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Should I fulfil my fantasy?

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Question - (20 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2011)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm a 21 year old male and I have had a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, we are very sexual in the bedroom and we are both really comfortable with each other, we watch both lesbian and gay porn together and she knows I get really turned on watching gay porn. We talk about our fantasies with each other and I talk about having a gay experience, but we no it's just caz we're Horny that we say these things to each other.

Just recently I told her I actually want to do it as I have several occasions at the gym male changing rooms where men have been fully naked with erections playing with themselves looking at me and I get aroused and watch. I don't know what to do, when I told her she was a bit shocked but also said I don't want to stand in the way of what you want to do. She's afraid if I tried it then I'd like it and keep wanting more of that..... Please answer

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011):

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Thanks ay, she actually gets turned on when we watch it and wants to buy a strap on becaz it turns her on. But I know she says sometimes that would turn her on if she new I done something with another guy, but deep down I know she wouldn't want me to act on it...,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011):

Thin line I think you risk losing her doing all this with someone its cheating and could turn her off. Its one thing to watch porn its another to really do it, lot of people get turned on by all sorts of porn but dont act on it. you have to decide if your willing to risk your partner to try this out.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntAnnalisa has a GREAT idea.

they make very realistic dildos...

get one that GF can wear as a strap on, if you want wear a blindfold and then you can have all your fantasies with her....

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