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16-17,
anonymous
writes:Just today my boyfriend of three years [on and off] has told me that he's bi. i figured, because it was VERY obvious but now its akward. we can hardly kiss anymore. and i've always wanted to have a three-some and he's THINKING ABOUT IT. is this just too good to be true... or is something wrong here? we talked for HOURS to to make sure that it's the real deal. and i guess he's liked the kid. [we'll call him Jim] for a while but hasn't told me. they WERE bestfriends and my boyfriend always had him sleep over, but one night i guess "jim" layed in the bed next to him. they didn't do anything but i guess my boyfriend really likes him.and a major plus- THIS KID IS HOT. am i in heaven? or is something going on behind my back? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Kinky Boots  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 I depends on how you can handle this one in the future. What if he wants to go with blokes, what will you do then. What if he wants a threesome? You need to look long and hard to this situation now and if you really want to be around someone like this. It could be wonderful, or it could be miserable, knowing that he is bi and may want more.
It is up to you. I wouldnt like it.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (20 July 2008):
 Very rarely does 2 people that like eachother (bi, gay or otherwise) sleep together in the same bed and not do anything sexual, flirty or loving in some way. I don't know your boyfriend, so I can't speak for him. Fortunately, you have an open mind and want to use this information about your boyfriend to play out a fun fantacy you have! Yay! So, you are seeking opinions on wether or not your boyfriend wants to keep you around or not? Seems he is reluctant to want to share this other guy with you, and if the "spark" between the pair of you is fading (lack of kissing, etc.) that would be a sign that perhaps his feelings for you are fading as well. (But, like I said, I don't know your boyfriend and your situation in detail, so I really can't speak for him). When you two talked, did you mention to him that you felt a little left out lately because he doesnt kiss you or show affection as much as before? Did you ask him if his plan was to be with you and this other guy or if he was wanting to choose between the two of you? Kind of crucial when it comes to another person in the picture. Good luck, hope it works out hon:)
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