thing is, more and more stuff is irritating me about him and he never just hugs me or kisses me etc i have to ... (150 words)

Going on holiday and I'd quite like to get with somebody while I'm away. What can I do to increase my chances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going on holiday next week. I a 20 year old man and I'm single. I have been single for over a year now, and I am now growing bored of single life. To be honest, I have never really been happy being single since my first girlfriend left me. However, this holiday has the ... (231 words)

Any tips on boosting self-confidence? I want to stop letting my friends down.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, have you any tips on how to boost your confidence? I have always had low self esteem and i am very shy and often complain that i have no social life. But in the past few weeks, i have refused to go out with my friends around 5 times. I say i will go, but then i let them ... (348 words)

Why do men say they want real women if they fantasize and desire "fake" girls, if it's the ideal woman then they should want to be with them, right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hello, I wrote this last night: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-hate-to-think-that-a-anorexic-fake.html Basically, I was saying that guys (and my boyfriend especially) say that women in the media and strip clubs are hotter than us normal girls. That i'ts the ideal and ... (255 words)

I just can't get my mind off him... we're talking three years now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Ok lets start from the beginning, a couple of months ago i made the biggest mistake ive ever made. I am known for doing and saying stupid things because i often speak or do something before thinking it through. But this one is a biggy, i stupidly told my friends ... (166 words)

I've got genital warts. Wil my boyfriend definitely have them too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i find out that i have [hpv] genital warts.and ive had the same boyfriend for 10 months. and were both faithful no other partners.well i took him to the doctor the next day after my appt.and they thought he had one so the removed it. but there not 100% sure he has it too. ... (69 words)

I'm tempted, but I'm married. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. I am a 27 year old woman and been with my husband for 6 years (married for one) when we first got together we had good sex. I have heard all about his previous "relationships" they were mainly all one night stands, he had a lot of sex! In the last ... (257 words)

I'm very nervous about having sex with my current guy... I had a creepy experience with my first bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I had a creepy experience with my first boyfriend at 15 ["he" was actually a very convincing 'transgender', to use the word that was used, I had no idea until I was told. ICK!] It left me confused and off relationships for a while, but now after a few minor ones, I'm with a guy ... (155 words)

He swears he has feelings for me. Why do I find it so hard to believe him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This is a kind of complicated problem, but please try to understand it. Ok, so my problem is with a lad who Im good friends with. Im 15 and he's 17. We've always been good friends, but recently Ive developed much, much stronger feelings for him (not just a stupid teenage crush ... (269 words)

How can I gain weight in a healthy way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help. I'm underweight according to BMI calculations (i'm 5'7'' and 102 lbs.) I'm skinny, but not to the point where you can see any bones, and I'm filled out in all the right places, so I don't get how I'm underweight. I have tried everything to gain weight, from not ... (119 words)

Am I wise to keep seeing this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This past September I broke up with my fiancee. We were dating for five years. We broke up in the worse possible way because we are still spending time with one another and behaving like a couple. However we no longer refer to ourselves as bofriend/ girlfriend (fiancee) and ... (217 words)

How can I initiate more lovemaking and less plain sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months and we are planning on getting married next summer. (he's 24, i'm 19) our sex life has always been great, except for the past few times when i've taken forever to get anywhere. we've been rushed, i've been majorly ... (220 words)

My dad is cheating on my mum. Who can I speak to about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, Me and my older brother saw texts on my dad's fone to another woman saying 'Honey, I love you'. My parents are still together, but my mum doesn not know. My brother and I confronted him RIGHT now and he lied, we showed him the texts and he said 'You shouldn't be g... (158 words)

Does he have any feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I want to keep this as basic as possible. I want to know if this person has feelings for me. They: 1. they treat me differently to everybody else, with more respect. 2. They can't condemn me no matter what I do. 3. They stare deep into my eyes and when I ... (181 words)

Guys go for my friend and not for me. Why?????????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so basically this is really getting me down and fed up. My best friend and i go out a lot together and meet people together, we are practically never apart socially. She is blonde and probably described as 'FIT' but not small featured or pretty. Where as i have seri... (138 words)

