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female
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30-35,
*eather016
writes:I can tell that my boyfriend likes pretty girls. Even though when he's with me, I caught him having a string of messages with a girl whom he told me often that she's good-looking. And he admits that she's got very good complexion and looks amazing. It makes me very insecure. It already made me feel bad knowing that he has great interest in pretty girls. And now, worse, when I found out he exchanged messages with one particular pretty girl. What do i do about it? My past experience has already traumatised me because of the double-standard. A guy actually chose a pretty girl over me in the past. My guy coursemates actually paid attention to my best friend who happened to be a pretty girl. I feel like I had always been alienated because I am not pretty. The past has made me feel inferior to other girls. And now my boyfriend brings that feeling back again in me. What do I do about it?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 Are we talking about friendly, or flirtatious messages? If it's the former, you need to realize he finds YOU beautiful. He's not with you because he can't be with them, he's with you because he thinks you're beautiful.
If it's the latter, dump this guy immediately.
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