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30-35,
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writes:We played on the same basketball co ed team for a while. She graduated and I'm still in school. We've flirted on Facebook and stuff. I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm cute and all. We've done sex jokes with each other. I was making her laugh, a LOT. She gave me her number last week and said to text her if I was going to our college town for my 21st.1st I joked about how I couldn't go and how I'd drink her under the table.She said she'd be able to keep up and asked when I was going back to school---paraphrasedI told her when.Then I texted saying I was looking forward to playing one on one, because I'd probably just "foul" her a lot (we joked about that before, hinted toward a sexual joke)She said gees why would you do that?I said "it'd be a funny way to flirt O:)"she said "haha well it depends how rough you are with pushing me around mister"i said "hey I mean if you're into playing rough, I'm game haha"she said (1.5 hrs later) "lol you bet I am :)"
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): As a rule we don't bother flirting with a guy we aren't at least a little bit into! If she's genuinely laughing at your jokes and was happy to give you her number, those seem to be pretty positive signs. That said, I think you need to be bit more serious and see how she reacts in order to gauge how sincere she is about you. For example, if you swapped the sexual hints for relationship ones, would she reply in kind or pull back? Give it a bit more time and see how things progress from here. Good luck and take care :)
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