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Archived questions from: 22 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Taking it slow... from a guys point of view please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I'm in my mid 40s and I met an amazing man of the same age. We actually went to public school together but recently connected through facebook. We've had three fantastic dates over a period of 2 months and are clearly attracted to one another. We've ...

I'm very inexperienced at dating and am uncertain of my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I have recently started seeing this guy I know he likes me but I am inexperienced on the relationship front and I dont know how I feel I run very hot and cold over the whole thing. I know if I dont make my mind up I might lose him as possible bf and ...

Still trying to figure out how I can meet women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - NOTE: This is a continuation of a previous question. Thank you for your help at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/tips-on-meeting-women-who-share-my-interests.html I'm still trying to meet women; I mean, I have friends, but due to their hours, ...

Will he ever be in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Joseph and I dated a while ago, from January to March. That was his first real relationship and his longest. Since then, we haven't been seeing each other and are still involved on a more than friendly level. The last time I asked him when we were ...

I want my b/f to buy a hamster for me. Is it wrong for me to ask?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I'm poor. I don't have a cent to my name, and have been trying to get a job to have income for the past three months. I have a boyfriend and he always seems to have plenty of money. I am with him because i love him deeply (not for money... he never ...

He's got me so why does he still have this other chick around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Me and this guy been messing around for some time and he admitted to me that at the beginning it was only a game but he's grown little feelings for me here and there. He does take the time out to take me out and spends his money on me But I ...

Is my young boyfriend using me for money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I'm 44 and have been dating a younger guy for 5 months now. He has had some major issues over the past couple of years, alot based around his financial commitments. 3 months into our relationship it transpired that he hadnt had a paypacket in a few ...

How can I win a man's heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Alright, what do men like in a women, what does she have to do to earn his heart, whats your favorite things, and ladies what do you do to win your mans heart, i wanna do something crazy for the guy i'm with, but i don't know. i need more ...

Why does my boyfriend have to tell me that he finds other women attractive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Can anyone explain why my boyfriend has to tell me when he see's an attractive girl? When we are out together he will say things like "She is an attractive girl", or sometimes he just continues to stare at a girl we are passing by. Please can ...

Just how crazy would it be to go see her at her next destination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - So, I met this girl a couple of weeks back. She was in my country on vacation and we spent a week together. We connected in a big way and enjoyed each others company a lot. From here she went on to travel the world for a few more months before ...

I'm single and attracted to him, but I could never marry him for family reasons. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Hi friends, Few years back i used to work in a company.I had a colleague over there. After leaving that company we have been in contact through phones and mails. Now few days back he proposed me for marriage and told me that he used to like me very ...

Does he like me to have gone this far? He lost his virginity to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a best friend name Harry we work together at the beginning I use to think he was so weird. I work in the copy center and hes an office supply associate. One day we started talking since that day we became best buds. He would ...

I want a serious relationship but I think he want to be friends with benefits....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - There is this guy who likes me and I like him too, but I think he wants something other than what I want, he hasn't had many past relationships, whereas I have and I don't want a little fling this time, I'm mature now and want something more, a long ...

I think I like this guy but relationships scare me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old and never been in a relationship and have never had sex, there is this guy who likes me and has made it obvious and we got quite close intimately one night we did not have sex although nothing has happened since. The whole ...

How do I get to know her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - i recently saw a girls picture and i dont know what struck me at the first glance. it was love at first sight. i tried almost everything to know her and get closer to her. i recently met her on facebook and few of her friends are also friends to me ...

Am I being used or is there a chance he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I work in a shop and for the last 5 months a guy (paul)has made a point of coming on my checkout every time I work. he tells me how gorgeous i am and how lucky my boyfriend is. my boyfriend finished with me 2 months ago - I told paul that I'm no ...

Has he figured out my surprise? How can I cover it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - hey guys i need some help quick..so please any ideas quickly.. my bf is an auditor for a hotel company and goes away to 5* hotels every week. This week i joined him and it was amazinngg... before i left home i had taken loadsa candles, flower ...

Our Libidos never seem in sync. How do we align our needs to occcur at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I (both 21) have been together for 14 months and we've been having sex since the beginning of our relationship. He was a chronic masturbator as a teen whereas I never masturbated. So... I cum super quickly and it takes him forever ...

How can I forget what happened so we can go forward? Is there hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I've been with this guy for 4 months. Im completely crazy for him! But I made this huge mistake! I hung out with this guy for a week straight (another guy) After my boyfriend told me he didn't want me around him, because he knows what he is like. Sh...

Dirty text messages - sexy or stupid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Guys: are dirty text messages sexy and flirty or skanky and stupid? My boyfriend is coming over Tuesday night and we usually only see each other once per week. Thus, that is our night to be intimate. I want to send him a flirty, verging on dirty...

Should I pursue this thing? Does it look positive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - Ok, I have had a crush on this girl for about a year, and noticed she was flirting with me. In fact she hired me in to the facility I worked in, she worked In human resources. Anyway I quit the job and kept coming back just to visit and every time I ...

How should I ask him to dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Hey everybody, So here's the deal. I think I've fallen in love with my cousin, and no matter what anyone says I'm not gonna change my mind, because this is love. I can't control my emotions. I met so many guys but I can't get over him, Every time ...

Why does being a "Nice Guy" get me nowhere?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - My virginity doesn't bother me that much, on most days at least, but I do feel a bit sad over the fact that I've never been in a relationship, NEVER. I'm 22 and nothing! I'm starting to feel that if I don't end up in relationship I'll never get ...

How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - told a woman whom I have had feelings for over 4 years that I liked her. She told me that she 'didn't want to ruin our friendship'. I accepted that- but inside, I was and am still very upset. She has a much better education and background than my ...

I think I'm ugly but girls think I'm cute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - I've had a few girls at my school say that I'm cute and some have crushes on me. I know I'm definitely not hot but I've always comsidered myself an ugly kid. I'm pretty short for my age(16), I'm shy, kinda nerdy and have acne that I always notice ...

How should I make my next move on this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

22 August 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I am the same guy with the post Please read through it cause I want guidence really bad. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-find-out-if-this-beautiful.html Since then I have moved a little further. I talk to her almost on...

He flirted with me like crazy but then stopped talking to me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Okay. So one of my best friends who i have been in love with for at least 2 years.. Well he lives right down the roads from my dads and i snuck out to see him. We were just chilling by a pond on a bench and he kissed me. Then we were making out and ...