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writes:my boyfriend is bestfriends with his college roommate they are going to be Jr.s this year and have been rooming together every year and both summers they take every class together, and join all the same activities if one jumps the other jumps and its really hard to spend time with my bf because his roommate always tags along the most they have been apart in two years is a week everywhere we go, he goes and it really kind of stresses me out . is this normal? I have tried and tried to talk to him about it over and over again but he refuses to see my view and says its nothing to worry about his roommate is very clingy and gets upset when he does not get payed attention to by my bf for awhile he was very depressed said he missed his family but he is living with my boyfriends family this summer because he refuses to go home says that if he goes home he will miss them too much to leave them again . so he clings to my boyfriend saying hes "a replacement for his family"they are apart this week because my bfs roommate is on vacation with his family but I think its bad when his grandparents ask on their fb profile page "how are you two holding up being apart this week"
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 July 2011):
 Well if he refuses to see your view, like you said, then I guess you'll just have to get used to the tag alongs. Or of course you can decide you want out. Your choice. But they sure do sound like a couple and YOU are the one tagging along.
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reader, Lraina +, writes (29 July 2011):
Lraina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have wondered that myself
and my boyfriend and I even got into an argument about it
He says he loves him like family not in any romantic form at all
I just dont see it
His roommate may be engaged, but he still acts kind of fruity at times
And never spends time with his lady because well they say "We dont want to have sex before marriage so we dont see each other very often so that wont happen." Stupid - they only see each other once a month and they go to the same school!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 July 2011):
Unless they are gay, this is pretty wierd.
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