I let a couple of friends down seeing my boyfriend instead. Now it seems they don't want us to hang out this summer. Have I really ruined it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months now (pretty amazing for me) but recetnly friends have been getting funny with me about seein him. We have like a routine and we go round each others houses etc. and to be honest I have let a couple down in ... (97 words)

I have a hand and foot fetish, but she doesn't measure up. Should I settle for what I've got?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi please help im desperately seeking help.im so depresed.my problem is i am i hand and foot guy.love french manicures and pedicures make me go wild.it only gets me aroused.so im with my girlfrien for 2yrs.i have tried to get her to grow her nails to the normal avarge length of ... (144 words)

He lied to his ex-girlfriend. He lied to me about having an orgasm. Now the trust is gone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just had a very honest discussion regarding sex, with my boyfriend. He once had a threesome (MMF)although claims it did not involve full blown sex. He was in a long term relationship with another girl at the time (5 years) and claimed he really was in love but they ... (337 words)

We dated, but stopped. He likes to flirt still, and I want to date him again. How do I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, I wonder if you could help me please? About 6 months ago I fell for a close friend. We dated for a while but due to heavy workloads we decided to call it a day. The thing is I am still madly in love with him and would love to date him again. I think he likes me... (84 words)

My girlfriend was so young when someone took advantage of her - and now she's still defending him. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A male United States age 18-21, flyboy275 writes: Hey guys, Well i have a wonderful girlfriend that is most definately the best thing that has ever happened to me! This much i promise.....but i have a problem...... I have come on this site and asked a couple times ... (352 words)

Does anyone have any experience of being on depo-Provera, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, So I'm On depo-Provera. The deal is my next shot is on August 29th (you get the shot every 3 months) your not to get your period on this shot and its it july 25th and I'm on my period STILL. I've been on it for 6 days now, Along with that I've been getting this strange ... (87 words)

My mum is taking my stepbrother on holiday. Is she disowning me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My mum and dad are divorced and i have a new step brother who is 15. My mum seems to dislike me for some reason and i have treated her a bit unfairly over the years but she seems to act jealous of me or something. Recently she asked me to go on holiday with just her and my two ... (182 words)

Could I be pregnant even if he pulled out before he came? The condom rolled down!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question, the other day my bf and I were havin sex and right when he pulled out b4 he came he notice that the condom broke and rolled all down to shaft of his penis, so doent that mean I can be pregnant even if he pulled out b4 he came? Ps. He always pulls out for so... (75 words)

I'm having unbearable period cramps, is this normal? What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 15 and I started my period when I was 11. So I've been used to it for 4 years now. It has always been extremely heavy, but then I got a little used to that too. But for the last couple times I've had my period, I get unbearable pains, I'm just not able to stan... (199 words)

I'm only 5'7", will I ever have a growth spurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

- Hi. Ive never had a growth spurt, and im 17 and 5 foot 7. Will i get a growth spurt/grow more? My mom is 5'2, and dad is 6'0. Also my brother is 15, yet he is 5'9, is this normal? I know this might seem silly, but its depressing me. Thanks for all replies.... (55 words)

How do you tell a telemarketer that you are interested in male enhancement issues, and find out if you both are bi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age - is it possible to convey to an email telemarketer that you would welcome further correspondence with them about male enhancement issues, and find out if you are both oriented toward a bi persuasion?... (33 words)

I met a guy on holiday in Greece, now he says he misses me and wants me to go back to meet up!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been back from a holiday in Greece for a week. While I was there me and my friend got to know a local guy really well. He spoke perfect english and worked in a restaurant and a supermarket which we visited reguarly. He was older than we were and married with a kid - ... (281 words)

Can a man love his wife and keep outside affairs seperate, and be content and happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for 18 years, who never wanted to get married in the first place. He was and is a player ever since I had met him. When I gave him an ultimatum. he married me after dating for 10 years. Anyway, He had many affairs before and after the ... (230 words)

