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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm scared this girl is too perfect!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I’m seeing this girl who is the most incredible person I’ve ever met!! But I think she is too perfect and too good to be true that i'm skeptical whether to carry on seeing her. Guys what do you think… She is so beautiful, knock out figure, grea...

He never texted me back! Give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Went on a date wedensday night with a guy I really liked and its now sunday night and he never texted back should I give up on him?...

Why doesn't my older boyfriend help with the bills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I am 26, and am/was dating a 43 year old. I normally tend to date guys younger than me or my same age, but figured I'd try something different this time. Anyways, he has basically been living with me the past 2 months and has never offered anything ...

He wouldn't give me his phone number when I asked for it. Is he not interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - so I've been going to this bar for 2 months now and I've made really good friends with pretty much every single guy that works there. the bartender might have a small crush on me but I'm interested in one of the security guards. we joke around a lot ...

I don't want to get back together with my wife but I'm gutted that she's seeing someone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I have recently separated from my partner of 20 years as we have drifted apart - I caused the split as I have been very unhappy for the past year or so. Since we separated I have been living on my own and enjoying being free again. I have had a co...

Found out he's looking at porn, feeling very insecure. what to do??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I found out my boyfriend looked at younger women in porn and now I'm embarrassed to be naked in front of him. This is the first relationship I've been in where I actually felt GREAT about sex. I was excited by the sight of him and initiated re...

Should older women stop taking birth control pills??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I think I want to start having kids by beginning of next year. Me and my boyfriend have talked about it. I am currently on birth control and I am 30yrs old. Had a convo with girlfriends who told me I have to stop taking such pills at this age. This ...

Am I asking for too much or what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - We turned a year last sunday and I only received one phone call and he was too tires to talk anyways... Here is the story: We met through a mutual friend a year ago. Although it was long distance, he seemed like a good guy so I gave it a chanc...

He wants to be tied up, I need a confidence booster, help me please??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hi. Me and my boyfriend are 17, we have been together 6 months now and recently we’ve been getting a lot more intimate. We havnt had sex, Im not quite ready yet so he has promised we’ll wait until I am but he does finger me and I give him handjobs ...

Long distance bf, hooked-up, nothing since, what to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hi Me and my bf of 2 years were in LDR for the past 1 year. Recently i came back to my place and we hooked up yesterday. We did have sex for the first time in 1 year and it was great. He said a lot of romantic things like he never met a girl like ...

Information on speed dating appreciated, good or bad??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - just wondering if speed dating is any good? seems like fun. anyone done it?...

Ex bf still in picture, what can one do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I have a girlfriend who I have a kid with and we've been together for 3.5 yrs. Our daughters 2.5 yrs old. Coming into the relationship she had kids with a prior bf and a relationship lasting 13 yrs. She swears up and down shes over him and has no ...

I get extremely excited when boyfriend kisses me or holds my hand

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Ok this is gonna sound strange but I need to know is this normal. Every time I hold hand or just kiss my boyfriend I cum. I don't know what it is but it just happens like if being honest he hasn't been in my trousers yet but he just so romantic and ...

What do I do about this gorgeous girl who is chasing me and I feel nothing for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - There's this girl in my neigbourhood; pretty, intelligent and gorgeous. She's been like making passes at me (which i intentionally ignors). Of late, she's bin texting me love messages and even told me that i'm the guy she dreams of, she loves an...

What's the best way to go about dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - hi, i was looking for some advice on dating, i was wondering how other people started off, id prefer to be friends first with the guy but how about meeting and dating strangers on a night out. whats best way to go about dating? ...

How do I deal with insecurities stemming from past relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Please can someone tell me how to deal with bad insecurities with my current partner which I think stems from my previous two relationships? Thanks...

Should I make out with my first cousin once removed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - hi me and my first cousin once removed (girl) get a long great but she has never made out before. she has been asking me about the topic. should I make out with her and show her how...

I feel as if my boyfriend is still playing childish games with me, while I want a grown-up relationship! I'm sick and tired of this nonsense

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - After expressing my needs wants and desires to my boyfriend he said he wanted the same things and we made a plan to move forward...Its been over 6 moths and still no forward movement in our relationship. We made a timeline and told him th...

I still love him. He's ignoring me. He's going in 2 days. what Can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I feel im going mad with my ex. We split a few months back because he joined the army and is about to be posted abroad for 8 months. But we still keep in touch, text, chat and flirt because I still love him and he says he still has feelings for me. ...

Am I being overly concerned that my current relationship will be adversely affected by a past crush of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I'm 22 years old i am in a loving relationship with my partner who i've been with for over a year 15 months today actually. But before i found my partner now i did like a friend whom i thought felt possibly the same towards me as things happ...

