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Should I still love my best friend even though I'm in a relationship? it makes me sick thinking about it.

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Question - (20 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *MLBabyDoll writes:

I have known my best friend for 2yrs, Sept.14 last year he askd me out nd i had to say no, my dad wont let me date, i feel so bad i loved him very much stlll do too. Now i have my boyfriend of 3 months(plan on telling dad soon) nd just realized i still love my bff. My bf cant stand him, he keeps asking me if id leave him for the last guy nd i wont 1) cuz he doesnt give a second chance 2) he is just a friend, thats all he'll ever be.

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A female reader, VMLBabyDoll United States +, writes (20 July 2008):

VMLBabyDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thax, but i couldnt leave my current BF for my BFF, Brandon n i are just friends i understand that he still likes me but he doesnt give a 2nd chance, i had mine nd didnt take it...yur answer makes me rethink what ive done. Its hard when i love both and cant make a choice. My BFF ive know 2 years and my BF for almost 4 months now, but honestly do u think i made the wronge choice?

Thank u once again!

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A male reader, PoliticalyLawful United States +, writes (20 July 2008):

As someone who thought I loved someone, i can honestly say that you and me both are too young to know what love is. What you are probally feeling about your best friend is seccond thoughts. Sometimes you can have strange feelings about people (sexual or not). You also could really like your best friend alot and you are realizing you made the wrong choice about getting a new BF. I personally think that you shouldn't date someone while you still really like someone else, but if you feel the same way about your current BF you have a hard choice on your hands. I'm one who enjoys a happy ending so if i were you i would make your BFF your BF.......

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