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How do I talk to my sister about what she saw?

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Question - (8 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2011)
A female Sri Lanka age 26-29, *liza85 writes:

My sister is small and she dosen't know anything about sex. My mom went on a trip from her office and I have to look after my sis. My boyfriend came to my house. My sis don't tell anything about him to my mom because he is very friendly with my sis and he brings chocolate for her. But day before yesterday I told her to watch a cartoon and i went with my bf 2 have a shower. We forget to lock the door of da bathroom. Suddenly my sis came to the bathroom. She saw us she ran to her room without telling anything. She talk with me but I'm afarid that she will get upset. I love my sis and I don't know what to tell her and i don't know how she feels about me. Any advice please

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A female reader, Eliza85 Sri Lanka +, writes (9 October 2011):

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Thanks. I know i was wrong at that time I didn't think about that. We were jkissing and my bf was squeezing my boobs. And also we were fully naked. I was shocked when she came there

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (8 October 2011):

fi_the_tree agony auntWhat exactly did she see you do??

First rule... DON'T GET UP TO NO GOOD WHILST YOUR LITTLE SISTER IS IN THE HOUSE TOO!!!!!! I mean, what if she had wandered into the kitchen instead, picked up something out of the cupboard and ate/drank it, something poisonous?? What if she had found something sharp?? It doesn't bear thinking about!!! There's a reason your mum left you to look after your sister, and you put her in danger for the sake of your relationship, i mean, how stupid can you be?? You were responsible for another human life!!!! But you though it would be ok to leave your sister alone whilst you swan off to have a shower with your bf!!!

I'm glad that nothing bad happened to your little sister, but what if it had??? You wouldn't be able to control the guilt...

Anyway, rant over, back to the question. Because you have been vague about what you and your boyfriend were doing in the shower, we can't really give you the best advice on this. For now, just let her know that you're not angry at her for coming into the bathroom. I urge you not to let something like this happen again!

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