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Did I hurt the married man I'm seeing? Is that why he's treating me like I mean nothing?

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19 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm a married f having an affair with a married m. We both wanted to stay married to our spouses,but enjoy seeing each other when ever we had a chance(casualsex). We had gotten closer together over the months and lately, I started having strong feelings for him. The last tim... (359 words

How can I flirt online or a webcam?

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19 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - Can everyone gives me ways to flirt with a guy or MSN and webcam ??? and also flirty questions I could ask my guy ??? ... (27 words

Help with love of my life/best friend and now my ex-girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - HI. I am am really needing some help with letting go of my ex-girlfriend. We were together off and on for over a year. We both have been wounded, just like everyone else, and obviously carry unresolved issues into the relationship. In the 14 months we were together, she has ... (326 words

What are a guy's intentions when he calls a girl to his place?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 24..we have been dating for a while now..after one such date he invited me over to his house but i refused to go because i had other plans after our date..but now all that is running in mind is why did he call me over to his place to sweet ... (81 words

My boyfriend is unsupportive about the pregnancy and I am not sure I should keep this baby...

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19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - i am 20 yrs old and i just found out i am pregnant. we used a condom and it broke. i took the day after pill and that didnt work. the guy wants to get rid of it because he's not ready. i haven't told my parents yet but i will sometime this week. he said he's scared and he ... (143 words

Should I let my parents meet him and show him my baby photos?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend lives two hours away from me, for my birthday this year (december, a long way away i know but still) I want to see him with all my other friends. He must be there, that's the only way I'll be happy. My mum doesn't know him because she doesnt know im seeing him, and ... (119 words

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me - how should I go about finding out?

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19 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ok, I think that my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years is cheating on me for several reasons, one of my friends said that they saw her out with another girl(one of her friends who i don't like) and 2 other guys when she told me she would be working late that day, I'm not the jealous ... (601 words

I had unprotected sex and bled heavily during and after my first time, please advise!

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Today me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time, but unprotected my boyfriend kept taking out his penis to check he werent producing sperm , could i be pregnant even if he said no sperm came out? and i bled heavily alot during and after it is this serious ... (53 words

Should I use his sweater as an excuse to contact him?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello everyone, i'm really in need for some help here. i made out with this guy at a party. it was great... and when we said goodbye he said "see you soon". i got his sweater and wanna use that as an excuse but don't know how tbh... any advice? thanks a lot ... (61 words

It seemed like he was keen on seeing me again so should I find out his number and contact him?

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19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi there, I met an awesome guy at a party last night and I'm just looking for a bit of advice on what I should do next. At the party we chatted for a bit and then he walked me home when I'd had a little (a lot, oops) too much to drink. It was a really long walk from the pa... (301 words

Is getting seductive texts from an ex considered cheating?

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19 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - Does it mean a current boyfriend is cheating if he gets seductive text messages from an ex.... He claims he's not cheating.....this was just something stupid that happened.... I need help with this one....I trust him!!!!... (38 words

What can I do to make this break up easier on all of us?

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19 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - Not sure where to begin been with him 14 years and 3weeks ago out of the blue he tells me he doesnt love me the next day its you would be happier without me than its something else. i know there is no one else yet. He has asked for time to think things through wants to live as ... (81 words

Is anyone on here a Godmother who can give me some good advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a 15-year-old girl and my big brother and his wife asked me to be the godmother of their future child,few months ago.The little boy will born in September (probably 20th according to the doctor).The baby will be their first child.I never had a nephew before...... (270 words

I need a second opinion on this guy who gave me relationship advice!

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19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi i am a bit confused at the moment and was after a second opinion on this guy i have been writing to this man who gives relationship advice so i thought i would paste the questions i have asked him in here and then you could quickly skim them and give me your advice? it would ... (948 words

Does Skinny Water really work?

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19 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - Does Skinny Water really work?... (5 words

Could extreme shyness prevent someone from getting involved in a relationship or is it just the old cliche of having sex on the first date and ruining your chances?

