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Archived questions from: April, 2024 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I just jealous of his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

26 April 2024 (F)

age - A long time FWB had open heart surgery recently. I told him I would help with whatever I could when he gets home as he lives alone. His ex-wife stepped in and started filling up his refrigerator, took care of his cat, and has been there every night or day almost since he has ... (109 words)

My ex ended things by attacking me verbally

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

26 April 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner of 4 years just ended things with me, I'm absolutely heartbroken. I thought wee were okay. Yeah wee had problems but always worked through them, he was good with my daughter too. It's not just that he ended it he ended it in the most brutal way by typing to me on FB ... (232 words)

Is there any way I can feel love for my fiance again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

26 April 2024 (F)

age 26-29 - I’m not so sure I love my fiance anymore and deep down I think he knows it too but won’t accept it because he’s a creature of habit. The spark in our relationship has faded over the years for various reasons, for example, he works so much overtime that we barely see eachother ... (1019 words)

My boyfriend showing signs of insecurity or controlling? Title (e.g. My husband is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

25 April 2024 (F)

age 26-29 - I have known him for about 2 years, between this time we were friends and we grew closer together to the point where we admitted we had feelings for each other. We started dating recently in February this year, however he has shown some signs of insecurity but I am not sure if ... (851 words)

No sex drive with ex partner

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 April 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my partner of 7 years in february, i did not feel sexually attracted to him anymore we argued all the time i did not even want to kiss him but stayed with him purely as we have two kids. I met someone else just for sex and found my sex drive again i liked hi... (142 words)

Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 April 2024 (M)

age 36-40 - My 20 year high school reunion is coming up in a few months. I never made any of my reunions (5 year reunion, 10 year reunion, or my 15 year reunion). I was bullied by a few students and most of the students just acted like I didn't exist. The high school I attended was a p... (199 words)

Did I send a mixed message?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 April 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - From what I gather a girl who is someone I know and who is friends with one of my friends told him I like/have a crush on him. I never told her that but since me and this guy were fairly close and people know how I admire him or talk to him I guess she assumed/jumped to ... (150 words)

Are we able to be friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

21 April 2024 (F)

age 26-29 - Are we able to be friends One of the managers at my job I think has a crush and is attracted to me so he keeps me at arms length so to speak. He is not my boss or in the same department as me but sometimes we do work together and since we’re in the same building we ... (268 words)

Interested in a perfectionist

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

16 April 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying to get a friend to open up and be herself around me. She is a self proclaimed perfectionist and very hard on herself. I sometimes think she likes me and puts pressure on herself for things to be a certain way. As you can imagine it makes it difficult. We text and ... (171 words)

Torn between wife and lover

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 April 2024 (M) age 51-59 - Please don’t shoot me down for asking this question as I know I’ve done wrong and am struggling enough as it is. I’m a 52 year old male, married for 30 years. I’ve not been happy for probably 10 years. As the children grew up we both realised we had nothing in common and ha... (405 words)

3 years into the relationship I find out my boyfriend lied about his age

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

13 April 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I found out after being on a relationship for 3 years that my boyfriend has lied about his age by 4 years. When I confronted him he didn't even bother to give an explanation. Which has made matters worse. I'm questioning if he has told other lies also. I'm 6 yea... (91 words)

I deserve to be treated better. How do I move on from my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

13 April 2024 (F) age 36-40 - I am feeling so depressed. My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We have a 5yo, 8yo and 12yo. My husband has been depressed for the longest while due to finances. Things started looking up for us early last year, but by July/August things took a turn for the worst. ... (312 words)

My aunt embarrassed me in front of everyone at the wedding & I dread facing everyone now!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 April 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically what happened we all attended a family members wedding last week. After the wedding breakfast and before the evening doo my aunt decided she wanted to go back to my house to freshen up - she left a change of clothes at my house as I lived the closest to the v... (366 words)

How can I make my music dreams come true

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

10 April 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't exactly a relationship question, but I hope that someone could be kind enough to give me some advice. Music is my passion, and friends tell me that I play the guitar great. I have a dream of playing in a band professionally, but I feel like my chances are slim... (189 words)

Neighbors haven't been supportive since the death of our dog!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 April 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - We have known our neighbors for 12 years and have always got on well- we both had dogs which we took walking together, plus we’d look after each others dogs from time to time. 4 years ago their dog died, as soon as my husband and found out we sent our condolences. We ... (417 words)

Need some advice on dating. Is it my age? lack of experience?

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8 April 2024 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve been dealing with a recurring challenge in my quest to find a romantic partner, and I’m seeking some guidance on how to navigate it. To provide some context, I’m a 35-year-old, black male, 5’9, who has never been in a romantic relationship. While I’ve been described a... (343 words)

My friend/roommate went through my anxiety medication and told everyone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

7 April 2024 (F)

age 26-29 - TW: mental health concerns My roommate confronted me while we were drunk the other day. She told me she went into my room "by accident while looking for me" and "accidentally" came upon my anxiety/depression medication. She said that because she's studying psychology at co... (289 words)

My boyfriend followed the same girl my ex cheated on me with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

7 April 2024 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Can I please have some advice if or when you have the time? I don't know what to do. I was with my ex for 2 years; we were pretty serious at the time. We ended it after those two years because he cheated on me with my "friend." This "friend" of mine, who was in a long-te... (404 words)

Am so sexually frustrated that it's destroying me in mind, body, and soul.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

5 April 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - Please give me some advice about how to deal with sexual frustration. I cannot STAND it anymore, I am so sexually frustrated. I have morals, so casual sex is off the table. I need sex so bad that I can't freaking sleep. I am a young woman. I got cheated out of my opport... (447 words)

My life is a living hell I need encouragement

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 April 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been through so many things that have made me angry and sad recently, and in the midst of all this, I've always had my faith, but now I'm losing that. If God is real, then why did I get cursed with singleness? Ever since I was a young teenager, I prayed to God ... (426 words)

I want to divorce the town I live in

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

4 April 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - I want a divorce- from the town I live in. I hate North Carolina SO much that I'm too sad and angry to pray to God We moved here from another U.S. state when I was a teenager, but I can't adjust, because it's toxic. To say that I'm in extreme culture shock is a huge ... (494 words)

Overbearing mother and partner getting on my nerves

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

3 April 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is not a relationship problem but a family problem I am nearly 40 years old with 2 sons the problem is my mother wont leave me alone I lost my dad 3 years ago she wasn’t there for me or my sisters when we lost him they had been split up 16 years she wanted to be at the ... (224 words)

I lost my best friend because of her jealous fiance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

3 April 2024 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a male and my best friend is female. She's a tomboy who likes engineering, ships, planes, building models of those, so most of her friends in the past have been male. I'm happily married for 18 years, I love my wife and would never do anything to jeopardise that, men and ... (523 words)

Feel like an idiot - married man

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2 April 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - Two years ago, I started seeing someone from work. He is 20 years my senior and we seemed to get on like a house on fire. Prior to us meeting for lunch, we had met at a work event months before and I seemed to recall him mentioning a fitness class that his wife attended - I ... (1252 words)