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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend seems genuine but I have a very hard time trusting

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have some serious trust issues. My boyfriend and I have only been together for a month and a half, but we were very very close friends before that. I'm concerned if he is genuine or not. All the signs that he means what he says are there- he looks me in the ey... (327 words)

My wife has left me, she said she just got "fed up", I'm heartbroken and so disapointed that she gave it all up so easily...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How do you get over a seperation?Just got seperated from my wife of one year and are getting divorced.She has moved out of our flat and I am still in it but movng to a new place soon.This was my first major relationship and got married because I "knew" she was the one. I feel ... (225 words)

He was giving me every single signal that he fancied me and even my friends picked up on it, I told him I liked him and he's gone into hibernation!! Why?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok guys what do you think of this: you went out with someone about a 2 years ago, split up(his choice) but remain good mates. But you have always had the feeling he still likes you--even more so recently because he is: making lingering eye contact very touchy feely confides ... (245 words)

I shaved my back and now it's all horrible...I don't want my boyfriend to notice it, what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a strange question and I hope it's appropriate for here! Well, I have semi-thick curly/wavy hair. I also have more body hair than most women...though I'm sure my own perception exaggerates it. I get really bad shaving bumps on the backs of my thighs and pubic area a... (284 words)

My girlfriend says she wants to wait until we are married to have sex...We're 16...I don't want to wait!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 16 year old male and am sexually active... Well should i say i was. Im not going to go into it but i lost my virginity to my ex girlfriend, we broke up, now im with another girl. I have been out with this girl before i know its young to say but she is the one... (242 words)

Not quite ready to give him a hand job, is there an alternative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been going out with this guy for about 3-4 mnths now, and well I feel like we both might be ready for the next step. However, I don't really feel ready to give a full-on handjob---so is it possible to give him pleasure by stimulating(rubbing) his penis through his ... (56 words)

I still love my ex, and he loves me, but he also calls me very derogatory names, why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a really long relationship with my ex, but I still am not over him, and he says he isn't over me, but yet, he calls me a hoe and a whore and stuff. I don't know what to do. I have a really good boyfriend now that never has hurt me, but I still really like my ex. Help?!... (61 words)

Can you get an STD if you are both virgins?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i have some questions bout STDs. i'm not planning to have sex or nothing. i've never even had a boyfriend before, but we just did our very brief unit in health on sex and well: 1) so is it likely to contract an STD if both u and ur partner are virgins? 2) o... (126 words)

We really fancied each other but people at school making fun of us made him aparently lose his feelings towards me, and I can't forget him just like that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and a Boy of my age at high school have recently revealed that we both have feelings for one another (Recently being about a month ago). Ever since, we have been flirting like crazy, and the feelings that I have for him have grown stronger and more loving. However, ... (350 words)

We broke up but I still like him, and I think he feels the same too, but he's a bit hot and cold...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i like a boy i went out with him before and after 8 months we broke up but lately ive been feeling the same way as i did when i was going out with him sometimes i get the feeling that he likes me too but most of the time he just ignores me or is just abit short with me ... (88 words)

I ended up dating 2 girls at once, broke up with the first one, am still with the second, but can't stop thinking about the first girl...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i had a relastionship with a girl that i really liked from the internet and i met her and found myself loving her soo much but i got attracted to another girl which is a colleague in my college and a close friend too.. suddenly i found myself in a relationship with both gir... (177 words)

He told me he loved me, then the next minute he's with another girl, what's going on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy we have been good friends for a while now and im sure he likes me too but i have doubts heres my story..... for a few weeks we have been talking on msn and saying how much we like each other nd we were suposet to meet up a few time alone but sumting ... (91 words)

What is the least messiest way to give a hand job, are there any special positions etc??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi what's the least messiest way to give a handjob? Like what position is best?... (15 words)

Do you think most women are truthful to their partners about previous sexual partners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - what percent of women tell their current boyfriend or husband the truth about how many sex partners they had before them... (21 words)

Can you catch genital warts even if he wears a condom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

- Hello, just a quick one. Can you catch gentil warts from someone if they wear a condom? I am female and he is male. Its just that i have heard he has it but doesn't know... so obv. i want to be careful. thanks... (58 words)

What sex positions are most popular, and also unpopular, with women?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - what posistions do women love and hate?... (7 words)

My boyfriend insists on fisting me and having rough sex even though I have had many operations 'down below' and it causes me so much pain

