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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I date my male best friend?

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16 August 2011 (F) - I have known my male best friends for 4 years. In the beginning we had more of a brother/sister type of relationship but I always knew he has some type of feelings for me. He is the only guys that I can be my complete self around and talk to about ...

Does this woman only want me as a FWB?

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16 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is incredibly selfless,kind and would do anything she could do for someone. We have had this friends with benefits type of relationship. She has a family ( Dad,sister,brother) and keeps that part of her life separate from me and pretty ...

He is a great boyfriend, but he's into sex

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16 August 2011 (F) - So,I have been in relation with this guy since when i was in 9th grade and now I am in 11th.We were together for a year and went very well.Now I am in USA,he loves me alot and we trust each other.He does not flirt with other girls and never hurts my ...

I dumped my boyfriend but he took me back. Is our relationship damaged?

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16 August 2011 (F) - I finally left my husband after 26 years of marriage. I have been separated now for eight months and I began dating recently and met a man I get along with very well. However I think that the intimacy we shared has uprooted feelings about my ...

How can I avoid being put in the friend zone with her and do I still have a chance or is she gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year and for most of the ...

My feelings have changed and sometimes I don't even want to be around him!

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16 August 2011 (F) - So...this is a tough one. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have a great relationship, minus a few ups and downs that everyone is sure to go through. Recently my feelings towards him have changed. At times things are complete...

Should I trust my instincts? If so, how do I tell him I like him as more than a friend?

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16 August 2011 (F) - This is a short one. I have fallen head over heels for a good (male) friend... and I am not sure if he feels the same. I am not going to painstakingly discuss situations we have been in as dissecting our interactions drives me nuts and never helps! ...

I finally worked up the courage to tell him I loved him, but he didnt say it back. Is this something that will come in time?

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16 August 2011 (F) - I have started seein this guy for the past five months, before he has told me he loved me when there has been drink involved, although I had never said it back. When I finally plucked up the courage to tell him, he didn say it back. He told me he ...

Does he want to be with me?

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16 August 2011 (F) - Hey im really unsure over this guy. We;ve been friends for years, had our ups and downs but everything pretty good now. I'm really confused though as i think he may want more than friends but doesnt seem to be doing much about it. It started ...

Is it ever ok for the woman to make the first move?

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16 August 2011 (F) - When I went on vacation in July, a guy I never seen before approached me on the airport and asked me if I could deliver a paper to his brother who would be expecting me upon arrival. He gave me both his number and his brother´s and I gave him the ...

Is love really worth it?

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16 August 2011 (M) - Is love really worth it? I always see people that are in relationships struggling and it got me thinking there are far more negatives than positives when it comes to the subject. I see in life and on here that people are always cheating or hurting ...

How can I get him to make a move?

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16 August 2011 (F) - How can i get him to make a move? I'm a 15 year old girl.I know this guy (he's 16) who my friends introduced me to and they think we're perfect for eachother, he's told his friends he likes me and he wants to ask me to his prom. Ive hung out with...

How do I let her know how much she hurts my feelings?

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16 August 2011 (M) - i met this girl about 4 months ago and we have been friends since then.we told each other about ourselves,and stuff,she seemed friendly.suddenly i started noticing some kind of behaviour from her.anytime we met,she gives me a quick wave and looks ...

She ended it saying she wasn't ready; should I wait or move on?

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16 August 2011 (M) - Hey :) I'm in a bit of a pickle here and not reaching any decent conclusion on the matter, wondered if you had any advice. The story is this: I'm almost 18 and have been semi-courting a girl called (for the sake of using a name) Daisy for 5 months. ...

She said she wants to "sleep with all the black guys at school", and now she's befriended my boyfriend!

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16 August 2011 (F) - My bf (let's call him Mike) and I started dating 9 months ago. We met in college (freshmen year) and he "chased me for almost two months until i decided to finally go out with him. He's the star basketball player at our school and is black and ...

My depressed bf told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore...and I'm 15-weeks pregnant with his baby!!!

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16 August 2011 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore, he's so depressed ..which is very scary because I'm 15 weeks preg. But idk what to do...we both still live with our parents but he doesn't work cuz he has back problems on account ...

Would you pursue a forbidden relationship just because he is your astrological match?

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16 August 2011 (F) - Do you believe that there are people who astrologically are meant to meet each other? (not necessarily stick together forever) You might find astrology silly, but it shows that there are people who will eventually find each other, no matter the ...

What kind of immature cop-out is the "the chase"?

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16 August 2011 (F) - Why can't guys have honest, loving relationships? Are they not man enough to have them? If I care for a guy, why do I have to play coy and hard to get for his attention? Mind-games are disrespectful and hurtful. If he doesn't want the comfort, ...

My lover thinks I am out with someone else if I do not answer his call! Should his lack of trust bother me as much as it does??

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16 August 2011 (F) - HI Help please am i over reacting here? I have been in a relationship for many years and i have always been faithful. What is bothering me is my lovers remarks,i feel they are a showing a lack of belief in me and i feel like he is thinking i'm a w...

My gf has only had black friends, wants to adopt black kids, and generally loves black people...and I am feeling insecure because I am white.

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16 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a month. We are both 22 years old and have already talked about what we want out of a relationship. She has made it clear she has a passion for black people. She wants to have a black baby either by ...

Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening

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16 August 2011 (M) - In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...

Questions after my first make-out session: should my lip be swollen? Was it ok to use my tongue?

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16 August 2011 (F) - I had my first make out session today. Which was awesome. Anyway, my lip is super swollen now. What should I do? Also, is it normal for the first kiss to have a little tongue action? Because we did and ....I def didn't mind it. ;)...