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Archived questions from: January, 2023 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I rethink things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

31 January 2023 (F)

age 18-21 - He expected a thank you for getting a coca cola for my mother and asked me on the phone if my mother got the coke so I said yeah why? and he told me where was his thank you and I told him that when he asks for a thank you after he wants to do something it's a little overbearing ... (211 words)

Want to help my sister with her problems, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

31 January 2023 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, id like advice or some help with my sister. We'll call her Kylie even though i know she isnt on this site. My sister and I are in a very weird ground in my own opinion though she probably sees it differently. Currently im 24 and she is 27 going onto 28. Im not ... (496 words)

Husband seeing old troublesome friends again concerns me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

31 January 2023 (F) - My husband cut ties with a number of friends for various reasons - some were holding on much too tight when we first got together and acted like teenagers. Others partying, drugs etc. One of those friends he is fond of but hasn’t seen in awhile - a family member of theirs ... (125 words)

Husband yells at me and blames me for everything

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

28 January 2023 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello M7 husband has a tendency of yelling and blaming me for everything. We've been together 30 years. It's gotten worse the last couple of years. If something in the house goes wrong it's my fault. Example the kitchen pipe got plugged and he yelled it had to be me. I... (162 words)

Have I been used in this relationship?

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28 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 32 and have been dating my 49 year old boyfriend for two years, i have gave him he's first child. He has hes own home but lives with me, he doesn't give me any money while staying here (which I have mentioned to him) I feel like I'm paying for everything here to keep us ... (205 words)

I am too sensitive for oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

28 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I enjoy getting oral and it fills so good, sometimes it gets so intense that i pull away and can't handle the sensation. How can I become more relaxed. Why am I way to sensetive.... (35 words)

WIfe puts her friends before me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

27 January 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupids, I am married to my wife for 3 years, but we have been together for 5 years and we have 3 kids we take care of together. We had broken up a few weeks ago because she put her so-called friends before me and our children. She has one friend(let's call her Sandy) ... (543 words)

Did I do anything wrong by selling the four wheeler without talking to my brother about it first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

26 January 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a brother who is married. My sister-in-law has a little brother that is 13 years old. I owned a four wheeler that I keep at my house. I told my brother that he can borrow it as long as he asked permission first and he doesn't let his brother-in-law or any of his frien... (373 words)

Why the dismissive attitude?

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26 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this amazing guy while on vacation a few months back,and we decided to give things a try. We've been going on trips together, because that's the only way we can see each other. We live in adjacent states. He scored us a free trip and show but wants me to plan everythi... (217 words)

10 year old son wont let me move on from ex

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25 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 10 yr old son from a 9 yr relationship. His dad and I have been split up for almost 3 yrs. His dad has a new family and 1yr old child. We get a long well and coparenting is going well. I haven't been able to move on because my son has complete meltdowns if a man even ... (186 words)

My son won't let me move on from my ex his dad

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25 January 2023 (F)

He asks me out then suddenly has excuses

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

25 January 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello So, I've known a friend about 20 years. I've always liked him more than a friend but i was usually dating someone else and so was he (sometimes). Anyways, we used to all hang out together me, him and his brother. We lost communication, and his brother got marr... (171 words)

Why does my bi husband want to be with other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 457 days ago

23 January 2023 (F) age 51-59 - Why does my husband want to be with other women? I know he's bi so I have no objection to him experimenting that way, but why does he want other women?... (32 words)

How do I stop him from taking advantage of my kindness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

23 January 2023 (F) age 30-35 - Hello I have been friends with someone about a year. He works but doesn't make much. So I have been giving him money ( not alot) a bit for food here and there. Anyways, his bay came and he asked if I could give some money. I sent 75.00. He had the nerve to ask for more.... (166 words)

Crushing on 10 year younger guy

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22 January 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Folks, Good morning from Kenya. I am a 38year old male having a huge crush on a 27year old guy. We have been texting and stuff. I have expressed my feelongs to him, which he says confuses him because it has never happened to him before. Once, in passing, he ment... (207 words)

