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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Missing my ex bf so badly... help!

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21 November 2009, 1 minute ago! (F)

age 18-21 - i really miss my ex. its been about a month since we really spoke. i mean i seem him twice since then, and he spoke to me, he even kissed me the other day, after telling me a month ago neva to speak to him again. so i havent hit him up and wasnt the first to speak the other ... (164 words)

My friend is engaging in prostitution..should I tell someone so he will stop?

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21 November 2009, 3 minutes ago (M)

age 16-17 - Dear Cupid This is really more a friendship question more than anything. One of my really close friends has recently been alluding to the possibility that he is prostituting himself to other men. (He is openly gay.)He makes jokes about it, and has told me in confidence that ... (178 words)

If I take my ex to court..can I get sole custody of my daughter?

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21 November 2009, 4 minutes ago (F)

age 26-29 - my ex and i have been divorced for about 4years. our daughter is now 9. we have split custody but he hardly ever comes to see her, call her and hasnt got her annything for her bday xmas. Or helped with any of her school, personal expences, doctors, etc. we've divorcd. Hes ... (156 words)

Communication, sex.. all of it..is declining in my marriage! Advice please.

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21 November 2009, 9 minutes ago (M)

age 41-50 - Now were do I start ... my wife and I have been married for 17 years we have three boys 15, 10 and 9. Our relationship has been steadily declining emotionally over the past 3 years. It has come to the point that our communication is now declining and we are beginning to have ... (135 words)

I'm 25 and never had sex!

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21 November 2009, 11 minutes ago (M)

age 22-25 - hi guys I am 25 years old and still I had never gone through female sex.Whenever I tried to make sexual relationship with my gf she always ignored me.So pl z I feel myself ashamed right now.Can anyone suggest what should I do?? ... (43 words)

My friend has gotten cynical and bitter! What can I do to help her?

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21 November 2009, 12 minutes ago (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend has been acting very weird lately. She has just gotten back from being overseas through volunteer work and she seems very moody. She'll have these random outbursts. For example, tonight I was downloading something on her computer and she went to go check on it ... (228 words)

How can I get over my ex and learn to trust again?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - Why do I miss my ex now? He was not a very nice guy at all, he was untrustworthy, a cheater, and manipulative. I thought he genuinely cared about me, because he would make it a point to tell me so. But when I caught him in lies it was just heartbreaking and I knew I had to... (227 words)

Now that I attend high school away from my friends, I've become shy and withdrawn

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (M)

age 13-15 - I was once the life of the party, but after leaving my friends after middle school, I feel as if I'm not there. The decision was mine... For the past three years, I had been driven 20 miles from home every day to go to school to be with my friends. I started highscho... (208 words)

How do I find out if he's marriage material?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for about 4 months now. We are "exclusive" (whatever that means today, everbody seems to have a different definition) I guess he is pretty much my boyfriend we don't date other people. I'm 32 and he is 31 years old. He has a 3 year old daughter from ... (341 words)

Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select and purchase a pair. is there a ... (79 words)

When my boyfriend is away I get used to feeling 'single'. Does this mean I don't love him?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Alright so my boyfriend and I have been together 11 months and 2 weeks. We have a sort of long distance relationship, but when he comes home he lives next door to me. But, ever since our relationship started after awhile i get over him being away and it's easier for me to de... (574 words)

Day trip to with my boyfriend in Montreal. Any suggestions?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I wanted to spend the whole day together in late December in Montreal. I wanted this to be really special as we don't get to spend much time together. Does anyone have any suggestions on both indoor and outdoor activities? Something really fun or romantic... (108 words)

How can I convince her I'm not the same as her boyfriend?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - OK I am feeling really sad lately. I am seriously in love with this girl. She says, she don't trust me because we haven't talked in person yet but we had known each other for almost 2 years. She has a possessive bf of about 3 year plus. She said she's not in love with him and ... (202 words)

We're very close but he ignores me in public

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designated spot, but then he seemed t... (245 words)

He's odd and I think he fancies me. I fancy him too so how do I tell him?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - there's this guy. he's really awkward, he does and says strange things. i just find it incredably alluring.. i have the biggest crush on him. he sits with me in class. i think maybe he's interested.. he pokes my hand with pencils, teases me, gets stuff for me, just does wei... (181 words)

He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what can i do help... (69 words)

My ex wanted me to have an abortion, but now he wants visitation rights

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Im 18 years old and i have a 3 month old little boy with my ex whose 22. He wants to have some sort of visitation rights but i dont want him to. Since when i found out i was pregnant at 17 he left me for another girl and told me to have an abortion. He never helped in anything ... (118 words)

My friend sabotaged my relationship, but my boyfriend still doesn't want me back!

