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Should I wait any longer for him to contact me or is he not interested?

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Question - (26 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a 19 year old girl who just moved from the UK to Canada on my own, and I recently met a very lovely guy after a friend took me to watch a few local baseball games (he's on the team).

About a week ago all of us went out to a bar, I caught him staring at me from across the table a lot, he seemed like he was interested in me. So when he got up to leave I plucked up the courage to go after him and ask for his number - he gave it to me, we were exchanging texts for a couple of days, getting on really well, and the last one he sent me read "You too gorgeous, let's get drinks this week." But since then five days have gone by - it's now thursday and the week is almost over.

Should I wait any longer for him to contact me or is he not interested? I understand that because he's in his 20's, things are a little different, he's not neccesarily going to be glued to his phone all day long like some people my age, but I would have thought 5 days is too long not to text someone you like?!

Or should I start up a conversation with him?

I'm so confused!

Ps. the answer may be really obvious, I'm just no good at this whole dating thing after being in a relationship for 4 years! So any help would be great. Thanks :).

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2011):

Did you reply to his last text? If you didn't, he may have thought you weren't interested.

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