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had a date last weekend with what i would consider the perfect man, the only problem is he was very nervous and shy.. despite this we chatted for hours and the date lasted til the next morning. We arranged another date but the problem is I never heard from him . I sent a ... (142 words

Am I right to resent my stepdad?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, me and my step dad really dont get on, for a start he always gets jelous when i spend time with my mum and moans when i ask her to do something for me... he uses drugs and never contributes to the house, hed rather do drugs...we argue all the time and its making my m... (97 words

Is he holding back and being distant because of my race?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, Well I'm 15 and I'm dating this guy who is 16. We both really like each other. However, he is a bit distant with me. I know he's only 16 but he has slept with a few girls in the past, and it doesn't bother me because that's his past and I'm not going to hold it agains... (330 words

Help! I don't want to marry my fiance - should we break up for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok so here goes....my boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. I'm 29 and he's 33. We've both been married before (me for 1 yr, him for 7 yrs) in love-less marriages. I have huge doubts about our relationship and I broke off our engagement two weeks ago. I le... (765 words

Put simply, how can I make him love me?

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19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was broken up with a few weeks ago by my first serious boyfriend-the person I first told "I love you". I think it might have been due to the fact that I wanted to spend too much time together (read; too needy). I've never been a clingy person, and I kind of cringe thinking ... (130 words

Can I love him even though it's over the internet and he's older?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it possible for me to love him?... (57 words

My girlfriend is cheating - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

19 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi - my gf cheated on me twice with the same guy an I'm worried she has feelings for him. She says she doesn't but I'm not sure I forgave her the first time. I just found out she has done it again. I don't want to lose her because I love her so much. What should I do? Thank ... (65 words

Are women too self conscious about their imperfections?

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - This is a question mostly for men... Men, when you are about to sleep with someone...do you typically notice a woman's imperfections example: slight cellulite, stretch marks, fatty bits?... or. are women in general too self conscious about this sort of thing?... (52 words

Sex feels funny and different - What's happening?

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19 July 2008 (F - Ok, this is weird.. when me and my boyfriend have sex lately it feels funny. It feels like when he is inside me like he is bumping into something and it hurts him and me... I don't know what this is! Also I don't really get wet when we have sex anymore i really don't know why... (104 words

By cutting contact with him am I ruining my chances with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I started dating a guy about 9 months ago. I had actually met him years before at a work event and we had chatted but he had a girlfriend so that was that. I then met the same guy years later at a party and we instantly recognized each other, chatted again but he was still with ... (566 words

My husband left after I cheated - Help me get him back!

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband of thirteen years left me about two months ago. I cheated on him about a year ago and he said that he will never forgive me. Since he has been gone, I have acted like a nut case. following him, calling him at all hours of the night, begging him for a chance, pushing ... (370 words

My girlfriend wants to stop having sex and says other guys are hot. Is she going to break up with me?

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19 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - I think my girlfriend of 6 months ( were both 18) is going to breakup with me soon but she claims she doesnt want to. I dont know if this girl is a person who is good for me. I feel like I love her and she claims the same about me but she just makes me feel bad about myself. ... (218 words

My marriage is in a rut and my 'friend' is now back in the picture! How do I get a commitment from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for almost 12 years. For the past 6 years or so, my marriage has slowly deminished. The care for each other is not there any more. Both are not attracted to each other as well as no intimacy now for 3 years. Approximately 4 years ago a man came into my ... (1145 words

I make all the plans in our relationship - what's he thinking?

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello guys I need help here. I have been dating this wonderful guy for 5 months, we live 2 hours apart so we can only see each other during the weekend. We have strong feelings for each other, he does everything to please me. We discuss exclusivity, and we are exclusiv... (371 words

Any hope for ex's getting together and staying that way?

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19 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - Is there any hope for Ex’s getting together and not having it strained or end up completely broken? I have recently had my heart hurt by my EX and while I still love and care for her I like to say I want to be with her in the future, however I am trying to be realistic and no... (190 words

Help! I'm getting a yellowish/brownish discharge!

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19 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi I've read loads in mags and stuff about getting discharge a year before you start your periods, is this true? If it is I have been getting discharge for more than a yr! It is a yellowish brownish color and has a slight smell. I hate it Please help!... (66 words

Unhappily married, but the man I'm seeing won't let his guard down, is he worth hanging on to?

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19 July 2008 (F age - My male friend and I have known each other for about 17 years and have been co-workers for the last five years. About 3 years ago his wife cheated on him and eventually left him. They have been divorced for about 2 years now. I saw the hell he went through when she left. I ... (442 words

I'm not OK with this friends with benefits setup. I need some advice.