I'm having trouble getting started

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

21 January 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - I am struggling initiating sex with my girlfriend, I'm very self conscious, and prefer to let my partner initiate (that's not to say I never initiate it), atleast then I know she wants to have sex, I have an incredibly high sex drive but don't want to over do the 'pestering' I ... (353 words)

Why does this keep happening

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

21 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Dont people realize that when they tell someone they need a significant other, try to introduce people together, insinuate that there "might be something" "you never know" "give him a chance" "at least talk to him/call him" etc. that they're essentially telling that person that ... (211 words)

Complicated flirting situation, really need advice!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

20 January 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some advice here because I have no one to talk to about this. I have a very strong crush and I think he feels the same way but I just can't be sure. He flirts with me a lot, or at least it seems that way to me. The last time I saw him he told me I was beaut... (537 words)

I cant shake the feeling that he cheated and wants to be with the other woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 January 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some help please. I KNOW my fiancé was having an affair. He never confirmed it in fact he completely denies it, but I KNOW. We’ve been together 6 years and have a 1 year old son. A year ago his behaviour changed. The usual signs. He was making effort with his appeara... (291 words)

I don't want to make a mistake

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19 January 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i am looking for some constructive advice. I live on my own in London. I came out of a really toxic relationship in 2021. The guy slept with half his office, manipulated and gaslighted me into thinking i was insane and needed help for accusing of the things he was in... (301 words)

I want a married woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

17 January 2023 (M) age 51-59 - I am interested in having an affair with a married woman. I really enjoy the forbidden aspect of it all, as well as the low maintenance. Can anyone suggest a good way to meet married women?... (39 words)

How to seduce a woman much older than you.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

17 January 2023 (M) age 51-59 - I am friends with a woman much older than me. I think she is probably 70. I am early 50's. I am interested in having a NSA sexual relationship with her, but I don't know how to turn the relationship sexual, as we are just friends and walking partners right now. At her a... (86 words)

How can I have peace

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

15 January 2023 (F) age 41-50 - Hello I have been with my fiancee for about 6 years. The first 2 years were great! He was loving, attentive, and very charming. Then he turned into a nightmare. He lacks communication skills and gets angry very quickly. I've pretty much carried the weight of our r... (176 words)

Family pushing me to get married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

14 January 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - Im really struggling with myself. I have been advised to seek therapy online by my parents. So I thought I would ask here if I can pay for mental health therapy for getting married - and where you recommend this? I have subconsciously accepted that I am a failure until I ... (469 words)

Interracial dating and sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

14 January 2023 (M)

age 22-25 - Im a white guy and dating a black gal that i had met through work. She was not a colleague but worked for a firm that worked with my office. To me she was an extremely attractive woman and she had the most infectious laugh. We dated about three times and I want to see he... (137 words)

He is in jail and I don't need the stress

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

13 January 2023 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I met a guy in 2020 and ten months after he was arrested and kept in prison. At first he was saying he would get out and that he had done nothing wrong. Then in November just gone he was sentenced to 17 years for a serious gang related crime. He has now said he is app... (251 words)

Is it wrong how I feel?

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12 January 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a brother and a half-sister. My brother has a daughter and a son and my half-sister has a daughter. I am closed to all my nieces and nephew. I do a lot of things with them (taking them places, watching them, picking them up and dropping them off at school, est.). My ... (226 words)

How do I politely ask my friend to move out of my home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

12 January 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - ? ?A friend of mine that I’ve know for over 20 years recently separated from her husband- she was struggling to find somewhere to live so she asked if she could move in with me and my family for a month until she found somewhere. She has no family to help out- her paren... (585 words)

Did she pick this trick up?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

12 January 2023 (M)

age 51-59 - Have been married 27 years and my wife let me cum in her mouth for the first time. I have always told her I was coming in past and she would immediately stop This time she kept going like she had done it before. Swallowed it all Did she just pick up the skill on ... (72 words)

