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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you really remain friends with an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to remain friends with an ex, and can rekindled relationships actually work?... (15 words)

He may break up with me because his mom does not approve! I'm a single mom...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 yr old single mum (my daughter is 15 years old) and I have been seeing a lovely guy for 4 months. I got a bad feeling that something wasn't right with him and I confronted him and asked him if everything was ok. He admitted that he isn't really happy and that the ... (171 words)

Office romance: What if this develops more, should I carry on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have rcently gotten cosy with this guy I work with. We are constantly flirting with each other on a daily basis at work. I know he knows I want him and he knows I know he wants me too. Problem is we are both married. He has even met my husband before all the flirting started. ... (134 words)

Am I going to die alone because I'll be single forever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I going to be single forever??? I have been single for ages after my boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me. Iv been on a few dates and have made sure im not clingy, that I pay my own way and am fun etc etc (its been a while since i dated lol). The thing is guys seem to only ... (107 words)

My curvy Goddess is trying to slim down! How can I tell her I like her the way she is?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 months and she is the largest girl that i have ever dated (shes about 5feet 6 inches and about 180 pounds. before her i only liked women with slim bodies but found myself so attracted to her curvy body (tummy, buns, thighs, ... (111 words)

My girl is getting stressed and it's affecting me. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this girl for about 5 months or so and everything was going great. She decided to quit her job and go in to partnership with a client. Her new partner said he had plenty of money to carry them over the begining months and they would reap the benefits after. ... (247 words)

I retaliated in an email to a guy I just met and am very fond of! How can I turn this around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age - I am a female aged 49 and got very fond of a guy I met as friends only on holiday. However on returning we e mailed a few times and then he got cross in one and I retaliated-which of course is stupid. I would still like to be friends with him as I Liked him so much and feel ... (220 words)

My penis "grows" 23 hours a day! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - iam 16 year old boy.when i remove my pant my penis grows automatically,because of this i cannot wear only towel when iam going to bathroom.does this happens to all kids? when i was bathing with my brother i removed my clothes and only underwear was not removed,my penis growed ,... (77 words)

How do you get rid of a sunburn really quickly?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Sorry, this isn't a relationship question BUT basically I got really sun burn at Glastonbury Festival and its SO SORE and RED and painful!!! im slapping on the after sun like there's no tomorrow but the problem is im supposed to be getting a tattoo done on thursday so i n... (88 words)

What do I give a guy as a first year anniversary present?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you give a guy as a year aniversary present? We are both in our mid 20. He loves his cars (but likes to buy everything himself). He wanted to do a Tandem jump .. so I was thinking of giving him money in the envelope for that as a present ..but also wanted to give him... (103 words)

Why am I getting bullied because I like to perform?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i have this weird problem in school that i cant really understand. Well when usually its talent show night i seriously want to perform. Everytime I always perform they seem to like it but then when i go offstage they bo0 me ??? It seriously confuse me!!!! They take awa... (204 words)

He never thinks about things in advance!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man for one year and we live an hour apart by car. It's a given that we will spend the weekend together (I usually drive to his house as he has an 11 yr old son) but I get frustrated that he doesn't make advance plans to actually do anything. I would like ... (91 words)

I'm in a relationship with a great girl..but I'm curious about gay sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a great relationship for a few years now. I love my GF and we have a great sex life, nothings wrong. I'm just a little bit curious about trying things with a guy. I don't think guys are hot, women are a lot more beautiful, I just have fantasies about gay sex. I ... (72 words)

I just found out that he cheated on me...do we still have a chance of being together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 14month now and we have set a date to get married wich is next year but i recently found out he cheated on me with my best friends little sister i feel so disapointed and let down do you think we still have a chance together... (53 words)

Help what do I do now??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm just writing this like a message in a bottle. Letting it loose in this sea. We were meant to be married..we bought our rings..but her parents didn't want it. We prayed everyday for it come through. Now shes engaged to another man. I moved 10,000 kms to be close to her. 2 ... (111 words)

How can I tell my partner that its my time of the month??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a very private and personal person. The dilema is that I'm not sure how to tell my lover when its that time of the month. I usually just avoid him for those few days but he's recently been away for a month and wants to be intimate but I 'can't'. I don't want him to think ... (70 words)

