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Archived questions from: February, 2022 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Practical joker or potential stalker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

28 February 2022 (F)

age - Dear Cupid Does anyone have any experience of a married man who might try to cause havoc in a woman's life if she rejects his advances, and would this be just a case of spite or is evidence of some kind of stalking? I am single and have been talking to a married man for ... (229 words)

I still think of my former lover

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

28 February 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair that I ended nearly three years ago. I don’t need to be lectured on my poor choices - nor do I justify them, but there are many layers to the complete story. On a positive note, my husband and I have made tremendous progress in our relationship, which has taken ... (125 words)

I am an orphan and have been lied to my entire life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 785 days ago

27 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - He is rich and famous and I am just a poor girl who got passed around from one person to the next. I have been sex trafficked after we got married but it was only verbally and we need a ring. I forgot the entire event because I was later attacked mentally by family members and ... (556 words)

I feel lost and unhappy in my marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

26 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, So... I'm sure my problem is a very common one on this site. I have been married for 7 years now (I got married when I was 23) and I love my husband so much. However, since we came to Canada around 6 months ago, I noticed that he's more pre-occupied wit... (547 words)

Dont know whenever to end this relationship cuae of his anger issues

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

26 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - The past couple of days he was all over me with cuddles and kisses and affection today he was was cold he talks behind my back and he's a completely different person . Only.yesterday we was talking of marriage and future . Only yesterday we was talking about what a good day ... (1671 words)

Female friend / colleague blanks me outside of work

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

26 February 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - A girl started working for me a couple of years ago and we hit it off instantly. We had a similar sense of humour and although she is a bit socially awkward (by her own admission), we just seemed to get each other and enjoyed each other's personalities. Soon enough, we started ... (375 words)

Female porn star has taken a shine to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 789 days ago

25 February 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - since I have broken up with my girlfriend, I’ve been feeling lonely and a bit lost of late. was on facebook the other day and came across this lady who is from los angles. she’s really beautiful and we immediately became friends on facebook. she started speaking to me, right ... (143 words)

How do I know if a crush is getting out of hand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 789 days ago

25 February 2022 (F) age 41-50 - I'm attracted to my coworker. My boss (the director of the school I work in) to be more precise. What scares me is that the feeling might be mutual. I don't want this in my life, so I'm doing everything I can not to feed this crush and not to spend time with him unless it is... (713 words)

My husband sees nothing wrong with prostitution

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

23 February 2022 (F) age 36-40 - Hubby and I were chatting. We watched a program and it featured a prostitute. I asked if he would condemn a woman for her past if she was a prostitute before he met her. He said no he would not. He said if it was in her past and she no longer does it, why should he condemn her ... (153 words)

Happily married but attracted to the Zumba instructor

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I'm in an uncomfortable situation because I'm married and I do love my husband very much, but I have developed a crush on someone else. My husband and I have been married for 7 years now and we still love each other so much. We have both supported each other which is why ... (282 words)

How To Move Forward After a Toxic Relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

23 February 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I may be trauma bonded to my ex and I am trying to get the heck over myself. How do I do this? This was a relationship that grew out of the pandemic and still feels so big to me. Everything I experienced in this was on another level. I want to move on and have alre... (1505 words)

How do I extricate myself from this relationship without hurting feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

22 February 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have been with this guy for 5 months now, he is 32 and I am 25. We first met over tinder (yikes I know), we had a couple first dates it was lovely, he is funny and kind. It wasn't until the third date we slept together and since then we just hit it off, developing into a ... (535 words)

How do I tell my parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

22 February 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was 21 years old, I got my girlfriend, Beth, pregnant. We decided to put the baby girl up for adoption since neither one of us was ready to be parents. We did an open adoption. Stephanie (my biological daughter's name) is 16 years old. She knows who I am and who Beth ... (220 words)

I love my ex but also my so

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

22 February 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have been with my s/o for almost 10 years this May. I love him. I have a daughter with him, I have built a life with him. I met him when I was 15 years old. When I was in middle school - 9th grade I was on and off with a boyfriend. He was your typical bad boy, my mom... (348 words)

Am I too old to get a date

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

22 February 2022 (M)

age - Am I too old at 86 to get a date on site... (12 words)

I am 14 and want a dildo

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

21 February 2022 (F)

age 16-17 - I have an ongoing issue. I am longing for a dildo, and I am only 14! I really want to ask my mom for one but don't know how to confront her about it. Am I too young? If not, how should I ask her?... (45 words)

I don't want a relationship with my husband's parents right now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

21 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My in laws made it a rule last year that I cannot come to their home, RV or Cabin without being vaccinated. His parents also said a lot of bad things about me in the past year very hurtful things. His parents didn’t want him to marry me. He moved an hour away to live in the ... (329 words)