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) age 41-50 - so i think i need some advice cause i am not sure what to do. my fiance and i have been together for a year and a half. we are deeply in love and he does everything under the sun for me. i couldnt ask for a better man. but we have a few sex issues. first of all, i have had many ... (404 words)

Her moving abroad seems to have ruined our relationship, she says she has lost her feelings towards me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry, trying to be short as I can so as not to bore. There is a lot of info, so if anyone wants clarity let me know. My girlfriend and I had a fight and we broke up. Now, we have been dating for about a year and a half, but part of that was long distance. The last few mon... (560 words)

I dream of having sex with an old, ugly, fat man. What does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts Well lately ive been having really strange dreams about having sex with a man whos really old, ugly and fat. In the dream i never see his face and i have the sex with the same man in my dream each night. Could anyone tell me what it means? Thanks... (59 words)

What can I do to get my husband to do foreplay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My sex life with my husband is not so great. He doesn't do foreplay. He doesn't kiss me at all. He thinks touching on my breast for like a second is so suppose to just get my hot and bothered. I have talked to him about, but nothing. After sex I am often left unsatisfied ... (96 words)

I'm really scared that I might be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear ________, I see my boyfriend almost everyday, or at least talk to him but, when he told me he was going away for a week to a town 2 hours away and I couldn't talk to him at all, I knew I had to do something to let him know that I really love him and would do anything... (246 words)

My husband has started to cheat. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have been married since 3 years and have 2 months baby boy.my problem is tht my husband has started cheating me without any general reason .i m 23 and he is 24.i cant stand this as he does not love me and care for me any more.he doesnt even agrry tht he cheats.wat shud i ... (102 words)

We have an on again off again relationship, all we do is party and there's nothing meaningful about our relationship but I want to change that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Probably same oll question just in a different variation. I've known this guy for about 5 years. We went out off and on, 6 months here, 1 yr break, 3 months here, 8 months break, and so on. Every time I get a hold of him, which is about once a year for the past 2 yrs, I tend to ... (278 words)

I love my guy - but he's a nudist! And I hate that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a guy who happens to enjoy going to a nude beach (I never had).He explained that there is nothing wrong with it and yet he admitted that it flatters him being looked at by naked women and also to look at women's private parts if he misses me (we have long distance ... (151 words)

My boyfriend seems to think it's all about things. How can I tell him I need his LOVE too?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. his always leaving me out for ... (105 words)

Is this guy a player? Have I been taken for a sucker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age - Is this guy a player? (sorry for the long post but I believe the background is necessary.) Going back 2 years ... met this guy while walking my dog. We bump into each other a number of times at the same location and each time we end up walking and talking for a couple of ... (539 words)

Am I destined to spend the rest of my life alone?

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13 July 2008 (F)

- Am I destined to spend the rest of my life alone. I have been burnt far too many times by the flames of love!! I've been used, lied to, cheated on, abused and left to pick up all the pieces by myself! I have absolutely no trust in the opposite sex when they try to tell ... (220 words)

My teacher is giving me all the signals that if someone my age was doing, I would be certain he fancied me...Help?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - So, here's my question. I know there are a lot of these on here and I know that I might sound stupid for asking. I know that because of the situation i could NEVER be with the guy - I just want to know what everyone thinks about this. So my art teacher - Let's call him M... (552 words)

I like this lad and he likes me - but he has a girlfriend and I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really really like a lad at school who i think likes me aswell cos he flirts with me nearly as much as i do with him, and that is a lot! the only problem is that he has got a girlfriend and i dont know what to do! he probably knows that i like him but should i tell him? it ... (98 words)

I have a crush on my physical therapist.

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13 July 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I have a crush on my physical therapist....I am certainly not going to act on it, i.e. ask her out or anything like that but I now feel very uncomfortable around her. She is so nice to me...and she is a great therapist but I dont k now what to do.... (51 words)

What do you, the agony aunt, think of my situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I must be crazy... I very recently decided that I should move in with my boyfriend of a year and a bit. He's not that financially stable, but he loves me, and I love him... But I've recently come across my oldest friend. We knew each other since we were in grade 3, but sh... (329 words)

Are all of my positive qualities "outweighed" by the way I look?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 6 foot 18 years old dark haired. Unfortunately I am very overweight. My looks aren't bad for my weight, and I have good posture and can generally hold in my stomach. But it doesn't hide my weight. I have been told that I am a really sweet guy by my closest female f... (193 words)