Even though I don't like him as a person and don't want to really be with him, I am so sad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have posted on this site earlier about my relationship with my ex-bf. To sum it up, we were together for two and a half years, lived together for one and a half. I moved to a new city for my Ph.D and we broke up cause it was more important for him to party and hang out with ... (266 words)

How can I understand just how much I've hurt her by cheating on her??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My fiancee and i broke up about 5 months ago because she found out i cheated on her, i have changed the way i live my life and have become a great person, i will never chea t again, i have stopped drinking, and lying and living the terrible way i was living my life. I am trying ... (140 words)

Are there any dental students on here?? I would like to know what the subjects in the second year are!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i know this question is not abt relationship or love life but its about education ,so please dear cupid kindly co operate..i was just wondering if there are any dental students in this network or dentists in here..i really need help..i finished my first year in dental ... (71 words)

My bf thinks he will loose his independance if we get engaged!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. I always knew we wanted to wait till after we finished college to get married, but he has always said he'd want to get engaged whenever. Now he tells me that that was a lie and he said it because it's what I wanted. ... (96 words)

How do you make out?? I'm worried about my inexperience...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is embarrasing, if not awkward but i have to ask... how do you make out? is it awkward for first time? im scared of his experience and my inexperience. i dont want sites to go and explain it i want someone to explain it for me in as much detail as posible. it will be m... (93 words)

My friend said he didn't like this girl but I did. Now they're going out. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months back, myself and my group of friends became friends with this girl. None of us went out with her as a date although we did things as a group and although she hinted that she liked us, we didn't really know which of us it was. However, i started to like her but ... (227 words)

135 pounds - and I want to lose about 20 pounds. Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay its summer and i really want to loose like 20 pounds or more by the time school starts im 135 right now and i look like a beast!!! all my friends are so skinny but i cant keep away from food! its my enemy... i have a tred mill thats the only exercise machine i have... i ... (87 words)

My husband is pretending to be a young girl on a poker site!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age - my husband has been pretending to be ayoung girl on apoker site he has been chatting to a man in finland he stays up until all hours chatting and flirting he has today sent him a cd of love songs please can anybody help me... (45 words)

My ex, his new interest and his friend are making my life horribly hard. How can I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Heres my situation and im going to keep it very very short and to the point...my ex, his new interest and his friend have been giving me a really hard time for the past few months and I need some help to cope with it all. Ok so my ex and me split up over 3 m... (411 words)

Is it possible my girlfriend could know she is pregnant after only a week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend had sex bout a week ago, and now she says she is pregnant already, is that possible to know that soon?... (25 words)

I don't want to be a witch by cutting him off but he hurt me terribly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My EX keeps calling, emailing, texting me...I think this is out of lonliness as he has moved across country into another job. I love him and miss him terribly but this is really making it difficult for me to move on. Should I just delete everything and not reply? I don't wa... (87 words)

All I seem do be doing is breaking hearts! Who now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont no what to do. 2months ago i finished a 3year relationship wiv my ex because i fell in love with someone else who i have since been goin out with. it hit my ex bad and hes done everything he possibly can to get me back. now i dont think i love my bf of 2months, i think i ... (253 words)

I've had enough of these friends. Should I tell them, or play it cool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok there are these 3 girls that claims im their best friends its not a click we are all just friends in school that sometimes hang out. ok they started taking the hanging out process overboard and its like we are just friends that talk in school and hang out sometimes so they ... (160 words)

Has anyone heard of affair partners actually working out? He's the love of my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes I have been married for many years, Married at 19. Things have not been all bad but for a while now I have not been happy almost left last year a few times. Things are still rocky. I happened to call my brother in law (my husbands sisters husband) around March and ... (452 words)

I can't ride a penis, is something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i cant really ride a penis is something wrong with me?... (11 words)

I felt like I was making love to a little doll.... I like him..but am I being shallow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Iv met this man, he's 35 yrs old and has a nice personality, and he's not bad looking BUT..last night we had sex for the 1st time and i found him to be very skinny, he's smaller then me in height, and i was ok with that but when i was in bed with him it felt like i was making ... (84 words)

