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writes: ok I have a question. My friend said her and her boyfriend masturbated in front of each other at the same time. I say she's not a virgin anymore but she says she still is ... whats your take on this ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): Virginity is a state of mind.... She is the only one who can decide wether this action made her a non-virgin or not. Not your place to say anything, focus on your own life, and judge your own actions!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): She is definitely still a Virgin. They are taking steps together to lead up to the 'big thing', i guess. They didn't even masturbate each other it seems that they just watched. No physical contact, i think what you may be getting at is that she's less innocent now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): if a penis did not enter her, she is still a virgin
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reader, PoliticalyLawful  +, writes (20 July 2008):
In today's modern world she'd still be a virgin, but if you follow religous beliefs it's diffrent. For example, Catholics believe that any kind of shared sexual pleasure is losing your virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thank you :)
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (20 July 2008):
 The general concensus on this matter is that if a female has not been penetrated by a penis then she is still a virgin.
However, this depends on which moral code you follow.
For example, one such definition says that if there is any kind of manipulation by someone other than ones self then you are considered to have "had sex".
In this particular situation as you describe it though means she should still be a virgin. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): uh, yea, she's still a virgin
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