I haven't been intimate for over 5 years, is this a problem?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I haven't been intimate with anyone for over 5 years. I haven't even kissed anyone. So much time has passed, now I am worried that I have some intimacy issues along with trust issues. I guess I have taken a break from the whole thing since I had some bad experiences in t... (137 words)

How do I get over my husband's brother?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have found myself in a very difficult situation and do not know how to deal with it. I met my hubby when I was 12 and he was 14 - and have been together since then. I married him at 18 and he is pretty much a nice guy. He has a brother who is 2 yrs younger than me. When his ... (517 words)

How could I have been taken in by such a gigalo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 3 yrs (was together 2 yrs before). I have 2 children from a previous relationship. I came out of my last relationship with a good settlement and my partner at that time is now my husband. Its been a hard year. My husband gets angry at the slightest ... (309 words)

Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the trouble is that I am ... (597 words)

Will giving him space help him love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - help me plse my boyfriend and i had been ating for 10 months from the start he wanted mearound all the time, abot 1 month in he told me he loved me. we were together all the time his choice. no he says he needs space to do what ever he wants when ever he wants. i ask him what ... (149 words)

Intelligence is something I highly prize in a partner but he's not the brightest crayon in the box!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I'm between a rock and a hard place. Not to blow my own horn, but I'm one of those annoying smart people; I consider myself well read, knowledgeable, and (I'll admit it) I'm a pain in the ass when it comes to debating. I thrive on information and I love any opportun... (248 words)

Can I marry her now? Is she trustworthy?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - should i marry her or not? ..hi all. i have been reading about the hurt that we guys feel about your fiance's past. i am in a similar situation and at a point of making a decision to marry or wait. a good advice will help here. i will start with the story behind. i met my ... (703 words)

Why would he marry someone else 3 months after we broke up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 31 and was dating a man 37 for almost 3 months we had been talking about getting married discussing our roles identifying our compatibility. we both thought we were very compatible we were in love just before our breakup he began to have money problems and seemed to be ... (165 words)

She's vocal when we first start having sex but then gets quiet for the rest of the act. Is this unusual?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Iknow many women like to be vocal during sex.My girlfriend always calls out as soon as my penis goes in and during the first few strokes but then goes quiet for the rest of the act. Is this unusual-I always thought it would be the other way round.... (50 words)

Do Kazakhstan and UK have a connection where CSA is concerned

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, just after some information about CSA. Well I was married to a girl from Kazakhstan, this however failed due to her behaviour and not accepting living outside kazkhstan, we did have a child together whom I send money to via direct debit every month. So now to my ... (83 words)

I could use some advice before he drives me completely nuts! Is he stringing me along?

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13 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I am [or should say, was] with a highly oversensitive and passive-agressive guy for several months. It got very serious fairly quickly, and stayed that way until I mentioned that I hated someone he was close to, and a week or two later said something else without thinking that ... (299 words)

Did I overreact when he put the picture I took of him on the dating site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age - Hi, I met a man a few weeks ago from a dating site and he admitted he talked to alot of women. But We got along well and he said I was his g/f and wasn't looking to meet and date anyone else. One day we had a lovely day out in the countryside and took some photographs. Later ... (188 words)

We are married and back together after a separation....but he's still letting his ex live in his house!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Guys, I'm hoping someone out there can give some advice. Cutting a very long story short my husband of 10 years left me on new year's eve in 2006. I was then a mature uni student and half way through my degree. At first he agreed to a 2 year separation and let me stay in ... (366 words)

Does anyone have any insight on this rash I have around my genital area?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really dont know how to explain, but ok, for about 2 weeks ive had this, irritation around my genital area, a redness basically, i used body powder, the goldbonds kind, and i think maby it worsened, i highly doubt its an std, ive been with the same girl for quite some ... (127 words)

Both girls want a relationship with me and I'm to blame. How do I go about this without using them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi lately I have been going on dates... Basically theres two girls which I like, at the weekend me and one of the girls went on a camping weekend, at end of night we ending up having sex together. The other girl I havent met yet but she's really nice and everythin I woul... (213 words)

What ever became of the male mentor?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age - Any guys on here remember when young lads had male mentors. Maybe you served an apprenticeship under some guy that had worked for the same company for 30 years man and boy. With a lot of industry gone this seems a thing of the past. What became of the male mentor? With dads mis... (69 words)