My penis burns after having unprotected sex. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex with a woman last night, now my penis burns on the inside, not when i urinate or ejaculate just all the time, it fades in and fades out but is pretty constant.. what is this and what should i do?????... (44 words)

What sort of behavior is my boyfriend displaying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

- My B\F does the following * Criticizes the mess i make in bathroom before i have chance to clean up * Criticizes how I prepare food, wash up, dry etc * Gets irritated if i leave a cup on table without coaster * complains if i get crumbs on the chair or spill anything *... (143 words)

From best friends to lovers: How do we get past knowing so much about each other and making this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

- I have been in a relationship with a guy for 10 months now. The problem (which mst of you will not see as a problem) is that we were very close friends for about three years before we started seeing each other in a romantic sense and we know everything and I mean everything ... (267 words)

What responsibility do you have to someone cheating on their husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age - This question is theoretical... You have a very good friend, who is married, and she is cheating on her husband with another man. At a party, the lover makes a full out pass at you (because he figures all this woman's friends cheat too...). You neither approve of the affair n... (139 words)

SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

- Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all the moderators, the "aunts" and ... (104 words)

I've been out with 2 guys and now I can't choose which one I like the most, please help me out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Grr this isn't fair! I'd been getting close to guy A about a month ago, we were good for a couple of weeks then i didnt hear from him again, its been another 2 weeks. So i gave up on him, now iv been great friends with guy B for a long time, always got on great, always enjoyed ... (172 words)

He says he loves someone else and I can't get over him, please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - this is a terrible dilemna, and I would like to know what I should do. I don't know how to move on when I love someone and can't imagine anyone else ever being as special. I loved my best friend for a long time, but he has a girlfriend he's in love with, and he says that he ... (244 words)

What does love feel like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when you're in love?... (8 words)

I'm 17 and in a serious relationship. Now I feel I might miss out on something, like living a teenage life, and start feeling confused, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old girl in a long-term relationship (1 year) with a 20 year old male. I cannot work out what I want - I love my boyfriend deeply but I am not sure if being in the relationship is what I want anymore. I have been sick for a long time and homeschooled all... (298 words)

What do I say if I want to get engaged to my girlfriend?(not to marry so soon)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, i want to get engaged with my girlfriend but not to marry yet, (would get married later on in the future). but not sure what i have to say lol i have a idea but not sure "(girlfriends name), will you marry me?" or will it be "get engaged to me" serious comments ... (81 words)

How do I stop the arguments over the same thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 19 months. We don't have too many arguments but when we do, it's always over the same thing. I'm really good friends with this boy but this boy fancies me. I've thought of him as in a boyfriend before because if I'm u... (155 words)

My husband complains I don't satisfy him well, please advice me what to do because I can't afford loosing him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am having problems with my husband of just two years. he complains i dont satisfy him well. pls advice me or give me tips on how to satisfy my man sexually coz i cant afford loosing him.... (38 words)

How late is too late to enter the dating game in the modern world?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start experiencing relationships. 20? 23? 25? 30? I mean, to really just START! Never been on a date before, never had sex, maybe never even kissed a girl. This could all be due to many combination of reasons.... (155 words)

I love my boyfriend but my ex comes haunting me in my dreams, what shall I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm eighteen-years-old and I've been with this guy (a guy I've wanted for about two years now - he's eighteen as well) for three months and I'm really into him. Problem is, I still have some serious feelings for my ex; and no, we don't talk or hang out or anything like that ... (294 words)

I want to tell my long-distance friend I really like her but I don't want to risk losing our friendship. Should I tell her? How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I am living abroad right now and have known a girl for about 9 months. When I first met her, I actually didn't know if I liked her or not, although I found myself being extra nice to her. But since I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, maybe I just didn't realize it that ... (294 words)

Is it good that he's having "thinking time" about moving in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months. He says he loves me and I love him. He told me he has been thinking we should move in together but wants to take a couple weeks with time to himself to be sure this is 100 percent what he wants. Is this good or is ... (69 words)