My anxiety is taking over my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

20 February 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I live on my own and my anxiety is through the roof. I can’t concentrate at work and this situation is taking over my life. I’m really scared about what is happening in regards to Russia and Ukraine. I’m watching everything on the news and social media. I know there is nothi... (84 words)

I'm not attracted to my partner since having my son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

20 February 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in my current relationship for 8.5 years, and we have a 2.5 year old son together. Recently, I have been having doubts as to whether I want to be with him or not. Since having my little boy, I have changed. I am not the person I was before, sometimes I prefer t... (409 words)

I feel lonely being single

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 771 days ago

19 February 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I am feeling confused right now and not sure what I should do. I have been rejected every time I have asked someone out so far, and have been in one relationship in the past. It was a short relationship, she left me to be with another guy. I don't hold a grudge against a... (248 words)

My partner blames me for ruining his 30 year friendship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

18 February 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Got a problem and could use some objective advice. I am in a long term relationship. My partner and I broke up about 3 years ago. I was feeling torn apart and upset after the break up and I became vindictive as a result. I cannot say I am proud of myself or my actions but I was ... (1251 words)

Should I set my dad up with one of my friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

18 February 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - One of my girl friends has fancied my Dad forever even when he was married hence making my Mom jealous. Now my Moms passed should I set them up? If so then how? ;-) ... (43 words)

I can't tell if he seriously likes me or not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

18 February 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - almost a month ago I met a guy at this bar and he ended up coming home with me, however, we just hooked up no sex. The next morning I woke up to his alarm and him cuddling me, even pulling me closer each time it went off and I took nothing from this. Totally prepared to add ... (344 words)

The barmaid has accused me of harassment

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

17 February 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - I normally like to go down to a working mens club and play snooker with some of the members, sometimes they want to play other times they do not or can’t be bothered. anyway I’ll try not to make this long and try to make it sound as though it makes sense. some barmaid has accu... (300 words)

My girlfriend feels trapped and blames me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

17 February 2022 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Aunts! My long-time live-in girlfriend of 10 years keeps saying that she feels trapped in our relationship and doesn't see a way out except for suicide. She says I am controlling and despite my many good qualities we are not compatible and she can't live with me anymo... (693 words)

My wife is pregnant by another man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 771 days ago

16 February 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my wife I do not know how to deal with. We have a happy open relationship with one child, we have been married six years and my wife has an African American boyfriend. She recently told me she is pregnant I know the baby is not mine. She wants to kee... (73 words)

I'm afraid of the Covid vaccine

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

16 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so scared, as my partner and parents have taken the vaccine. I wondered if anyone has had any luck convincing loved ones not to get boosters? If so, I would love to know how you were able to do that? I'm so scared of losing everyone I love.... (57 words)

Thank you to everyone

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

16 February 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - We've all been through a lot these past two years, some more than others. We've had the pandemic, lockdowns, toxic news, job losses and business closures, personal tragedies and the like. During this, many people have given their time and energy to helping others with thei... (164 words)

My boyfriend isn't very considerate toward me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

15 February 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - *I want to apologise for the length of this post, but details are needed to explain the situation as best as possible* I have been dating my boyfriend for exactly two years and it has been a generally happy relationship. Despite the fact we got together just before Covid, we... (842 words)

What is the deal with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

15 February 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey dearcupid, I caught my partner of 18 years spending time with another man at her work place, her place of work closes at 11pm some days or 12am, we have spoke about it and she says nothing is going on it was just games of pool but she was out till 2am in the morning and she ... (336 words)

Keen to hear your take on my weirdo neighbors!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

15 February 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - For anyone with an interest in psychology/human behavior, I'd LOVE to hear your opinions. I'm a sensitive person and usually have a pretty good gut instinct bout people. My new neighbors, a married 50's couple, put my stomach in knots! Firstly, so you understand the... (700 words)

Cheating at work, narcissist, manipulator gas lighter.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

14 February 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Met a guy at work, left my ex for him 5 years ago. guy at work had a reputation for being a womaniser. The whole time we were together never met his family, friends always hd separate christmases. End of 2018 he started another affair at work with another girl behind my back (i ... (656 words)

Do I still love him? Should we be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

13 February 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my boyfriend but lately things have been weird. I lived here in OREGON for a year and we met and fell in love. A love I’ve never ever had before. I moved to Washington in the summer and we said we’d be single but couldn’t leave each other so we stayed together and ... (408 words)

Could this work for me and the new man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

12 February 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was 20 I met my husband, he was 26, extremely popular, in the army and I was amazed that he was even interested in me. We started dating and things moved very quickly. We got engaged after three months of dating and eloped a few days later. A few weeks later he sugge... (832 words)