I am struggling with my girlfriend's newfound relationship with her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am struggling with my girlfriends newfound close relationship with her ex boyfriend. Several weeks ago we broke up but remained together on several levels. Throughout our relationship my girlfriend has always kept her ex at a distance never allowing me any contact with him ... (432 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about his friend trying to feel me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night I had gone out with my bf and our friends and all that and most people were pretty tipsy except for this one guy who doesn't drink or anything. My bf and I had this huge fight and we weren't talking at all. Later we were all sitting at a retaurant, eating and that ... (218 words)

Should I take back my boyfriend who keeps breaking up with me when he gets angry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - help me and my boyfriend got together in march 08 we broke up in june and since then we keep getting back together but he keeps on breaking us up he told me he still loves me and wants us to get back together again im not sure though i dont want us breakin up after a few w... (115 words)

There's this really cute guy I met on the school bus, how do I take it further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i'm 13 and i broke up with my first bf ever a couple of months ago and theres this really cute boy that i met on my school bus, i really like him but he's 16 we both like vid games especially world of warcraft (geeky i know but still) n we're fairly good friends but i don't ... (104 words)

How do I retract my foreskin?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I was hoping someone could give me a general pointer. I am 16 years old and I am unsure of how to retract my foreskin when my penis is erect or flaccid. like where to pull from etc. When erect I can only get the foreskin to come back about 1cm. If I try to go any furthe... (83 words)

If a guy who says he wants to stay single shows signs of liking someone, is he confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right if a guy around the age of 18-19 says he wants to stay single but he shows some signs of liking one of his friends does this mean hes confused or something? because surely if he'd chosen to stay single he wouldn't show signs of liking people so what would happen if he ... (261 words)

Why does he need to lie to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, he basically lives with me considering he stays the night at my house every night. We have a issue lately I have been really under the weather. My job seems to be in a rut and he really has not been supportive what so ever. The ... (362 words)

I'm 13, and 5'5" tall...what should my average weight be?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im just wondering does anybody know what my average weight is? i'm a 13 year old female and im about 5'5. x... (25 words)

He punched me! What do I do about this bf who loves me one minute and treats me horribly the next??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi, i really need a bit of advice as i dont feel there is anyone close enough to talk to about this. me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two years, will be two years in october, and i love him with all my heart and more! i would do absolutly anything for him and ... (761 words)

How to bring up the subject of meeting her casually to at least say hi without giving of the impression I am desperate to speak to her?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl online who i found very pretty. shes local. i got to know her a bit online but she didnt talk much. we saw each other for the first time when walking by each with our own group of friends. i saw her looking too but we didnt make any contact. since than she has ... (100 words)

He didn't want me to look through his phone, which makes me paranoid... what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 3 month. He told me that trust was most important to him, because he told me his fiancee before had cheated on him on the day before they wanted to get back together after a big fight. I like him very much because he's very ... (144 words)

I have no family, because I need love and affection I sometimes get desperate, can you please give me constructive advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age - Please can you give me some constructive aadvice and not jsut class me as a "nutter" I wasa brought up in various childrens homes from pillar to post my mother having elft me my father had a breakdown then re married so was elft in the homes. I married young and my husband ... (408 words)

How do I tell this man I need to call it quits, because he's been cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been involved with a man now for 4 years and found out that he has been sleeping with other women probably the whole time he has been with me. The way i found out was I called his house to see what was going on and another women answered. She then proceeded to tell me ... (131 words)

I'm not sure which girl I should pursue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a friend who I have known for quite a while - and we talk to each other a lot - both in real life and on the internet, and I really like her as a friend. I fancy her as well though, and people say we should get together and stuff. I think she fancies me but I'm not ... (105 words)

We were each other's first love so I wonder if that is a rather hard bond to break despite of the problems that lead to teh break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just wanted to ask. Me and my girlfriend split up about 7 weeks ago now. We were in contact for the first 5 weeks, we met up twice and text each other and stuff. Then i decided to call her and tell her how i felt, she didnt want us to get back together. I dont think she s... (270 words)

What can I say back through text to someone I like and who fancies me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really good friends with a guy in the year above me. He told me that he really fancies me and we need to spend more time together. I really like him too. He sends me really nice texts, but i never know what to say back to them. One example being : 'at the mo i'm lying on m... (102 words)

How do I make him understand that overt flirtations and his forgetting my feelings is wrong. Or should I pretend nothing is happening?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for 23 years. Last year, I found that my husband had been texting and emailing a colleague (and she had responded over 200 times) with extremely explicit sexual language - It read as though they were having an affair - even though they had met secretly in ... (237 words)

