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Archived questions from: March, 2023 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Accusations of cheating following symptoms of an infection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

31 March 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for around 2 years. We are both homosexual men and throughout I firmly believe we have both been faithful and can 100% say I have. I'm stuck right now. Over the past few days my partner has developed symptoms of either a UTI or an STI (excessive ... (306 words)

My wife is committing benefit fraud. I don't want to report her but I want her to leave me alone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

31 March 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - I hope I don't look like I'm bitter with this question but I'd like to know your opinions with this. I have 2 daughters aged 17 and 19 and I've been paying child maintenance. Admittedly it was only £150 when they were both little but I've always had minimum wage jobs. Now ... (260 words)

Need advice no judgements about friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

29 March 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am looking for possible advice please. Not judgement. It's jsut been my birthday, and like people do. My fiend messaged me to wish me a happy birthday. This led to a conversation and ultimate led to us messaging in a sexual way. This has now happened a few times sin... (190 words)

I didj not get to see my father before he passed away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

28 March 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - A year on i am still struggling with pain and regret over my dad dying. he was in hospital for a month and i thought he was going to come out. i regret so much i never went to the hospital it kills me. i was living the other side of the country at the time and my family di... (169 words)

Will sye become a hot wife?

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27 March 2023 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 25 years has suggested MFM date. If I agree to it maybe she will want the other M in future dates without me? But she says she will date him and then tell me all the details believing that it will give me an orgasm vicariously. What if I like this idea and help ... (165 words)

I need to know if I am being stupid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

27 March 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think I’m being stupid ? So I met this guy he was amazing I really liked him we dated for 3months and it was amazing however he has a very stressful job and he works very long hours and seeing eachother with my work aswell was becoming quite challenging and I go ... (267 words)

I told a secret

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26 March 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - I told my mother a secret about my sister and feel extremely guilty. long story short my sister blames for a making a huge life decision 3 years ago in which had nothing to do with me. I tried to be supportive in many ways at the time but she has always blamed me for an... (206 words)

Are we going to reconcile or divorce - your impression please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 398 days ago

25 March 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, So me and my wife met in 2018 and moved in with each other. We got married in 2020 and have a daughter born in 2021. My wife and I were madly in love and would do a lot together and spend 90% of the day together. Same job, same routine, same hobbies etc… We were mo... (462 words)

Wait for fate or risk it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

23 March 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya All, This is a petty question compared to most on here but was just looking the best way to approach a lady I find attractive. She works behind where I work at a women's hair salon and now and then I have seen her out the back having a cigarette when I am. this mi... (158 words)

Am I correct in my opinion

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

21 March 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I’ve been seeing someone who’s a bit long distance. We hang out every 3 weeks. We take turns driving. I’m supposed to go up this weekend. To give him a heads up, I informed him I’ll be on my menstrual cycle. He says, “Lol..Not sure how to respond to that are you still ... (178 words)

What can I say to make him realize I am serious about breaking up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

20 March 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a 3 year long relationship that i feel is just coming to an end but neither of us will admit it, we have a 7 month old baby and since we have had our son things have just not been the same , he is so moody and snappy and shouts at me infront of the baby, he disrespects ... (656 words)

Is my partner trying to get me to leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

19 March 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner puts me down in public, calls me names and talks about his ex and how other women with different hair colour to me look better. When I'm out with him he is constantly looking at other women on purpose. It's starting to wear me down I'm losing confidence in myself, my ... (160 words)

Is he with someone else at night?

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19 March 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - I’ve been speaking to this guy for a couple weeks now, we get along so well and we have plans to meet up soon. We have regular phone calls and text each day. However last few nights i don’t hear from him since 7pm, which is quite strange so now I have a gut feeling is there ... (152 words)

Is she avoiding me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

16 March 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm a little embarrassed even asking this because I think I know the answer but the mixed signals are confusing. I became friends with someone I used to work with and recently things progressed between us. As she's an ex-hairdresser I asked her if she would come ... (226 words)

Friend wants her rude& spoilt daughter to attend my birthday weekend.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

14 March 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - ?If anyone can offer any advice I’d appreciate it. My friend has a 13 year old daughter who is very spoilt and has a very bad attitude towards everyone and everything. Before everyone starts ranting sticking up for her- I’ve know her since she was a baby- her parent... (565 words)

I have a crush on a female coworker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