His parents know we had sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

12 January 2023 (F)

age 16-17 - me and my "bf" had sex for the first time about a week ago (been together for a little over 3 months but we haven't made it official yet) and I guess I left a hickey on his neck .Anyways fast forward to about 2 days later and his parents saw and when I asked him what he said... (193 words)

Online dating problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

11 January 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - I joined a dating site to talk to women as I’m single, a girl messaged me who liked my profile, got in touch. we had many things in common and talk every day. since then, I’ve been having doubts, as many people lie on dating sites about their age. she’s sent me a few pictures ... (119 words)

I cant stop thinking about her past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

11 January 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship, I have been seeing her 8 months and been official for 2. Great chemistry, loads in common and just generally going amazing, i wish I met her sooner in my life, both the same age. How ever I can't stop over thinking her past, I think it's called ... (302 words)

How to fix a brokenheart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

11 January 2023 (F)

age - Help iam I love with a lovely man who loves me but I have hurt him very badly and he has fi ished our relationship. He is. Builder and recently put I. A new Back door for me. I always pay him for his work as I would not take advantage of him This time I paId him for the door ... (144 words)

Hurt over lost friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 471 days ago

9 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend of many years is in an abusive relationship and has suddenly decided to cut me out of her life. When they first started dating, I wasn't wild about it. She has so much going for her and this guy just... doesn't. I tried to be supportive, but when she asked m... (325 words)

My best friend called me abusive

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4 January 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - A month ago, my closest friend sent me a pdf via whats app telling me essentially he was strongly considering ending the friendship. Though the friendship has always been passionate for me (he perceived it as turbulent) it was one I cherished and valued greatly. My friend i... (397 words)

My boyfriend and his mother ruined Christmas

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

3 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ll try and keep this simple. I’ve being with my boyfriend for 9 months. He had recently just come out of a relationship and he was back home, living with his mother. He had recently lost his father just four month before we met. We moved in together in October, we knew it was ... (264 words)

Confused as to whether I want to get back with partner or not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

3 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my partner for 7 years until a few months ago which was due to a fight which lead to me moving out and getting my own place. The sequence of events went quickly but I have been enjoying having my own space again. We've been meeting each other on a weekly basis and ... (202 words)

He tells me about his wife after I have fallen for him

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3 January 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Okay, I am overly sensitive. I fell for a guy who only told me about him having a wife back in Vietnam after I had fallen for him. He asked me to stay with him and we can get thru if we stay together. I believed him. One day, we went holidaying and I caught... (287 words)

What do I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

2 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some advice it's driving me mad to be honest I was seeing a guy since Aug 2022 so wasn't long Spent every weekend with him spoke everyday etc planned to spend new years eve together Exchanged Xmas presents where he bought me a lovely necklace then 3 days after he tex... (169 words)

Dating websites and scammers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 478 days ago

2 January 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on dating sites and it's not good. We start chatting, start connecting and they request money. Why do they feel it's okay to ask a stanger whom they've never met for money? It's a complete turn off. Even on social media they reach out as well and eventually ask f... (84 words)

What to do about bossy sister

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2 January 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister and I are both in our 30s. She doesn’t have kids at all but constantly tells me what to do and how to do it. What to do? She is younger than me. She also thinks my dad making promises and breaking them, is ok.... (47 words)

Bed and breakfasts and sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

1 January 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 6 months and I are taking a weekend trip. he said he is taking me on a romantic weekend trip. We are staying at a bed and breakfast for a few nights. Have you found bed and breakfasts to be romantic? The rooms to seem to be classic and romantic. We have not had sex... (137 words)

I don't like my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 479 days ago

1 January 2023 (F) age 51-59 - I hate my life and i keep following what other people are doing with there lives and not living my own. I am 52 years old, had my kids so young and settled down at 22. I regret not living my life, hate myself for settling so young and I’ve paid the price for it. I see my k... (292 words)