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writes:Hi I've been with my partner for 4 years he's 22 snd I'm 34 , we always had a spontaneous sexual relationship but for the past year and half we hardly ever have sex I am gettin frustrated with him as I caught him pleasuring himself , why don't he want sex with me ? I ask him and he says not in the mood or he's tired :(
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 I doubt it's about you... at 34 you are coming into your prime sexually and he's starting to move out of his...
Has he had a medical work up to rule out medical problems?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah we've had a talk a few times but now he just looses his temper and leaves which really makes me feel like crap , I think he should be pestering me for sex not the other way round I feel rejected and ugly he just tells me to shut up , I've asked him if he still loves me and he said yeah but I'm not convinced I feel like I'm his friends mom ;(
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 You said for the past year and a half. For a 22 year old to say he is tired something is up. There is a very small possibility that he is stressed out or he has a medical problem but I doubt it. Rather than digging into him, asking questions, like are you losing interest in me and suffering humiliation later, why don't you tell him face to face that you are aware about the distance between you and him and if things are not right it's okay to talk, or break things off.
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