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writes:I am 20 and My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 1 and 1/2 year. We both say we love eachother because we both have never ever felt this way about anyone. We have talked about how we care about each other enough to do whatever is necesary to keep each other happy. I can see us getting married. I REALLY, TRUELY think that he is the one for me. It came, 5 month ago when 1 met someone at my work place. He's a friend of my collegues and he's an ex-champion of an activity that i dearly love and practice. Soon he bacame my friend too, and a very close one. The only common thing we had was that we were both of really different and special natures. Don't know when i started liking him, i didn't even realise. i kept meeting him regularly during november and december, and i stopped working in the beggining of January, since, i havn't met him at all. And now, today i met him after 5 month and i could not stop myself of giving him a supprise big hug and a tight kiss. It happend many times during those 5 months that i kept thinking of him a whole night without sleeping. There's a strange feeling that overtakes me. I can't understand this dilema. please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,Well it is possible to like more than one person!Honestly... I know this is cliche and all but go with what your heart says.Like weigh the benefits of being with this guy and your boyfriend and honestly make judgement on that and how you feel around them.I mean what you could do... I know this may not be the best opinion you but what you could do is may be break it off with your boyfriend temporary and tell him why and then go out with the workplace guy and see whether you like it... if you don't you can go back to your boyfriend (BUT I REALLY DON'T RECOMMEND THIS!)Well... what you could do is that you can talk to your boyfriend about your dilemna and see what he has to say.Talk to other people and definitely your boyfriend because you don't wanna lose him kinda thing... talk to him in a way that he will understand too. :)Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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