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - About a week ago, me and my ex broke up because we barely talked and hanged out. My best friend, I found out, actually planned this by deleting his calls and texts from me and saying bad shit about me to my ex and vice versa. But I found out a day after I ended it after ppl ... (112 words)

Can I ever learn to trust my boyfriend?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - hey there i have a problem i would really like advice on. i love my bf, but i dont have trust, i really want to trust him but i keep thinking he is going to hurt me, by cheating on me or keeping secrets from me, i always have this thought in my head that he is talking to anoth... (220 words)

I want a baby and I don't care what my bf thinks! Is this bad to think this way?

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21 November 2009, 13 minutes ago (F)

age 16-17 - is this a bad way of thinking? if i want a baby i dont care what he [my boyfriend of six months] thinks if he wants to be around then he can if not then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot of wealthier women ... (138 words)

Calas solved the erection, but now I can't climax!

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21 November 2009, 10 hours ago (M)

age 51-59 - Hi from time to time i have had problems getting a full erection and staying hard. i have seen the doctor and he says everything is normal and as given me calas. i take about 1/2 a tab. and it fixes my erection (it does however give me a bad head for 24 hours). what i... (95 words)

Where can I meet men?

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21 November 2009, 8 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating since 16 (im 26 now). I've had a handful of bfs and I've been married. However I find bfs to be rare. I've been on more dates than I can count.that lead to a couple, handful or 1 date at most and nothing. It seems I'm always ms right now, Ms youre great and ... (274 words)

If I ever have a baby, I really don't care if the father hangs around! Is this bad way to think?

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21 November 2009, 21 minutes ago (F)

age 16-17 - Is this a bad way of thinking? If i want a baby I dont care what the baby's father thinks. If he wants to be around then he can, if not, then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot of wealthier women who have waste... (104 words)

He says he wants to be friends only, but he seems to want more

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21 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I've never done this before, but I always come to this site so I figured I'd try... I met this guy in August. Initially I had my doubts, but I put aside the superficials and really looked at him as a person and began to fall for him. The physical chemistry was th... (879 words)

I work two jobs to pay for everything while my boyfriend has no time for me!

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21 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has changed so much since ive had 2 jobs. He is always busy and now seems so into himself. I had to get the 2nd job to pay for things. He is always busy if i have a night off, has already made plans and doesnt invite me. We live together but it hurts me how h... (145 words)

I can't stop thinking about having a baby, but I know I'm not ready.

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21 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - I'm always thinking, "What if I get pregnant?" and my answer in my head is, no matter what i'd keep the baby since me and my boyfriend both talk about it all the time, we cant wait until we're older to have kids. i never had a good mother, she was never around and when she was,... (469 words)

He says he wants to be a couple, but he doesn't text me as often

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21 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I've been dating a guy for quite sometime now, he calls texts me a few times during the week so we can go out on the weekend usually both friday and saturdays. He doesn't mind seeing me even with my friends and gets along with them too. Last week he said he wanted to see m... (323 words)

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

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21 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been doubtful. The reason is that we ... (191 words)

She seems genuine but guarded. Should I wait?

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21 November 2009, 12 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - I met this woman recently, we had a couple of dates. We clicked very well, both were very intrigued by each other. But when it came to being intimate on a number of occasions she had a hard time to open up. Sometimes I think she unknowingly had her arms crossed. But she was ... (407 words)

I've met his family but he hides his friends

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21 November 2009, 12 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I’m 21 years of age, and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I love him, and honestly have never been in such a great relationship. There is one minor problem which gets to me. While he has introduced me to his family, I have not met any of his friends. He has met all of ... (1018 words)

A girl with a boyfriend likes me a lot... what should I do?

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21 November 2009, 14 hours ago (M)

age 13-15 - Hi guys, One of my friends (who has a bf, but doesn't see him much any more) has started hanging out with me a lot, she invites me out to town around once or twice a week, and sometimes sleeps round my house. I like her a lot myself. I can't shake this feeling that sh... (84 words)

I would love to have a real relationship with a girl. (I'm also female).

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21 November 2009, 14 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I really want to have a real relationship with a girl, but i'm really bad at starting up that kind of thing. i tried to find some groups and sites and such to help me meet new girls and get to know them, but everyone just seems to be there for the sex and honestly i want to ... (174 words)

I told him a very personal thing about me and now all his friends are calling me names. I don't know how to handle it any more. Please help!