Cheap boyfriend who won't share - should I just move on to someone who doesn't put money first?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

13 July 2008 (F)

age - I am 46 and broke, my previous husband took me to the cleaners, I became homeless and had to live with another family for 6 months until I got on my feet. I have now managed to do this and have met a man who is wealthy. He won't pay for meals when we go out, I have to pay my ... (181 words)

Is it right that I should lie about starting my period?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 13 and my periods have not started, but every one in my year have, i feel like a baby. When people ask - i have to lie and say yes i have, because they will laugh at me. Is this right??... (42 words)

Does anyone have any ideas on how to get through to him? Do I have to leave him? I don't want to raise this child by myself.

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am about to have a baby with my boyfriend of two years, who has a problem with alchohol. I left him last year because he kept ditching me to go party and wouldnt come home till the next day and he started lyhing to me about where he was. So I left him and moved away... (238 words)

I messed with another girl in front of my wife, I thought she was cool with it and now she doesn't trust me.

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I messed with another girl in front of my wife, i thought she was cool with it and now she doesn't trust me. What can i do?... (27 words)

He was the most important person in my life. Now this. It's not meant to be. What can I do?

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13 July 2008 (F)

- I dont know what to do. heres my story. My best friend (call him simon) is bisexual and he met someone(call him josh) . They had fancied eachother in the past but they became friends..then intermate. then day by day josh took over and i was being pushed out of the picture and ... (220 words)

I started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but I'm afraid I will.

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and have recently began to have sexual feelings...i started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but i am afraid i will... How can i relive my sexual urge without being caught doing something embarrassing? I have tried masturbating by rubbing ... (107 words)

I don't know how to tell my best friend I really like him. Secondly, I'm having problems getting over my ex.

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - The first part of the problem is that I like my best friend. He's been my best friend for a few years now and I don't know exactly how to tell him I like him, but I know I need to. The second part is that I just can't seem to get over my ex. I've tried everything i could think ... (98 words)

He loves me, but now his wife has found out he doesn't want to know me.

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with someone for the past 3 years but found out 6 months ago that he has recently married. Because I love this person so much I agreed to be the other woman. I know that he loves me and he tells me all the time that it was a mistake moving in with her and marrying ... (141 words)

He's never in the mood for sex any more. Is there any way to fix this?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years. The first eleven months he lived in a different state and we stayed together through phone and internet but then he moved to live closer to me. Well, I, at that point, was seventeen and he was approaching thir... (281 words)

My wife moved out with our kids because I had a drink after major health problems. I want her back.

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13 July 2008 (M)

age - my wife recently moved out into her own apartment with our 4 kids. circumstances: in january i had a stroke, was given 72 hours to live, docs told my wife that i would be restricted to a wheelchair. she never believed them and passed her strength on to me, urging me to beat the ... (265 words)

Is there a resonable time period, to wait for someone, who likes me, and who has broken off a relationshp, and does not to start a serious relationship now?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How long should I wait for a guy who likes me alot but is not ready for a serious relationship yet due to a recent break up?... (27 words)

What is a safe time frame, to have sex without a condom, after your period?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is doing sex after 21 days of periods safe without condom? ... (11 words)

He's made up his mind and his heart, and broken up with me. How am I supposed to deal with it?

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13 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me today. He had given up some friends, because those guys were friends with an ex friend with benefits of mine. This thing about my ex friend with benefits has been Hell for us. He got very jealous and upset when he found out, because this was the guy... (506 words)

I am very curious, how often do girls masturbate, does anyone have any idea ?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok how much do girls masturbait???... (6 words)

I have a girlfriend, who I want to buy a gift for, but I have no money, any ideas?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - well this question sort of involes a girl see i went out with her and we went on happily for 2 and a half years and i promised to by her something speacial but i have no money and i forgot last annavirstiy and bascically a am ask fir advice because i am 12 and i need a job any ... (62 words)

His girlfriend doesn't treat him right. Do you think I have a chance with him?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a curious about this man i have been talking too, he is finalizing his divorce, and he has three kids, and he lives with his girlfriend whom does not treat him right, he caters to her and she just doesn't treat him right, with us talking and stuff he puts in out there that ... (155 words)

How can I tell when my boyfriend has an orgasm?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never been able to tell when my boyfriend is having an orgasm during intercourse. The first guy I slept with I could only tell because it burned when he ejaculated and it turned out I was allergic to a protein in his semen. With my current boyfriend I can never tell- ... (70 words)

