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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I have a right to ask her to stop smoking, or should I just deal with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok.... My girlfirend...who i love so dam much, and we are as strong as ever....I made her quit smoking after being with her and smokes for about 8months...i had enough of it by then and she knew i didnt like it.we talked...she told me she had no problem with quiting for me. ... (266 words)

He's awesome...but he's three years younger than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, There's this boy in my youth group, and we've become really good friends. He's cute, he's sweet, he's funny, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I'm really starting to like him in more than a just-friends kind of way, and my cousin told me that he kind of ... (169 words)

I'm having a hard time living without my ex. Help please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - myex boyfriend broke up with me around sep 15 and im having a hard dealing with him not calling me and talking to me anymore. i just recently saw him at a event and things happened that shouldnt have happned, I was doing really good before i saw him there. I just found out that ... (109 words)

Do I hang in there, or leave him until the divorce is finalized?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 27 years old and dating a 30 year old man for 4 months now. He is legally separated from his wife and they are currently going through a divorce. They have been separated for 4 years. He has asked me on several occasions to be patient with his "situation." It is ... (274 words)

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was just genuinely nice to me, whic... (486 words)

I need some help asking out a girl from work - suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all, I was hoping for some advice on something that's been on my mind for quite a while now - I'll try and keep it as short as possible :) There's a girl at work who seems really nice and I would love to ask her out on a date/drink/whatever. But the problem is me. I ... (320 words)

Who's more likely to end up with the girl? - A hypothetical situation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi internet fans! I'd like to cut to the chase once and for all in relation to the subject of attraction. Ladies: which man are you most likely to be attracted to: guy no.1 who is good looking, has a great body, has personality and charm, but you don't work directly with him... (254 words)

I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm several times. Do any of you ... (91 words)

I still can't get over my crush on a teacher who moved away. Advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey! Ok well you might have read some of my other questions which were all about my teacher who i love and my last one was when he was leaving. But he's left to go to another school now and everyone said it will get better over time but it's been 4 months and 3 days ex... (227 words)

This ia about my daughter - which for me at the moment is causing me quite a bit of stress.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My 22yr old daugher has recently returned home after splitting up with her boyfriend of seven years. with whom she lived with for a year. This has become quite a messy situation and I am doing all I can to support her. However, since coming back she has got in with some sing... (404 words)

Neither of us are ready for full sex, so how can I satisfy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. but neither him nor me is ready for sex. i need tips of good things to satisfy him without having sex.... thanks 3 ... (31 words)

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have tried to do it and i've not mana... (105 words)

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with another man that I've know... (208 words)

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is pretty much my best friend. ... (310 words)

I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of September. The first 9 months were ... (443 words)

What should I do when my husband cheats every six months?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, so i've been married for almost 4 yrs, and my husband cheats on my about every six months it breaks my heart. we have talked and talked. he says he wants to keep our marriage. i beleive that there is hope for us but im tired of hurting. i dont want to give up on him because ... (71 words)

Boundaries with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made dinner and brought it over to ... (155 words)

Should I leave my wife or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 97 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and had 2 kids right off the ba... (444 words)

Which guy is playing me and which guy likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay I just want to know which guy is in playing or likes me. I would like to have a male point of view but females can too. The thing is with these guys I don't even flirt with any of them, I just act like myself, and I am shy,but generally people say I'm real nice, or a ... (726 words)

How should we split up the bills?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with my boyfriend for many years. He owns the house free and clear, and has since before I moved in. Since moving in, I have paid various bills, all food/non-durable items, half the property taxes and given him money monthly to pay other utilities. ... (160 words)

How can I cover up the bruises and scratches I got from my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - How can i cover these bruises i got from my boyfriend and the scratches on my wrists that i did to myself because of him hurting me? They are fresh and just done today. Before u judge me about hurting myself. Its because my whole life from six years old i have been hurt, used, ... (70 words)

How can I make sure we don't drift apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Iv been with my boyfriend for a month and hes going back to uni this weekend and its 3 hours away! He says that we will still see each other every weekend still cuz thats all we see each other now as he lives a few hours away! But he wont have a car there and will need to catch ... (96 words)

Can a kerb crawler stop for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please could people who know kerb crawlers and if you have enough confidence a kerb crawler help me with my problem... My husband is a kerb crawler, OI found out christmas day 2006 his as he says last successful meeting!!!!! So my question to you men, can you really give up c... (129 words)

Why does it always rain on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I don't know if im enjoying life to much but im doing the best i can. Im a really nice person, so i get told. If that's the case i don't understand why i get the treatment i do off others. I just started college this month, made some nice new friends, but history i... (505 words)

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another state for schooling, about 3 ... (220 words)

Do these signs mean he may like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - theres this boy who i like and i got one of his mates to tell him (in the past he has said that i was "bum" and "beautiful" ) i thought becasue of what he said i actully had a shot of him liking me.but when the boy said he told him. he was in a rush and just "raised his eye ... (96 words)

My husband acts like I cheated when I didn't! How do I get him to stop pushing me away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for 17 years and married for 15. During our relationship I have always been honest and faithful and gone through a lot with him. In the past, he has given me many reasons not to trust him but still, I stayed and moved on. I became friends with ... (183 words)

I have a mental block when it comes to my girlfriend and I lose my erection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - everything is great btwn us ... but we have this problem with our sex life.. we've had sex on and off for the past couple months.. but we've gone awhile without sex.. when we try i lose my erection as soon as we are about to have sex... i'm hard during foreplay etc... we've had ... (139 words)