Why is my ex saying we did not have sex when I know we did

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

12 February 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - I split up with my partner last year for a few months and despite messaging him he never responded. Fast forward I had a few drinks and actually don't remember leaving the pub I was in but I walked to his pub and all I can remember was standing in there and talking to him. ... (198 words)

I have a good guy but I think I want out of the relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

10 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what's wrong with me, my partner is good in a lot of ways. However I'm starting to feel like I want out of the relationship. I was a single mother before I met him and had reached a good level of independence. I feel in the relationship I'm stripped of that ind... (352 words)

I gave my homeless boyfriend my car to sleep in but now hes got some girl staying in it too. Do I take my car back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

10 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having a hard time with my bf whom is homeless at the time.he was living w me at my mothers but he wasnt trying to better himself to better our relationship .which upset my mother i was not willing to put myself out in the streets nd i did wat i had to do although i couldnt ... (189 words)

Should I sue the work colleague for libel and the company for siding with his lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

10 February 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - due to lies and malicious gossip, I’m being investigated by work, all because I supposedly sent messages to follow female work colleagues which is simply not true. I have put this down to prejudice, as I have been single out by a single somebody in the workplace. a male work ... (256 words)

Is it ok to want to have sex with an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

10 February 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - I met great woman the other day. She is single. I've already gone out with her a couple of times and want to see her again. our conversations are fun and exciting and have lasted for hours on end. we've even talked about sex. I find I want to have sex with her. The only thi... (132 words)

Fwb with my exs brother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 781 days ago

9 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dear Cupid readers, I'm in somewhat of a messy situation and really need some advice, the hard part is where to start. I guess I'll start at the beginning, so it started out that my on/off boyfriend and I were to move in with his brother as the rent would be cheaper for us ... (377 words)

Ashamed that I don't know who my Baby's Dad is

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 805 days ago

9 February 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - I can’t come to terms with the fact that I don’t know who my Baby’s Dad is, even though I’ve accepted I'll never being able to find him. The worst thing is if I happened to walk by him in the street by chance I wouldn’t even realise it was him because I can barely remember what ... (862 words)

Did my boyfriends ex cross the line or am I overreacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

9 February 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - So my boyfriend’s ex keeps asking too many personal questions about our sex life, and it’s starting to bother me but I don’t know if I’m overreacting. Like one example is that she wants to know if he’s still a virgin, to which I responded, “I’m not going into our sex life with ... (223 words)

My ex suddenly unblocked me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 805 days ago

9 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Been one month n half no contact from ex he had me blocked from whatsapp now suddenly unblocked me and im still a contact in his phone cause I can see. I was infertile so he left me cause i respected something he wanted of course hurt was involved we was with each other pockets ... (131 words)

Should I pursue Trevor or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 808 days ago

6 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've known this guy for 13 years, and I've been single for 12 years. Yes I've dated people but no actual boyfriend. Trevor is everything you want in a partner/husband - I can imagine having a family with him, I trust him completely, we argue sometimes but resolve things m... (273 words)

After 2 years, my boyfriend ghosted me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 807 days ago

6 February 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - I don’t know what to do anymore. My boyfriend of over 2 years ghosted me! There were no major issues, as far as I was made aware. I work with families and I’m so gutted that some have asked me what’s wrong because I look so miserable and I have no energy. It’s embarras... (246 words)

Should I forget about him or wait for that first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 807 days ago

5 February 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I'm 42 years old female, whose unmarried with no kids, Have my own house and stay alone. Recently I've just learned that there's this guy who is 37 years old who has some interest in me. I've met him when I had a problem with their product, so he was the one who was ... (390 words)

Frustrated at this friendship with no benefits

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 807 days ago

5 February 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - So there’s a guy I met through my cousin and we have been talking for a month but under the understanding that we would be FWB. I’m a 30 year old female and he is a 28 year old male. He has only had one partner and I’m a Virgin and tbh I just feel ready to explore my sexuality. ... (401 words)

One of the teachers has a noticeable crush on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 806 days ago

5 February 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - Im 20. As part of my university degree I'm studying abroad at a Spanish language school. One of the teachers there has a crush on me, strong enough for all the students to notice. I'm genuinely attracted to her and last Saturday we were dancing pretty sexually and kiss... (164 words)

My fwb doesn't want to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 808 days ago

5 February 2022 (F)

Which contraception is best and will least affect my body

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 808 days ago

4 February 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi just wondering which contraception is best and will least affect my body? I’m turning 16 next month and going to start having sex with my boyfriend when I am legal. He said he will use condoms every time but I just want to be extra safe and go on something as well. Do any ... (99 words)