My girlfriend runs after the boys I like, I try to let her do what she wants because I want her to be happy, but this one boy I really like a lot and she has her eye on him, she also lies about me to boys, what can I do?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i told my friend that i liked this guy allot and she didnt even no him and we hung out 2 days ago and she started flirting with him...........she gave him her number and was askin him out and stuff...............and scince in knew that she liked him i lied and said that i ... (154 words)

He cheated, told his girlfriend to get lost, she harrassed me, he got depressed, doesn't want sex, I am at my wits end, any suggestions for a remedy?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks to anyone that can offer some advice on this: I'm 29 and have been married for nearly a year. My husband cheated on me 18 months ago. (He kissed a girl 3 times and spent time with her). I found out and he confessed all. We had to move overseas together for work and... (359 words)

I care about this guy, he has a girfriend, we talk, he is miserable, girlfriend is pressuring him, what can I do to help him?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! there is this guy i know and love,he has a gf but we live in separate countries ..here is the catch.. a few months ago he moved from his gf's city to another..about a 2 and half hr drive.. but we talk everyday...no sexual relationship with me,he was v upset from ... (190 words)

How do you act graceful in the midst of a former flame?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you act graceful in the midst of a former flame? There was a man I was in love with a couple of years ago and now we will have to confront each other at an professional event. I know when we see each other there will be sparks again but I am dead set against being to... (113 words)

Would he love me more if I was in a porn film?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If your boyfriend watches Internet porn should you film an internet porn film of yourself? My boyfriend watches porn, even though he thinks I don't know it. He goes on the internet, and he consistently lies about going on the porn sites, even though I find them every day i... (107 words)

I'm worried about my cousin touching me inappropriately...what should I do?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, almost 15. I'm very close to my cousins, and I often go to their house and spend the night. I usually stay in the same room with 2 of them cause theirs not enough space. In the beginning of this year, one cousin thats my age started touching me when I went to sleep. ... (342 words)

How pathetic am I?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this girl for a year now and after falling in love with her, she didn't want to hurt my feelings because she knew how I felt. So she wouldn't go out with anyone for a while as she just wanted to be friends with me, which I put up with, I was never happy ... (172 words)

My ex stood me up...does he miss me and feel something for me?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i dated twice now i broke up with him the first time and then he broke up with me the second time. i never really got over him. i am alwayas thinking about him wondering should i just talk and tell him how i feel. then out of the blue he e-mailed me seeing how i was ... (138 words)

Played by a Leo man?!

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started going out with this Leo guy in his early 30's and he came on pretty full on at the start. I had recently come out of a relationship and wasn't sure at the time if I was ready for this. It became intense and the times we shared were fantastic. He started changing... (266 words)

I was so mad I slapped her across the face!

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13 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had canner. I even missied a week of school because of it. When I told my best friend say I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slapped her across the face1!! Why would she say something like to me, ... (61 words)

Why do I keep breaking up with guys after 3 months?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have met a lot of guys who are interested in me even dated a few and always ended up breaking up with them after three months. is it that i am not ready for a relationship or i havnt find the right guy what is wrong with me?... (49 words)

What is the difference between a democrate and a republican?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What am I a Democrat or a Republican and what is the diffrence anyways? I always thought Republicans for rich people and Democratic for the working class. But people tell me i'm wrong. Some say i'm conservitive and some say I'm liberal. When people ask me my views I tell them , ... (259 words)

What are the odds of my girlfriend being pregnant?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So here is my dilema. My girlfriend and I had sex last night and I came inside her. One hour after, she started her period. What's the odds of her getting pregnant? We have sex on a very consistant basis atleast once a day no more than 5 times a day lol. I was told the more ... (119 words)

What is my next move with this girl?

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13 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i met this girl last saturday through a friend, she stayed in my house that night, we didnt do anything, just kissing, holding hands etc,she seemed to really like me, the follow day we were txting, then she stopped and ive txt her once or twice but she never txts me first, ... (79 words)

I lied about my age so it only lasted 2 days! I was in love so how do I recover?

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...here it is.. i know im young,but im positive i fell in love last year. i lied about my age, it lasted 2 days and he hates me now. i can't stop thinking about him and it hurts so much. i can't go on without closure. i miss so much it makes me feel sick. what should i ... (61 words)

My best friend's ex wants me!

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13 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my best friend went out with this guy who asked me out i dont know what to do should i say yes or no , will it wreck my friendship?... (30 words)