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I think I should go with the one I can see every day, yet I don't want to hurt the one I met online. What should I do?

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Question - (19 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like two girls but one (15) lives in the South West of London, and the other (17) Lives in the South East with me, I can see her more of less everyday, the one on the internet and I are close yet we don't really have a lot in common. yet with the one I can see more or less all the time we have A LOT in common, I feel like we've bonded a lot yet she has anxiety issues.... Yet she's not shy around me..... She cuddled me for the first time on Monday. we started to talk on that day and I've had dreams about her.... She doesn't now that I like her as I feel it would scare her... What should I do? I feel like I should go with the one that I can see everyday yet I don't want to hurt the one who's 15...

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (27 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwhat kind of anxiety issues?

everyone is anxious about some things.

is she in treatment?

on medication?

can she tell you what makes her anxious?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011):

Hi, I decoded to let the girl on the internet down aso I can focus on the girl I can see everyday, how do I date someone with anixty issues?

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (19 May 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntit is better to have love and lost, than to not love at all..

really, just think about yourself in this situation, and whats best for you.

breakup with the girl online and make her sad, but you can be happy now with the girl who lives close to you,

Or

stay with the girl online and be unhappy

your choice :)

hope i helped

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011):

Please dont choose the one online. I was recently dumped by my ex boyfriend for a girl he speaks to online.s he lives in another country, but he they have never met in person !. i am absolutely heartbroken. i dont know how he could choose her over me, when he has known me longer, and we live right near each other !. i know from experience how much it hurts to be dumped for someone online.dont you think it makes more sense to be with someone you care about who lives near you and who you can have a real relationship with in person ?. remember, an online relationship is just a fantasy. it isnt the same as having a real relationship in person.

can i also ask, have you ever met the online girl in person ?. if not, please dont waste your time. you can't know someone really well unless you know them in person.

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