Is he still loyal to me? Or is he besotted with this girl at his work who looks like a porn star?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - i am distrustful of my boyfriend so logged into his computer without him knowing. i searched through his internet history and found that he had found porn star images that look exactly like a girl who he works. And I know that girl at his work likes ...

How to go from pecking to more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Simple enough question. Ive got a new bf love him to pieces. we have only pecked so far. how do i like go from peckng to getting off with him as ive never done it before and dont know how to take it from there is it natural or what? x ...

I sent him off to have sex with transgenders, now I feel sick!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I've been with a guy for 4 years, stable relationship and couple of years ago he told me he likes transgender girls. I'm a very open minded person, and accepted he's sexuality and told him that I would support him if he needed to explore he's sex...

How can I show this guy that I am interested in more than just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I have now met an older guy .we have been out three times and get on have lots in common. He has told me by text he likes me a lot and I feel that there is chemistry there. He hasn't made any romantic move on me though and I feel confused and don't ...

Am I too clingy or do we not see each other enough? Is he a mama's boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Am I too clingy or do we not see each other enough? I am my boyfriend's first legitimate and serious girlfriend. I, on the other hand, have experienced a serious relationship before. I am the type of person that really loves to devote myself to my ...

Why does he act so destructive after we get close?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Dear all. Please help. I.m so hurt and confused. I,ve been seeing my bf for around 5 months. Over the last month,we have got closer,and i feel i.ve started to fall in love with him. It appears that he has too. The emotions are running very high,and ...

Do you think our relationship is going to last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Ok We met my senior prom night we both were single he was going with his best friend from my school. The whole summer we continued to see each other pretty much everday doing very fun things. Partying, seeing movies, typical summer fun. Going ...

We separated and I slept with another woman. I am still in love my ex. If I reunite with my ex, should I tell her I've been sleeping with another lady, or should I keep mucking around with this other woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - So - the love of my life and I are on a three month break to allow both of us the time and space to get things right in our heads and to understand if we should continue seeing each other. Its been almost two months, and I've unfortunately ha...

Why did he send me home when we were supposed to spend the whole weekend together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two months now. it would have been almost four, but there was some drama caused by circumstances that were beyond our control, soo, we had to break up for, like, a month. the first...

We're each other's first significant other, but he doesn't behave the way I'd like him to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Hi!! I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months, and he never invites me anywhere, we see each other almost every day in college, but when we have free time (like vacations, weekends or anything) he never asks if we could meet or somethin...

I broke of up with my boyfriend of 4 years, but I have trouble warming to other men.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - i broke up with my first bf a couple months ago. we were together for about four years, and it wasn't working anymore... i still love him, but we were fighting a lot for no reason, i was constantly crying and it was taking it's toll on me. at ...

I am considering asking this guy out, but not sure if I should.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

7 August 2011 (?) - I am considering asking a guy out on a date. He works in a building I'm doing work on (construction renovations). I run into him often with my coworkers and boss. I see him often because of work. We look at each other a lot. We are friendly...

What do high self esteem women care about V low self esteem women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - Is it generally true that low self esteem women care more about the status/popularity/what everyone else thinks of the men they choose to be with, i.e. the more popular the better, and that high self esteem women don't particularly care about status ...

Is it possible to have a relationship with a passive-aggressive person who can't communicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Is it wrong to leave someone who is so passive aggressive that no matter what you do they will not communicate at an adult level? Is there any real help for people like this? Is it possible for them to become emotionality mature and have lov...

Why don't women with low self-esteem stay loyal to emotionally strong men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - Why don't low self esteem women choose to be loyal to emotionally strong, masculine men, who are good to them? (a generalization)...

Caught in a love square and don't know how to get out of it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I've never been in a love square before but I have def entered one. I liked a guy Kelen (names are all changed :] ) and Kelen and I were slowly liking each other. Then, a lady friend of his, Kelsey, randomly began hanging out with me. I found it o...

He didn't reply to my text after I said I would come round to see him. Did I hurt him or is he angry at me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

7 August 2011 (?) - Me and a guy friend were supposed to meet up today but the weather is crap so it doesn't look like it's happening. It was his idea to meet up but today it decided to rain (typical). I text him and it went like this: Me: Enjoying the weather? ;) ...

How do I stop my passionate crush on my teacher, who is 20 years older than me and married??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Ok, well I think I'm in love with my teacher. He's about 20 years older, married, and his wife's pregnant. I always seem to think of him all the time, no matter what I'm doing. I also lust after him, and most recently I've been having fantasies of ...