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anonymous
writes:I really like my best guy friend. The only thing is i think he is gay... He speaks with a girly voice, he's doing the hand gesture usually gays do while they speak, he always sits with his legs crossed.. He is also very shy, he doesn't speak very often, and he hangs out only with me and my best friends(girls). He is very interested in fashion and he knows a lot of things about stars signs. But sometimes i think he likes me more than just a friend. He calls me every day at least two times and finds excuses to call me and when he wants to be with me all the time, he feels very uncomfortable when he stays with my friends alone. He looks me deeply in the eyes when we speak and he pays close attention to everything i say. Once when we were at one of my friend's house and she didn't look, he looked at me deeply and then he hold my hand like we were lovers and we were holding hands for a while... I am very confused, does he like me more than just a friend or is he gay/bi and he likes me only like a close friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): Thats just society sexism at its worst. Most men who are effeminate are heterosexual. Hell, most drag queens/cross dressers are heterosexual. Just because someone likes certain things or acts a certain way doesnt mean their sexuality is related in any way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): Has a girly voice; flops his wrists; crosses his legs; hangs out with girls; adores fashion...
Hmmm. He COULD be straight, in theory. Don't count on it, though.
At any rate, you've nothing to lose by going for it, and if it's not happening, don't take it personally if he isn't into girls that way.
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