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How can I get him to notice me without creeping him out or being to pushy?

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Question - (26 May 2011) 9 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay... So there is this guy i like... Im a freshmen and hes a sophomore and i like him a lot. A ton of my friends are cool with him but he doesnt even know i exist. He doesnt even look at me. So my question is: how do i get him to notice me with out creeping him out or being to pushy? From what ive heard from my friends, hes really awkward but is also very sweet. I want to be able to talk to him and slowly lead him onto my feelings but i dont know how to catch his eye please help!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011):

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okay thanks!

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (28 May 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Just bring a blush compact with you and reapply when needed !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011):

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ive tried wearing blusher but it just fades through the day so i have no idea what elso to try...

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A female reader, lysha United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2011):

lysha agony auntyou cant really stop blushing, but wear blusher so it doesnt show? the only thing ican suggest:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011):

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Oh and also, everytime i see him i blush, as in my face turns bright pink, really bad so I'm afraid if that happens if I try to talk to him my blushing will tell him that I like him... Any advice on that?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011):

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Okay, so the difference between a sophomore and a freshmen is just the age and the grade level... A sophomore is in the 10th grade and freshmen are in the 9th grade. Im not sure how old he exactly is but im guessing he is bout 15 - 17 Years old i am almost 15 so yeah thats the difference. Thanks for the advice it helps a lot!!!!

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A female reader, Ima FreAk!  United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2011):

Ima FreAk!  agony auntHiyaaaa,

I'm terribly sorry but I'm from England so I have no idea what a freshman or a sophomore is!!!!!!!! So you might have to explain that to me!

But other than that... I think you should say hi to him if you see him or whenever... just say hi make conversation well short ones. Don't get tongue-tied when you see him or talk to him because he is a human being! However fit, good looking or cool he maybe... he is a human!!!!!! So just talk to him normally.

Once you make short conversation you can make longer ones and you know from then on be in each others lives and everything. :)

BUT... you said he doesn't even look at you... say IF you do make small talk and he doesn't seem bothered and you've tried like 3 times trying to talk to him and he STILL isn't bothered then don't try running after him because he doesn't seem interested! And plus you can find someone better!!!

Hope my advice helps!

Good luck!

Lots of love,

Ima FreAk!

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P.S: Keep updates!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, lysha United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2011):

lysha agony auntknow im not sure what sophomore,&freshman difference as im in england-northampton, we dont call it that, but ican try to help, basically you dont wanna just start talking to him because he may find thata bit full on, so start smiling at him and try to find out from other people if you have anything in common, if so try to make a conversation or ask him a question about it to get on talking lines, once you get a smile back, then try saying hi to him as you pass by, and keep progressing it from their, hope this helps, but it is a tricky subjectm you cant make someone fall in love with you, so dont try to get your hopes up too much:)

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A female reader, emb169 United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2011):

I'm not too sure about the names for different school years in america but I am guessing this guy is 14 or 15? And you are a year younger? I think the way to start something up is first to talk to the guy. You may not even like him once you get to know him! But, if your friends know him, if you see them talking to him go up to your friend and say hi, then maybe a conversation between you will be struck up. Alternatively, you could get a friend to organise a group outing inviting him and his friends and you and your friends. The downfall of that is friends knowing about you liking him and blurting it out or making it awkward to show off to other guys... The best idea is probably the first. Just find an opportunity and talk to him!

Hope I've helped

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