Is it possible for someone to love and not lust after you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.... I am hoping to get a bit of advise regarding my current relationship. I met this guy 9 months ago. we have a great relationship and since day one we have been inseperable. He is 37 has never been married or had kids. We started as friends with benefits since he... (255 words)

My online boyfriend quit speaking to me, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - ive known this guy over the internet for ages now! we met a while back like twice and then when he added me on msn we got chattin alot, i really liked him and he liked me, he asked me out on a date on friday and i thought it was amazing! i was like the happiest girl ever, we ... (100 words)

My boyfriend is always waiting for the next best thing. Why is it so hard to walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well i am 20 my boyfriends is 28 w have been together for 2years and i feel really uhapy we live and work together. we speand somuch time with each other. he makes me so happy. i love him so much much. i really need happy to put a smile on hisface and make it stay there. he ... (116 words)

I feel our child kicking in my stomach and it breaks my heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having another problem, our first problem ballooned to a nightmare. My first blog was that I am 7 months pregnant and found nude pix of his ex and him on his computer, he did not want to get rid of them and days later he said he did, and hated me. When I hit my 3rd ... (440 words)

How to not get attached too easily and quickly? I need to 'harden my heart'.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I think I been having the same recurring problem in my life...I get too attached too early, then when that special someone goes away for one reason or another, I feel like I have a hole in my heart. I can't stop thinking about her for a while, and it drives me nuts. Is t... (72 words)

Is this a good or a bad thing? I'm thinking of having a FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing....I've just come out of a bad relationship...and im longing for intimacy again..because I miss it...I was thinking about having a freind with benefits, but I do not think that I would want to put up with the whole ... (106 words)

About how long does it take to forget someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - There was this girl that I really liked, she started flirting with me, I liked her, and we got close...however, she has moved away, and our relationship really never evolved. I want to forget about her and just move on, but I still have some feelings. I've tried looking at ... (125 words)

Are Virgos able to forgive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their life and that is that? Do they ... (69 words)

Could I be pregnant even though I had my period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - long story short me an my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago the day after we had sex my period came my period came late but it still came but ever since then ive been having stomach pains an cramping could i be pregnant even though i had my period?... (50 words)

Am I being naive or am I just plain dumb in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been together and living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The first 6 months were like that out of a fairy tale novel; surprise trips, PDA, affection, respect and a complete gentleman willing to do anything to make me smile/laugh. After that, it was like hitting a ... (297 words)

Is he confused or could he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey ok you know when people think a lad likes you because of how he acts and stuff and from past things that have happened and they say they think he likes you but hasn;t admitted it to himself yet what do tehy mean by hasn't admitted it to himself yet? I don;t get how a lad ... (168 words)

I feel paranoid about my LDR. How can I ease my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i've been in a long distance relationship for a year now. We live really far away and only get to see each other once every 6 weeks. I suppose i'm an paranoid person at heart and i'm always worrying about how many times i should phone him etc. But it's always me phoning him, ... (245 words)

Has she really changed or will she hurt me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

30 September 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up at the end of May, about 4 months ago. I was extremely hurt because of the things she had done that were unfair to me, and I never contacted her over those 4 months. She contacted me a few times about random things, and each time I reminded her ... (493 words)

His jealousy has reached levels that scare me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I really am at such a loss of what to do, or even what to think at this point... I have been dating a man from Italy (I am American) for a little over 6 months. We met in a way where our trust in one another needs to be strong enough to get beyond the fact that we met as a... (1554 words)

My husband's ex interferes with our marriage! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I hae been married to my husband for two years. His ex-wife has been a constant interference in our marriage. At one point he was discussing our relationship with her and getting advice, he also was talking to her anywhere from 3 to 6 times a day. He always said it was about ... (211 words)

My husband is afraid of physical contact from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help. I have been married to my husband for 7 years. For nearly six years we have had no physical relationship to speak of. My husand is afraid of physical contact from me. We do however have a daughter of 5 who he adores and will provide her with all the hugs and kisses ... (172 words)

I'm a lesbian and I need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - dearcupids! i really dont know what to do at the minute, well, im 17 and i am a lesbian, i was pretty ashamed at first, didnt want to admit to myself or my family but it was easier than i thought, when i introduced my girlfriend to my family, she was amazing, the best thing ... (997 words)

Should my boyfriend be watching porn?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by other women when he is in a rel... (147 words)

We all work at the same company but who should I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age - It seems this guy #1 I really like at work is giving me more attention lately after his relationship went sour with his girlfriend of 2 months. He liked me before this other girl but for some reason went with her. Meanwhile I had gotten flirty with other guys at work, and one ... (111 words)

What do you think about our engagement factor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My bf and I have been together since we were 15. We are still so much in love with upsets here and there which we work through. His parents are still clinging on to him like he's ten yrs. old. He's 21. He doesn't ever set them straight. Sometimes I think he likes his mommy ... (161 words)

Why does love hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - There comes a point in your life when you realize: who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your present or future. But when it comes to Love, can you be able ... (142 words)

He was still seeing his 'ex' in our early days... I just found out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a very close and loving relationship with a wonderful man for over two years and just found out that my man had been seeing one of his ex-girlfriends for a while early on in our relationship. I guess it really shouldn't matter now - over two years later but I ... (162 words)