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female
age
36-40,
*ily06
writes:Hi everyone, just wanted to know do the majority of guys like gettin blowjobs?? Ive been with my boyfriend 10months and we have sex and everthing else but i have never given him a blowjob although he has given me oral, hes never said anythin about it or even asked why i havnt given him oral...truth is i really want to but im just a chicken, im afraid ill do something wrong or end up hurting him or maybe he doesnt like them i just dunno what to do, i feel so useless. can ye help me please?How can i develop confidence in the bedroom? My boyfriend is always suggesting trying new positions and really wants me to go on top, but i just say no. I try other positions. But i feel self conscious about my body although im only a size 12 its just my tummy is not toned.. how can i over come this[moderator note: combined 2 questions from the same poster]
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 ok i know excatly how you feel im a size 14 and omg going ontop holy hell..but i do it because he loves me and he enjoys it and i try to put it far from my mind and enjoy it because i know it would make him happy..heres a fellatio web site some pointers on their (blowjob pointers) http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml and here is a website on positions you could maybe try that you will feel more comfortable with http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml ...also another best ask him what he likes he is the best person to get advice from is all guys and women are different and prefer other things.. im sure he will feel happy that you want to do what pleases him.. just think you are beautiful you have an amazing body and most of all he is with you because he loves you so you shouldnt be too concerend with your confidence.. hope that helps aphex xx
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reader, O Connor +, writes (20 July 2008):
 well first of all - this guy is with you and obviously enjoys having sex with you - so he already loves your body, dont feel concious in front of him hun, he obviously thinks your gorgeous!! as for the blow job thing, its actually very easy to do. as long as you dont bite him! if you want to check out sexinfo101.com - its really useful and has tips, and positions, and techniques for pleasing each other!
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