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*leeptimegirl
writes:my dearest friend has a new girlfriend, we text heaps and he's always talking about her and what they get up to etc. BUT when we are face to face and I ask how she is going he just says she is good and changes the subject? is there a reason for this? he's had other gf's in the past and has never acted like this. is this weird? I Haven't met her and our mutual friend hasn't either... hmmmm is this odd?
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reader, sleeptimegirl +, writes (8 October 2011):
sleeptimegirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh you are so so right.... i was finding it weird that he would text me all the time about this woman and what they were up to, then face to face he would say nothing or give one word answers...... makes complete sense!! thanks (now i see the light!!)
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reader, Abella  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 Not weird at all. I recall a friend of ours who was a very naughty guy. I despaired of him ever settling down. He loved the ladies.
Then he met the woman who became his wife.
I knew this one was serious.
No more the cheeky remarks,
He even cleaned out his garage before she visited him the first time as he did not want her to see that he could have allowed a area to become so messy. I saw him caringly put his arm around her to walk through a crowded space. I could see he was taking care of her.
And he stopped talking to others about what a great weekend he had had with Ms A or B or C or D (you get the picture)
Within twelve months they married and are happily the parents of two boys now. He has never stopped being so proud of his beautiful wife and family.
And to see them socially out to dinner he is still as respectful of her. It is lovely.
So give him some space.
Don't ask as many questions.
And let him reveal in his own time more about his new love.
Because it sounds like he may have met "The One"
So no ribbing and no teasing - and tell the others to cut him some slack.
And in his own time you will be told all that you need to know.
I think he sounds like a Man in Love.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (8 October 2011):
If you would like to meet her, why not tell your friend you are interested in meeting his girlfriend?
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