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Dating: Help and advice

What's the best way for me to meet women when I live at home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

8 August 2011 (M) - I'm 25, from the UK, enjoying life, been single for years, never had a girlfriend. I give off all the right signals - friendly, kind, polite, yet can not meet the right girl. I work in I.T. and dating at work is forbidden, so no opportunities t...

Where is my girlfriend? Why can't I find one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

8 August 2011 (M) - Why am I still single?? I haven't had a girlfriend in six months, I'm in a nice guy, I work out, I know how to treat women and yet I haven't had a lick of interest from a woman in some time now. My ex-girlfriend got a new guy within a few weeks ...

Why does he have to draw attention to women dressed like hookers when we are out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - When I first met my boyfriend he used to comment about how attractive a film star was etc in detail and it used to get to get to me as he went on a bit. He wasnt very experienced in relationships and his sister told me to be blunt with him. Things ...

Should I move on or try to get him back?

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8 August 2011 (F) - I been out with this guy loads of times over the last month and I really like him. But on our last one he seemed a bit off and like he didn't want to be there. We haven't spoken in about a week but I was busy anyway so thought nothing of it. I got a ...

Tips on how to give him a lap dance?

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8 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently mentioned that he gets really turned on by lap dances. It's his birthday coming up and I wanted to surprise him by giving him one. The only problem is I havent a clue how to and I want it to be especially good for him. I've ...

Why would he prefer for me to hold his arms rather his hand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - my partner and i of 3 years occasionally hold hands when we are out and about but not for very long periods of time. he will grab my hand when we are crossing the road and will let it go after a while or if hes in the mood he will hold my hand if ...

Would you move in with someone you didn't love?

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8 August 2011 (F) - IF you are a man and you didn't love or want to spend the rest of your life with you gf, would you move in with her? ...

Why do guys get more attractive as they get older?

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8 August 2011 (F) - How come it seems that guys who didn't used to be so great looking back when they were younger, most the time end up looking really attractive when they get older? Because my brother turned 23 and celebrated with a party and all his friends he h...

He lied about having HIV, and I don't know if I can stay with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Okay, so i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 5 months now, and i just don't know what to do anymore. i've been friends with him since we were 11, and i thought we knew so much about eachother, but ever since we've been going out h...

Not where I want to be in life. Should I wait to date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

8 August 2011 (M) - Hi, There is much wisdom here, so I was wondering if I could get some feedback on my situation. I am not where I want to be in life. I do not make enough money, and am not sure about my career. Because of this situation, for years I have held...

Do I try meeting someone in person or online?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

8 August 2011 (M) - Hi guys n gals, I have been entertaining the thought of internet dating since becomming single...my friend suggests i wait a while and just meet someone naturally, they think internet dating is a bad thing to do, its mistly destined to fail...

The stuff he says when he drinks get to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Im 26 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 23. He is a great guys and we get along great. We have a house together and a life. Everything between us is 50/50. I don't really have a lot of time to hang out with friends and to be honest I have lost touch ...

Why does someone cheat when they have what they want at home?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Before I continue with my question, I just want to clarify that I do know all about the saying "Wanting your cake and eat it too" BUT for the life of me I can't fully understanad why either a man/woman would decide to live with either their BF/GF ...

Is it too early to consider getting married? And do I pop the question or wait for him to ask?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend, i want our relationship to move forward but feel like we're stuck moving nowhere. I really don't know what to do at the moment, we both work full time mon-fri, but have completely different hours, basically when i ...

The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships

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8 August 2011 (M) - Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...

Am I going to end up hurt by my older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I've been dating a 39 year old man (I'm 24) for 2 weeks now and last night we had our first little discussion about 'us'. Nothing too major as its too soon for that, but a few things he said concerned me and now my question is am I going to end up ...

We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months ...

How long should I wait to start dating other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I have recently broken up with my BF of 7 years. We had a split about a year ago that lasted 3 months. We decided to try again and I told him what I needed from him. In the beginning he was great and I was really convinced that he was going to ...

Dad is being overprotective because of my new boyfriend. Help!

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8 August 2011 (F) - As many replies needed! new boyfriend, only pecked, not sure how to get off with him, going to his house soon , never met a bf's parents before really really nervous. and ever since ive got a bf my dads been acting really protective and t...

After 2 dates he left his dating profile up, how can I tell if he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Hey there i have been on 2 dates with this guy i met on a online dating site ,they went well ,had a laugh ,got lots in common .But he is still goes on the website ,how can i tell this guy fancies me ,he kissed me on my cheeck ,but he is a shy guy . ...

Why would a guy ask if she's a good kisser?

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8 August 2011 (F) - Hey there. Why would a guy ask a girl if sht thinks she's a good kisser??...

He's wonderful, except we have no sex life. He resorts to porn. How do we improve things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I know that question of porn was discussed many times, but I would like to get some opinions on my particular situation. I'm in a long-term relationship with a wonderful guy. We have our little ups and downs, like in any other relationship, in gener...

Am I making a fool of myself if I respond, if he contacts me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Well I posted a few weeks ago about a guy I met and got close to and then never heard from. He did send a very ambiguous text, saying we are still the same, and for me not to be confused!!! He took me off his Facebook, because I put a comment about ...

Are girls jealous that I hook up with guys that they can't get with?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - im single and when i get drunk i like to have fun every now and then ive hooked up with a few guys that i know and like from school. are these girls jealous of me for hooking up with a few guys from school that they couldnt get with?...

I miss him. Did I do the right thing by making a stand, after how often he ignored me.?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Ex boyfriend of 10 years (on and off again...long distance relationship...i am 31 and he is 35) came to see me for a couple of days... before he came he said i am the only one who he has ever loved and wants to make it work. He came had a wond...

Is there anything that could justify what he did to me? Or should I leave after his Domestic Abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I have a question..my boyfriend and I got in a heated arguement and I threatened to kick him out. He got irate and pulled me out of my chair and threw me on the floor. I have threatened this before and he got upset before but then we made up and ...

Why are guys threaten by gays? Or is it only my bf who is immature?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - My bf is upset because I have a lot of gay friends. He says he is tired of me hanging out with so many queers. Why are guys threaten by gays? or is it only my bf who is immature. I don't have the courage to leave him. I moved into this City ...

I've found the truest of true love with him.What can I do to not lose him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 10 months just got back from college orientation, a few weeks ago and he's been texting a girl he met there nonstop. Every day and every night since he's been back. They both have a lot in common, and when I say a lot I mean A LOT ...

I've already given him the usual presents. Can you help with special occasion present ideas?

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8 August 2011 (F) - I need gift ideas for my boyfriend for four upcoming events between now and next summer. 1.) Christmas 2.) Valentines Day 3.) His 18th Birthday (valentines day and his birthday are 2 days apart and for his birthday i was thinking of buying him 1...

How can I be the right friend to someone so they want to be the right friend to me?

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8 August 2011 (F) - I am looking for a help about how miserable I feel. How do I be a friend to other people so that they want to be my friend? i want to know, what can i do to have the right friend, a friend who I can trust. Hold his hand whenever i ask. Or ask for ...

We seem so good together, why hasn't he asked me to be his g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a while now. We act like a total couple. We've hugged, kissed, made out, everything except sex. When he's away he tells me how much he misses me and how he wished he was with me instead of away. He calls me his baby ...

I'm dating a guy who says he doesn't think he'll ever get over his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - im 17, ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months. ive liked him for 3 years before he finally asked me out. things are going good and all. but theres a bit of a problem. in our freshmen year of high school he dated a girl for 3 months. he was ...