I've been seeing him for two months, I'm pregnant and he's acting distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive been seein this person for like 2 months n at the start everythin was great i couldnt of wished to be happier but recentl like 3 weeks ago he's been distant from me n i was askin him if everythin was ok n he was sayin everythins kool but i new it wasnt coz he never ... (311 words)

Are men programmed to lose interest in a woman after they've had sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age - I,ve been flirting with a friend of mine for months and yesterday we finally had sex. Today I feel that i really could be in love with him, but i have this feelin that now hes finally got his shag i'll hardly see him - and before u say it the sex was GOOD. Are men programm... (87 words)

Any sex advice for a larger lady?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very overweight and not very "attractive" but I've met a fella who accepts me as I am. We're now having regular intercourse for the first time in my life.To be honest I'm just glad to feel wanted and satisfy a man's needs in bed.Looking ahead,though, I'd like to have ... (91 words)

How can I get more pleasure from mastermation as I have a useless boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever I want sex or pleasure, my bf doesnt want to. and Usually tells me [take care of it yourself] Firstly, if I wanted to take care of it myself, I wouldnt need to be with him. and Secondly, taking care of it myself, is NOTHING like when he does it. Ive read ... (120 words)

He has OCD and then had an affair, but was so good to me when my mum died. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner has asked for some space to sort through his issues. He suffers from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder(OCD) is very depressed and has self harmed. My mother has recently died from cancer and he was fantastically supportive but I have found out that he has had an affair ... (133 words)

He says he's not in the mood for sex but then goes and jerks off!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I just had an argument. and Well I dont quite understand him, I was hoping on advice. I told him last night that I wanted to get a shower to fool around. [ and We have this big shower, so theres room, or even a jacquzzi bath] But instead, he jerked off. ... (179 words)

I have caused my girlfriend to lose her trust in me. how do I win her and it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend and i have been going out for 7 months now and it been some of the best times of our lives. problem is that she has always distrusted me from the very start and thinks i am up to something behind her back. trust would kind of build up but on 3 occasions i have ... (216 words)

Broke up with an abusive boyfriend - how do I get my life back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Im 19 years old and I have just split up with my boyfriend today. I love him so much but he hits me he has left me with so many bruises and he has kicked me round the head today and pushed me off a tree. He has also been txting other girls, one minute he says he loves me ... (223 words)

Why can't a 14 yearold date but not sleep with a 26 year old?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just wondering something. You know how they say you shouldn't see anyone who's really older than you, like in a loving way? like say you're a teen who likes or thinks you're in love with someone say in their 20's or 30's. say you're like 14 and you like someone who is 26. ... (168 words)

I want people to tell me about the implant...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, last question for tonight. How many woman out there are using an implamon for contraceptive method (or know anything about it?) and what side affects have occured?... (28 words)

My girl no longer wants sex - is it because I'm too small?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 6 months decided to stop being sexual with me. Does this mean im not good enough if bed? And how to I make her feel good when we have sex if im only 5 inches long... (39 words)

I had an abortion and I still think about the guy who got me pregnant. Will I ever stop wondering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an abortion almost a year and a half ago. Other then a few text messages I havnt spoken with the 'father' since. We never realy knew each other very well and although he promised he'd always be there whatever my decision - obviously he hasnt been. Ive been with my now ... (139 words)

Is he willing to have a "conscious" relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been involved with a man for 3 years. During that time he was healing from an addict wife who left him with 2 children. At first, we were just friends and things progressed. Each time we were intimate he would say that he was not "prepared for someone like me". He left a ... (252 words)

My boyfriend sweats a lot and it grosses me out! The sheets need to be changed all the time....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf sweats a lot and sometimes it smells. The sheets need to be changed at least every 3rd night. I feel terrible sleeping on the other side of bed to him, I love him with all my heart but it just grosses me out sometimes. What do I do?... (50 words)

I have no drive or motivation in my life so how do I turn this around?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - can anyone please help me? to be honest i dn't know what is wrong with me. i feel like im not happy with my life. i have no drive, motivation or get up and go, for life. i feel like i find it so hard to live a normal life, im so disorganised, and i really feel like doing not... (291 words)

