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writes:I have a couple of questions. If you meet a guy in a bar, and he mentions sex the first time he meets you, does that mean he is only after sex, or could it also mean that he finds you sexually attractive but could possibly want a relationship with you too ?. And, if a guy tries to have sex with you when you have only known each other a short while, but he goes out to places with you too, does that mean he is genuinely interested, or is he after one thing and is just going out on dates to keep you happy ?. Lol men confuse me sometimes !. Reply to this Question
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reader, sneha09  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 Yes dear you have just rightly understood his intention.He is after something else not into you and may just use you, so better keep a distance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): "Lol men confuse me sometimes !"
Women confuse men all the time.
Truthfully, the only way you will get to know the answer about any person is to get to know them.
Some people use sex to get into relationships, that is how they think the world works.
Other people use relationships to get sex, that is how they think it works.
There is a whole mix out there.
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reader, Flashtony +, writes (24 May 2011):
if you don't just want sex.... then make for the high ground.... because I guarantee he does!
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (24 May 2011):
 Not always, but usually.
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reader, krit +, writes (24 May 2011):
 According to the popular misconception , bars and clubs are a very good place to socialize and meet new people. But they don't know that many players have made these places there WORKSHOPS. They come here and practice their ROUTINES and leave everytime with someone new. Since they have done this so many times, many things have become easy to them like even talking of sex with complete stranger on very first Meet itself. So keep your eyes and ears open so that you spot them from a distance and run from the first near exit.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 May 2011):
99.9% of the time, if a man mentions sex the first time he meets you, or tries to have sex when you've only known each other a very short while, he's just after sex. Very occasionally, he might want more. But, often it's just aboout sex.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (24 May 2011):
 Hi
ALARM BELLS!!!!!! if a guy you just meet starts to talk about sex, then he is a creep who is after one thing. And if a guy wants sex very early are we talking days here? then yes he just wants sex and is trying to keep you sweet by going out a few times, untill he gets what he wants. RUN AND RUN FAST lol x
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