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writes:;ust wondering when you are in a relationship and fighting, what is normal and what is not? Especially if drinking? Reply to this Question
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reader, eurolove  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 I had a fight last night with my boyfriend because i got drunk . I regret it the day after but i cant change it it got physical and im in pain both mentally and physically. I wish I can change it but it allready happened so i have to move on from it . Just know that drinking only damages ur brain and liver . You might feel good for 2 minutes but then ur back to reality again. So we just have to keep on going and be strong for ourselves.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (20 July 2008):
 First, let's get something straight. Fighting is not normal in any circumstance drunk or not.
If there is fighting then there is definitly a defect of some sort in this relationship.
It also means there is some abuse going on here and needs to be addressed.
The responsible party needs to seek council for this.
This is not to say only one person should be counciled either because it takes two to tango as the saying goes.
My suggestion is that you both try to get some kind of counciling for this.
Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): Fights are never safe or good while drinking ! They aren't good with out the drinking either... what exactly do you want to know is normal or not. Your question isn't very detailed so many people may not know how to answer . But whats normal to me is a little bickering, maybe some yelling, nakme calling isn't good, it happens, but it isn't good, any pyshical violence from either of you is not good and sugest getting out of a harmful realtionship if any of that is going on .
thats all I know to say, I hope it helped,
take care and good luck
*~VG~*
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