Never been in a relationship and not quite sure why. It woul be nice to have someone. Is there something I'm not considering that's stopping me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and I've never been in a relationship of any kind. I've had a couple of guys ask me out over the years, but its been a while and I didn't like any of them enough to accept their offers. I;m the classic fall for a taken older guy so I don't have to experien... (289 words)

How do I make the top of my penis less sensitive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i make the top of my penis less sensitive?... (11 words)

My husband keeps hinting that I have sex with his brother, who I have been attracted to for years now; what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I moved in with his younger brother (12 years younger) a few months ago. He and his wife are in the process of getting a divorce and we agreed to move in to help each other out with bills, etc.My husband and I have been together for 13 years, and we have a very ... (354 words)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend returning to an old workplace where she originally met this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I be worried? I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now, and we're doing quite well at the moment. We've been close to breaking up once or twice before while we were separated during college, but I've always been able to put a stop to her thoughts of leaving ... (308 words)

No sex for 4 years, but he responds to doing it by hand. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age - for past 4 years me and husband av not had intercourse he said he doesnt have much feeling and goes flat when we try to have full sex what i dont understand is he can have full erection if it is done to him by hand,i think he might preffer this,as if he had prob in that area it ... (95 words)

My BF's semen was white at some point, now it is yellow! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ey! I guess im back..:) My question is kinda wierd but its worth it... I was wondering what normal semen actually look like. I realised my boyfriend's semen looked yellow. Is this normal or is there something wrong with it. I know it was white at some point, now its yellow! ... (104 words)

Am I the abuser in my marriage? Am I a danger to my husband? Do I need psychiatric help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - http://www.mental-health-matters.com/articles/article.php?artID=157 In one of the other questions, I came across this link that indicates when you are in a relationship with a 'Loser'. There are about 20 attributes / behavioral patterns listed which indicate if you are in an... (676 words)

Cheating - and yet there is love. Which is worse: with them or without them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age - You love someone,yet there is proof of cyber sexing,texting,astrology love match which isnt your sign,lies etc,anger if you stumble upon and question. Dating sites,basicaly everything except caught in the act. In the meantime you are accused of cheating,lies,eyeing up women ... (83 words)

Does she really love me or has it already faded? Will she take me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating with a gerl for 5 years and recently she decided to end our relationship. Her reason was that she wanted me to be independent, which I'm trying hard and also she wanna see weather 'the grass is greener on the other side'. She mentioned that she still loves me ... (336 words)

If I make my penis less sensitive can I last longer at sex? How do I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i make my penis head less sensitive? IF i do this would i be able to last longer during sex?... (25 words)

Confused about my period. Could the pill have something to do with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, i'm a little confused as i had my period over a week ago and it lasted for around 4-5 days like usual now im bleeding again over a week later.. Its not heavy or anything its just something thats never happened before. I'm on the pill so is this something to do with it? ... (55 words)

I cheated, but now I'm married and I will never cheat again. Should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - 15 months ago I cheated (i gave a friend a hand job) on my at the time boyfriend (we got engaged 3 months after it happened) now we are getting married in 1 and a half weeks and I am wondering if I should tell him? In all actuality we were in a rough patch of our relationship ... (91 words)

I feel like I'm ruining everyone's lives!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am so low at the moment i don't know what to do! I have made the worst mistake of my life. I am taking antidepressants because i had post natal depression. My partner cheated on me while i was pregnant, so that didn't help. Well i went to a party on saturday, drank way too ... (171 words)

I cheated on him - do I have a right to be mad if he does the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Twisted story..I need some advice please read story!!I will try to sum it up. I cheated on my husband at the beginning of the year and admitted to the affair about 2 months ago. He was hurt and of course mad but since then we have been trying to patch up our marriage to make ... (397 words)

She's changed for the worse, should I just stop talking to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M) - I recently parted from My girlfriend it was a mutual decision. I am 8 years older than her, I am 27 she is 19. We were dating for two years, and when we first started dating she was a shell. She came from a very abusive childhood, her mum is an alcoholic, my ex also developed ... (458 words)

How do you tell a guy you like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am completely in love with this guy, but how do I tell him I like him? ... (19 words)

I'm in love with him. He's my best friend and I can't cope - Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in love with someone who has grown to be my best friend over the course of the last year. We met online, and met in person this time last year. Since then he has had a string of boyfriends, all of which failed, and he blames me for those failings (probably because ... (210 words)

