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Does he mean what he says, or do you think he just said it to make me feel better?

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Question - (19 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi all you great agony aunts, just a question, what does it mean when your man tells you he loves you to bits and i have no worries of him ever leaving me. does this mean he his saying he wants a future with me? he doesn't tell me often he loves me at all, but he shows it with actions in what he does for me and how he is with me.

so with him not saying how he feels i broke down in tears the other time when i saw him and asked him does he really care about me do i mean anything to him? so has he was hugging me and wiping my tears thats when he said that everything is all alright, there is no one else, and that he loves me to bits, and that i have no worries of him leaving me.

prior to this conversation we both had, he told me in a text he has never told anyone he cares in words, when i once asked him in a text why cant he say the loving words, but when i saw him face to face he told me all that. does he mean what he says or do you think he just said it to make me feel better? when i was all upset in tears, its LDR and we are committed and see each other as often as we can thanks.

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A female reader, OldiesGyrl United States +, writes (21 May 2011):

Some women don't even hear the words, "I love you" from their man. You should be thankful that your man even expressed the love he has for you. What more could you possibly want him to do or say? He loves you. It doesn't need an analyzation.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011):

thanks Caring Guy you always give great advice thanks makes me feel tons better with the answer you have given

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2011):

His actions when he told you said it all - he hugged you, wiped your tears and then told you he love you to bits - yes he loves you. Stop worrying already!

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