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've recently gotten involved with a guy and we've been seeing eachother for around five weeks. It's basically just a "Friends with Benefits" setup and no matter how much I try to convince myself I'm ok with that, I'm not. I'm starting to fall for him and he told me ... (305 words

I don't want sex, but I can't say no and I can't stop him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

19 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - i think my boyfriends bribing me and i really dont know what to do about it. ive been with him for nearly 6 months and we have been sexually active for just over two, but its weird. i didnt feel like i was ready for a sexual relationship at the time but he talked me into it, ... (575 words

She wanted a long distance relationship, I didn't, now how can I comfort her without sending the wrong message?

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19 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, There's a girl I know from Liverpool. Some months back we used to chat online. After a short time she began hinting that she was looking for a long distance relationship. Having already been in one myself, I was dead against it. She kept trying to persuade me, but... (282 words

My boyfriend of 6 weeks is quite clingy already. Is there any way to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been going out with this really sweet guy for about 6 weeks and its going great, we really like each other and tell each other often. However its kind of long distance and he wants to call me every night without fail and is revolving his life around me already. Is this ... (150 words

He tld me to be quiet because he had issues to sort out - but now he's going to say something and I'm not sure what it's about or what to do.

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - it's hard to how to explain what i need to, theres this guy and basically i don't know if he likes me. he told me something only him and his parents know not even his best friends know so why me? and he cancelled seeing his brother in amsterdam to come to my birthday also he ... (308 words

Any tips on reducing my sexual activity, in order to focus on what is important for my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - im always havin sex with guys and i want to stop because i no when i get older i dont want that lifestyle any tips on reducing my sexual activity and what i can do instead of havin sex all the time... (42 words

I am the "mean" one in the realtionship and I'm used to him being kinder... which lately has changed!?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay,So im 17 Now a senior and me and my Boy have been together for 2 years and 7 months since freshman year..I know right? ha,So anyways heres the problem. I dont think Im perfect at all,actually im not even close...I think I have problems saying whats on my mind and reasons ... (635 words

I'm in love with a polish girl and I'm english

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19 July 2008 (M age 26-29 - hii im kizza. my mate is polish and im english aand i have known her now since we was 12 (now 13). i think im falling in love with her, every time i go close to her my stomach feels funny and my knees get weak. i have asked her out befor and she said she dont like as much a... (136 words

She hasn't replied to all my calls since going on holiday. What's going on?

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19 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend has gone to vacation. I asked her to contact me when she arrived. She text me 2 days ago telling she is safe.Today, I called and text her few times. She didn't call back or even reply to the text. At this hour, she must already slept.She should had saw those ... (248 words

I find it hard to ask girls out-any tips?

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19 July 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hey can sum1 help me. i talk to girls all the time ive never had a prob talking to them however i cant seem to ask ne of them out. honestly i no im not good looking im a lil overweight and cause of that i cant ask them help plz... (51 words

I just want to know whether your current period stops as soon as you take the pill?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - when you first start taking the pill on the first day of your period...does that period stop? i know you take it for 21 days then stop for 7. I just want to know whether your current period stops as soon as you take the pill?... (46 words

I am another one who met a man on holiday!!

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19 July 2008 (F age - I am another one who met a man on holiday!! Just friends and we have e mailed a few times but he has been honest and says he isnt looking for a relationship although he was very angry becasue I had not slept with him on holiday. he doesnt feel "anything" for me and just want... (155 words

We became closer when both our spouses were away..what now?

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - we came closer when both our spouses were away,I was actually shoked when he kissed on my lips bcoz i was not expecting ,then it went on for almost an hour as I was lil drunk and was seriously enjoying his touch and the way he was doing it ,but when i controlled and said kindly ... (358 words

Anyone got any tips on applying St Tropez fake tan?

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19 July 2008 (F - Hello, Anyone got any tips on applying St Tropez fake tan? I do all the things you're supposed to, exfoliate, moisturise and apply in smooth strokes. but it always ends up coming out really uneven. Has anyone got any tips? xxxxx... (48 words

If a guy is scared of commitment and falling in love, how long does it take for them to snap out of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I think that my boyfriend is falling for me, because he freaked out and began pulling away. I tried to talk to him, but he didn't want to talk about it. Now I don't know what to do. Should I just give him time and ignore him, and if I give him space how long should I wait? If a ... (81 words

Is my new girlfriend trying to break up with me, stringing me along or what?

