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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could this pain mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, four days after I ovulated this month I had a pain in my ovary! I've been trying to get pregnant for few years now and this is the first time I have had a pain in my ovary after ovulation. Could it be something related with pregnancy?... (50 words)

Why do my legs always have these goosebumps on them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 15 and my legs have got like goosebumps on them the whole time... they're red and purple and my legs always feel really rough even straight after I shave.. What is this and how can I get rid of it? thanks em x... (55 words)

Why am I always being dumped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Why are the girls in my relationships the ones who finish it? And why so early in to it?... (19 words)

Any suggestions on good hiding techniques or any way to make a very little mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but is worried about getting caught. Our only chance alone is doing downstairs when her mom sister and brother leave us alone and go upstairs. I said I would wear basketball shorts and we could cover it with a blanket. But she's ... (73 words)

Help me, I love my girlfriend but I'm hurting inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some answers please because I'm going crazy. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Take it back a little to 2003 I was with a girl who I dated in high school and she cheated on me so we broke up. Then in 2004 I met this girl at work and we got together, we had ... (694 words)

Another one bites the dust...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just met this guy, the minute I saw him I thought there was something about him. We've been dating for about a month and had a really good laugh. The other night I sent him a really mean text message, I was drunk, it's like a subconscious thing I do to push people away, ... (115 words)

Am I completely incapable of a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old, turning 21 in a month and I have never been in a real relationship yet. I feel like a loser because of that and the closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but he was sleeping with another girl behind my back. I still talk to him ... (138 words)

I really thought there was chemistry between us. Did I read him completely wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

31 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and I were together for what would have been two years next month. We broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until February when I cut off all contact. He broke up with me, he couldn't decide how he ... (437 words)

Maybe it IS me and she just doesn't want to be my friend any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok about a year ago my friend told me she likes this boy in one of our classes. He also happens to be the boy I liked the previous year. I told him I liked him on valentines day via a card and he gave me one back saying he was flattered but he had a girlfriend. I was gutted buy ... (350 words)

I have slept with my best friend in the past, and my fiance has no clue

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had our ups and downs and I have caught him cheating three times (but who knows how many times he has actually cheated?). He used to put me down regularly and I am not happy with our sex life. I got fed up and ... (159 words)

I don't want to see her happy... what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have convinced myself that I like my best friend's boyfriend but in reality I genuinely like this other boy. I think it is more to do with that fact that I like attention and all I'm doing is messing with people's heads to get it... I can't stop, I don't feel terrible ... (155 words)

I can't stop my cravings... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13, nearly 14 and I have a bit of a problem. Basically, I can't seem to help my cravings. I'm not really 'fat' but I've noticed that my thighs and stomach are getting bigger. I know I eat far too much junk food like chocolate and crisps but I can't seem to stop. I just seem ... (133 words)

Does having a simple, tiny "crush" on the same sex, even though you are definitely straight, make you bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know, I know. Some of you might respond with "EWWWW" or "GROSSS" etc., but I just wanted a little input. I didn't mean for this to happen. I've always been straight. Boyfriends, the whole deal and what not, I've been through it.. but recently I met this girl, as we are ... (116 words)

I love my girlfriend to bits but I just can't picture her in a sexual way...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and I've got a question. My gf and I have been togehter for a long time like 2 years and I love her with all my heart. I'm going to see her in a little bit and it's just gunna be me and her at her house. Her parents trust me and we're not gunna do anything we ... (157 words)

Should we come clean to just the twin and try and get her to keep it quiet or should be say nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've decided to come out now (at least on here), but me and my cousins around chirstmas ended up having sex for the first time, and then again about a month and a half ago. Now before you all get going on how it's wrong and illegal... it isn't. It's perfectly legal ... (262 words)

Does smoking effect the way the pill works on the body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm taking the pill and have been for nearly two years. However last year I started smoking. I am on the last few pills for this month and I am going on holiday in a couple of days. I was planning on missing the gap between packs so that I won't be on my period while on my ... (78 words)

