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writes: Ive been mates with a lad now for just over two years and I really really really like him. Not just as a mate...I think Ive fallen for him too. Hes in my thoughts CONSTANTLY, I stay awake thinking of him at night, everything about him is perfect to me. He is three years older than me (hes 18, im 15) but that doesnt change anything. My problem is that he is moving 300 miles away in August and I just dont know how Im going to cope. He told me he was leaving in February and I almost broke down then..then around 5 weeks ago he told me he wasnt going and I cant even describe how happy I was. Now, hes told me he IS going and this time its definate. Now, I have all these sad feelings back again. Not being able to see his face ever again and not have our time together is going to be so, so hard! It hurts so much just thinking of it, I dont know how Ill deal with it when it actually happens. Im scared to tell him how I really feel because I dont want him to feel he's let me down when he does go. I cant really tell my other mates about it because I dont think they'll understand. I cant tell my family because they'll say im not in love with him, it merely 'a crush' but its so so much more than that!!!! Ive cried loads about it already!!! Im dreading his last day!!! What can I do? Please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): Heyy (: the answer from baybee-x-sparkii is really good, that is 1 thing i might do if i was in your situation or i would get him on his own and tell him exactly how i felt, after all youv not got much to lose if he's leaving but its totally up to you, Good luck with whatever you decide to do (: x
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 I know it may sound cheesy and even immature but why not give him a letter the day before he goes, tell him to open it once he gets there and for him to contact u as soon as hes done. In the letter u tell him how u feel even how much it hurts, tell him not to feel guilty and not to worry but just to know that u care etc.
If there is anything I can do just email (:
Sparkii x
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