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19 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - Two weeks ago, I met a girl near my age (25) and we connected right away on the first date that lasted from 7 PM to 1 AM. It included talking, laughing and talking some more. The subsequent dates were also quite intimate and we ended up holding hands. She was the first to make ... (280 words

Should I let her know I'm still talking to my ex?

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19 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - im talking to this girl. but i still want to talk to my ex as a friend. do you think its ok for me to talk to my ex as long as i dont do anything with her and not letting this new girl know im talking to my ex?... (50 words

People say I can get any guy I want but..

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I can never get a real boyfriend. It seems like I can only sleep with any guy I want, but I dont want that. I want a relationship but guys just want me for sex and nothing else. I dont get it Im tall, thin (people say I look like a model) smart and funny. And no I dont dress ... (139 words

Is it possible that he really has sincere reasons for not trying harder to get me into bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I met someone online about six months ago. we live in different cities (few thousand miles apart). he visits my city for work every 2 mths or so. i finally agreed to meet him for drinks. i liked him. i had no clue what he thought but he called two days later, agreed to go out ... (203 words

Was I wrong to leave and what are the odds that my eldest son will change his tune about me?

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19 July 2008 (F age - 50 year old specialed. school teacher. 2 grown sons.And...a extremely verbal abusive, emotional, mental, and sometimes push/shove type of physical abuse. Tired of it. It's affecting my health. My emotional state and self concept has always been at risk. My doctor and ... (211 words

Is it a bad idea to have a threesome with a best friend?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 4 years now and I love him more than anything in the world. His very best friend lives in Canada and comes to visit every year at summer time. They are inseperable and are the best of friends. My boyfriend recently sugg... (179 words

How stop crying over someone who doesn't love you but to whom you can't stop loving them?

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - IDK what to do, I'm starting to get really in a deep depression over this feeling I've got that is eating me slowly. I'm deeply in love with a guy I met year and a half ago. For me it was love at second sight, since I realize I was into him from our 2nd meeting. Yeah there wa... (258 words

Do you know of any exercises to get just a flat chest and stomach?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a large chest. Not man boobs but pecs kind of, maybe a little fat but even at his best shape he still had a bigger chest. He wants a completely flat chest though. Do you know of any exercises to get just a flat chest and stomach? Not anything that will get him ... (66 words

My b/f doesn't understand why I'm feeling uncomfortable about how our schedule is affecting our relatonship!

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19 July 2008 (F - Ever since I took a fulltime job I feel out of sync with my b/f and it's causing problems. We used to both get off around 4:00 PM every day and do things together. Now I don't get home until 5:30 or 5:45 and he's been getting off at 2:00 PM. I think I'm a little jealous, but ... (433 words

Is she giving me the brush off?… The silent breakup before we even meet?

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19 July 2008 (M age - I met this girl online and we did a lot of talking over the phone, seemingly having a good connection with her. We made plans to go on a date, meeting each other at a club. We had made the plans a week ago. We planned out where we’d meet and everything. The last time we ... (230 words

How do I pick up strange women I don't know?

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19 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - For the majority of my teenage years I was obese so I never had much luck with women. Then during college I started working out, lost a ton of weight, now I look pretty good. I've only had one girlfriend. I was wondering if any of you guys had any advice on picking up women... (113 words

I lied and now I think I'm in love with a guy, but I'm married!

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a married woman who has found love over the internet. I lied about my marital status, what should I do? I have been married for 10 years, and we have 2 daughters together. My husband is a great father and provider for our family, but we just don't connect anymore.... (154 words

My husband is irresponsible and won't file taxes!

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had dated a man (had a baby, got married, and am now pregnant with his second child) for two and a half years before getting married. He owned a nightclub and was opening a restaurant when we met. He convinced me to try to get a house for us without putting his name on it ... (300 words

Please help me lose weight!

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Right now I am having a very hard time to lose weight. I keep on wanting to lose weight but it doesn't seem to work out. The main problem is I keep on craving for food. If I don't get those cravings out, I go crazy and it makes me want it more. So I give in to my cravings. Then ... (83 words

My husband left me, and I want him back. I don't know what else to do.

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19 July 2008 (F age - Help. My husband of 13 years just left and but we have been together for almost 20 years. He has been gone for about 4 months now. I don't even remember what started this. Just an argument, and then he starts saying he doesn't know if he wants to be married. For about a ... (1752 words

How can I lose a large amount of weight without it being unsafe?