I am going mad over my girlfriend's new male friend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been going out 7 months now. last month she got an email from a male friend she was at school with. she chatted on msn then decided to meet him. she told me about it and the fact he single. but instead of agreeing to meet somewhere she picked him up in ... (193 words)

My problem is I don't enjoy sex although, according to the women I have been with, I am good in the bedroom.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old guy. And my problem, put simply, is that i don't enjoy sex. Ever sinec i was a kid i wanted that sort of "fairy tale" experience. Since then though, i've learned to know better through a series of heartbreaks and backstabs that still weigh heavy. Nowad... (180 words)

When I'm left alone I have terrible thoughts, about people who I'm very close to, dying or becoming very ill. Why does this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have a wonderfuly life. I love living. I think life is the most beautiful of gifts. Today I am truly truly happy. However. Often when Im left alone I have terrible thoughts, about people who Im very close to dying or becoming very ill.And I cry, a lot. Its st... (94 words)

He never tells me that sex was great unless I ask him! Is this normal? Do guys do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time after sex I tell my BF that it was awesome ... he just saiz "Thank you" ... than he is relaxing and staring somewhere in the air .. or he is staring at me or just holding me ... he never tells me that it was great unless I ask him, than he saiz "yes babe I loved it!" ... (192 words)

He went soft for a brief period during unprotected sex.. then he said it felt like he hadn't come.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Ok, so here it is. My partner and I had unpretected sex last night and usualy we use the "pull out method' which i know is risky blah blah blah not looking for a lecture on that. But last night, he said during sex for a very brief period for some reason his penis... (113 words)

Why did I let this girl destroy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well i was in a relationship with an English girl for a year i was still living in ireland,everything was perfect we were so in love,we would see each other every month.The last time she arrived she was vey distant no hugs weird but the plan was iwas moving over to be ... (244 words)

My family is worried about me seeing my ex, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I have been talking to one another for the last 6 months and we were planning this week to see each other but I had to lie to my parents about where I was going. They found out and my mom says that I am 21 to make my on decision my dad cannot even look at ... (160 words)

I'm interested in group sex, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am interested in group sex but i would like to know about the advantages and disadvantages of group sex and how can i enjoy more with different type of sex. my some friends and their wives are also interested to join in group sex with me and my wife but everybody want to know ... (94 words)

I feel woman aren't attracted to me, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do females look at me as if I am very ugly? I am a twenty one year old guy who has never had a girlfriend because of how I look. Every time I look at a female with a pleasant face, she would look at me with an 'as if' attitude or give me a dirty look and go her way. Fem... (189 words)

Tempted by a married man, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone! Any help with this situation would be muchly appreciated! For years I have liked this guy who is 16yrs older than me and married =(, i tried my best to forget about him, but everytime i saw him it was back to square one. One day we were alone together and h... (287 words)

Gf told me I'm not the best sex she's had, what should I do?

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25 July 2008 (M)

Is doubting a relationship normal? Do all couples experience it on some level?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'll try to make this as brief as possible! I broke up with my partner last year after being together for 3 years. I had spent a great deal of time obsessing about our compatibility, and I realised that life is just too short to spend so much time doubting a relat... (409 words)

She loves another guy now, but she keeps complimenting me. I don't understand her behaviour.

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is the second time I turn to this website for advice. The short story is that I had a girlfriend for 10 years. She cheated on me, I forgave her but she dumped me. The long story is detailed here: http://www.dearc... (687 words)

I fell in love with a girl I met online. Now I'm beginning to suspect there are things she hides from me.

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. This may sounds funny. I met a girl online which lives so far from here. We have been talking to each other online for few years. I fall in love with her. She does say she loves me. From talking online, we progressed to talking on phone for few months, showing each oth... (176 words)

What am I to her now? Not even a friend? Is it best to walk away without a word?

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been together with my girlfriend for a year. Until few months ago, I moved for working and no longer meet each other that often. We still talk to each other on phone everyday. Last month, she told me she is going to vacation on the next couple of days. I was shocked be... (538 words)

My best friend calls me a "cradle robber" because I like a boy a year younger than me, but I need help to approach him.