What can I do to woo him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the type of girl that doesn't have trouble finding men because they always come to me. The thing is, I dont like any of these guys. I recently met a guy at a close friend's birthday party. He is her close friend. He is gorgeous and we hit it off really well... conversa... (220 words)

Another question about anal sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Does the majority of women like or dislike anal sex... and would a woman leave her man because of it??... (20 words)

Should I take her to the prom to please my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My parents want me to go to my senior prom with a family friend's daughter. She is cute and friendly but I don't really know her that well so I am not that comfortable with the idea. If I don't take her I won't have a date and I will go to my final prom stag like every other ... (129 words)

How many women actually orgasm during vaginal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've heard it's possible, but that it doesn't happen very often because it's hard to stimulate the clitoral complex this way. I've still never had sex, though I've orgasmed before through fingering, but I'm just wondering, are fingering and oral sex basically the only ways a ... (92 words)

I envy the males!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I envy the males, they can be good looking and charming without trying. Girls have to make themselves into sluts at all ages to get a boyfriend that's not fair. Opinions please.... (34 words)

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we have been talking every day ... (257 words)

Why is it seemingly more acceptable for girls not to give oral than it is for guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Why does it often seem like people are harder on guys who won't give oral than they are on girls? Even just browsing through questions on here, I've noticed that when a guy complains that his girl won't give bjs people tend to get a bit defensive and say that she probably just... (373 words)

Confuse on what to do, birth pills question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question on birth pills. I just started it a week ago. My period started on Tuesday, then I took the pills on the Sunday (end of the week) following the days on the strip. I had sex exactly a week after (the following Sunday) and no condom was used. I suspect a bit ... (86 words)

Blowjob information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps suggesting oral sex, I have never done it before and jusr wondered when you give a blow-job, this sounds silly, is it just the fact of putting him in you mouth, what do you do with your tongue.... (41 words)

It's been two weeks. I haven't heard anything from him. Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid... I really like this guy. I don't know what else to do. When I first met him I was in relationship with my son's father, now we're not together but before that me and the guy used to text each other and my ex found the texts and text the guy and told him that I'm ... (221 words)

I have a question about female orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a question about female orgasm , im a virgin so since women orgasm from clit preassure , either from oral or during sex from he preassure of the man's pubic bone . so why is vaginal intercourse enjoyable ? i mean it is for the man cause of the nerve endings in the pein... (87 words)

Girlfriend plans to attend her ex-boyfriend's wedding (without me)! So upsetting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - recently i found out something about my gf's sexual past with one of her ex's that was TMI and in my opinion, borderline deal-breaker. we've talked about it a couple times and was making good tracks on moving past it because i think she's worth it, and she understands how i ... (313 words)

Someone please translate this for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am friends with a bloke, at first he was full on wanting to meet someone for a relationship. I have know him for a few months now the problems that he had have been sorted with the exception of his ex using his child to see him. He calls and texts every day and has even... (232 words)

Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on this one.. Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend with something new and exciting! Keep in mind we still have to whisper..The family is in the bottom floor.;) Oh, and sis is down the hall.. But who cares..give me ideas PLEASE! ... (58 words)

Do antibiotics affect contraceptive pill? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - another "could i be pregnant" question, sorry. I know you guys get a lot of these but i have read through a few and not found any like this, so here goes. Im on the contraceptive pill but have been taking antibiotics for over a week now, Will this affect my pill working? ... (129 words)

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back together again and everything w... (392 words)

When kissing and aroused, what to do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When you are snogging (kissing) a bloke and he makes you feel how aroused he is, what should you do, I mean, what does he want, what should you do?... (30 words)

First time seeing him ... what should I wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey its been a year and i have been talkin to this guy ever since,btw we met on face book he always wanted to meet up but i delayed it cuz i wanted to be sure of him before i met him but later on i got to know that his best friend knows my family really well,so basicall... (160 words)