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21 November 2009, 14 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Last night i told my boyfriend of 10 months that i had been raped before we got together and that is why i do not wish to have sex before we are married as i am scared and any time i think about sex i see His face. its horrible. Even for my boyfriend to touch me makes me ... (326 words)

She won't leave my love interest alone!

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21 November 2009, 14 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - I've finally moved on from my ex of a year and a half and i liked a new guy but he wasnt over his ex but still lead me on, i tryed to ignore him and started to like a new guy whos tall ok looking and really funny and i really really like him i want him to be the one, the whole ... (187 words)

My mate lied to me and it cost me my friends!

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21 November 2009, 14 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, when i was 22 i bumped in to my old school friends and became good mates again like we were back at school, 2 years later i was still single and my mate jess promised me to set me up with her mate and she said her mate claire is interested in me so when my mates say when ... (293 words)

How can I learn to take a step back and 'chill' before I ruin it?

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21 November 2009, 14 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - I've been single for 2 years.. I had 3 long term relationships and all have cheated on me. This has left me so insecure and when i meet someone i tend to be quite 'clingy'. I fall for that person quite easily, like i crave to be loved..:-(. I'm 35 but look about 26-27, I look c... (153 words)

My girlfriend has become distant, is she using me, or am I worrying over nothing?

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20 November 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My Gf has started being a little distant, she dosen't seem to think so, she has also started saying sex is just the same as it always is when she always used to look forward to it, shes been very hot and cold in attitude towards me. today she said sex is nothing special, i ... (654 words)

I don't want a relationship but a one night stand might be ok, how do I tell him?

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in love with a guy who I dated best friend of him I desire him so much we were just friend at the beginning but some emotional reactions started and he ran away I am thinking it is because of his best friend that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me bu... (84 words)

Could my drink have been spiked?!

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to drinking, so in replies please i... (272 words)

My husband is a cross dresser, please help!

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 18 years and my husband is a cross dresser. I have try to understand it but it is hard. I do love him the problem is that he is always chatting and texting sexy and dirt talk and talking about crossdressing with women online. I have seen most of them and ... (120 words)

Will expanding our sex life to include other people help or hinder our relationship?

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My bf and I are wanting to try something in our sex life that he is interested in having sex in front of another couple with no touching and no swapping partners which is what i want but i have a slight doubt. I'm afraid that maybe he will be attracted to the other girl more ... (107 words)

Why do guys like to smell a girl's hair!?

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 and i was wondering why guys smell girls' hair. I was hanging with one of my guy friends and we hugged and he picked me up and i could tell he smelled my hair. i heard it means the guy likes you. is it true? ... (47 words)

What are the odds that he still loves me?

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - From time to time, my ex still gets in touch with me. We have been broken up for several months now. At first our break-up was so messed up, we were bitter towards each other for months. But 3 months ago, he made peace with me that we decided to just let go of the past and ... (309 words)

Can anyone help here? How long does it take to move on...?

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I would really like some advice on how long it takes to get over a relationship. I was with my ex for 3 1/2 years and have since been split up for 6 months. We went cold turkey for a few months then got back into contact. We became very close again and it could be said we were ... (174 words)

Should I tell him how I'm feeling or just ignore it?

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20 November 2009 (F) age 18-21 - I'm in a long distance relationship that seems to be one sided at times. It's been 3 months since we saw each other and almost a month since we spoke. I decided not to call him and see what happens but I now feel like I'm a burden to him. I have conflicted feelings and to make ... (94 words)

I don't know if I should back of and become strictly friends as we're having such a great time!

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok here is the deal. I met this great guy but I made it clear from the beginning I was not interested in a relationship, which is totally true. It was fine since he has a girlfriend anyway. We became good friends, however we also knew from the beginning we were both sexually ... (312 words)

Am I having an orgasm???

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - The past few days, after school I'd get home and there would be a yellowish discharge in my knickers. I recently found out girls cum during sex. I've never had sex so am I cumming? I recently went to the doctors to see if a discharge was anything to worry about. The tests ... (73 words)

I sit there every day and think about him (my ex) and cry.

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my ex split over 3 months ago and recently even though he has a new partner he has said he isnt actually happy and he thinks he may be going through a breakdown, because we share 2 children together and we were together from a young age for almost 6 years I`m beginning ... (135 words)

Are these the signs that he has a crush on me or dislikes me!?

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so - my fitness instructor who I have had a crush on for about 3 years has been acting weird with me lately. I assumed I had offended him but my mum says it sounds like he likes me. I facebooked him to ask if I could be added to a guest list for a class he was organisin... (311 words)

Am I a slut?

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20 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months into our relationship I kissed so... (209 words)