He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then came back to my flat. Nothing ... (238 words)

My partner of 9 years has been secretive and dishonest!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just found out that my partner of 9 years has been lying to me. He has been looking at porn on his mobile and getting off on it. Now that isn't the problem its the lying and the secrecy and the fact it has escalated to him using text chatlines. Can I ever trust him ... (66 words)

We decided to take things slow but is not seeing him for 2 weeks a little extreme?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't understand,I started seeing this guy bout a month ago. I had split up ith my boyfriend 3 months before and he split up with his girlfriend a month before seeing me. because we had both been hurt before, we decided to take things slowly and not be unfaithful to eachother ... (93 words)

What do I say to him at his sentencing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My soon to be ex-husband and I were together for six years. After three months he started being physically and emotionally abusive, I stayed, married him, and had his child. Stayed for another year and a half after our daughter was born. The abuse kept getting worse and ... (239 words)

Is it safer to use 2 condoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it safer to use 2 condoms at a time?... (10 words)

I'm torn between my new girl and my ex - what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - In Sept 2007 I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. She was beautiful and really helped me through some bad times, but she was very jealous and we probably should not have been in a relationship. I was still very hurt and hardened from my divorce and I told her many time... (1564 words)

I'm dating an older guy online, could he be using me?

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1 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hello. I have a question to ask.... I am a 15 year old girl...and i'm dating a soon to be 22year old male over the internet. My friends think it's wrong and my parents don't know about my relationship with this guy.. I want to move over to his country when I turn ... (155 words)

How can I hint that I like him, and flirt a little?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... So there's this guy at my work who I have a bit of a soft spot for and last year he would always sort of flirt with everyone in the office (although he is married) and he flirted with me last year too. And that was after my "friend" went and told him what I thought ... (136 words)

Why am I annoyed that my friend fixed up my ex husband? Shouldn't it be water under the bridge?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - should I be upset to learn that my friend fixed up my ex-husband just months after our divorce? the information slipped out recently and the divorce occured 10 years ago. should be water under the bridge right? why am I bugged?... (44 words)

He wouldn't hold my hand in public because it was "scary". Was I being used for sex?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont get this guy! He said he likes me but didnt want a relationship cuz he was too "busy" with school. I told him i felt like i was being used for sex cuz we werent dating and he wouldnt hold my hand in public cause it was "scary". he told me that it was only cuz of his ... (206 words)

I'm tired of being a virgin, maybe I should have just gone out with sluts and been more liberal. I think it's time for a change in values...

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1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I´m a 23 year old virgen. I was brought up believing that saving virginity for marriage is the right thing to do. I believed in being patient, honest and faithful with my girlfriend. I believed in sacrafice and putting my partner´s feelings above my own. So far, all I´ve had is ... (91 words)

I'm resentful that my boyfriend has so much money when I have all these health/financial problems! Why is he sooo frugal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am feeling jealous, resentful and bitter that my boyfriend has so much money and I don't know how I can get past this issue. I'm not working and am on disability for lupus and kidney disease and I'm staying with him rent free. I get around $800/month from government ... (684 words)

I have a problem with not buying the clothes I like! I want to be fashionable so why can't I?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi and thanks for reading this :) The truth is,i have a problem with clothes, shoes and all that stuff.When i see something i like i tend to try it on, but then i dismiss it and then feel awkward. I feel like if i were very, very plain, but i'd like to have all those fashi... (140 words)

My girlfriend complains that it hurts to shave "down there" but I don't want to go down on her if she doesn't!

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1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i have gone down on her twice. The first time i did it was the first time ive ever done it. So i liked it. But then te second time i realized that i didnt like it so much. Mainly because of all the hair down there. We ... (158 words)

Will I ever get a girl being a gentleman? I need some brotherly advice!

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1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently got turned down by another girl for a date by a girl ive been friends with for years and normally id be fine but its how she did it that has me flustered, she said think of you as more of a big brother and someone who would stand up for me if i needed it and guys ... (112 words)

Any advice on how to talk to a girl I like without getting so nervous?

