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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I treat the split as I would any normal break up or treat it like an addiction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I've had an on-off boyfriend for a few years now and we are really close. The thing is although I love him, I don't feel 'inlove' with him. I actually feel as though I'm addicted to going back to him out of habit rather than love and passion. He's a...

Does he actually love me or is he using me? how can you tell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i broke up at the beginning of july of this year, and since he broke up with me he has still been telling me that he loves me, i am still in love with him, but hes confusing me, i dont know if hes just using me or if he actually ...

Does he like me more than just a friend or is he gay and he likes me only as a close friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I really like my best guy friend. The only thing is i think he is gay... He speaks with a girly voice, he's doing the hand gesture usually gays do while they speak, he always sits with his legs crossed.. He is also very shy, he doesn't speak very ...

Am I imagining the closeness we had?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...

I said I needed to focus on my self and now he is mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I met ths guy to months ago and have fallen head over heals for him. I think he likes me too. But...... A couple of days ago I told him I needed to fall back and focus on me. Soooo today I texted him, he responded back so then I texted him and ...

How do I stop my mother from sabotaging every relationship I'm in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating my current boyfriend for about 2 months now. I have met his family and friends.He hasn't met mine due to scheduling and distance issue but, that will be changing soon. I see him about once or twice a week because we live an hour ...

Shy and no faith in my self

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3 August 2011 (M) - so hears my problem, regarding my shyness i have always been shy and quiet as far back as i can remember i have always been the same i am shy, quiet and low in self esteem. all through school i would get very anxious when having to do presentations ...

Would a guy date a person like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I think i have a really high sex drive. This in itself is not a problem but im just wondering if it is normal to have one as high i as i believe i have. I get myself off at least once a day and on some days it can be up to 5 or 6 times. I don't h...

My girlfriend doesn't express her opinion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - I was born outside US but been here since March 2010. I have been in a relationship with an American girl who happens to be one year older than me. She is gorgeous and has sharp sense humor . I am her second boyfriend and she dated me months after ...

My boyfriend left for camp and now I'm afraid he is cheating on me!

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3 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I started going out a few months ago before summer started. This summer, I was supposed to go to China for a family reunion for all of July, and he had to go overseas as well for a camp-type thing, also for all of July. Before all...

Could this technique help people to keep that 'honeymoon' feeling forever?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, i've read loads of great advice on here about the 'honeymoon phase' of relationships, and how this fades in time in all relationships, and it leaves me wondering why we stay in long term relationships then? The honeymoon phase is great ...

I miss my fun nights out and my friends...what happened to the man I fell in love with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I need advice with my relationship please! I started going out with my boyfriend 5 months ago and although I love him a lot, I'm already growing frustrated with how he acts sometimes. The man I fell in love with was fun, cheeky and loved going on...

Am I wrong to be jealous or does my boyfriend like this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - We work together. We've been together for 4 months. The girl has worked there for 3 months... she started a month after he and I began talking and dating... Two days after she started, she had his number. Bc she and I were walking to the hap...

Getting over your first crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - i had my first crush when i was 11 and now i am 14 but i cant forget about him pls help me i dont know waht to do...

Any good questions to ask a guy you are just getting to know?

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3 August 2011 (F) - Hi dear cupid agony aunt/ uncles I could really use your help. I,ve recently started talking to a guy i really like but I,m very shy and I don't know what to talk about. later on this evening He and I are going spinning in his car but I don't know...

My brother's friend.....what should I do?

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3 August 2011 (F) - Say you like your brothers friend and everyone is saying that it was evident that the friend also liked you. Would you contact the guy yourself and get talking to him more, so add him through fb. Or would you ask your brother if he could find out ...

Should I meet him in real life? I'm not sure if he is the kind of guy I want.....

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3 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm new here and I really want to thank you in advance for your advices. I'm kinda in a big problem because of my confused feelings. I'm sorry if this story is too long, I'm trying to shorten it as much as I can. I met this guy (DB) on ...

How do I get over my fear of asking my female friends out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - I find it difficult asking girls that I am very close to out because of fear of what might happen if I am rejected. I mean if she says no,it might affect our friendship. What should I do?...

Was I wrong to ask her friend first and what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - I have known a girl for a long time now (lets say b),people thought we were dating but we were not.I asked her friend( b's friend)if b was happy about what people said and she said no. Two months later,I asked b personally how she feels about wh...

What's wrong with me? Am I unapproachable?

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3 August 2011 (F) - I am 29 years old and female. I have been in one really serious relationship where I was in love with the boy and he was not in love with me until we broke up. After we broke up I met someone and was completely and fully in love. To the max, as ...

If I believe that having sex just for pleasure is a bad thing, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - Okay, i've been having this issue lately and Im just trying to clear my head and figure it out. Im basically wondering: If I believe that having sex just for pleasure is a bad thing, is there something wrong with me? A little background infor...

How do I meet a woman that is worth my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - So in this past year of self reflection and detoxing myself from the dating world of getting a hook up and a crappy gf I have learned a few things. The ultimate thing it comes down to is that I am the fixer upper. I take on women with problems and ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to delete his ex girlfriends' from his Facebook account

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2395 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months now and My boy friend still has 2 of his ex-girlfriends in his facebook and I told him its kinda weird and makes me uncomfortable. He keeps just saying that they were never bad people so he sees no ...

Can anyone help me not be so shy around boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Hi well Im 14 and I am like super shy around boys. My face turns so red and I start like getting nervous and I have no clue what to say. I hate being so shy around boys. I want to be able to talk to them no problem. But I find it so difficult. Can ...

Girls, is this girl actually kinda into me or just flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - We played on the same basketball co ed team for a while. She graduated and I'm still in school. We've flirted on Facebook and stuff. I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm cute and all. We've done sex jokes with each other. I was making her laugh, a LOT. ...

Why doesn't my friend get out of her abusive relationship?

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3 August 2011 (M) - I have a friend and she is in this on again off again with her abusive boyfriend. this wouldn't be an issue if this wasn't going on 10 times in a row. her boyfriend would hit her, smack her, say that they are breaking up just make her cry, call her ...

Should I make a move or just stay friends? I think she is still hooked on her ex....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - I met a girl at a prelash and we got off getting to know each other but she didnt come out that night. Later she added me on facebook and we started talking... 2weeks later i got her number and started talking, she seemed hung up on her ex (that she ...

Is this someone who is interested or was it all a game?

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3 August 2011 (F) - So, basically this one guy (John) has liked me for about 6 years (since middle school) but we never really talked much because he was nervous and didn't think I'd be interested. Also, I had a boyfriend for 2 years and a half which we've recently ...

I want to know where I stand with my ex because I am falling for him again..

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3 August 2011 (F) - Recently my ex made contact with me. We broke up on good terms, and I still considered him a friend, so thought nothing of it. We always talked every now and then. This time, things are different. We spend most nights talking either on the ph...

Ideas to keep the romance alive..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

3 August 2011 (M) - Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...