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i really REALLY like this boy ALOT! im 14 almost 15 and hes 13 almost 14. but im in 10th grade and hes in 8th. it was hard enough for me to tell my bff that i had fallen for him. but she is totally against it! she even calls me a kerd (cradle robber)! :( ! he likes me ... (103 words)

I have an amazing boyfriend but I'm miserable because I don't have any other friends.

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need advice, and to spare u anymore agony my dearc agony aunts, im gonna make a long story short. Im miserable, I have an amazing boyfriend that I love and really enjoy spending time with but other than him I don't really have any other friends. I feel so lonel... (158 words)

I have sexual feelings for my cousin, I'm going to tell her how I feel at a movie... How do I ask her to sleep with me?

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so here's my problem........I've always had sexual feelings for my second cousin.......I'm 18 and shes 27..........when we were younger, I remember her asking me to kiss her on her mouth, I never thought anything of it then but now I realize she was thinking in a ... (588 words)

My friend is cheating on his awful girlfriend... why can't he be a man and come clean?

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25 July 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My best guy friend has been dating this HORRIBLE woman for almost two years. The relationship is on again, off again. He talks about wanting to be with somebody else because he doesn't like drama, but whenever they break up, she tells him what he wants to hear and he takes her ... (214 words)

I cyber-stalk my boyfriend's ex to make sure they aren't talking to each other. How can I not worry so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, I tend to get a bit obsessive when it comes to my boyfriends Ex-girlfriend. We have been together for almost 2 years and I know I shouldnt worry. But I get so paranoid when it comes to her and ONLY her. Like I have to go to her profile and find out whats going on just ... (165 words)

I'm 13 and might be in love with my father's best friend... or is it just admiration?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I love a man that is 14 years older then me. I think about him all the time but I don't know if he loves me. He always talks to me and makes me feel that he loves me but sometimes I wonder. But there is one other slight problem he is my father's best friend. Do you think it is ... (71 words)

I really want to move to California, but my boyfriend is against it because he's a mama's boy. How can things work between us?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always wanted to move to California. Its been a dream of mine for as long as I can remember. And the career Im interested in, I'd make more money there. But I have one problem. My boyfriend of a year and a half is against california. I love my boyfriend more t... (354 words)

Where do I find people to have cybersex with?

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I like to chat online but recently I've wanted to do some cybersex chatting and have no idea where to find partners for free! Anyone know? thx... (29 words)

After three years I'm no longer interested in sex with him, should I suggest an open relationship?

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am almost 39 years old, a gay male living in Los Angeles, CA. I've lived here for about 7 or so years. I am currently in a relationship with another male who is 35 years old. I am caucasian and he is Asian American. I am finding that after 3 years of dating I'm getting ... (287 words)

I hate to think that anorexic, fake breasted whores are better than me! How do I stop being insecure?!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I hate having to compete with media beauties. My boyfriend (23) admitted that the girls on TV are supposed to represent the fantasy of the ideal female. He says they're hotter than the average female because that's what they're paid for, the same as strippers, porn stars. ... (397 words)

Is it possible to have two "loves" in your life as opposed to just one?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of hard to explain and a little confusing, but hopefully you'll get the drift... I dated a guy for a year and three months; I met this particular guy about a month after I met another guy. I liked this "another" guy before I even met the one I dated. Then the ... (178 words)

How can I control my raging hormones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I think i have a problem with my hormones. im 16 and i am a guy who doesnt really think about sex while being next with other girls its the last thing i want because i respect girls. Id rather talk than "do" when i am alone yea i am hiprocriticl and i feel bad recently i... (158 words)

Mixed Signals: Does he just want to be friends?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused about this guy's behaviour. Can someone explain it to me? This guy who im good friends with (and used to like me) is sending me mixed signals. I know he wants to be friends and I also know he's the type of guy who jumps from girl to girl because when we ... (172 words)

He pulls away when I try to get intimate, does he have trust issues?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about a month, and when we started to get intimate he pulled away. I still see him all the time and he always acts so weird around me now. When I saw him at work he was avoiding me, but my friend said that he kept looking at me. Then when I was ... (289 words)

I'm in love with my step brother but our parents are trying to break us up!