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1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. im 14 years old and i like this one girl a lot but whenever i try to talk to her i get really nervous, bt i can talk to other girls just fine. any advice? thanks in advance... (39 words)

How can I make this clingy guy tone it down a bit?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating this guy for a month now. and we have been friends for a long time before we have started dating. since we started, he has become very clingy and has been calling me every single day and asking me what i am doing. and tells me he really needs me because he ... (74 words)

I never wanna fall in love again because I'll either be a WHORE or he'll be a PLAYER!

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1 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I don't know what to do with myself. I'm still deeply, madly in love with my ex. He broke up with me today, again. He always does it. I just, I guess I'm an idiot. When we first met, the chemistry was all over. When we started dating, everything went great! We fell in love ... (1113 words)

Is 15 too young to fall in love?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - is 15 too young to fall in love? and to find the one you wanna spend the rest of your life with?..i know it would take lots of work and stuff but if you love the person you'll go through it all.... (42 words)

Should I tell him my feelings or just be happy with his friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So here it is. I am ABSOLUTELY in love with this guy who is 12 years older then me. He's 26 and I'm 14. He is unmarried and as far as I know he doesn't have a girlfriend. If he did I would definitely try to forget about him because I want him to be happy and wouldn't want ... (250 words)

Is this just cold feet or something more? I don't want to get married and regret it!

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 21 years old, my fiance is 22, we are getting married in october of this year. we've been together for 2 years and known eachother for 6. I was very excited about our engagement but somehow in this past month, i've made very poor choices.. I met someone and we've been ... (228 words)

He's nice to me at work, but he won't talk to me online - What's the deal?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - See this guy he talks to me at work and stuff like hes flirting but when i try to talk to him on the internet he kinda blows me off. Whats his deal? does he not want to be friends anymore or wat? ... (45 words)

Is it wrong for me to worry about girls when there are people out there who are worse off?

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1 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to be one of those people who never gets a girlfriend? I hate reading the questions on here and thinking "god, am i the only person in the world who can't find a girl?" There are so many people with relationship issues that really upset them, and I just wish I could ... (160 words)

The condom came off inside me - is there any chance I could be pregnant?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfrined on friday last and when we had finished we realised that the condom was off he said he is postive it didnt cme of until he pulled out and that he didnt even come he thinks...and the weird thing is when the condom came of it must have stayed inside me ... (74 words)

I'm in love with him - But he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend!

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've loved my best friend of five years for a long time, and I used to think that he was interested in me as a girlfriend. We live in different countries but I eventually plan on returning to his country and I always hoped we'd wind up together one day. The trouble is, he h... (393 words)

I want to be appreciated, but I can't tear myself away from this guy!

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do? i have been with this guy on and off for about three or more years I'm only seventeen years old and I think I am already developing depression. The boy i have been with constantly ignores me and treats me like crap but in my head i always find reasons to igno... (171 words)

What's wrong with me? Am I destined to be alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've never felt so alone, and it seems like I'm the only person in the world who doesn't have someone special. Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to have a boyfriend who loves me and I imagine being held and talked to lovingly and having someone to give love to... and ... (242 words)

I still have feelings for him, but somehow this FWB arrangement is better than a relationship - Help!

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 5 years broke up with me a month ago as we had argued and things got slighlty physical and the police had been involved. As they had taken him away to diffuse the situation he now blames me for the ordeal at the cell (he was kept in a cell overnight) and he was upse... (602 words)

My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his position at work, iv never d... (548 words)

I'm a Highly Sensitive Person. How do I find the right girl?

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1 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a little problem, I recently learned that I am a Highly Sensitive Person, and that HPS people are sensitive to many things and I began to wonder, how can I find a girl who would be willing to deal with someone as sensitive as I am. Please help, any advice is welcome!!... (54 words)

Is my ex just trying to keep me on strings while he sees what else is out there?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. I wanted to work things out but he didn't. He moved to another state to work and wanted no contact. Little by little, he keeps calling. Every day he'll either call or send an email about something in our past together. It is really frustr... (146 words)

Do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids?

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1 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids? i mean like if you find the rite person to be with, have a career and ur partner has a job to fall back on..... (38 words)