What do you think: shaved or natural?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i ask if my boyfriend likes shaved pubic hairs or natural? what do you think are better? i dont want this to interrupt me and him , i dont want it to be a turn off when we first decide to have sex.... (46 words)

I like the wrong guy, and I have a mess in my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like the wrong guy. I was in a relationship, and this guy I'll call "E" was my ex boyfriend's best friend, that was the moment when I started to like him. Then when my relationship was over he took distance from me. In those days I became closer with the brother of "E" and ... (219 words)

Should there be an agreement on when to hang out with our own friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are going our separate ways on Friday night..hanging out with friends that we haven't seen in such a looong time. We do this every now and then. Should there be an agreement between both of us? We've been dating for over (2) months. For example: Call me... (121 words)

I really don't mean to be confusing. Any explanations would be very helpful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well of course. A while later we s... (356 words)

Why would I want someone who treats me like garbage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK where to start six years ago I met again whit my high school friend, she was going threw a divorce I always liked her since high school but back then her boyfriend was my best friend and we ended up not talking anymore because of her, well the point is she had a child by ... (599 words)

I'm so used to fighting my paranoia that I can't make head or tail of the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for about 8 months now. Originally I rebounded from a previous relationship to her, but it couldn't have been a better person to find. We were friends before hand, but here's where things get tricky. She's, more or less, a lesbian. I am quite attr... (131 words)

What to do about this dating situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by my locker, he'd go straight ... (460 words)

I feel that my sister has taken part of my identity away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm really insecure and envious, help! Ok, in 2007 I started college. I was the star of my program, because I love what I do and it comes to me easily. My (older) sister had dropped out of Law School, and she took that year off. She wanted to study Literature. But ... (375 words)

I'm so close to giving birth and all I want is for him to be around with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend exclusively for about 8 1/2 months and am 7 1/2 months pregnant. We've had alot of drama in the past, but ever since I started dating him exclusively I've been the happiest I've ever been in a relationship. I honestly plan on marrying him, which is a... (227 words)

X is just making me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Wondering what the deal with X's that make it super hard for you to date ? Ok let me clear it up her for you. Me and my X have not been together for about 6 months now and still to this day she is posting stuff about me an how I hurt her and how what we had was good till I ... (275 words)

Why the change? He seemed disinterested or distracted now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy i like who i met on saturday night at a party. One thing led to another and since then i spoke to him on msn on sunday. He asked for my number and texted me and the conversation was very flirty - asking to see me sometime soon etc. Anyway i spoke to him aga... (119 words)

We're broken up but I still can't stop thinking of her..wondering what she's doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated for a year and four months and during that time (and a few years before that even), she's been obsessed with British guys. She talked about one day marrying one but I didn't think she would actually leave me for one! We'll just call the bastard 'Charles'. ... (195 words)

Why does my friend start rumors about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really finding that I'm getting quite depressed with my life. When i look for positives I generally can't find them. My class never hesitates to make fun of me by starting rumours but now i'm just sick of it. Worst of all the perso who started the rumours is meant to ... (90 words)

She used to be a HE!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I really don't know what to do here. I've been with my girlfriend for one year. It's been going great and she's perfect, or so I thought. We met at work. I'd always had an attraction to her and I was overjoyed when I found out that she liked me as well. We dated for about two ... (342 words)

Friend receiving threats and demands for money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so, My friend is getting stressed over a phone call she had today. From what i gathered shes been threatened by her parents to be kicked out the house for various reasons. If her grades are not good then shell be kicked out She has to pay £25 rent (shes 16) An... (226 words)

I call my boyfriend too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me And My Boyfriend God, we argue all the time and when hes in a bad mood i have a habit on ringing him to see if hes ok over and over and he gets angry but i dont even fone him that much and it just feels like hes going off me he doesnt answer his fone most days he alw... (115 words)