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19 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, this is my 1st time on this website and i'm asking for help... I'm classed as obese (BMI = 31.2) and i don't want to be anymore. All i want to know is how can i get into the 'normal' weight section on BMI... i would prefer it to be fast as i start college in 3 months and ... (228 words

I need some advice on the girl on top position! Any tricks I should know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - Just wondering how a girl should move when on top during sex, I feel like i'm not very good, even though my boyfriend tells me I am. Is there any tricks to it? different ways of thrusting or positioning to make it easier for me, I have trouble keeping a rhythm up and if I keep ... (106 words

How can I make noises during sex without sounding fake or cliche? And please note that I am of age!

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi My question is why am I so quiet during sex and avoid eye contact? Some background info: I have a very frustrating situation and I have friends who have given me advice both good and bad about it and it just doesn't help. I am seeing this guy for about 2 months now and w... (428 words

Should I tell him that he's making me feel sad, upset, angry and threatened?

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19 July 2008 (? age 26-29 - ok so i have this ex boyfriend (justin), we dated for a while but it was a on again off again thing, the last time we broke up (about 120 days ago) it was because he cheated on me, i felt like he was saying i wasnt good enough and it put me in a very depressed mood. but ... (331 words

My boyfriend is going to lose me soon if he doesn't change his act. Any words of advice or encouragement?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Readers, Im 16 and i think im pregnate . "i think". but i think my boyfriend is cheating on me, with some trick, i try and ask him he just gets mad. i dont understand why he wants to or is cheating cause i make love to him almost everynight and whenever hes hig... (209 words

Am I in love or just obsessed?

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19 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 16 years old and i think im in love but im not sure, whenever im with him i dont want him to leave my side . im always thinking about him and he always calling me to tell me he loves me and when im lonely and sad i just call on him and he talks to me . and when i cant sle... (93 words

I'm frustrated with my boyfriend's low libido. Help!

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm writing about my boyfriend's sex drive. I'm slightly too impatient to weed through all the others so sorry if you have answered this 100 times before. ^^ We have been together for 2 1/2 years. Like most couples, when we started, we had sex all the time. 3-4 times ... (359 words

Please don't tell me I'm too young to kiss! I need advice!!!

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19 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - i'm 21, and i'm still a virgin. not only that, but i've never had a girlfriend or a even a date, and have never even kissed a girl on the lips. everyday, i see girls that are very attractive, and i feel more helpless and frustrated each day. can anyone out there give me some ... (87 words

Please help, I'm lacking the self-confidence for intimacy!

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I caught my boyfriend in bed with my sister while her boyfriend was downstairs!

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19 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - well. basicly. I CAUGHT MY BOYFRIEND IN BED WITH MY SISTER WHILE HER BOYFRIEND WAS SAT DOWNSTAIRS!!! well ive been with him now for nearly 18 months, i thought he loved me, and i adore him! well DID. im confused! so bad, i stayed at a friends house on wednesday night and was ... (488 words

Long distance relationship, mind and heart matters, what's the problem?

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19 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok i met this lovely guy and we seem great together, we live far apart but get to see each other on holidays. were both in love and he makes me feel amazing and he do anything for me as i would for him..ive had a bad past when it comes to relationship so i have some reserves ... (309 words

Feeling sad, I need tips on laser hair removal, good sources of protein other than meat, and also, I just don't feel beautiful.

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19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - hey i feel really sad right now. has anybody had lazer hair removal and seen gud results? and also has anybody had lazer hair removal and then noticed their skin get worse for example: dry skin/spots/patchy skin. i feel so depressed right now. i wish i cud change my self... (101 words

I feel I'm a bit hairy down there, and need some tips!

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19 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - shaving, i kinda need some tips. ive been seeing this guy for 4 months now and we have kissed n stuff but thats as far as we've gone, im 16 and hes 20, hes told me he will wait until i am ready but i love him and i feel ready, the only thing thats bothering me is that im a bit ... (116 words

Shall I spend my life waiting around to see if he is ever ready to commit or leave him and move on???

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19 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and we have a two year old son together. We have always had a rocky relationship until my son was born and then it seemed to get better, It is still not perfect i love him very much but i feel there is no love coming from him, he is ... (184 words

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