14 March 2023 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a female and have a crush on a female coworker. We have chatted at times through text but I’m unsure if she is interested in women which is fine because we could at least be friends. The problem is she seems cautious even when I mention hanging out. I want to be her friend ... (373 words)

Parter is making situations for us not to sleep together. I miss the cuddling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

13 March 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner, who I've lived with for many years, has started supposedly joking around by preventing me from getting into bed with him at night. When I tuck our dog into bed, brush my teeth etc and then go to get into my side of the bed, he's either sprawled out my side so I... (254 words)

What is this married man doing??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

13 March 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there is someone I know who I am NOT allowed to date. Think something like teacher and professor, or employee and superior. However, I don’t see him very frequently. I have a huge crush on him, which I know is awful on its own. Why do I feel that way? He has been very fl... (545 words)

Girlfriend texted my friend for 5 hours. It was innocent but why 5 hours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

11 March 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have been dating this girl for 3 months. We are in our late 30s. Initially it was her who fell in love with me and now I love her too. We meet like once a week and text from time to time. I introduced her to my best friend and we all hang out sometimes. She texts hi... (269 words)

My partner has a huge drinking problem

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

9 March 2023 (F) age 30-35 - I have been together with my boyfriend for 13 years, we have a child together and we have our own home together. However for the past 2 years I’ve noticed my boyfriend’s drinking is getting out of hand, at first his drinking was only moderate, but now he’s drinking almost ... (430 words)

I'm in an unhappy relationship and feel trapped

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

9 March 2023 (M)

age 26-29 - I’m in a 6 year old relationship and I’m trapped. We broke up 3 years ago and then she found out she was pregnant so we got back together and I love my boy more than anything in the world and would do anything for him. The relationship was never right when we got back ... (268 words)

Is there anything wrong with me for not wanting to celebrate my birthday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

8 March 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - My family knows that I hate celebrating my birthday and I expect them to not to make any plans for my birthday. All of my friends know I hate celebrating my birthday and know that I only expect a text message from them that says "Happy birthday". My sister-in-law is... (238 words)

My wife has totally lost her sex drive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

7 March 2023 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has totally lost sex drive. She is healthy, just 40 and a fit gourgeous babe. Yes we have 3 kids that drain energy, but still we should have a sex live,no? We had amazing sex the years before our kids came… no silence, just silence - it’s been 9 month since we last had ... (72 words)

Wife gets spacey when I talk to her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

7 March 2023 (M)

age 26-29 - sometimes when i try to talk to my wife she pauses and looks out in space and say words that lead nowhere, can someone tell me if shes ok?... (29 words)

My ex makes little effort with our son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

6 March 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I just need a bit of advice on what to do regarding my sons dad we split up a year ago due to him cheating on me with my best friend he has our son twice a week for 2 hours a day and also pays no maintenance the problem is he won’t do anything with his son he won’t take him ... (205 words)

Free rider

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5 March 2023 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone. My story is weird, just a warning:) I am in my late 50s, husband is 65. 9 years ago he met a girl who is 1 year younger than our daughter. I think i was the only who didn't kmow about it. Just to be his advocate: we had no sex for past couple of years bef... (808 words)

I just want to get rid of my virginity and move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

5 March 2023 (F) age 18-21 - Heres my problem. I’m 20 and still a virgin and haven’t had my first kiss yet. For me personally it isn’t something that I’m purposefully avoiding nor do I have strong feelings about sex. Tbh I just want to get rid of it so I can just move on. Should I tell a potential hookup ... (65 words)

Wife spent wedding money without asking me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

4 March 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife and I recently got married and for our wedding present, our friends and family banded together to pay for our visa and relocation expenses (we are long distance). Shortly afterwards my wife was poorly and ended up being too ill to go to work for a few weeks, she d... (335 words)

Odd experience at a house viewing.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

3 March 2023 (F)

age 22-25 - I’m on here to see if anyone else has had odd experiences whilst viewing houses to buy? My fiancé and I are looking to buy our first property, so obviously we didn’t really know what to expect when viewing homes. None of our friends are homeowners so have not had the expe... (594 words)

I have a crush on a bisexual man

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

1 March 2023 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunties, I have fallen hard for a guy, real hard. He is younger than me by 10years. He says he is straight, l am gay. We have kissed and cuddled and he sends me love messages and calls me his queen. He is real sweet with me. We stay in different towns six hours drive ... (211 words)