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. well, first off, everyone know that step siblings are NOt blood related. ok. now, im in love with my step brother, and we are planning to go to college together. We only lived in the same house for like, 3 years, so its not like we were raised as siblings. ob... (174 words)

Am I crazy and sick for thinking my boyfriend is getting off with my kid's underwear?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I am very disturbed right now and need to get some feed back. Maybe I am crazy. I have been dating this guy for almost three years. Certain times I get the feeling that he has a sick sexual side. Besides the fact that we have major issues around sex. Can't get it up...... (921 words)

Since I got a job, everyone is begging me for money!!

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I got a job last month and I recently got paid for the first time. Since I got paid (200 dollars) everyone has been breathing down my neck and begging for money. I got two pay checks and with the first I paid for food for the house which cost ($ 54.54) Then I paid fifteen ... (420 words)

I want to talk to my children... any idea what to do, and what legal actions can I take?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - so here is the situation my kids live in another state with there dad, MY X boyfriend. I left in order to get my life together. Before I left I was not able to see my kids he would give me ultimatums like sleep with me or you can't see your kids, now He wont let me talk to them ... (103 words)

I don't regularly have washes and I'm worried about how I would smell to a boyfriend.

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. this is embarrasing. but i dont regually have washes. once every two months if im lucky. and im worried if i get a boyfriend my area down below wont smell too good. if i start washing now everyday will it smell good if he was ever to go down there? if i started washing ... (68 words)

We're getting married in two weeks, but since his children from a previous relationship and his sister have come, he has basically ignored my son and me.

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am supposed to get married in two weeks. My fiance has been living with my son and I for about two months. He has two children from a previous marriage that I do not know very well because they do not visit here very often. They are visiting now and he, his two children ... (107 words)

Do women 'cum' like men?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do women cum? I know that men do alot but i'm confused.I know that women get moist down there I have made out with guys and my underware gets wet is that a female version on cum? I have never had sex so sorry is I sound like a retard. Thanxs for advise.... (53 words)

Women, is it looks or height?

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women in general prefer looks(face,muscles etc...) or height?... (9 words)

I'm liking this other guy but am still in love with the other one.

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship for 9 months with a man i fell in love with, but he was having problems and couldn't deal with them... so we split up but then i started dating someone else and the man i was dating before fixed his problems and began realizing that he loved me and felt ... (106 words)

Her parents don't accept me! I haven't been rude or offensive. Thank you for any comments.

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for almost a year. We both love each other but her parents don't accept me. I come from a "well off" family. Not breaking the bank money but enough. She comes from a horrible council estate. From the moment I me... (176 words)

I have a lot of UTIs.... and I get this smell... can anyone help me?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im 17 years old, and i have been with this guy for two years now. Well in the past i have been with alot of guys. But i was tested and i never had nothing. But like if i have sex with my boyfriend like alot, i get UTI's all the time.. and i always get them, and i ... (92 words)

A year and four months without sex. I'm feeling frustrated. I HAVE to have sex again soon! Help!

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been out tonight drinking with some friends. Two of my friends are a couple. Their relationship is falling apart, AND YET, chances are that tonight they are going to be be at home together having sex. Same goes for 2 of my other friends who aren't really in a rela... (303 words)

I am easily aroused, is this normal?

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I get aroused rather quickly I dont know if this is normal or not but whenever i start to make out with a girl i start to get aroused, and even if we are cuddling up and she has her arm under my shirt rubbing my stomach i get aroused. DO guys usually get aroused this fa... (73 words)

If I watch other guys getting "pegged", am I gay?

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25 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Pegging describes a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo. http://en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice) Does enjoying pegging porn make me gay?I know practicing it doesn't really mean I'm gay,but does watching other guys... (47 words)

I hear that he likes me, and I like him, but he's asked out other girls. What do I do?

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25 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy that I've known for AGES. I never used to fancy him, we didn't even talk that much, but now we're closer and we've become really good mates, and I now fancy him. I sometimes used to catch him looking at me, but thought it was because him and his mate were tal... (309 words)